Kaur

New Delhi, India

#3468 Mar 26, 2013
I do a braid which is till my hips...and just want to cut it all off. Maybe a bob or a pixie. I don't care how my parents react !! Tomorrow i am going to get my haircut after college.
sarneet kaur

Mississauga, Canada

#3469 Mar 26, 2013
kaur share ur detailed experience tomorow
Gold

Ludhiana, India

#3470 Mar 26, 2013
Kaur wrote:
I do a braid which is till my hips...and just want to cut it all off. Maybe a bob or a pixie. I don't care how my parents react !! Tomorrow i am going to get my haircut after college.
CONGRATS on your decision. Share your experience. I am sure you will fall in love with your makeover. Take a friend with you for moral support and someone who knows the parlour people or do you intend to go to a Unisex parlour. it is actually more fun at a Unisex one. Best wishes in your courage. Love.
Kaur

New Delhi, India

#3471 Mar 27, 2013
Gold i need some help ..can you give me your email / facebook id ??
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3474 Mar 27, 2013
HARLEEN wrote:
HI,I am working mother of 2boys ,we belong to sikh family,my husband wore turban,my elder son is 12 year old,he is studying in 5th class,last nyt he said to me that he want to cut his hair ,he requested me to permit him for haircut,now i dnt know wat to do....
But what was the reason ?? He cant manage it or his judda is too big
HARLEEN

United States

#3475 Mar 27, 2013
HIS JUDAA IS QUITE BIG...SOME BOYS TEASED HIM FOR HIS JUDAA
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3476 Mar 27, 2013
HARLEEN wrote:
HIS JUDAA IS QUITE BIG...SOME BOYS TEASED HIM FOR HIS JUDAA
Hmmm thats very sad .. but i knw many kids who are been teased becoz of their juddas .. kya tease karte hai usko
HARLEEN

United States

#3477 Mar 27, 2013
I DNT KNOW MUCH ABT WAT HIS FRDS TEASE,BUT HE IS VERY NERVOUS NOW,U KNOW MY SON IS VERY CONFIDENT,BUT I DONT KNOW WHY HE IS SO NERVOUS NOW
Kaur

Gurgaon, India

#3478 Mar 27, 2013
@HARLEEN go to a salon and get his haircut...#period
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3479 Mar 27, 2013
HARLEEN wrote:
I DNT KNOW MUCH ABT WAT HIS FRDS TEASE,BUT HE IS VERY NERVOUS NOW,U KNOW MY SON IS VERY CONFIDENT,BUT I DONT KNOW WHY HE IS SO NERVOUS NOW
U can cut his judda .. i have also heard about a smiliar story .. where a boy was very nervous and not confident becoz of his big judda .. his mom trimmed few of his hair .. and made his big judda a vry smart small juddi .. u can try this .. waise bhi sikh log small juddi mein jada acche lagte hai .. woh patka phenta hai ya judde mein rumaal lagata hai .. judde mein rumaal looks very odd ..
Grewal

Chapel Hill, NC

#3480 Mar 27, 2013
Cut my hair at age 19... thinking exactly what everyone else thinks...to have friends and look cool...but in fact, all those friends are temporary, I can say this now but could not at that time. Real friends will not care as to how you look/ your religion!
Today 10 years after that incident...repent it big time. immature decision on my part. Part of the problem lies in the fact that parents will keep telling you what to do without telling you the real reason behind it and without educating you with meaning of guru granth sahib.
You keep reading granths, doing paaths etc but without knowing the meaning of it. It is only after your inner self wants to know the meaning of what is written in Guru Granth Sahib that you realize the true value of sikhism.
A lot of my friends who cut their hair around same time are going through same phase. 80% of people who cut their hair at age 17-25 want to grow them back!
So, all I would say is that sooner you figure out, better you are. But I feel that as a parent, our elders need to do a better job to let us learn on our own and let them practice sikhism so that your children can follow those lines.
Grewal

Chapel Hill, NC

#3481 Mar 27, 2013
But at the same time, I would not want anyone to be keeping their hair forcefully. I think everyone has to understand and be comfortable with what they are doing and why. Once that is done, you are good!
Seema Singh

Ashburn, VA

#3482 Mar 27, 2013
Kaur : plz share u r Face book id
HARLEEN

United States

#3484 Mar 27, 2013
Even i also think to cut his hair,but my inlaws r very religious,if my son got haircut ,it hurt`s alot to my inlaws...
punjabaan

India

#3485 Mar 27, 2013
HARLEEN wrote:
Even i also think to cut his hair,but my inlaws r very religious,if my son got haircut ,it hurt`s alot to my inlaws...
It is so nice that u think about ur in laws emotions .. but at the same time ur son also need a judda cut .. today he is nervous becoz of his judda .. he will face these things alot in his life .. trim his hair a lil bit and make a cute juddi .. get rid of big judda .. this will solve ur prob .. in laws will be happy becoz he still have a judda .. and ur son will be more confident .. as u mentioned he has big judda .. get some weight off his head ..
jasleen

Ashburn, VA

#3486 Mar 27, 2013
hey we all wanna discuss on same topic why don't we contact each other on Facebook or Yahoo???
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3487 Mar 28, 2013
Its ok to discuss it here .. sab ke thoughts share ho sakenege ..
Gold

Lucknow, India

#3488 Mar 28, 2013
Punjaban why are you behind the jooda? Hair is hair cut one or all it's same thing.
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3489 Mar 28, 2013
Gold -- What do u mean .. i am not behind anything
Gold

Lucknow, India

#3490 Mar 28, 2013
No I was saying why you are so interested in minimizing jooda into joodi

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