@Lovely: It is good that you want to respect your mother in law's views and also not visit a nai now.Yes gold he can't handle the weight of that much hair so I am helping him.and sorry can you explain in Punjabi mainu samjh ni aaya poori tara?? And I wanna go to nai but odd lgda hai.I have long hair.I can do it myself but Dar lgda ki I will cut extra n later jooda ni hoya to my mother in law will kill me.and personally I also want to keep his jooda but reduced in volume.is there any video on YouTube?? Plz once tell in Punjabi n how to divide parts of hair??
OK let me explain. Pehlan tussi usde waal ladies wangoon wah deo.
Phir usde waalon nu khilar deo , jivan hair oil lagaondi ho.
Hun, sir de center chon, kuch waalan nu lae ke cut deo.
Ek vari ch kuch hi waal cut karo.
Hauli hauli usde sir de centre chon waal chotte chotte kar deo.
Aase paase waale waalan nu bilkul na chaedo.
hun usda jooda(juddi) kar deo.
Please take care that you do it a little every day or a sudden reduction is size will make your mother in law suspicious.
And when you do it little by little everyday there is no reason that the hair will be cut more and there will be no jooda.
I hope you will be able to do it.
Even if you have long hair yiou can go to a nai. Many nothers take their son to a nai for hair cut.
May be after you get his volume of hair less, you will like it and then can do it without fear.
Then you may also go to a nai for regular trimming as the cut would be known. Agar thore jahe waal jeyada cut ho jaye they will grow back again.
But be careful to be regular in the cutting.
No they have no videos on youtube.
Hope for the best. You are sucha thoughtful mother. What does your husband say? Have you discussed with him? Better not. Do the reduction in weight, then if he asks tell him.
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