Gold

Surrey, Canada

#3603 Apr 17, 2013
manjeet kaur wrote:
<quoted text>
actually i know if he cut then he never keep it in life again that's why i want to make my decision correct either a religious person or a haircut person so plz give your suggestion is break this rule or keep this rule
@Manjeet Kaur:- It is a touching story that you have. I have been following your posts and find it to be a dilema as to what should be suggested. Since you are from a traditional following and have brought up your children according to the proper Sikh faith, it is really stunning when you are faced with such a situation. Try and counsel your son. Maybe he would be in a position to understand.
Alternatively, it may be suggested to him to wait for a while. How old is he and in which class?
It will be very difficult for you to allow him a haircut and then see him at home everyday with a different life style.
I am not sure where you stay and how is the closeness with the extended family.
I have seen and met families in North America where parents were Sukhi saroop/Amritdhari but the children were with haircuts. I have also seen families where fathers were President of Gurudwara but boy was clean shaven.
SO in the world of today anything can happen and if we do not want to lose the children we ahve to be very considerate and open.
But still ask your son to be patient, weigh pro and cons and then if he feels bad about it, let him go for a haircut.
It will be hard on you , but then I feel equation with children is foremost. Hoping for good will to prevail.
Do keep sharing
Kaur

Ethiopia

#3605 Apr 18, 2013
I am a sikh girl and have a long hair till my hips. I want to cut it short, may be a bob or boy haircut. can anybody please share their story and motivate me about which hairstyle will suite me. I am 25 years and just want to be free from my longggg hair...
Kaur

Ethiopia

#3607 Apr 19, 2013
I am planning to go for haircut on sunday. I am very much nervous because I never had haircut in my life. I dont know how I will tell my parents about my haircut. Please guys help me out with some innovative and stylish haircut. I have a very thick hair.
Gold

Surrey, Canada

#3608 Apr 19, 2013
@Kaur - Addis Abeba, Ethopia: You should read the blog and find relevant stroies and experiences. It can be suggested that you go in for a layered cut so that the volume is reduced and length is also reduced but not much. That wat your parents may not react so sharply. Later on you can try different styles and maybe after some time have a bob cut like an inverted bob . It ahould be at level with your ear lobes and high on the hairline so that your nape is clear.
Once you get a layered cut your intentions would be clear to your parents and then it would be easy for you to have haircuts! Best Wishes in your courageous adventure!
sum 1 stop me

Delhi, India

#3609 Apr 19, 2013
m a very religious person , I love my religion but I hate when I am just a model piece for all my relatives and friends , I feel like I am living for them , I jus wana do this shit in my life , I know it is a sin , but I wana do it , coz , idont wana b d person whom ppl remind only at times dey wana c some1 among dem as turbnd , I am going to cut my hair jus bcoz , I want to feel independent , m living for others , but now I want to life for me ,
Kaur

Ethiopia

#3610 Apr 19, 2013
Gold wrote:
@Kaur - Addis Abeba, Ethopia: You should read the blog and find relevant stroies and experiences. It can be suggested that you go in for a layered cut so that the volume is reduced and length is also reduced but not much. That wat your parents may not react so sharply. Later on you can try different styles and maybe after some time have a bob cut like an inverted bob . It ahould be at level with your ear lobes and high on the hairline so that your nape is clear.
Once you get a layered cut your intentions would be clear to your parents and then it would be easy for you to have haircuts! Best Wishes in your courageous adventure!
Thanks gold for your valuable suggestion. Are you girl or a boy. I am quite impressed by ur comments on this blog. how do u know so much about different hairstyle.
Anonymous

Mohali, India

#3611 Apr 19, 2013
hey gold dalvinder i am asking u again ur ids if u dont give then this means u r fake
Kaur

Ethiopia

#3612 Apr 20, 2013
Finally day has arrived and i ve cut my hair very short. I went to a parlor and asked lady to give me haircut. she asked me what kind of haircut do i want & i replied her anything which will suite me. I sat on the salon chair for the first time. she put a black cape around me. my body was cold and i was very much scared. finally crunch crunch was the sound. All my hair was on my face. when i opened my eyes, she cut my hair till neck. she gave me a inverted bob haircut. I am very much excited and happy with my new haircut. I love my new transformation. Thanks gold and everyone on this blog for sharing their stories for inspiring me
Kaur

Ethiopia

#3613 Apr 20, 2013
I am feeling very light after my haircut..
Dalvindar

Bangalore, India

#3614 Apr 20, 2013
manjeet kaur wrote:
hey gold dalvinder i am asking u again ur ids if u dont give then this means u r fake
What Ids???????if u mean by Facebook Id, I cant as it is my personal private space and i dont discuss ne of this there... my facebook name if u wanna search is Dalvindar
Dalvindar

