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Karan Singh Vadhera

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Feb 18, 2013
 
I had long hair and kept them for 17 years until yesterday when I got a haircut. The story begins a week before when one of my friend persuaded me to get a haircut. First of all I ignored his suggestions, but then later on I was convinced to buy his thoughts like freedom, good looks, Trendy hair, Modern outlook, girls wannabe etc, moreover maintaining hair had become more cumbersome for me now a days as it took a lot of time and efforts. So yesterday I asserted my friends thoughts and went to a cool saloon. But before going to the saloon I preferred to cut my long hair at my friend's house. So I tied a pony using a rubberband and then asked my friend to cut off my hair just nearer to my neckline. The moment he passed on the scisssors across my hair my head felt light. Then I combed my hair backwards, borrowed a gel from my friend and applied onto it. The next step was to shave my beard before going to a saloon. So my friend taught me how to shave and I shaved my beard using his razor, it was after this I felt the contours of my soft cheeks which were hidden behing the coarse hair. Then my friend took me to a saloon where I got a medium sized haircut. The main task was to enter my house with my new look (though I was excited but at the same time was nervous). But This was to happen whether today or tomorrow. But my parents understood my thoughts and accepted my new look. Now I am much more confident and smart then I was earlier, thank to my friend Tarun for his support and guidance.I have a nice hairdo and my dimples are free from the bondage of my beard. Today my younger brother Rohan will be going for a haircut. Parents should understand the feeling of their children as my parents did.
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Ludhiana, India

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#3329
Feb 18, 2013
 
@Karan Singh Vadhera: Congrats!
I am sure that your getting a haircut has influenced your brother Rohan for getting a haircut. That is so nice to see that the brother is following. Now you will be able to guide him and he will feel happy that his brother will help him rather than seeking help from a friend. The convenience and the adaptability is the best part after a haircut.
I must appreciate the understanding of your parents that they stood by you and now by your brother. How did your mother react?
Usually it is the mother's who have some problem especially if they have spent time in keeping long hairs of their sons. Nowadays, mothers are helping their sons to get haircuts and also taking them for haircut when they are small. I am sure that some more boys in your extended family will be influenced by you and go for haircuts.
You must be enjoying your new found freedom and lovely experiments with hairstyles. Be a pioneer and cherish the new feeling. Just imagine how you missed all the freedom in your childhood!
You have done a great thing for your children. It is only when you have a haircut after keeping long hair that you appreciate the experience.
I am sure that your friends circle would have enjoyed your 'new look' and you would have partyed...!
chamanpreet gill

Delhi, India

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Feb 19, 2013
 

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hello ,everyone i m chamanpreet .20yr old sikh girl.i used to have long hair between my knees and my hips, but i got it all cut 2 days back . what actually happened was -my parents sent me delhi for studies ( i belong to madhya pradesh )
here everyone was so stylish , so modern as compared to m.p., in my hostel i shared room with 2 more girls ,they used to tell me plz cut your hair , yo look disgusting / i used to scold them earlier but simultaneously i started thinking about it. so one day i thought that my parents live in m.p. they wil never come to know about and by the time they wil meet me i will again grow them . when i went to salon with my frndz - i decided to give myself a haircut only till my back . but once i saw the book of different styles i thoght NO a haircut till my back will not make any difference on me so without even thinking about my parents i got a haircut till my neck TOOOOO SHORT !!!!!. NOW i much happier but also afraid , if my parents will see me how wil they react
PLEASE help me friends , give me suggestions about what to do ??????
Harsimran

Delhi, India

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@ Sharan Kaur & Jasneet: She is totaly changed now, difficult to recognize and the experience was too much thrilling
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Ludhiana, India

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Feb 20, 2013
 
@Harsimran:- CONGRATS!!!
We would like you to share your experience. How do you feel and with your wife having fulfilled her desire, she most be loving you no end. Congrats for being such a feeling husband.
Karan Singh Vadhera

