Germany

Aachen, Germany

#70 Mar 11, 2013
In Germany Middle Eastern families are really conservative. Many Kills their daughters, because of dating German Boys and because of the modern Lifestyle. People from North Africa aren't that Way. My Best Friend is a Girl from morocco and She's got an American boyfriend from army. He's 36 and She is 25. They Love each other so much. It was Love at First sight.

Everywhere you go, you will find conservative families. Amish People, orthodox jews and Christians and also Muslims.
Hussain

UK

#71 Mar 14, 2013
Please don't bother it's waste if ur time Muslim women are for us only not just 1 but 4 any race I have a Russian wife Algeria wife a Pakistani wife and Malaysian :D. And when I was studying in west I had plenty of white Chicks for fun thank god aur women are still same . Come to Islam u will have good life here and next life :D :D
reffef

Pittsburgh, PA

#72 Mar 14, 2013
youtube.com/watch... Excuses are Reason
damass

Riverside, CA

#73 Mar 23, 2013
Ayaan wrote:
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Hi Jason, you're from the Bay Area, California?


lollllll
nem nem

New Delhi, India

#74 Mar 25, 2013
Catwoman wrote:
Ruqi, the problem is that a man shouldn't HAVE to go through a parent pr a father to date seomeone. Neither should a woman have to ask permission from her father to date if she is an adult. Women are not property and are individuals. Daddy has no right to tell her what to do as an adult. Now with that being said, sure. You want a mate who repects and likes your family and vice versa. Sign of good breeding and manners. Family can give opions on things other would have no place offering. Also age does confer wisdom so advice from them is a good thing. BUT. In the end however it is the choice of the woman. She must make the final call if she wants to date someone who has expressed interest in her. Any woman who is not ready to stand up and declare who she wants to be with, with or without Daddys permission is not yet an adult. Same with a man.
The thing about asking parental advice before marriage goes both ways; a good Muslim boy doesn't run off with someone else's daughter or sister and elope, and nor does a good Muslim girl; though this is more of a cultural thing the reason it's considered good to get parental consent and approval from both sides (like it was done in earlier European/christian culture and many other cultures around the world) because a marriage is considered as a union/friendship/comradeship between families along with the union of the bride and groom (why kings and royals married into other tribes or royalty to increase friendship an or to make peace.)

It's bassically older joint united familly morals vs newer nuclear family with no social obligation towards the parents morals.

In Islam all you need to get married are a guy a girl and the priest for the approval of GOD.
You can get married in the middle of nowhere if you want but because most of the Muslim people come from places like the middle east , south east Asia and other places all over Asia they carry with them their customs of getting parental consent, witnesses to the marriage, friend and family to celebrate other functions around marriage time and all that.

Some may say it's better to get approval from Mom and Dad because they will be grandparents one day and you would like to make them happy for all the years they spent in raising and loving you.

While others may believe that asking parental advice may be a nuisance or un-required because it's not the parents who are getting married and should love you and your choices.
sardaarsfriend

New Delhi, India

#75 Mar 25, 2013
Catwoman wrote:
Ruqi, the problem is that a man shouldn't HAVE to go through a parent pr a father to date seomeone. Neither should a woman have to ask permission from her father to date if she is an adult. Women are not property and are individuals. Daddy has no right to tell her what to do as an adult. Now with that being said, sure. You want a mate who repects and likes your family and vice versa. Sign of good breeding and manners. Family can give opions on things other would have no place offering. Also age does confer wisdom so advice from them is a good thing. BUT. In the end however it is the choice of the woman. She must make the final call if she wants to date someone who has expressed interest in her. Any woman who is not ready to stand up and declare who she wants to be with, with or without Daddys permission is not yet an adult. Same with a man.
I am a Sikh but i wanted to say:
You don't get Asian culture do you. It is similar to what you people had.It shows higher morals and love for elders.
sardaarsfriend

