hair cut stories of sikh boys and girls

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Jan 25, 2013
 
I have turned fifteen last week and really want a haircut. I have lived in Southend for 5 years where there are loads of white people and basically our family where like the only Sikhs. I used to face bullies, racism etc. Once I asked my mum for a haircut and she said no, I don't think she told my dad that I had asked her for one. Anyway, now we have moved to London and my new school still have a majority of white kids and no Sikhs. I start school this Monday and have planned to ask my parents for a haircut tonight.(My dad has his haircut by the way and really regrets getting it cut he says its because he gets no work when he wears a turban). I can't gather up enough courage to ask them and am to scared, do you know how scary Sikh dads are. Anyway I need help and advice on how to ask them. I was thinking of sitting them down and asking them civilizedly, but its much easier to think than do... Help me please!
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Jan 25, 2013
 
... Oh, and also I wear a patka and my dad wants me to start wearing a pagh everyday, and I hate wearing them. And for some reason he doesn't mind me trimming my facial hair???
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Jan 25, 2013
 
I need answers quick please. My dad will be home soon, I'm so scared and its like now or never, i wanna start this school as just a normal guy.
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Jan 25, 2013
 
Won't anyone help?
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Jan 25, 2013
 
I can't gather up enough courage... Any tips?
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my wife is willing to cut her long tresses.she is forcing me to give her permission for haircut
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Harsimran wrote:
my wife is willing to cut her long tresses.she is forcing me to give her permission for haircut
GREAT! It is very nice that your wife is taking the initiative of cutting her hair. And it is very genuine of her to ask your consent, Since she has made her mind of cutting her hair even if you do not support her, she will go for it one of these days. And then you will not appreciate. Support her and let her enjoy the experience of haircuts. Also you will love the 'new wifey' that you will see. Since you are living in Mumbai, it is good to get into the metro mood. It is also catching up in Punjab so why are you slow to agree. I would go a step further and suggest that you help her choose a style.
Allow her and let us share the experience of her haircuts and also how you appreciate.
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Harsimram : I think u should allow her to cut as she want to cut
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Jan 28, 2013
 
Gold wrote:
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GREAT! It is very nice that your wife is taking the initiative of cutting her hair. And it is very genuine of her to ask your consent, Since she has made her mind of cutting her hair even if you do not support her, she will go for it one of these days. And then you will not appreciate. Support her and let her enjoy the experience of haircuts. Also you will love the 'new wifey' that you will see. Since you are living in Mumbai, it is good to get into the metro mood. It is also catching up in Punjab so why are you slow to agree. I would go a step further and suggest that you help her choose a style.
Allow her and let us share the experience of her haircuts and also how you appreciate.
Mr/Ms Gold thanks for your advice but i am upset that how to handle the situation there are so many questions in my mind like
1) Why my wife wants to cut her long hairs?
2) who is encouraging her for hair cutting?
3) Why not she cleared it to me before marriage, that she will cut her hair in future or after marriage?
4) What will be the impact of her haircut on me? because in our family nobody cuts hair, she will be the first if she does cut her hair
5) finally people/relatives will laugh at me and they will make fun of me if my wife goes for haircut
6) How can i face my family members, as she is forcing me to take her to the saloon for haircut, so that she can told to every one that her husband took her for haircut and in this way she can indirectly put a blame on me for her haircut.
7) Mr/Ms Gold as a male if you would be a husband at my position what would you do? & and if as a female, if you would be at my wife's position what will you expect or do?.

i am so confused and upset because due to this i lost the peace of home and heart
what can i do?
Harsimran