Bangalore, India

#3615 Apr 20, 2013
Kaur wrote:
<quoted text>
Thanks gold for your valuable suggestion. Are you girl or a boy. I am quite impressed by ur comments on this blog. how do u know so much about different hairstyle.
Just one question...
HOW ON THE GOD DAMN EARTH DID SIKHS Land IN ETHEOPIA????????
silent observor

Chandigarh, India

#3616 Apr 20, 2013
Dear dalvinder
Aloo te sardar tuhanu poori duniya ch mil jaane aaa.,,,:)
R Singh

Winnipeg, Canada

#3617 Apr 20, 2013
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh,
90% of you all sound like scoundrels,REALLY?! Cutting your hair "because it makes us look like terrorists" or because we are in the modern world,really? Guru Ji wanted us to pick Principles over Modernization I agree after 9/11 we Sikhs have been labelled as terrorists but is that really supposed to kill the principles of our religion. What about all the truth Sant Jarnail Singh Ji Bhindranwale spoke to us about being a sikh, WAHEGURU HAVE MERCY ON ALL OF YOU
I'm sorry but if you ever even think Modernization over Religion and follow your thought and cut the guru's gift.....you are not another one of my millions and millions of brothers and sisters
WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH
JO BOLE SO NIHAL SAT SRI AKAL!
KHALISTAN ZINDABAD KHALISTAN ZINDABAD KHALISTAN ZINDABAD
Kaur

Ethiopia

#3618 Apr 20, 2013
Dalvindar wrote:
<quoted text>
Just one question...
HOW ON THE GOD DAMN EARTH DID SIKHS Land IN ETHEOPIA????????
Dalvinder tanu koi problem hai je sardar ethiopia che paunch gaye.... hydrabad che bhe sardar basde hai... sardar punjab chad k south che rice aur hydrabad brayani khan vaste bas gaya hydrabad che... I m not offending someone here. this blog is about haircut stories and I just shared my experience of haircut..
khoji sikh --xyz

Minneapolis, MN

#3619 Apr 20, 2013
some sikhs since last some months have been asking all that --in 52 hukamname in nanded of tenth guru one of them is --har kaaraj de aarambh ton pehlan ardaas karni hai --is there any ardaas which is suitable for all occasions --17 words or haraph--including everything but sometimes not always exceptions rebuild koi vighan na paye nehkaam seva single or double--one can do in punjabi but meaning must be same and not different .
Gold

Surrey, Canada

#3620 Apr 20, 2013
manjeet kaur wrote:
hey gold dalvinder i am asking u again ur ids if u dont give then this means u r fake
@manjeet kaur:- no I am not faqke and exist and am following the blog regularly. It is a open forum, so I wish not to give my mail ID on such a forum. I am a male and am open about long and short hair ideas. I beling to a Sikh upbringing but with time we have a mixed family with more people (males and females) with short hair but everyone has great respect to Gurudwaras and GGS.
Gold

Surrey, Canada

#3621 Apr 20, 2013
Kaur wrote:
I am feeling very light after my haircut..
@Kaur:- Congratulations! It is a great makeover and at one go. How did you feel during the haircut. Can you share the experience? It would be a great inspiation for others. Did your people at home get surprised?
Have a great time with short hair styles. And it is the best style with thick, straight hair. Later you may get it shorete at the nape and tapered, with longer at the top and a side bang which falls over the forehead. Courageous girl and once again congrats!
khoji sikh --xyz

Minneapolis, MN

#3622 Apr 20, 2013
two boats in hair-- I want to tell four things to sikhs with ssds--it takes 6 months to grow hair and but it takes 1 second to cut hair (baba farid )--sikhs wearing dastaar etc hair fixer simko prince etc at back side of it for 43 mnts20 scds+30scds room apply daily and wash againwith water resulting in setting 26%percent hair it looks like in pjb chunga or not but as you feel self satisfied --sikhs who earlier had long hair later cut it short get seven and three quarter percent more photos etc beaant for easy in pjb pehchanbo--make all kinds of friends when going to new places but if it is ok than make friends who are related with these things half percent more for purpose of more openness and if it is not ok then do not make half percent more friends who are related with these things.cancel rebuild
Jennifer Mola

Hurst, TX

#3624 Apr 23, 2013
Kaur wrote:
I am planning to go for haircut on sunday. I am very much nervous because I never had haircut in my life. I dont know how I will tell my parents about my haircut. Please guys help me out with some innovative and stylish haircut. I have a very thick hair.
Bulshit you are a african ethipoian your hair is kinky and brick rubbed, you are no indian you do not have silky long hair. So stop bulshit. You are jealous cause guys love long silky hair. Man punjabi people are stupid, they think a boy cut on agirl is good mad!
kaur

Ethiopia

#3625 Apr 23, 2013
@ Jennifer Mola: wtf u know about sikh and where they have settled. I am a MBA graduate and working for MNC. I am here in Ethiopia for another two months for reviewing of my on going projects. Where the f**k are u frm. twada naam padke eh nahi lagda k tussi panjabi ho... is tera lagda jive tussi paw valo ho... so its better u dont mess with me.

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