Anonymous

Stafford, VA

#10840 Jan 2, 2014
Californian wrote:
Speaking for myself, I am not used to being around black men. I guess Asians and blacks don't usually mingle. The 2 cultures are too different. I want a man with at least some college education, high ambition who is faithful, nice, and respectful whether he is Asian or black. It's not about being materisalistic but these qualities are our identities and show how "well" we are prepared to support our future families. So if the black man has the above qualities, he'll have a higher chance of catching the Asian women's attention.
Are you trying to say black men are not educated and capable of supporting their families?
Anonymous

Stafford, VA

#10841 Jan 2, 2014
Are you trying to say that black are not educated and not capable of supporting their family?
Wake up call

Brantford, Canada

#10842 Jan 4, 2014
Anonymous wrote:
Are you trying to say that black are not educated and not capable of supporting their family?
And i wonder what the original poster thinks when they find out that most people (asians and whites) are not educated and not capable of supporting a family. When you look at the # of people on earth its really quite a tiny, tiny fraction who is in that #. So for the poster to section out blacks is just more proof that racism runs deep.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#10844 Jan 5, 2014
onlyone wrote:
The asian women never like black because they're black, idot and not respectful for sure.I hate black.
Stop trying yo speak for Asians you fool, did you program them or something idiot? Asians don't know if listen to you stupid.
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10845 Jan 7, 2014
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asiansweetheart wrote:
And not to mention I would love to date a black guy. But never had one before. I also think they are cool. And I'm not a white guy reject. LOL
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10846 Jan 7, 2014
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bronze tiger wrote:
i hoping that one day i would meet a nice asian lady
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10847 Jan 7, 2014
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Karina wrote:
i do.
black men are the most attractive race. they know how to keep a relationship lively and before going to stereotypical points, try dating a black man FIRST before you judge. ive only dated black guys and they are so sweet. i also prefer them over any other race because they know how to be a man.
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10848 Jan 7, 2014
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sweetest grl wrote:
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im asian,well kinda but i find some black guys more attractive then most white guys and even asian guys. and to all the people who think all asians have "slanted eyes" are wrong thier are different types of asians.... i.e. south eastern asians are tanned and have big eyes....
and to answer the question... some asian women arnt aattracted to black guys but not all,it depends on what the peron finds attractive and race doesnt really matter.
If an asian grl turns you down it doesnt mean all of them will.......
Irie

Shreveport, LA

#10849 Jan 8, 2014
Where I'm from I guess people are just really materialistic and its sad because it makes it impossible to find a meaningfull relationship regardless of race I mean I'm what a lot of people would call a redbone or yellowbone I'm a pretty attractive man very kind hearted open minded free spirited person yet when I asked this one girl out she stated she only dates Korean men at the time I didn't take as much offense as I should have but looking back on that situation that was pretty shallow just because someone is the same race as you has a decent education and some money doesn't mean that you will be treated like you deserve and just because I don't have it all doesn't mean I wouldn't do my best to treat the woman I talk to like a queen the physical is a key part in any relationship because you want to actually be attracted to your partner but when you diss a good man on the basis of color that's when you have made an ignorant choice its not just about Asian women its all women who do this
Just another opinion

Reno, NV

#10850 Jan 10, 2014
My dad is black, my mom is Chinese.
I really can't speak for Asian women,
But my parents love each other. 22 years of marriage lol.

When it all comes down to it, it's just preference.
Some may think black men are attractive, or see qualities in them that they like that attract them to them. Others probably don't and prefer other races. Whether it's a race issue or not, I think you prefer what you prefer lol..
dewayne

Chicago, IL

#10852 Jan 18, 2014
Weaker gene
dewayne

Chicago, IL

#10853 Jan 18, 2014
Weaker genes
dewayne

Chicago, IL

#10854 Jan 18, 2014
somehow somehow wrote:
Actually Asian women finds black guys attractive cause am in am dating one of them but the truth is the most discouraging fact is culture ....culture between black people and Asian are too far apart atleast if a male is African by original can go along with Asian girls but for people from like black America or Carribien i don find the intermingle here it's all about lies
very true
dewayne

Chicago, IL

#10855 Jan 18, 2014
Lol

Since: Feb 12

Brooklyn, NY

#10856 Jan 18, 2014
Soooooo... we gonna get back to the topic at hand?
AsianJennifer

Dordrecht, Netherlands

#10857 Jan 18, 2014
Dear Pattayagirl and Asiansweetheart, I am an AF too and Im also curious. It is said that black men are well hung. This intrigues me. Till now I only dated Asian guys and their penis size is very small. On the other hand my girlfriends who had sexual encounters with blacks told me that they perform poorly and did not satisfy them. Actually, the size of their tools only hurt. Thats why I want to ask the females here as to what they experienced with blacks. I really want to date one to see for myself, but Im in doubt...