New Delhi, India

#76 Mar 25, 2013
White man wrote:
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If my daughter dated a Muslim male, his family would discover him with his testicles in his mouth!
Eeew that's gross! AND WRONG and GROSS!
nem nem

New Delhi, India

#77 Mar 25, 2013
Hussain wrote:
Please don't bother it's waste if ur time Muslim women are for us only not just 1 but 4 any race I have a Russian wife Algeria wife a Pakistani wife and Malaysian :D. And when I was studying in west I had plenty of white Chicks for fun thank god aur women are still same . Come to Islam u will have good life here and next life :D :D
What is wrong with you?
chaz

Bethpage, NY

#78 Mar 25, 2013
Natasha Arianna wrote:
I am a middle eastern woman ... 22 years old.. I LOVE WHITE MEN. I ALSO LOVE HOW MOST OF THEM WOULDN'T HESITATE TO CHEAT ON THEIR BORING UNGRATEFUL WIVES TO BE WITH A BEAUTIFUL MIDDLE EASTERN WOMAN.
Actually, her sisters are kind of hot too!

I am engaged right now to a muslim woman (she is egyptian and sunni) however, she is not very religious. She celebrates ramadan, but she says that that is really the only time that she has ever prayed. she does not drink, though she has had pork before, but finds it to be too greasy. We have been sexually active with one another for a little over a year (she was a virgin prior to this, however, I was anything but.) I was raised christian, however, I am agnostic. I have no desire whatsoever to convert to islam. I told her family that I was thining about it, however, that was only after my now fiancee begged me too. Apparently it is cool for muslim men to marry christian women, but not the other way around. Some of her family told her that she wold be living in sin, but she doesn't really care what they think.
PimpThe478

Mclean, VA

#79 Apr 3, 2013
Well Muslim/Islam is a religion it's a decision a person has to make to become a muslim.So it gives no indication of your race/ethnicity I'm sure some white American men would like u because that what men do-like women
Arabian princess

Hayat, Iraq

#80 Apr 4, 2013
I agree, ive been talking to the same guy for 2 years now, he lives in America and im in Canada. Im an Arab and muslim girl, im in Love with him, he finds me attractive and he thinks arabian girls are sexy, yet i dont know what to do. He really loves me so much...and he ALWAYS says i look like Princess jasmine from Alladin, i dont know what to do. Anyone help?? Please?
Chaz

Buffalo Grove, IL

#81 Apr 4, 2013
I agree, ive been talking to the same guy for 2 years now, he lives in America and im in Canada. Im an Arab and muslim girl, im in Love with him, he finds me attractive and he thinks arabian girls are sexy, yet i dont know what to do. He really loves me so much...and he ALWAYS says i look like Princess jasmine from Alladin, i dont know what to do. Anyone help?? Please?
Read what I wrote above........I am marrying an Egyptian woman that is Sunni. She is not overly religious.......she does not drink, though she has tried pork once before, but found it too greasy.....of course, I am going to give her bacon, ham, prosciot, and of course the best of all, bbq pulled pork and ribs :) She doesn't really pray outside of Ramadan, and we are sexually active.
Her sisters like me very much, though tell her that she will be living in sin if she is marrying a Christian. She has told them that I am thinking about converting, which is a lie on her part (not mine, as she knows that I will never convert.)
Obviously marriage within a religious establishment is out of the question as she will not convert, nor will I. That being said, we will just get married in a court house and have a reception elsewhere.
If you truly love him, it might not hurt to go to see him in the U.S. or vice versa.......obviously at least one of you will need a passport.
However, realize this may very well cause some conflict on one or both sides of the family due to the religion. My parents both like my fiancee so it is not an issue. However, it is a problem with her side of the family. However, I find it very ironic that her sisters tell her that they will be living in sin when one of them is a total slut, one is divorced, two of them drink, and one uses drugs regularly.
It isn't an easy decision, and one that will more than likely follow you for life.
It might be an easier decision for my fiancee as she is a native of Egypt and here on a work visa. Many women in Egypt are in great fear of the Muslim Brotherhood, and I certainly don't blame Samar (my fiancee) for rather staying here.
Arabian princess