Ghaziabad, India

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@Gold
Thanks Gold. Yeah it was really a very nice experience. Actually my parents did not have any problem with my and my brother's haircut as my father trims his beard and my mother supports neck length hair and our family is a very open minded about it. Unlike other sikh children who wanna get a haircut I didnt bear the parental pressure, so it was a sought of my independent decisions, the outcome of which helped my younger brother to follow the suit. He is a very good swimmer and now after his haircut his performance has really catapulted and he looks smart. I partyed with my friend a lot and now I just love playing with my short sexy hair, just passing in my fingers through the freed short lock of my hair. I feel great as now I get ready before time, I dont have to tie a turban, can go under a shower without thinking twice, dont have to gel and fix my beard, can eat food without thinking about my beard, Put on goggles...etc..I had the piercing done on right ear and also wear a ring in it. Its really sexy. Now my next step is to make my cousin brother Anurag get a haircut, as he always dreams so but my uncle's family is quite orthodox so he would require help in this. Will let you know once I am successful in it.
Sumit Singh

Ghaziabad, India

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Feb 20, 2013
 

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I am a 20 Years old college student and had knee length long hair and supported a beard. But I live in college hostel and here it was getting difficult to tie the beard daily so I usually trim it using a scissor, yesteday my Cousin brother (who is a clean shaven serd and lives with me in the hostel and is younger to me) told me to try a trimmer to shape the beard, but he purposefully set the blades to a clean shaven level, due to which, with the very first stroke I shaved half of my face and till the time I could figure out, it became a mess and hence I had to completely shave off my whole beard. Then after this incident my brother explained me how cool and better I was looking after removing the thick trimmed beard and explained me the benefits of a haircut. Then he made me get a haircut, I amde a pony of my long hair and cut them with a scissors, after which I went to the nearby saloon for styling. Now I have a very cool look with awesum haicut and smooth contours of the face. Moreover now I can smoke freely. Thanks Ajit for your help. But can anyone guide me how will I face my parents as my brother has not disclosed his shaven identity to his parents and whenever goes to his house, he supports a turban and a stubble, should I do the same?
rajveer gill

Mississauga, Canada

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Feb 22, 2013
 

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few years back wen i was in plus 1, i had no plan of any kind of haircut but i use to trim my beard.... my 2 year elder sister started getting grey hair, she had long hair never cutted... she asked my mom for a cut and color... my mom said ok but dont go so short, she started kidding that she ll get it short, nobody took it serious, next day she took shower in morning and went to college and said that she ll be late bcos she hv to go for haircut.. all day i was excited to see her bcoz it was her first haircut, at evening around 4 the door bell rang, mom said it must be ur sister so go and open the door,when i opened the door oh my goddd wats that..... she is in bobcut cooper color hair, no hair touching shoulder.... my mind go blank what to say.... when she go in her back hair were like boys long hair(not clippered one).... and she was looking totally different and beautiful....... right on that time(i dont know why) i too wanted haircut at same time but i controlled my emotions..... then next morning my sis took shower and look cool in short hair..... after 2 3 days i told my sister that i am desperate about gettin haircut.... she told me that i ll look smart but i hav to talk to my parents at my own... after some days when me and mom were at home i asked my mom that i want to get my hair off.. she said why?? noway... control yourself... then she talked to my dad at some time so after few days me and dad were sitting in living area..... he suddenly said ur mother was saying that u want haircut... i said no no i talked casually i would only go if she agreed... but still i m ok like this.... he said if u want go, go quietly, dont let ur mom know in advance... the very next evening mom went to market for some long and urgent work, only i and dad was at home, i told dad that i wana go to cut my hair, he said do watevr u want..... i went to my regular barber shop where i use to go for my beard trim, he was free at that time, he told me sit and asked u want to get beard trimmer with trimmer or scissor... i said today i m here for cutting....... he asked do you mean haircut?? i said yes(i forgot to mention i had very long thick hair, means if some girl get my hair on her head she could be hair queen) then barber asked have u took your parents permission... i said yes... he again confirmed if i am sure.... then he told me to sit.... i was wearing woolen cap..... he removed my cap himself (that was awesome feel) then opened my knot (i was thinking he ll comb my hair backward and then will cut it, but he just opened the knot lifted the hair upwards(i was not alert at that time and was not looking in mirror) suddenly sound came crunchh crunnchh crunchh and the pull of barbers hand on my hair dimished, then he threw huge bundle of hair in dustbin, suddenly my head started feeling light, then he sprayed alot of water and chopped my sides and back and my scalp was exposed, then he started the upper part and made spike length hair and blow dried, the took razor replaced blade and cleared my neckline (believe me friends that feel was fantastic) then he powdered and cleaned me and said i m done, i was very much changed and looking sexy... i wore the cap again and tipped him and went back home... i went in bathroom removed cap and setted hair with water and went to dad, he said it suited u, after an hour bell rang i went to open the door, mom s eyes was shocked.... but she settled in 3 4 days... my sister also complimented me.......... this was my story.......... friends feel free to ask questions and sorry for spelling and gramatical mistakes, bcos it was long story so i havnt editted it
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Feb 22, 2013
 
