To All Asian Women: Do you like Black...
Dr Rain

Surrey, Canada

#10888 Feb 22, 2014
whiteball wrote:
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I hope this isn't your resolution to some cognitive dissonance because I was offering up a friendly correction to (your?) misconception. Facts are facts. I am only here to help people who are willing to openly discuss matters objectively.

The important thing is we are all friends here. We are here to share, debate, and discuss. And so the only advice I offer you is that regardless of ethnicity and accomplishments we are ALL EQUAL. It's shortsighted to think that the world works in simple black or white terms. There are obvious filaments of shades in between that can bend, bounce, absorb, and polarize that ultimately defines a person and who they become. Ethnicity is meaningless.

Some people have those stereotypes, some people don’t. Individualism does not make an ethnic group. You, whiteball, may foster all these stereotypes, you may not. Who knows? Do you? Maybe so. But that's you.

You are obviously young (most likely in your late teens), based on your writing style, and so have a lot to still learn about the world. But for me over the years countless patients have passed through my office and one unmistakable pattern is the direct correlation between my patients' appearances and their concerns/problems. I can usually know what they are going to say the moment I see them for the first time. It's especially straightforward when parents bring their teenage daughters. Does this mean I should pigeonhole them into common stereotypes based on their appearance? Absolutely not! Could I have ever known about hereditary family histories of breast cancer based solely on their appearance prior to performing augmentation/reduction mammoplasty? Every practice is different but I tend to lean cautious with such cases because although there aren't enough conclusive studies I personally feel certain individuals may be at a higher risk of anaplastic large cell lymphoma (ALCL) due to this type of procedure. So stereotyping whole groups based on appearances is always foolish; case-by-case (person-by-person) is the way you should approach everything in life.

One last example: A few years back there was a confused and angry young woman who dropped in here briefly named Holly and I simply brought up a counter-argument of a common stereotype -- that women are innately incapable of maths and sciences as seen by, relatively speaking, their miniscule numbers in our fields. I then concluded by asking her would she then be willing to look into her (future) daughter's eyes and happily tell the child that she was incapable of a math/science career because, after all, stereotypes say so? Let's just say we never heard from her again. We obviously know this stereotype is nonsense but it persists to this day, but for Holly she never really made the connection to the bigger discussion until that moment. So you see, most people don't put much thought into their biased arguments before becoming “keyboard warriors” in forums. When the real facts and implications are presented these types of people end up never admitting to their errors and/or running for the hills so as to save face because after all, it’s more about affirmations of their beliefs than it is about searching for real answers. Further, these type of people tend to desperately cling to what they want to classify as stereotypes onto others because they are incapable of comprehending the varying (and continually changing) complexities of society. And in so doing choose the lazy route of pigeonholing whole groups into what they feel makes their world more understandable – usually with themselves at the top of it (Kings and Queens presiding over their subjects). This is a common (and unfortunate) stereotype of conservatism, especially one in how the world views America's version of conservatism.

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Dr Rain

Surrey, Canada

#10889 Feb 22, 2014
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And so I hope you don’t take away that I was making fun of or deriding you because I wasn’t, but merely trying to help by enlightening you that the world is more complex and beautiful than what you think (or want) it to be.

It is a narrow mind which cannot look at a subject from various points of view.

Cheers,
Dr. Rain
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10890 Feb 22, 2014
Those same stereo traits you claim as African Americans are, are the same traits Caucasian people "exemplified" hundreds of year over many centuries. Caucasian people didn't "slaughter, rape, pillage/plundered, conquered, enslaved, disenfranchised, manipulated, monopolized, discriminated, mutilated and a plethora of inhumane acts against humanity throughout mother earth" and it's many people and cultures as true "SAINTS"! After conquering and dominating acquiring mass wealth has made Caucasian people to appear being more civilized. That's a false stereotypical way to bestow "assimilate" good into one culture and bad "TREACHERY" upon another!

