Ramandeep kaur

Dehra Dun, India

#3362 Mar 4, 2013
hello everybody i am Ramandeep, Avneet's sister-in-law. i am 23 and going to get married this dec.
By the way, its a love cum arranged marriage with a hindu guy.
Believe me friends it was not easy at all but our families were finally convinced at accept our love.
Ok now how is it related to this forum...
Being a sikh girl i am having long hair just like avneet bhabhi had. Now, my would be mom-in-law has laid some conditions which i need to fulfill to adopt their culture and to get fit into their family. First i have to change my name to Deepika Saxena after marriage. Then as per their family tradition strict no to western wear, it would be only sarees. And finally as per my lover's wish i had to get my long haircut.
Next week i am going for the haircut. I have always wished to have short hair. And bhabhi is full of support for me.

Deepika
japmeet

London, UK

#3363 Mar 4, 2013
deepika i have also cutted my hair till mid rib step cut you should also try it i will share my experiance with unt in next post
Gold

Jalandhar, India

#3364 Mar 5, 2013
Ramandeep kaur wrote:
hello everybody i am Ramandeep, Avneet's sister-in-law. i am 23 and going to get married this dec.
By the way, its a love cum arranged marriage with a hindu guy.
Believe me friends it was not easy at all but our families were finally convinced at accept our love.
Ok now how is it related to this forum...
Being a sikh girl i am having long hair just like avneet bhabhi had. Now, my would be mom-in-law has laid some conditions which i need to fulfill to adopt their culture and to get fit into their family. First i have to change my name to Deepika Saxena after marriage. Then as per their family tradition strict no to western wear, it would be only sarees. And finally as per my lover's wish i had to get my long haircut.
Next week i am going for the haircut. I have always wished to have short hair. And bhabhi is full of support for me.
Deepika
@Ramandeep aka Deepika: Congras for your mixed marriage. And I am sure that after all the convincing your parents and in-laws ahve agreed to your marriage. I am not sure but it is going to be a little difficult to adjust to the new name; but since you have started to address yourself by Deepika, you will get used to it by December. Also your m-i-l will be happy that you are all out to embrace their culture and be a prt of the family. You should go to their place often so that you can learn some Hindu prctices and also get to know their puja customs. But being in Dehradun you would be used to all the Hindu festivals and also the Hindus come to the Gurudwara. Best Wishes to you for your life ahead. As for you haircut - I think you will have no problem as your bhabhi and your niece have haircuts already. So they would know how to style your hair. Your niece has been having haircut since one year and your bhabhi also has the pleasant experience of a hair cut. You are lucky that you have understanding family. I wish you all the best and also congratulate you for having such a loving bhabhi. Do let us know about your experience at the saloon. This will also help you to know about haircutting as your fiancee will be going infor regular haircuts. Aslo both of you can go to a Unisex saloon after marriage for hiarcuts together. Getting a haircut now will help your fiancee to see you in a glorious mode and also encourage to have shorter hair. Maybe you can go to a saloon together earlier too.
Enjoy your lightness and your haircut. Avneet's episode was so interesting. Your's made interesting reading and was also touching so learn that you are so much accepting your new role in the Saxena household. Best Wishes and keep us updated!
Gold

Jalandhar, India

#3365 Mar 5, 2013
japmeet wrote:
deepika i have also cutted my hair till mid rib step cut you should also try it i will share my experiance with unt in next post
@Japmeet:- Share karo -it will give courage to many more just as Avneet's step encouraged by her husband gave courage to Ramandeep aka Deepika.
lovepreet

London, UK

#3366 Mar 5, 2013
hi i am sikh girls with long hair till my knee and very difficult to manageit was ok till school but not in college
lovepreet

London, UK

#3367 Mar 5, 2013
in college tease of saying aunty as i tie my hair into braid so yesterday i cut my hair bra stap length and tie them in pony
lovepreet

London, UK

#3368 Mar 5, 2013
after cutting i buy some rubberband and clucher and went hand by tying my hair in ponytail i cover it with dupatta and went in my room and show it to my mother she open my hair comb them and show it to my father
sarneet kaur

Mississauga, Canada

#3369 Mar 5, 2013
going to have a sidecut this weekend yipeeeeeeeeeee
Ramandeep kaur

Dehra Dun, India

#3370 Mar 5, 2013
@Gold
Thank you for your response. Yes i have been visiting my in-laws on special occasions to know more about their tradition. And yes bhabhi is really loving. We are planning to take my future hubby next week so as to get his choice for haircut for me.
Ramandeep kaur

Dehra Dun, India

#3371 Mar 5, 2013
@japmeet
Would love to know your experience. Share !

Deepika
Ramandeep kaur

Dehra Dun, India

#3372 Mar 5, 2013
@sarneet
Enjoy last few days of your long hair.
make all the possible hairstyles on long hair in these days.
Good luck for the cut. Do share your feelings.

deepika
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3375 Mar 8, 2013
Most of the sikh guys cut there juddas because of girls. Many of the girls these days are nt comfortable with judda. Today mothers are nt ready to maintain juddi of there son .. i dnt have any problem to tie my sons judda but in laws dont want it
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3376 Mar 8, 2013
I think sikh looks good with there JUDDA
lovedeep

London, UK

#3377 Mar 9, 2013
judaa is stupid and weared for girls
jasmine

London, UK

#3378 Mar 9, 2013
i have cutted my hip length hair to shoulder length feature cut you should also but your hair punjabaaan
jazz

London, UK

#3379 Mar 9, 2013
i have long gutt kissing my hips two hours ago but now i have high ponytail kissing my shoulder(layer rebonded haircut)
jazz

London, UK

#3380 Mar 9, 2013
i wash my hair in salon and get it rebonded and then cut it till my shoulders
jazz

London, UK

#3381 Mar 9, 2013
when i entered my house everyone was shock to see my short pony at night i keep my hair open and sleep confertablely and easy
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3382 Mar 9, 2013
lovedeep wrote:
judaa is stupid and weared for girls
Why do u say that JUDDA is stupid .... r u a boy or girl ??
punjabaan

Mumbai, India

#3383 Mar 9, 2013
I am a hindu girl married to a sikh .. but still find JUDDA very cool .. dnt know why girls dnt like JUDDA

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