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markinnh

Oakland, CA

#705 Feb 4, 2012
Amen! I am a white male and married to a black woman and a former Army SF soldier and I say to all you people that have a problem with us being happy BRING IT!
Yesi Casanova

Chicago, IL

#706 Feb 24, 2012
I totally agree with "Shiki", People who are "not fans" of interracial relationships or don't aprove of them are basically bigots and racists because to say otherwise it would simply be like saying "we'll all be happy as long as you don't try to befriend me or move to my neighborhood" type of situation. I am a biracial woman who has always dated white men (simple preference) my children are all of mixed race and my family and many of my friends too. And I too have felt the disaproving look of some (not many though) people, especially here in the US.
Donald

Rochester, MN

#707 Mar 14, 2012
I think interracial relationship is good white men who date black women are in the other race is good having children mixed up my father married an Indian woman I asked her one time how much Indian do I have she said a pimple on your ass jokingly but black man they tend to take the big heavyset white women that no white man would have anyway I called them a Hippel are a pig that's all black men like is a big heavyset ladies I don't like my black women too big but the short chunky ones are so much fun to tall of a black bitch is a a lot of fun there are other big boned are like a string being don't like a tall woman pay that much but with interbreeding will get all different kinds of mixed up children will interbreed some more in a couple thousand years there will be no real black people around the all be white and to be pure
markinnh

Oakland, CA

#708 Mar 14, 2012
No offense Donald but the term big boned was originally a medical term and it actually means someone that is 6 feet tall and taller. It does not mean overweight. As far as there being only white people that's totally wrong there will simply be humans of mixed races. If we all studied history of the world and origins of Christianity we would all see the two combined caused the world to be the way it is in regards to racism.
Carol

Oak Park, MI

#709 Mar 24, 2012
P Diggs wrote:
I have noticed that the interracial couples of black women/ white men are on the rise. I have seen the faces and heard the comment of many people, but it is supprisingly black men have the most to say.. Black men have had the attitude that black women are good enough to become sucsessful with, but a white woman is the one to spend it on, so they drop the black one and pick out themselves a white woman to garnish his arm with.
When a white man is seen in the intimate company of a black woman, there is all this talk. I even saw a black man married to a white woman make a negative comment right in front of her. Please people, help me to understand this.
Asolutely the truth
gorathus6

Little Rock, AR

#710 Mar 24, 2012
Attraction isn't a choice, people have no control over whom they fall for. If people are going to be pricks for others' choices in a romantic partner they should just do the world a favor and commit suicide.

Since: Apr 12

Washington, DC

#711 Apr 4, 2012
Dear reader,

Your observation is absolutely correct. It appears that the "ideal beauty standards" (blonde hair/blue eyes or light complexion/exotic features/long hair) conveyed by our society are primarily to blame for this phenomenon. The media is constantly perpetuating the same hierarchy. This attractiveness pyramid describes in which order Caucasian men marry what race of women. At the top of the list is Caucasian women, followed by Asian women, then Latinas, and finally African American women. American culture recurrently portrays us African American women in a false and negative light, as undesirable consequently have placed us dead last on that list. Creating a type of "group think" attitude that a good percentage of people have fallen into. Those statistics may very well be wrong, and only serve as a means to control what is deemed expected, proper, and deviant. I perceive this as a form of mental slavery, once again denying people of color of certain things. Moving on, I have witnessed that when a Caucasian woman encounters a woman such as myself the outcome is confusion on their part. I am an extremely attractive, tall, toned,light skin black woman and slender but have an hour glass shape and get more attention then the white women around me, from a wide array of men. Forcing the Caucasian women to ask themselves "why am I jealous of her/feel threatened by her when she is (negative connotation) black. Those in belief that black women are desirably inferior use the inaccurate hierarchy to validate themselves and their insecurities. I have mentioned all of this to prove one simplistic point. Black women/white men couples are so offensive to others because so much misleading information states that this union is improbable, so when people encounter such couples they are quickly confounded to see that white men do not place white women on a pedestal as often as society would have you believe. In my next post on this topic I will be addressing my understanding of the black male perspective as to why these couples are so offensive. Until then

Cheers,

Neon
P Diggs wrote:
I have noticed that the interracial couples of black women/ white men are on the rise. I have seen the faces and heard the comment of many people, but it is supprisingly black men have the most to say.. Black men have had the attitude that black women are good enough to become sucsessful with, but a white woman is the one to spend it on, so they drop the black one and pick out themselves a white woman to garnish his arm with.
When a white man is seen in the intimate company of a black woman, there is all this talk. I even saw a black man married to a white woman make a negative comment right in front of her. Please people, help me to understand this.
markinnh

Oakland, CA

#712 Apr 4, 2012
All I can say is I am white , my wife is black and we love each other. Anyone has a problem with it can walk on a different street, eat somewhere else , shop someplace else etc. Or even move to a different place because we are happy and thats what matters.
I wish you all luck in your relationships no matter what your dealing with.
steve

United States

#713 Jun 28, 2012
Im a white man and my.girlfriend is 100% aferican, not aferican american I get tons of stares from alot of people mostly.old white people but I don't care cus she is the best woman I've ever met, christian like me and we get along great, so all you people throwing bible scrips out there know that moses married a black woman the end
Sinc

Hackensack, NJ

#714 Jul 2, 2012
Love is where you find it. Racism will always exist somewhere in some form. Good people and bad people come in all colors. Nobody has a right to question or judge who or how you love. Nobody knows the path you traveled to get where you are. Find someone that makes you happy and that you can make happy. Love is colorblind. Life is short. Let love rule. Read “Black Woman White Man: A Black Woman's Journey to Love And The Truth About Interracial Dating by Sinclaire Caviness (Jun 27, 2012). http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1/184-...
Anonymous

Petersburg, VA

#715 Jul 5, 2012
Black men, by and large are a nice race of people, especially the elderly, very dignified and respectful toward all. You must be speaking of the pants down the ass, hat on sideways, illiterate punk, who thinks the world owes them something, so they steal and try to intimidate, until someone lie me beats the hell out of them and the pulls their pant up to the stupid looking hat prior to kicking them in the nuts. You probably married one of their sisters
sweet

Far Rockaway, NY

#716 Aug 1, 2012
Ok I dont understand all this race card but if your a female and you like a male the differences is based on genitals penis and vagina right lol and its in every race so color is not to judge on love is love.. love happens freely and skin color and type should not be anbig issue is not like people is having sexual contact with an alien then that would be a really big issue! I am a proud girlfriendand some people have like different people that is something natural I know that for a fact because I cant help who i fall inlove with and its not a crime :) people should worry about people having sex with animals not interracial relationship.
Tee

Neptune, NJ

#717 Apr 3, 2013
Tony needs bible study classes before he goes to hell lol

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