Karan Singh Vadhera wrote:
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Thanks Gold. Yeah it was really a very nice experience. Actually my parents did not have any problem with my and my brother's haircut as my father trims his beard and my mother supports neck length hair and our family is a very open minded about it. Unlike other sikh children who wanna get a haircut I didnt bear the parental pressure, so it was a sought of my independent decisions, the outcome of which helped my younger brother to follow the suit. He is a very good swimmer and now after his haircut his performance has really catapulted and he looks smart. I partyed with my friend a lot and now I just love playing with my short sexy hair, just passing in my fingers through the freed short lock of my hair. I feel great as now I get ready before time, I dont have to tie a turban, can go under a shower without thinking twice, dont have to gel and fix my beard, can eat food without thinking about my beard, Put on goggles...etc..I had the piercing done on right ear and also wear a ring in it. Its really sexy. Now my next step is to make my cousin brother Anurag get a haircut, as he always dreams so but my uncle's family is quite orthodox so he would require help in this. Will let you know once I am successful in it.
It is nice to get your part of the story and I must say you are plain lucky. Also your mother must be relieved that there would be no extra turbans to wash. Yes your brother would get better timings after haircut and he can even try for a buzz so that there is least friction when he swims. Summers would be great for you as you can experiment with styles and cool your self. I am glad that you are planning a silent revolution of sorts and planning for Anurag. Go patiently and he will pick up courage to explain to his parents. Also if you are able to get your cousin a haircut before the summer he will bless you for the rest of his life as the summer here is hot! Congrats and do keep us informed. More like minded people onto the blog is in our favour.
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Feb 22, 2013
 
rajveer gill wrote:
few years back wen i was in plus 1, i had no plan of any kind of haircut but i use to trim my beard.... my 2 year elder sister started getting grey hair, she had long hair never cutted... she asked my mom for a cut and color... my mom said ok but dont go so short, she started kidding that she ll get it short, nobody took it serious, next day she took shower in morning and went to college and said that she ll be late bcos she hv to go for haircut.. all day i was excited to see her bcoz it was her first haircut, at evening around 4 the door bell rang, mom said it must be ur sister so go and open the door,when i opened the door oh my goddd wats that..... she is in bobcut cooper color hair, no hair touching shoulder.... my mind go blank what to say.... when she go in her back hair were like boys long hair(not clippered one).... and she was looking totally different and beautiful....... right on that time(i dont know why) i too wanted haircut at same time but i controlled my emotions..... then next morning my sis took shower and look cool in short hair..... after 2 3 days i told my sister that i am desperate about gettin haircut.... she told me that i ll look smart but i hav to talk to my parents at my own... after some days when me and mom were at home i asked my mom that i want to get my hair off.. she said why?? noway... control yourself... then she talked to my dad at some time so after few days me and dad were sitting in living area..... he suddenly said ur mother was saying that u want haircut... i said no no i talked casually i would only go if she agreed... but still i m ok like this.... he said if u want go, go quietly, dont let ur mom know in advance... the very next evening mom went to market for some long and urgent work, only i and dad was at home, i told dad that i wana go to cut my hair, he said do watevr u want..... i went to my regular barber shop where i use to go for my beard trim, he was free at that time, he told me sit and asked u want to get beard trimmer with trimmer or scissor... i said today i m here for cutting....... he asked do you mean haircut?? i said yes(i forgot to mention i had very long thick hair, means if some girl get my hair on her head she could be hair queen) then barber asked have u took your parents permission... i said yes... he again confirmed if i am sure.... then he told me to sit.... i was wearing woolen cap..... he removed my cap himself (that was awesome feel) then opened my knot (i was thinking he ll comb my hair backward and then will cut it, but he just opened the knot lifted the hair upwards(i was not alert at that time and was not looking in mirror) suddenly sound came crunchh crunnchh crunchh and the pull of barbers hand on my hair dimished, then he threw huge bundle of hair in dustbin, suddenly my head started feeling light, then he sprayed alot of water and chopped my sides and back and my scalp was exposed, then he started the upper part and made spike length hair and blow dried, the took razor replaced blade and cleared my neckline (believe me friends that feel was fantastic) then he powdered and cleaned me and said i m done, i was very much changed and looking sexy... i wore the cap again and tipped him and went back home... i went in bathroom removed cap and setted hair with water and went to dad, he said it suited u, after an hour bell rang i went to open the door, mom s eyes was shocked.... but she settled in 3 4 days... my sister also complimented me.......... this was my story.......... friends feel free to ask questions and sorry for spelling and gramatical mistakes, bcos it was long story so i havnt editted it
Congrats to both you and your sister. I congratulate your father for supporting you. In Canada even though many boys are with 'jooda; at small age they go for haircut later. And your sister did the best thing and opened path for you.
Good luck to both of you and keep posting new stories.
rajveer gill

