AKJ Singh

San Francisco, CA

#3231 Jan 2, 2013
if u cut ur hair, then ur not a sikh. Read Reht namahs. How do call urself a sikh if u dnt even follow the basic principles.
AKJ Singh

San Francisco, CA

#3232 Jan 2, 2013
No odr option wrote:
Hey guyz...i m proud to b a sikh..nd i really didnt hav any prblm wid keepin my hair..i belong to a very gursikh family...but i had an accident three moonths back nd got a fracture in my temporal bone(a bone in d right syd of d head) der ws bleeding through mi ear fr lyk a week...but now aftr 3 months i really cant take dat ..m not able to tie d turban fr a long tym...head start painining..each tym i go outside d nly thng i m willing fr iz to go home n remove my turban fr my head to get rest...i badly want to cut my hair now..i even miss my tuitions just due to d fact dat i dont want to tie d turban...i cant take dat on d cost of my future my exams r even near...its makin me incapable of doing anythng...i just cant tell abt it to my parents as dey will b hurt..but i just cant stop thinking abt it coz d evryday pain forces me to thnk abt it.
..wht shud i do:/
get a surgery done and then regrow ur kes
Manny

Mississauga, Canada

#3233 Jan 3, 2013
hey everyone. i recently cut my hair but i guess it doesnt work out that well for everyone. aftr cutting my hair i noticed my hair was differnt than other people, i noticed that im missing hair on both sides of my frontal head. i guess wearing a turban whole my life, pulling my hair backwards affected the look which is now like half bald to be honest and that is not wht i expected. i just wanted to look normal but now i look even more odd without my turban and half bald from the front of my head. so i decided to start wearing my turban again, i guess this is who we are and it doesnt matter if we try to change it or not. ill suggest anyone looking towards cutting their hair to take a good look of ur own hair first then consider cutting it. or can just learn to deal with it :)
No odr option

Jalandhar, India

#3234 Jan 4, 2013
AKJ Singh wrote:
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get a surgery done and then regrow ur kes
D fracture is not dat much major fr a surgery..d main rsn is dat der has been a lot of bleeding ..nd d nerves r weak nd all dat stuff n i cant take much stress or it causes headache...but yeh even if i cut dem i ll keep dem later on coz i cant really walk with full respect untill i m back wid dem...m just 18 n ll keep dem back once m finishd wid my studies dat will b lyk three years..d dr. Said dat recovery cud b lyk in 1-2 years if thngz go fyn but acc to d present situationz it ll take more but dats just what i thnk...n being honest i want to go wid d thngz comfortably...moreover cant take any difference made in my mark sheet due to it..coz dats all dat will really matter in my future
No odr option

Jalandhar, India

#3235 Jan 4, 2013
dhki wrote:
<quoted text>
Just CUT IT!
Well We are living in 21st Century. right?
Well its 20th century but only time changes...God n religion remains same...but i dnt stop anyone else frm cutting or keeping dats all der choice dat i respect coz evryone has der own rsnz n experiences...but if u cant follow d thngz physically atlst hav d moral values
No odr option

Nagpur, India

#3236 Jan 4, 2013
21st century...typo error
dhki

Howrah, India

#3237 Jan 5, 2013
No odr option wrote:
21st century...typo error
'odr' typo error.

F*ck all the Gurus.
No odr option

Jalandhar, India

#3238 Jan 5, 2013
Pity u..God bless
Canada sikh

Brampton, Canada

#3239 Jan 5, 2013
Im a sikh boy from toronto... a couple of my friends cut their hair a couple of years but now i am 15 and they communicate good with girls and girls talk to them.. my dad has a beard and turban but all relatives have cut hair.. I want to cut my hair this summer... but i dont know how to speak to him as it will hurt him but i need to see the world in a different way
AKJ Singh

Walnut Creek, CA

#3240 Jan 6, 2013
No odr option wrote:
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D fracture is not dat much major fr a surgery..d main rsn is dat der has been a lot of bleeding ..nd d nerves r weak nd all dat stuff n i cant take much stress or it causes headache...but yeh even if i cut dem i ll keep dem later on coz i cant really walk with full respect untill i m back wid dem...m just 18 n ll keep dem back once m finishd wid my studies dat will b lyk three years..d dr. Said dat recovery cud b lyk in 1-2 years if thngz go fyn but acc to d present situationz it ll take more but dats just what i thnk...n being honest i want to go wid d thngz comfortably...moreover cant take any difference made in my mark sheet due to it..coz dats all dat will really matter in my future
if its medical, then its best to do what u can for ur health
AKJ Singh

Walnut Creek, CA

#3241 Jan 6, 2013
Canada sikh wrote:
Im a sikh boy from toronto... a couple of my friends cut their hair a couple of years but now i am 15 and they communicate good with girls and girls talk to them.. my dad has a beard and turban but all relatives have cut hair.. I want to cut my hair this summer... but i dont know how to speak to him as it will hurt him but i need to see the world in a different way
Why would you cut your kes, the gift of the guru for girls? Dont let Lust and adultery think for you. If you cut your kes, how would you be sikh? Wearing a Kara does not make you a sikh, your REHIT does. I was a mona before, but when i turned 11 i started to practice rehit, I took amrit at 13, and i have realised god! I did all this living in a family of non-sikhs. Without Reht you can never be a sikh! Dont wear the Kara if your an apostate, Wear it if your Sikh.
AKJ Singh