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Jan 28, 2013
 
Deep Kaur wrote:
Harsimram : I think u should allow her to cut as she want to cut
thanks for advice but for me it is little awkward to imagine my wife in a haircut also there are lot of questions in my mind like
1) if she does cut her hair how will she look?
2) also she want me to go along with her so that she can put a blame on me for her haircut. I have never visited a saloon so how can i took her to saloon?
3) most importantly, how much hair they(hairstylist) cut, as my wife wants a major change but i am not in favor by heart
4) what will be the reaction of relatives? what people will think ?
i am totaly confused and stressed due to this
please suggest a solution
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thanks for advice but for me it is little awkward to imagine my wife in a haircut also there are lot of questions in my mind like
1) if she does cut her hair how will she look?
2) also she want me to go along with her so that she can put a blame on me for her haircut. I have never visited a saloon so how can i took her to saloon?
3) most importantly, how much hair they(hairstylist) cut, as my wife wants a major change but i am not in favor by heart
4) what will be the reaction of relatives? what people will think ?
i am totaly confused and stressed due to this
please suggest a solution
Hi Harsimran,
You should support your wife in her decision to cut her hair as cutting hair does not change a person from inside. Guru Nanak never laid emphasis on outer appearance, its what are you from within that matters. Your personal anxiety is arsing from her outer looks and what will others think about her. Stop caring about what others think as it a non issue as no one can make everybody happy.
Somewhere I feel that you are resisting change which is futile as "Only thing constant about change is change itself", therefore rather than fighting change you should embrace it. Talk to your wife frankly about this and tell her your personal views, your confusions will dissipate and your relationship will get stronger.
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@Harsimran: I am sure you would have made up your mind of taking your wife for her haircut. It is the fear of the first time that is putting you off and posing so many questions. You an talk to her about your fears and I am sure you will find them fading away. How long is her hair? Maybe she always had a wish to get a haircut. If this was so, then she saw an opportunity to do it now. Whenever there is a change, someone will say something about it, always. But just think of the pleasure and support that your wife would get out of it. It is also possible that if you do not accompany her to the parlour, she would go on her own and then you have just to accept. I am pleased that she has decided to take you into her confidence. Do not let her down. You have not mentioned how long is her hair at present. You may suggest that she goes short in stages. If it is very long, then going mid length and later medium cut and then a short cut is best taken care of. This would also help you decide what is suitable. If it is not long but shorter side, then a cut is just a different style. Do not fear. It shows her love for you that she has taken you into confidence. And this would always be the case. You wanting her to take responsibility and she would like to tell others thst you liked it this way! I am sure that with suggestions you would have made up your mind to help and support your wife and next time you will tell us baout the glorious experience that she had and the discovery of a 'new' wife by you! Go ahead and all the best, buddy!
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Hi Harsimran,
You should support your wife in her decision to cut her hair as cutting hair does not change a person from inside. Guru Nanak never laid emphasis on outer appearance, its what are you from within that matters. Your personal anxiety is arsing from her outer looks and what will others think about her. Stop caring about what others think as it a non issue as no one can make everybody happy.
Somewhere I feel that you are resisting change which is futile as "Only thing constant about change is change itself", therefore rather than fighting change you should embrace it. Talk to your wife frankly about this and tell her your personal views, your confusions will dissipate and your relationship will get stronger.
Dear Kulbir Thanks for your valuable advice but i am still fearing to take blame of her haircut on me and another doubt in my mind is Will I get the same respect in society after the haircut of my wife?
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Hi Harsimran,
You should support your wife in her decision to cut her hair as cutting hair does not change a person from inside. Guru Nanak never laid emphasis on outer appearance, its what are you from within that matters. Your personal anxiety is arsing from her outer looks and what will others think about her. Stop caring about what others think as it a non issue as no one can make everybody happy.
Somewhere I feel that you are resisting change which is futile as "Only thing constant about change is change itself", therefore rather than fighting change you should embrace it. Talk to your wife frankly about this and tell her your personal views, your confusions will dissipate and your relationship will get stronger.
Dear Kulbir Thanks for your valuable advice but I am not in favor of taking blame of her haircut on me & another doubt is that will I get the same respect in the society if she cuts her hair?
Harsimran

