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harman singh

Gurgaon, India

#1 Sep 23, 2009
every sikh boy or girl who have chopped their hairs for any reason can share their expireance here and those who are planning for hair cut can get some cool ideas from here

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harman singh

Gurgaon, India

#2 Sep 23, 2009
i tell u my story as i came from traditional gursikh family and find turban as a burden and from last 3 years i was planning to cut my hairs but never done dat coz i know this will creat mess in my house but on 20 sep this year when i was tying my turban got in argue with my father as we are getting late for shop and i am have problem with my turban as i was not able to tie it and my father was shouting with me then i came to my sister's room from where i took seccior made ponytail and chopped it all ( that time my hairs are butt length) ant i cut it till my neck after coming back to lobby everyone is shocked the saw the pony in my hand and i said that from now we will reach to shop on time after dat i gone to saloon for styling and got my face shave. my parents didnt talked to me for 1 week after dat every thing is normal my sister told me dat i look more smart now and im also feeling very relax and from now onwards im not going to keep my hairs back & now i can smoke in open as erlier i used to smoke in lonly place.

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yrs well wisher

New Delhi, India

#3 Sep 30, 2009
you forget your back that is why you have commited this crime you forget your sikh brothers and even your sister is too responsible for that. one day you will realise that you have stepped out of guru gobind singh ji very soft and sooo..... loving shelter.my brother do not worsen your life and do not make your life hell in this way.you will feel this advice as lacture but you are in the glooming effect of maya(the snake) i beg on your feets that please do not let other on this path.

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joginder

Croydon, Australia

#4 Oct 1, 2009
there is nothing wrong with it,,,the world is changing,i am a matured sikh myself still maintaning sikhism for the sake of my parents but i dont like it not because i dont look good after wearing turban and having a beard , i am proud handsome sikh with very beautiful girlfriend , the problem is wearing turban really consumes a lot of precious time and on top it gives headache,it also leads to many illnesses and depression(scientifically proven), i have migrane coz of it & high blood pressure , doctor has asked me not to keep wearing turban for a long time and has asked to give some rest to my head, the same stories goes with most of my sikh friends, and the other problem is finding a job, i have a business so no problem but many sikh people out there cant find a job bcoz of their outlook, which leads to no income and therefore finding it difficult to feed the family just for the sake of religion, tell me people do you think this is right??, people should not be forced to follow the religion and should always be given a choice,one of my sikh friend lost his job bcoz he could not reach for work on time and his family is suffering from depression now as they have to pay for his study loan,if they try to attempt suicide i dont blame them, it will be only bcoz of our elders , our elders should understand that we youngsters have to go out there and compete with other people to satisfy our family needs, why should we sacrifice our happiness,

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prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#5 Oct 2, 2009
u have done a very bad thing i tell u. i am only 12 and i know wats wrong or rite. parents are suppose to get mad at u and they love u very much. and u shouldnt smoke. it's very bad. for god sake stop what your doing.

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prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#6 Oct 2, 2009
i'm to a sikh. and i don't cut mii hair. u r just the illest person i hav wroten to. i am smaller then u but i am smarter. which is pretty sad. we sikhs are suppose to risk our lives 4 others. we sikhs are suppose to stand out and be proud of over gurus. but u have just lost it. i could see that your not afraid of god. u r very shameless. i am very sorry if i am a 12 year old and writing this 2 u. but u should stop and apologize to your panents. i have a lot to say to u but i have to go. contact me at punjabiclass69@gmail.com, tell me what ur going to do. i am just so mad at u. we came from the same culture but u have just losed yours. always remember that good people stay with god and bad people go to hell. and if u dont do abything u will soon go to hell

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prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#7 Oct 2, 2009
i am born in amerca but my heart is as a sikh. my family took amrit and so we are a very religous family u see. i have maskered my punjabi and sikhi skills and i am a 12 year old. most punjabi kids or teen are not like me. they are to modern now a days.
prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#8 Oct 2, 2009
hey people, you shouldn't maintaining sikhi for your parents u should do it for yourself and god. u people think that your going to get in trouble with your parents will get in bigger trouble with god later on i promise u. after that u change. u all people who are sikhs and cut your hair without your parents telling u to are very ill and this is from a 12 year old. jo bole sonehaal, sat sri akal. kabhi sikhi nahi shadni.
Sukh_Man