whiteball wrote:
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What is a "large number"? Where do you get this vague statistic? Are you talking about thousands? Tens of thousands? There are approximately 22 million blacks in this country.
Maybe you fall into the stereotype, and maybe you don't. Finding a few examples of non-black non-fat/trashy/ghetto women that found a black man, does not refute the stereotype. And these non-trashy non-black women would only settle for the cream of the crop black man or a good man of any race.
Most times that I do see well dressed, well mannered, generous, educated black men, they find similar black or non-black women. They find their equal as they should. But what percentage of black men fit this criteria? I would guess that less than half of white or Asian males live up to high standards, and a very low percentage from the black community.
They problem is with the rest of the black men. The stereotypical black man has the following traits:
rude,
aggressive,
hostile,
cheap,
spends all funds on clothes and bling,
does not save money for future or for children's education,
uneducated,
dishonest,
on the down low,
ok with fathering multiple children that he won't support,
doesn't like to work,
thinks everyone owes him,
big chip on his shoulder,
criminal past,
loves weed and alcohol and possibly harder drugs,
etc. etc. etc.
In what other culture do men have children with multiple women and make little to no attempt to support them? Whites, Asians, Hispanics all traditionally take care of their women and their children. Deadbeats are the lowest of the low.
I you have even half of the traits above, then you deserve the worst women society has to offer. Unfortunately, there are so many black men that fall into this category, that the good guys have to work extra hard to prove they aren't ghetto rats. That is not fair, but it is reality.
I know from personal experience.
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10891 Feb 22, 2014
It's sad humans are the most inhumane creatures of all animals, since we have the best gift of all, "reasoning"!!!

Our "rationale" isn't that of love, it's greed and selfishness and wasteful lust controlled by "ignorance & hatred eliciting folly".
Jock San

Hinckley, UK

#10892 Feb 26, 2014
where dem white womenz at?
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10893 Feb 28, 2014
Jock San?
Nice try Jackson..
Jackson

Hinckley, UK

#10894 Mar 1, 2014
Who Dat wrote:
Jock San?
Nice try Jackson..
Haha! Guess who's back!
jackson

Hinckley, UK

#10895 Mar 1, 2014
Just been watching cage fighting from Africa.

First three fights featuring white guys versus black guys. Three straight KOs for the white men.

Of course, as expected, all three blacks 'chimp out' after losing.

mandingowillsay

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#10896 Mar 2, 2014
jackson wrote:
Just been watching cage fighting from Africa.
First three fights featuring white guys versus black guys. Three straight KOs for the white men.
Of course, as expected, all three blacks 'chimp out' after losing.
Lmao! Jackson you are pathetic and like every insecure White man I ever met. You sit gripping the edge of your chair hoping the White boy wins because you constantly feel the need to illustrate your manhood and the best way to do it is by beating a BLACK MAN, Which in your tiny mind represents the epitome of male masculinity.

There is not an insecure White man I ever met that does not seem to use Black males to try and exercise or show his manhood. Tell you a story, I used to have a fat big White mate, I went out with him once and he got into an altercation with a Black guy. This Black kid was really small short even. My mate squared up to him,(something I'd never do to a much smaller guy).

They nearly fought and I stopped it. I nearly dropped my coffee when we went to a couple of girls I knows house, and he proceeded to tell one of the White girls that this massive Black guy attacked him and he put him in his place. I started laughing so hard and I asked if he was serious? The guy was way smaller than him.

I learnt from a young age, White guys constantly want to try and prove their manhood against Black men. it's the same reason the phrase "great White hope" was coined; lmao!!

That would be a great handicap if I needed the same kind of reassurance every time I saw a White boy/man go to battle with a Black boy/man, lmao!!

Wow!! Do people many White men are as insecure as Jackson? Lmao!!

Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#10897 Mar 3, 2014
The war continues..
jackson

Hinckley, UK

#10898 Mar 3, 2014
mandingowillsay wrote:
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Lmao! Jackson you are pathetic and like every insecure White man I ever met. You sit gripping the edge of your chair hoping the White boy wins because you constantly feel the need to illustrate your manhood and the best way to do it is by beating a BLACK MAN, Which in your tiny mind represents the epitome of male masculinity.
There is not an insecure White man I ever met that does not seem to use Black males to try and exercise or show his manhood. Tell you a story, I used to have a fat big White mate, I went out with him once and he got into an altercation with a Black guy. This Black kid was really small short even. My mate squared up to him,(something I'd never do to a much smaller guy).
They nearly fought and I stopped it. I nearly dropped my coffee when we went to a couple of girls I knows house, and he proceeded to tell one of the White girls that this massive Black guy attacked him and he put him in his place. I started laughing so hard and I asked if he was serious? The guy was way smaller than him.
I learnt from a young age, White guys constantly want to try and prove their manhood against Black men. it's the same reason the phrase "great White hope" was coined; lmao!!
That would be a great handicap if I needed the same kind of reassurance every time I saw a White boy/man go to battle with a Black boy/man, lmao!!
Wow!! Do people many White men are as insecure as Jackson? Lmao!!
Man, I don't have to grip anything...history has proven all we need to ever know about which race dominates physically and mentally. I don't ever recall seeing any movies like "12 years a slave" where the whites are shackled and owned. Nuff said.
serena

