Im a Black Female, Why am i so attrac...

Im a Black Female, Why am i so attracted to white and Latin men?

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KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#1 Mar 18, 2009
I have 3 kids, one half mexican, the other 2 are half white. My current boyfriend is white (my kids father). I've dated black men before but I seem to be more attracted to other races? Why is this?
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#2 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
I have 3 kids, one half mexican, the other 2 are half white. My current boyfriend is white (my kids father). I've dated black men before but I seem to be more attracted to other races? Why is this?
You may have some white ancestry. I'm a white guy and have been attracted/dated almost all races. I didn't ask why. My father was full blooded italian, my mother was half italian and norwegian. At her funeral i found out she was also black, french, native american, german and polish. Sometimes you don't know til later in life. I'm not saying one is attracted only to their own kind, this was just my experience.
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#3 Mar 18, 2009
Ed Deline wrote:
<quoted text>You may have some white ancestry. I'm a white guy and have been attracted/dated almost all races. I didn't ask why. My father was full blooded italian, my mother was half italian and norwegian. At her funeral i found out she was also black, french, native american, german and polish. Sometimes you don't know til later in life. I'm not saying one is attracted only to their own kind, this was just my experience.
Yes, this may be indeed true. I hale from the Melungeon race (blk, indian, white) I have blk, white, and indian grandparents. When people see me they think im mixed half blck/half white but im predominatly black, and was raised by mostly the black side of my family. Im just the black sheep because my kids are mixed and my boyfriend is white!
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#4 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
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Yes, this may be indeed true. I hale from the Melungeon race (blk, indian, white) I have blk, white, and indian grandparents. When people see me they think im mixed half blck/half white but im predominatly black, and was raised by mostly the black side of my family. Im just the black sheep because my kids are mixed and my boyfriend is white!
You should probably change your screen name, it could be Construed as something else.lol
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#5 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
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Yes, this may be indeed true. I hale from the Melungeon race (blk, indian, white) I have blk, white, and indian grandparents. When people see me they think im mixed half blck/half white but im predominatly black, and was raised by mostly the black side of my family. Im just the black sheep because my kids are mixed and my boyfriend is white!
I eventualy settled down with a white women whom i have a 19 year old daughter with. I found out after we were married that before we were married she had 2 abortions because of the boyfriend (she says) and a miscarriage because she wouldn't stop drinking or smoking (this her mother and father said) we only made it 8 months (she cheated) to which she gave me custody without a fight. I found out she cheated on her next boyfriend and her next 2 husbands an abortion was done twice. I rarely even date white women anymore, she turned me off to them. 18 years later i still will not settle down with any woman because of this. Should i seek help?:)
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#6 Mar 18, 2009
Ed Deline wrote:
<quoted text>I eventualy settled down with a white women whom i have a 19 year old daughter with. I found out after we were married that before we were married she had 2 abortions because of the boyfriend (she says) and a miscarriage because she wouldn't stop drinking or smoking (this her mother and father said) we only made it 8 months (she cheated) to which she gave me custody without a fight. I found out she cheated on her next boyfriend and her next 2 husbands an abortion was done twice. I rarely even date white women anymore, she turned me off to them. 18 years later i still will not settle down with any woman because of this. Should i seek help?:)
Dont think all women are the same because of one person, but you should be cautious! very cautious! Try to shoot for the woman with high standards for herself.. also look for someone w/ the same or simular morals to your own.
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#7 Mar 18, 2009
Ed Deline wrote:
<quoted text>You should probably change your screen name, it could be Construed as something else.lol
Something like what? lol
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#9 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
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Dont think all women are the same because of one person, but you should be cautious! very cautious! Try to shoot for the woman with high standards for herself.. also look for someone w/ the same or simular morals to your own.
I've been trying but i think i set my standards to high.
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#10 Mar 18, 2009
Im glad you said that, NEVER And i mean NEVER lower your standards for anyone! Its not that they're too high, its just the females you've dated standards are too low.. dont be afraid to play hard to get, some women love the chase, also dont be ashamed to get a woman with nothing. In that case you can shape and mold her into the woman you want her to be, just be sure that she fits your lifestyle. For example, if losing money is your worries, go for a girl with her own money or the girl who depends on you and will be faithful because she cant afford to lose you. get what im saying?
PoolShark

Carson, CA

#11 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
Im glad you said that, NEVER And i mean NEVER lower your standards for anyone! Its not that they're too high, its just the females you've dated standards are too low.. dont be afraid to play hard to get, some women love the chase, also dont be ashamed to get a woman with nothing. In that case you can shape and mold her into the woman you want her to be, just be sure that she fits your lifestyle. For example, if losing money is your worries, go for a girl with her own money or the girl who depends on you and will be faithful because she cant afford to lose you. get what im saying?
Again. Men - Go for a girl that was not born in the U.S. This is rule #1.
Think for a Change