Hayat, Iraq

#82 Apr 5, 2013
Im really muslim, i pray and i fast. I really want him to convert to islam, like i said hes american and he loves me. He knows i cover my body and stuff, and he always brings up our future and how we would get married, thats not normal it means hes fully commited. and chaz convert to islam its the only solution
John

United States

#83 Apr 7, 2013
I am a white guy and I actually aren't very attracted to white woman but myself yes I like middle eastern woman
Chaz

Buffalo Grove, IL

#84 Apr 7, 2013
John wrote:
I am a white guy and I actually aren't very attracted to white woman but myself yes I like middle eastern woman
Or she could convert to christianity......each is equally plausible. Regardless, I am not going to convert, nor does she plan on doing so. This actually works for us as I am for the most part agnostic and she is not very religious.

btw, she does not wear a burka at all, and she is from egypt originally (giza ((across the nile from cairo to be exact.)))

However, I honestly don't think that many people would convert religions.......if you want the relationship to work out, you shouldn't expect him to either.
Muslim Arab Canadian

Richmond Hill, Canada

#85 Apr 21, 2013
Hi ... I'm a Canadian Muslim Arab and I'm dating a Russian / German Canadian white guy who is amazing.... Yes it's kinda odd and it might be difficult to date a Arab Muslim girl but u can't help who u fall in love with. Our religion is a beautiful peaceful one and we r not suppose to judge on race or color. But one think for sure if a Arab women dates a guy outside of her race he needs to keep in mind that she is thinking marriage wise and he also need to know that he has to become muslim for her to be able to marry him. Keep in mind u r not forced to become a Muslim but u should do ur research and u will c it's a beautiful religion .... My white baby is already learning a lot about the religion and he most likely will convert to Islam and I would of Married him weather or not he converts but my family only asked me if I ever marry any guy then that's their only request is for him to be muslim. Lol ... So it can work out... I'm so in love and happy :) good luck everyone
Chaz

Buffalo Grove, IL

#86 Apr 21, 2013
Muslim Arab Canadian wrote:
Hi ... I'm a Canadian Muslim Arab and I'm dating a Russian / German Canadian white guy who is amazing.... Yes it's kinda odd and it might be difficult to date a Arab Muslim girl but u can't help who u fall in love with. Our religion is a beautiful peaceful one and we r not suppose to judge on race or color. But one think for sure if a Arab women dates a guy outside of her race he needs to keep in mind that she is thinking marriage wise and he also need to know that he has to become muslim for her to be able to marry him. Keep in mind u r not forced to become a Muslim but u should do ur research and u will c it's a beautiful religion .... My white baby is already learning a lot about the religion and he most likely will convert to Islam and I would of Married him weather or not he converts but my family only asked me if I ever marry any guy then that's their only request is for him to be muslim. Lol ... So it can work out... I'm so in love and happy :) good luck everyone
Yes, her religion (islam) forbids her to marry a christian man. Realize that she is not very religious, and the only time that she prays is during ramadan. Her family is in egypt. America does not care what her religion is....we are getting legally married. We have already discussed how we are going to raise our children and we will expose them to both. With america being for the most part a christian nation, I can only surmise that our children will probably opt to remain christian. Furthermore, I really dont know how so many women that are muslim consider it a beautiful religion when all it does is seem to subjugate them.
jema

Kundan, India

#88 May 15, 2013
muslim men or women has respect for eveyone muslim women are real buties bcoz the offer prayers 5 times a day and dont need makeup
The man

Houston, TX

#89 May 26, 2013
jema wrote:
muslim men or women has respect for eveyone muslim women are real buties bcoz the offer prayers 5 times a day and dont need makeup
This is a waste of life and time.
The man

Houston, TX

#90 May 26, 2013
sardaarsfriend wrote:
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Eeew that's gross! AND WRONG and GROSS!
Unfortunately its nessesary evil in these times with these worthless pigs wondering about.

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