United States

#10899 Mar 4, 2014
Typical for a jamician man to find asian women most attracted retardation not all asian women are attrative but i dont exepect any better from uncle tom black men
n jackson

United States

#10900 Mar 4, 2014
jackson wrote:
Just been watching cage fighting from Africa.
First three fights featuring white guys versus black guys. Three straight KOs for the white men.
Of course, as expected, all three blacks 'chimp out' after losing.
I also seen black men win fights against white men you ignorant troll

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Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10901 Mar 5, 2014
Dude, you know Jackson is "bored, insecure and looking for racial response".
And after listening to all his lying about he's here to learn how to raise kids and have stimulating intellectual conversation, we may have to submit a new word to the "dictionary world" to better describe his twisted mind!
mandingowillsay wrote:
<quoted text>
Lmao! Jackson you are pathetic and like every insecure White man I ever met. You sit gripping the edge of your chair hoping the White boy wins because you constantly feel the need to illustrate your manhood and the best way to do it is by beating a BLACK MAN, Which in your tiny mind represents the epitome of male masculinity.
There is not an insecure White man I ever met that does not seem to use Black males to try and exercise or show his manhood. Tell you a story, I used to have a fat big White mate, I went out with him once and he got into an altercation with a Black guy. This Black kid was really small short even. My mate squared up to him,(something I'd never do to a much smaller guy).
They nearly fought and I stopped it. I nearly dropped my coffee when we went to a couple of girls I knows house, and he proceeded to tell one of the White girls that this massive Black guy attacked him and he put him in his place. I started laughing so hard and I asked if he was serious? The guy was way smaller than him.
I learnt from a young age, White guys constantly want to try and prove their manhood against Black men. it's the same reason the phrase "great White hope" was coined; lmao!!
That would be a great handicap if I needed the same kind of reassurance every time I saw a White boy/man go to battle with a Black boy/man, lmao!!
Wow!! Do people many White men are as insecure as Jackson? Lmao!!

mandingowillsay

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#10902 Mar 6, 2014
jackson wrote:
<quoted text>
Man, I don't have to grip anything...history has proven all we need to ever know about which race dominates physically and mentally. I don't ever recall seeing any movies like "12 years a slave" where the whites are shackled and owned. Nuff said.
Jacko but you do know Whites were slaves right?

I can post you some reading material. You should ask Hollywood why they never tell the story of this part of history. It is about what they want to project.

You do realize this is not a point?!! What type of films people make? And NO given the percentage of BLACKS in the USA it is they who dominate sports even till this day.
Asian Jennifer

Rotterdam, Netherlands

#10904 Mar 12, 2014
I am following this discussion and I am reading about education, family and stuff. But I think we are all beating around the bush. In my opinion it all boils down to physical attraction. I am an Asian (HK) young woman and I have had fantasies about black men for years, although I never dated one. I think that black gentlemen are handsome, masculine and strong. But I just wonder:

- Is it true that black gentlemen are all that well-endowed compared with normal white men? White men are already better hung than Chinese guys.
- Is it true that black gentlemen perform better in bed than whites? Or does it only hurt?
- Are there many Asian females that have experience with blacks? What do you think of them? Does size really matter?
- How is the stamina of black gentlemen compared with whites and Asians?
- What do black gentlemen think of Asian women compared to black females?

These are just questions I really want to be answered.

Since: Feb 12

New York, NY

#10905 Mar 12, 2014
Asian Jennifer wrote:
I am following this discussion and I am reading about education, family and stuff. But I think we are all beating around the bush. In my opinion it all boils down to physical attraction. I am an Asian (HK) young woman and I have had fantasies about black men for years, although I never dated one. I think that black gentlemen are handsome, masculine and strong. But I just wonder:
- Is it true that black gentlemen are all that well-endowed compared with normal white men? White men are already better hung than Chinese guys.
- Is it true that black gentlemen perform better in bed than whites? Or does it only hurt?
- Are there many Asian females that have experience with blacks? What do you think of them? Does size really matter?
- How is the stamina of black gentlemen compared with whites and Asians?
- What do black gentlemen think of Asian women compared to black females?
These are just questions I really want to be answered.
make an account and ill answer ur questions

Since: Mar 14

Rotterdam, Netherlands

#10906 Mar 13, 2014
Futureagent wrote:
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make an account and ill answer ur questions
I have! Go straight to AsianJennifer ;-)
wellthisisawkwar d

Glasgow, UK

#10907 Mar 17, 2014
im an indian guy by origins i actually dont mind whatever skin colour a girl is as long as shes decent and kind! i hope you girls can try and understand what im saying ya know

Since: Feb 12

Sunnyvale, CA

#10912 Mar 22, 2014
Black men are amazing!

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