Walnut Creek, CA

#3242 Jan 6, 2013
sikh girl wrote:
I am a 18 year old sikh guy planning to get a cool hair cut . M vrry frustated with dis look. I think m not meant to be a turbaned guy. Plz suggest me
If you cut your hair, you cast yourself out of the Sikh Panth.
Arsh Kahlon

Mississauga, Canada

#3243 Jan 6, 2013
fremontsingh wrote:
yo ya i wear a turban and im 21 and i was born and raised in america. my dad was normal back when i was little but then became amritshak when i was about 7 and he became stricter as time went by. I had a juda since i was born since my dad had the punjab mentality and kept it on me i never had a problem with my juda i didnt care when people made fun of my juda and patka....now i dont like having a pagh because ive noticed since ive been in high school and college all the punjabi girls like clean shaven guys (mohnay). many have even told me that they dont like guys with paghs because they are not good looking and look scary. they have told me i would look better as a mohnah. i have not met any punjabi girl interested in sardars so why do we keep paghs if our own girls dont like us???
YOU ARE A SIKH IF YOU HAVE UNCUT HAIR AND WEAR A TURBAN AND KARA. YOU ARE NOT A SIKH IF YOU CUT YOUR HAIR.PERIOD!!!! OUR GURU GOBIND SINGH JI SACRIFICED HIS WHOLE FAMILY FOR US. HIS KIDS SAHIBZADE GAVE UP THEIR LIVES TO KEEP THEIR HAIR. REMEMBER THE SACRIFICES MADE BY OUR GURUS AND ANCESTORS. YOU ARE HERE TODAY BECAUSE OF THEM.IF THEY IN THOSE HARSH AND DIFFICULT TIMES GAVE UP THEIR FAITH THEN INDIA WOULDN'T HAVE EXISTED TODAY. BECAUSE OF US SIKHS INDIA EXISTS. IF THEY IN THOSE SITUATIONS DIDN'T GIVE UP THEIR FAITH THEN WHY WE ARE TODAY GIVING UP ONLY BECAUSE PEOPLE LOOK AT YOU CURIOUSLY AND MAKE FUN OF YOU. THEN APPROACH THEM AND MAKE THEM AWARE OF YOUR RELIGION. WHY BLEND IN WHEN WE WERE BORN TO BE DIFFERENT. BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU ARE AND OF YOUR RICH HISTORY. REMEMBER THE SACRIFICES MADE BY OUR ANCESTORS. STAY A LION (SIKH) DON'T CUT YOUR HAIR. AND BRO ONE MORE THING WHY DO YOU HAVE TO CHANGE FOR GIRLS OR SOMEBODY. IF THEY LIKE YOU THEN THEY SHOULD LIKE YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE AND SHOULD TELL YOU TO BECOME SOMEONE ELSE.
No odr option

Bhatinda, India

#3245 Jan 7, 2013
AKJ Singh wrote:
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if its medical, then its best to do what u can for ur health
thnx fr d advice sir...i really needed one...major change it wud b..so will still consider it fr sm more tym...hope i do d right thng
AKJ Singh

Walnut Creek, CA

#3246 Jan 7, 2013
No odr option wrote:
<quoted text>thnx fr d advice sir...i really needed one...major change it wud b..so will still consider it fr sm more tym...hope i do d right thng
your welcome
Maninder

Canada

#3247 Jan 10, 2013
Today i cut my hair and beard
Dnt knw wht gona happn when my parents come to knw abt tht.
This is terrible how am gona face people i knw
Maninder

Canada

#3248 Jan 10, 2013
Ghar walea nu bde dukh pujde ae mittro
dhki

Howrah, India

#3249 Jan 10, 2013
No odr option wrote:
<quoted text>thnx fr d advice sir...i really needed one...major change it wud b..so will still consider it fr sm more tym...hope i do d right thng
go d.i.e plz
khoji sikh--xyz

Dallas, TX

#3250 Jan 11, 2013
two boats in hair-- this is regarding on 48 page mandeep sikh girl said that she did haircut and feel guil i want to tell her that donot feel guil because in punjabi sabhda apna vaadha ghaata rang birange bhugtoge vaadha tan rasleen ho gaye ghaata tan eh ki hai te oh ki hai cheekan paniyan shuru kar ditiyan --planning proper planning is a must always ----------gurbani --har simrat teri jaye balayen--juani--suke hare kiye khin nanak --varjish----------all in one --sare beant ikko vich --.99%percent only
Kulbir

Mumbai, India

#3251 Jan 14, 2013
We should allow our children to cut their hair as all Guru's did not want to force their opinion on anyone, they even laid down their lives to protect others right even if it was something they opposed.
Today hairs for sikhs have become new "Janehu" they are being forced by their parents to keep long hair even if they donot like them. This is similar in principal to forced conversion by muslim rulers, guru's opposed forced conversions how can any one think that they would have liked what is happening today?
No religion or ideology which is based on force has ever survived the test of time therefore we should be very careful about hairs and not force them upon our future generations.

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