Bangkok, Thailand

#12 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
I have 3 kids, one half mexican, the other 2 are half white. My current boyfriend is white (my kids father). I've dated black men before but I seem to be more attracted to other races? Why is this?
Because you're smart and you want a good future for your family. 99% of the black men you meet aren't going to be able to give you that.
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#13 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
Im glad you said that, NEVER And i mean NEVER lower your standards for anyone! Its not that they're too high, its just the females you've dated standards are too low.. dont be afraid to play hard to get, some women love the chase, also dont be ashamed to get a woman with nothing. In that case you can shape and mold her into the woman you want her to be, just be sure that she fits your lifestyle. For example, if losing money is your worries, go for a girl with her own money or the girl who depends on you and will be faithful because she cant afford to lose you. get what im saying?
Thanx for the advice . But i've been doing that for 18 years. I think in the back of my mind i just don't want to end up living with anyone again. I start falling for someone and then back off fast. I used to think it was because i wanted the best for my daughter when she was younger but i don't think thats it. I'm just really picky. They have to have the whole package. I was with a very beautiful petite 5' nothing spanish girl that i got pregnant before i was married, She had a miscarriage and that was it. She's the standard i measure the rest by. None have came close. I know long post right. But i haven't been able to do this face to face with anyone. So thanx for listning.
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#14 Mar 18, 2009
PoolShark wrote:
<quoted text>Again. Men - Go for a girl that was not born in the U.S. This is rule #1.
Actually my #1 was adopted from mexico and raised by a white family. Figure that one out. lol
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#15 Mar 18, 2009
Ed Deline wrote:
<quoted text>Thanx for the advice . But i've been doing that for 18 years. I think in the back of my mind i just don't want to end up living with anyone again. I start falling for someone and then back off fast. I used to think it was because i wanted the best for my daughter when she was younger but i don't think thats it. I'm just really picky. They have to have the whole package. I was with a very beautiful petite 5' nothing spanish girl that i got pregnant before i was married, She had a miscarriage and that was it. She's the standard i measure the rest by. None have came close. I know long post right. But i haven't been able to do this face to face with anyone. So thanx for listning.
I had your same problem when i was younger, kept compairing all my boyfriends to my ex (my 4 yr old's father) and thought i would never find love again, well it found me. Maybe you should just let it find you, and Pray, Pray, Pray!! It will work i promise, all you have to do is believe.. and remember, just because you're not actually looking for love doesnt mean you cant goto places to see if love is there.. you need to take a vacation to Mexico, lol. maybe love will find you there. And you are so welcome, Everyone deserves and needs to be happy!
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#16 Mar 18, 2009
Think for a Change wrote:
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Because you're smart and you want a good future for your family. 99% of the black men you meet aren't going to be able to give you that.
Thanks, and this may be true. But dont you think the 99% thing is a little extreme?
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#17 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
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I had your same problem when i was younger, kept compairing all my boyfriends to my ex (my 4 yr old's father) and thought i would never find love again, well it found me. Maybe you should just let it find you, and Pray, Pray, Pray!! It will work i promise, all you have to do is believe.. and remember, just because you're not actually looking for love doesnt mean you cant goto places to see if love is there.. you need to take a vacation to Mexico, lol. maybe love will find you there. And you are so welcome, Everyone deserves and needs to be happy!
I'm pretty shy i think i have only ever asked out 2 women in my life. I'm going to sound a little Conceited here but they usually go after me(in my younger days anyway). That may be the problem because i know i'm going to get "some". Agressive women turn me off but i'm a man so i'll take it if their good looking.:)
KUNTRYGAL

Franklin, TN

#18 Mar 18, 2009
Ed Deline wrote:
<quoted text>I'm pretty shy i think i have only ever asked out 2 women in my life. I'm going to sound a little Conceited here but they usually go after me(in my younger days anyway). That may be the problem because i know i'm going to get "some". Agressive women turn me off but i'm a man so i'll take it if their good looking.:)
l0l. sound a little conceited there, but dont worry, if true love is meant for you it will find you! I wish you lived closer to East TN. I have plenty of songle friends! Some are even spanish! But dont be afraid.. love will come your way, just pray, and ACTUALLY BELiEVE!
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#19 Mar 18, 2009
KUNTRYGAL wrote:
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l0l. sound a little conceited there, but dont worry, if true love is meant for you it will find you! I wish you lived closer to East TN. I have plenty of songle friends! Some are even spanish! But dont be afraid.. love will come your way, just pray, and ACTUALLY BELiEVE!
I know it sounds that way but i'm just telling the truth so you know where i stand. In my teens, twenties and thirties I did a lot of partying(when i didn't have my daughter). near my mid 40s now i just don't feel like going out anymore. The music is to loud and the kids are to raunchy now days. I know i'm turning into a grumpy old man but i'm fine with that. I have a lot of women friends that try to set me up with their friends or cousins but i don't get back to milwaukee much anymore and up here i don't know anyone outside of work so i usually do this or video games. I'm settling into my boring life. I just hope if i die someone will find me. lol
Ed Deline

Stevens Point, WI

#21 Mar 18, 2009
bill wrote:
<quoted text> I think black men tend to treat women bad and they like to play games alot. I mean like have other women and stuff like that. I think white men are more loyal to there women not all of them im sure but on a whole I think white men treat their women better than black men.
Actually black men treat treat their women like queens (a lot of them anyway)this keeps them off guard so they can be players.
alias

Winder, GA

#22 Mar 18, 2009
Your a dirty slut thats why.

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