Toronto, Canada

#9 Oct 4, 2009
i am a 14 year old Sikh girl. all my life, i have kept my hair in a braid and never cut it. i didn't really mind so much until i reached middle school. every girl i saw had nice beautiful hair, and they gave me bad looks because of the way i kept my hair. i'm being serious. the girls with the nice hair would be the ones with a lot of friends, and boyfriends. this is how it works around here. everyone is shallow. i've been looked down on because of my braid for 3 years. enough was enough. one day, my mom took me to the salon to get a trim for my split ends, and the lady accidently cut off way too much hair. i know she did it on purpose, because they were all having a conversation on how once their daughters reached highschool, they choppoed off their hair, but my mom said that i wouldn't. ANYWAYS, it wasn't that short, but it was pretty short. lucky for me, my mom went to india right after. so, i watched online tutorials on how to cut your own hair. i cut it myself, and i looked absolutely gorgeous. i've gained a whole load of confidence, and i made so much friends. people who didn't talk to me before, suddenly started talking to me. but hey, you see what i mean when i say they're shallow here? sometimes i wish i still had a braid to see if they would still treat me the same. anyways, since my mom went to india for 4 weeks, and my dad was completely clueless when it came to these things, i thought it would grow back by then. but it didn't. when my mom came back, i was terrified on how she would react. i kept my hair tied in a bun for as long as i could remember. then one weekend, around 8AM, i went downstairs to get a cup of milk while my hair was in a low ponytail since i just woke up. and my mom was all "WHY IS YOUR HAIR SO SHORT?". you know, i'm pretty lucky my mom is chill. she asked if i cut it, i said "NO this is how short it was when the salon lady cut it." (besides, i only cut off a few inches) i was scared for nothing, she didn't care. HONESTLY. she didn't care at all. i think she liked it, actually. but every now and then, she's like "DID YOU CUT YOUR HAIR?". she knows i cut it, but she doesn't care.:) i'm pretty lucky if you ask me. most Sikh parents would freak and not talk to their kids for a week or so. i'm so thankful my parents aren't like that. anyways, now i'm in highscool. it's SO hard to find someone who has a braid. me and so many other Sikh girls cut our hair for the same reason, to fit it. and, so what? and that's my story.:)
- Sukhman (NY, USA)

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Mojo

Montréal, Canada

#10 Oct 4, 2009
I am really scared to tell my parents. I don't know what to do. Help!?

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prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#11 Oct 5, 2009
if any people make fun of you or something you just tell someone. you could still make a lot of fwends even if u have braids. u just have to find your inner hope and have a heart that believes in god for everything that happens. i used to be a girl that thought i didn't have friends because i had long hair, but the real reason was that never had the hope to believe in god. i have changed a lot. i am a better sikh, i have a lot of friends maintaining long hair. i just believed in god and thought i should be a more better sikh. now i'm 12 and i luv my gurus and u all should respect your culture. it only takes hope, trust on this. :p. i have a lot of hope. always remember that god is always watching you on eberything you do. mera sath daio ji.(give me your hope)

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prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#12 Oct 5, 2009
is anyone goin to take mii side. everyone is going with harman. exept only one person is on mii side. why do think that being popular is the only thing u could worry about. if everyone cuts their hair uwant to go along. which is wrong. it's like saying: everone falls of the roof, and you follow them. which jus doesn't make sence. and their's another problem u people have. you people think about making boyfriends or girlfriend... WHICH IS NOT ALLOWD IN OUR CULTURE
Mojo

Saint-félicien, Canada

#13 Oct 6, 2009
It isnt that is the problem but it is about how u wanna live ur life. Parents should not have control over ur life.it is ur life and live it the way u want.
prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#14 Oct 7, 2009
well, do it for the sake of god. god was the one who made you and god is the one that can take you life away.
Mojo

Canada

#15 Oct 10, 2009
But does god really want you to live the way that u don't really want to live. It doesn't mean that i cut my hair that i won't have faith in god. Let's say that u have head problems where u would have to cut ur hair god will saY NO TO THAT. ur life is the way that u want to live it.
Mojo

Canada

#16 Oct 10, 2009
plus people think of us as a terrrotists which is a really mean thing but we can't do anything about it except to change the way u look.
Crystal

Georgetown, Guyana

#18 Oct 12, 2009
Hey! I am Crystal Phillips and I did a VERY stupid thing by cutting my hair front , now I am having endless trouble keeping it in .Girls listend to me if you have beautiful hair don't even think about cutting it AT ALL!.But my friends said it looks cool ,I thinks so to.£OVE always. D.V.C.P-DVP
Crystal

Georgetown, Guyana

#19 Oct 12, 2009
Mojo wrote:
But does god really want you to live the way that u don't really want to live. It doesn't mean that i cut my hair that i won't have faith in god. Let's say that u have head problems where u would have to cut ur hair god will saY NO TO THAT. ur life is the way that u want to live it.
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From: Deonica.
Hey! Keep your faith every thing is going to be ok
Pawan

Ridgewood, NY

#20 Oct 14, 2009
I had uncut hair most of my life, but my parents cut their hair, and also ate meat, whereas I was a vegetarian (by choice and not because of our religion). I simply told my parents I wanted to cut my hair. At first, they said no but then they understood how hair is just hair...and that just by cutting hair makes you a bad person. I volunteer as much as I can for Red Cross. I do anything I can to help others, respect everyone, but once I cut my hair, it makes me sinful? That's not ethical at all. I'm not an overly-religious person, but hair to me is nothing but an object. One could have uncut hair, and the 5K's but what if their not true to God from the heart? God is spiritual and I worship my religion from the inside. With my mind, spirit and heart. Performing religion in ways of the body doesn't prove if you're religous or not in my view.

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prabhjot pannu

Hollywood, FL

#21 Oct 16, 2009
ok then... ur kind of rite, but other's cut their hair and don't believe in god after that.

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