AND FRUSTRATED MALES, YOU PLEASE, JUST SAVE ME YOUR SARCASTIC AND HOSTILE REACTIONS. I ONLY WANT GIRLS TO RESPOND!
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10859 Jan 19, 2014
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AsianJennifer wrote:
Dear Pattayagirl and Asiansweetheart, I am an AF too and Im also curious. It is said that black men are well hung. This intrigues me. Till now I only dated Asian guys and their penis size is very small. On the other hand my girlfriends who had sexual encounters with blacks told me that they perform poorly and did not satisfy them. Actually, the size of their tools only hurt. Thats why I want to ask the females here as to what they experienced with blacks. I really want to date one to see for myself, but Im in doubt...
AND FRUSTRATED MALES, YOU PLEASE, JUST SAVE ME YOUR SARCASTIC AND HOSTILE REACTIONS. I ONLY WANT GIRLS TO RESPOND!
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10860 Jan 19, 2014
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AsianJennifer wrote:
Dear Pattayagirl and Asiansweetheart, I am an AF too and Im also curious. It is said that black men are well hung. This intrigues me. Till now I only dated Asian guys and their penis size is very small. On the other hand my girlfriends who had sexual encounters with blacks told me that they perform poorly and did not satisfy them. Actually, the size of their tools only hurt. Thats why I want to ask the females here as to what they experienced with blacks. I really want to date one to see for myself, but Im in doubt...
AND FRUSTRATED MALES, YOU PLEASE, JUST SAVE ME YOUR SARCASTIC AND HOSTILE REACTIONS. I ONLY WANT GIRLS TO RESPOND!

Since: Jan 14

Houston, TX

#10861 Jan 20, 2014
I don't quite understand why this thread transformed into somewhat of a racial war. To address the initial question, I'd have to agree with what I've seen, personally, which is Asian women being more attracted to Caucasian American males than the Chocolate American Males. Chocolates are, as with any other group of people, quite capable of having very intimate relationships that consist on trust, loyalty, compassion, honor, humor, and/or any other quality you desire to find in an ideal relationship, as it pertains to you. In fact, I'd be willing to argue that dating a good Chocolate American male could be just as, if not, much more fulfilling than dating a person of any other group.
Why?
Well because there's also an element of versatility that should not go unnoticed. Because of their recent history in America, such as building the entire infrastructure of the country, creating devices used globally, such as the traffic light system (which saves millions of lives, worldwide, each year), or being the first to perform open-heart surgery, among many more things, it is well-known that their inventive minds perceive the world, differently. They are quite capable of doing the impossible! Just 50 years ago, to say a Chocolate American man would be the head of the White House, was an absurd thought, that may even get you punished for speaking. Guess what? It's not so impossible, after all.
In my opinion, if an Asian Female feels she needs to date a Caucasian American Male for status or to somehow save face, then she should seriously consider taking a look at herself in a mirror, because she lacks faith in who she is, for some reason. Honestly, I'd say that to anyone dating any person of any background for any reasons other than love. I don't believe Asian Females should completely write off Chocolate Males, simply because they are short-changing themselves, and closing the window to some potentially very prosperous and fulfilling relationships!
Chocolate American Males are portrayed, by the media, in a certain light, and we buy into the lies we see on Tell-a-Vision. It is true. Someone is telling a vision with television, and the weak-minded will believe it, every time! There is no one race or ethnic background that is better than any other race or ethnic background. They are simply different.

Since: Jan 14

Houston, TX

#10862 Jan 20, 2014
As for all the racists appearing in this thread, no matter the ethnicity, color, or whatever trait you deem worthy of justifying your ignorantly-childish behavior, you seriously need to step back, and look at yourself. Look at the people you spend the most time with. Notice the faults with that situation, and elevate beyond it. It's 2014. Remove race as a variable, and honestly think about the people you really dislike, in your own personal life. I'd be willing to bet you'd choose someone that's personally done something to you. Maybe it's your mother-in-law (hopefully not). Maybe it's the rude guy at Wal-Mart, that works the cash register in Aisle 6. Perhaps it's the guy that works in your HR department at work, that always gives you a hard time. Maybe it's your boss. Perhaps that one teacher you had in high-school, that always found a way to give you a B+, and never an A. These are examples of people you really may not like, and perhaps for good reason. There is no good reason to dislike an entire group of people, no matter how you attempt to justify it, as they've not done anything personally to you. Save your anger for people you know. Then when you find yourself angry, figure out a way to forgive the person, and peacefully resolve it. Life is too short to be filled with so much hate. Stop it!
AsianJennifer, I know you want a female's perspective, but I'd say you should try for yourself. Not everyone is going to be good in bed. Not everyone is going to be bad in bed. I'd simply request that you don't just settle. Choose someone you feel will be good for you. Build a friendship first with your Chocolate Male. Ensure it's one you're attracted to, in all ways. Physically. Mentally. Emotionally. And when the time is right, go for it. Don't be afraid to get a little agressive with him, in the bed. Play out your fantasies with him. Roleplay with him. Cosplay with him. Show him that he's worthy of your desire. Show him that you're worthy of his. There is no man like a Chocolate Man. Once you find a good one, he WILL treat you like a Queen if you do right by him.
Everyone is not a stereotype. Period.
I really hope this message reaches someone that would be willing to try something different.

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