Mississauga, Canada

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Gold wrote:
<quoted text>Congrats to both you and your sister. I congratulate your father for supporting you. In Canada even though many boys are with 'jooda; at small age they go for haircut later. And your sister did the best thing and opened path for you.
Good luck to both of you and keep posting new stories.
i was in india wen i did this i came canada later
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the best part was the crunch crunch sound and the razor touch........ my frnds and gf were also shocked bcos i never revealed any thought regarding haircut
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Feb 23, 2013
 
@Gold have you any idea for my case
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rajveer gill wrote:
the best part was the crunch crunch sound and the razor touch........ my frnds and gf were also shocked bcos i never revealed any thought regarding haircut
congratulation for fulfilling your desire with such a easy way.
rajveer gill

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Feb 23, 2013
 
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congratulation for fulfilling your desire with such a easy way.
jasneet make ur wife watch drastic haircut videos on youtube.... after sometime she may develop will of haircut in her..... then go for a big one(not a small one) that will make u and ur wife feel good....... she ll definately feel good.......... go for a cut in which she have no need to make pony
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1 years ago, I had a patka, and was a gr.10 high schooler. But then everyone wouldn't really talk to me like anyone else because of my patka. Then kids started making fun of me because of me. Even physically hit me. Telling the Priniciple/Teacher helped, but not really. I really wanted to cut my hair, since Grade 1, but back then I really wanted to cut it REALLY BAD when I was in Grade.10. Then I found this forum. For a whole month I've been on this forum to get tips, courage, etc. To cut my hair. Then I did cut my hair, and went back home. Mom did not care a single bit, brother was shocked, and my dad didn't talk to me for like 2 weeks. But now, i'm in Grade 11, and my life literally flipped. Everything is awesome. This is true, when I was in Grade 9 and 10, I had horrible grades, failed 2 classes, almost failed another, but now I have awesome grades. Even my guidance counsellor thinks i'm doing better ever since my hair cut. At school lots of people love me. All the people who are very known in the school like me, and they are my friends. I know some of you thinking I am bragging (sorry if you think), but I am not, i'm just telling how a simple haircut changed my life. If you guys would like to ask any questions or would like to talk, you can message me on facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/EkmSohal
Don't be shy, just say anything you want. I know how hard it is and these things need to be talked about. I'll be on this forum for a while to see if people responded, so I will also answer stuff here.
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Feb 24, 2013
 
i m a sikh boy of 16 and want haircut desperately but do not have gutts to talk to parents... can anyone help me???
sunny singh

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Feb 24, 2013
 
please guys tell what to do?
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Feb 24, 2013
 
rajveer gill wrote:
the best part was the crunch crunch sound and the razor touch........ my frnds and gf were also shocked bcos i never revealed any thought regarding haircut
I am sure they wld have loved it. And ur gf must have gone over the moon. I believe she must hv wished it in her heart of hearts! Congratz once again and love the scissors in ur hair and razor clean ups.
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Feb 24, 2013
 
gold suggest something for me too..

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