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Jan 29, 2013
 
Gold wrote:
@Harsimran: I am sure you would have made up your mind of taking your wife for her haircut. It is the fear of the first time that is putting you off and posing so many questions. You an talk to her about your fears and I am sure you will find them fading away. How long is her hair? Maybe she always had a wish to get a haircut. If this was so, then she saw an opportunity to do it now. Whenever there is a change, someone will say something about it, always. But just think of the pleasure and support that your wife would get out of it. It is also possible that if you do not accompany her to the parlour, she would go on her own and then you have just to accept. I am pleased that she has decided to take you into her confidence. Do not let her down. You have not mentioned how long is her hair at present. You may suggest that she goes short in stages. If it is very long, then going mid length and later medium cut and then a short cut is best taken care of. This would also help you decide what is suitable. If it is not long but shorter side, then a cut is just a different style. Do not fear. It shows her love for you that she has taken you into confidence. And this would always be the case. You wanting her to take responsibility and she would like to tell others thst you liked it this way! I am sure that with suggestions you would have made up your mind to help and support your wife and next time you will tell us baout the glorious experience that she had and the discovery of a 'new' wife by you! Go ahead and all the best, buddy!
Dear Gold thanks for your continuous reply and valuable advise. One thing i want to tell you is that my wife's hair are above 3-feet & 5-inches the almost touching her knees, smooth silky thick and shiny brownish-black in colour as you have asked about the hair length of my wife. The other thing is that i am feeling shyness to go with her to the parlour because it is not tolerable for me that somebody put scissors on my wife,s hair in front of me. can i tell her that she can take any of her friend(any Lady)or neighbor along with her to the parlor if she want to cut her hair?
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Harsimram : Whn u r wife is going for cut & wht type haircut she want u talk ??
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@Harsimran: It is nice to read that you are reading the blog regularly. Hopefully, we are helping you to overcome your fears. When one is so much attached to long hairs, it is but natural that such thoughts would come to the mind. But since your wife has thought of a hair cut, it is best that you discuss and go with her. As you have said she has long hair, I think she finds trouble in taking care and managing her hair. Also she may be wanting to go for a change which we all like. She has two options - one as I suggested earlier, she can go for a gradual reduction of length. She can go for a 6" reduction in length first. You can always say that she had gone for a trim but the lady snipped off a little more. In most cases, such a cut would not be noticed. A little later she can get the length reduced more - at least 12". Then it is upto her how long or short she wants her length. By that time people will not mention it . As for your feeling guilty - no need to have the feeling. I think you would be thought of as the most modern couple! It is something to look forward to.
If you are taking her to a ladies parlour, you would not be allowed in; but if you decide to go to a Unisex parlour, then you would be welcome to view the hair cut. If she decides to take her friend or neighbour it is the best. In this case the lady accompanying should be a regular visitor to a parlour, then she would be knowing the ladies in the hair cutting section. Also if your wife visits the parlour routinely, she can discuss her haircut with the ladies there and help reach a decision. Why worry and take so much pressure on your mind? Change is good. and it is hair - will grow back. And maybe you would love it and support her for further haircuts...! Are you a turbaned Sikh?ood Luck and support her in this venture and experience. We wish both of you Luck.....
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Jan 30, 2013
 
Deep Kaur wrote:
Harsimram : Whn u r wife is going for cut & wht type haircut she want u talk ??
Hi Ms Deep kaur
my wife is just going crazy. She is too much inspired from Mahi Gill and she like to see herself in that type of short haircut (sorry i did not know the name of that haircut). She may go cut her hair any time may be this week or next week, arguments between us are going on the topic of her haircut everyday
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@Harsimran: It is nice to read that you are reading the blog regularly. Hopefully, we are helping you to overcome your fears. When one is so much attached to long hairs, it is but natural that such thoughts would come to the mind. But since your wife has thought of a hair cut, it is best that you discuss and go with her. As you have said she has long hair, I think she finds trouble in taking care and managing her hair. Also she may be wanting to go for a change which we all like. She has two options - one as I suggested earlier, she can go for a gradual reduction of length. She can go for a 6" reduction in length first. You can always say that she had gone for a trim but the lady snipped off a little more. In most cases, such a cut would not be noticed. A little later she can get the length reduced more - at least 12". Then it is upto her how long or short she wants her length. By that time people will not mention it . As for your feeling guilty - no need to have the feeling. I think you would be thought of as the most modern couple! It is something to look forward to.
If you are taking her to a ladies parlour, you would not be allowed in; but if you decide to go to a Unisex parlour, then you would be welcome to view the hair cut. If she decides to take her friend or neighbour it is the best. In this case the lady accompanying should be a regular visitor to a parlour, then she would be knowing the ladies in the hair cutting section. Also if your wife visits the parlour routinely, she can discuss her haircut with the ladies there and help reach a decision. Why worry and take so much pressure on your mind? Change is good. and it is hair - will grow back. And maybe you would love it and support her for further haircuts...! Are you a turbaned Sikh?ood Luck and support her in this venture and experience. We wish both of you Luck.....
Dear Gold
Thanks for your continuous support and suggestions. What i guessed by now is that my wife is fully made her mind for her haircut and prepared herself for cutting her long hairs. Day by day she is going crazy. Daily she spend hours in front of mirror with comb, brush and all. I think by now i should allow her whatever she wants to do with her hair after all she has right to live in her own way she is not a kid after all. But one question is still in my mind that how i took her to parlor i am felling shyness as i am not aware about hairstyles and all as i have never visited salons and parlors also my wife is not a regular visitor she only visits one or two times in two three months span in neighborhood local parlors, so what i think local parlor is not a good place for haircut. The parlor must be of good standard for haircut, also I am turban wearer so i am felling shyness in entering salon or parlor and one question is still in my mind that is how my wife will look after haircut and what people think if they look us together after her haircut?

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