srobin

Dehra Dun, India

#10744 Aug 13, 2013
i m a black guy ,i m post graduate and presently working in ivory coast as a professor.my phisic is 6 feet 3 inches height and a slender body,i m a single person,aged 28 years.srobin758gmail

Since: Aug 13

Toronto, Canada

#10745 Aug 15, 2013
I am a black guy - straight up dark skinned African. I just started dating Japanese girl. First, we are seniors in university. 90% of our classmates are Asians, so non Asian dating options around me are limited. We've been facebooking and texting for about six months now. Two weeks ago, I asked her out for dinner and she said yes. We went on our second date this weekend.Our conversations are always great and not awkward at all. We haven't held hands or kissed yet but we usually hug intimately.
Unfortunately, she never initiates any form of communication. I always text her first and she responds appropriately, in a way that doesn't kill the conversation (usually with smileys). She is doing very little to move the relationship forward, but she is not shy, she is the popular type who knows how to talk and has over 1000 facebook friends. Part of me feels like she likes me because usually I can easily see through the really friendly but fake ones. I also feel like she is only being nice to me. I may be getting all this hints wrong. Is this normal with Asian girls or is she not that interested in me? Also, how do we handle all the stares we get when are out in town?(I am 6'2 and she is about 5'3 and we live in Toronto).Thanks in advance for your ideas and views.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#10746 Aug 15, 2013
Maroon5 wrote:
I am a black guy - straight up dark skinned African. I just started dating Japanese girl. First, we are seniors in university. 90% of our classmates are Asians, so non Asian dating options around me are limited. We've been facebooking and texting for about six months now. Two weeks ago, I asked her out for dinner and she said yes. We went on our second date this weekend.Our conversations are always great and not awkward at all. We haven't held hands or kissed yet but we usually hug intimately.
Unfortunately, she never initiates any form of communication. I always text her first and she responds appropriately, in a way that doesn't kill the conversation (usually with smileys). She is doing very little to move the relationship forward, but she is not shy, she is the popular type who knows how to talk and has over 1000 facebook friends. Part of me feels like she likes me because usually I can easily see through the really friendly but fake ones. I also feel like she is only being nice to me. I may be getting all this hints wrong. Is this normal with Asian girls or is she not that interested in me? Also, how do we handle all the stares we get when are out in town?(I am 6'2 and she is about 5'3 and we live in Toronto).Thanks in advance for your ideas and views.
Hey brother, the problem is not the chick she sounds cool. I think the problem may be you. You are looking at her too much as unknown quantity. Treat her as you would any woman then you'll be likely to feel more relaxed with her. Women are all the same from a humanistic sense.

Since: Aug 13

Toronto, Canada

#10747 Aug 15, 2013
mandingowillsay wrote:
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Hey brother, the problem is not the chick she sounds cool. I think the problem may be you. You are looking at her too much as unknown quantity. Treat her as you would any woman then you'll be likely to feel more relaxed with her. Women are all the same from a humanistic sense.
ahah you have a point mandingowillsay, but I treat her right, having learnt the tips from my Asian guy friends. I am just being curious not to come across as clingy and desperate. She is vague and I am keen on finding out if she is reciprocating my love. Thanks.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#10748 Aug 15, 2013
Maroon5 wrote:
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ahah you have a point mandingowillsay, but I treat her right, having learnt the tips from my Asian guy friends. I am just being curious not to come across as clingy and desperate. She is vague and I am keen on finding out if she is reciprocating my love. Thanks.
Cool brother just don't waste your time thinking so much, because a more daring guy may walk in and just do what he feels instinctively. Do not treat her too much like she is some kind of queen I'm not saying be disrespectful. I'm just saying she is human and may just want you to grab her and kiss her. don't ask Asian guys what you should do, that's silly. You are not Asian and she is not expecting you to act Asian. She may be just as worried that she is not what you expect.

I've been with loads of Asian girls you are putting to much though into it and making yourself predictable and boring. Take her hand look into her eyes and dance with her. Stop pussy footing around her brother or you'll lose her.
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10749 Aug 16, 2013
Hello, Maroon5, I think Mandingo gave you good advise. Women are women. I've dated different races before I married a Japanese wife. I've also dated my share of Asian women too. When you befriend a woman who have many friends, that's what they do, they tend to be somewhat busy because other people want part of her time. She may be trying to please all of her friends and don't have enough time for all. Sometimes, the first who contact her may be the one she spend time socializing with. Then there are the close friends, she most certainly want to keep in contact with them.

As for the looks you're getting from other people, if she's willing to be with you, and she isn't worried about who's paying attention, than you shouldn't either. You may borrow trouble if you over react to your surroundings. Don't look to see who's looking at you two, concentrate on her. If you're interested in her, you need to know certain signs she'll give, letting you know if she's enjoying your company. And you can't be attentive to her if you're watching everyone else reaction. Example, if myself and my wife are out dancing, eating or whatever/where ever, we act like we're the only two people there. This means, we simply enjoy each others company.

If you haven't already, It may be time to ask her questions in personal ways and show that you care differently other than buddy friendship. Ask her how does she feel about you guys friendship, and can she see something more between you two? Got to start somewhere, somehow.
Maroon5 wrote:
I am a black guy - straight up dark skinned African. I just started dating Japanese girl. First, we are seniors in university. 90% of our classmates are Asians, so non Asian dating options around me are limited. We've been facebooking and texting for about six months now. Two weeks ago, I asked her out for dinner and she said yes. We went on our second date this weekend.Our conversations are always great and not awkward at all. We haven't held hands or kissed yet but we usually hug intimately.
Unfortunately, she never initiates any form of communication. I always text her first and she responds appropriately, in a way that doesn't kill the conversation (usually with smileys). She is doing very little to move the relationship forward, but she is not shy, she is the popular type who knows how to talk and has over 1000 facebook friends. Part of me feels like she likes me because usually I can easily see through the really friendly but fake ones. I also feel like she is only being nice to me. I may be getting all this hints wrong. Is this normal with Asian girls or is she not that interested in me? Also, how do we handle all the stares we get when are out in town?(I am 6'2 and she is about 5'3 and we live in Toronto).Thanks in advance for your ideas and views.
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10750 Aug 16, 2013
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You do you!

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Maroon5 wrote:
I am a black guy - straight up dark skinned African. I just started dating Japanese girl. First, we are seniors in university. 90% of our classmates are Asians, so non Asian dating options around me are limited. We've been facebooking and texting for about six months now. Two weeks ago, I asked her out for dinner and she said yes. We went on our second date this weekend.Our conversations are always great and not awkward at all. We haven't held hands or kissed yet but we usually hug intimately.
Unfortunately, she never initiates any form of communication. I always text her first and she responds appropriately, in a way that doesn't kill the conversation (usually with smileys). She is doing very little to move the relationship forward, but she is not shy, she is the popular type who knows how to talk and has over 1000 facebook friends. Part of me feels like she likes me because usually I can easily see through the really friendly but fake ones. I also feel like she is only being nice to me. I may be getting all this hints wrong. Is this normal with Asian girls or is she not that interested in me? Also, how do we handle all the stares we get when are out in town?(I am 6'2 and she is about 5'3 and we live in Toronto).Thanks in advance for your ideas and views.
Asian Jennifer

Dordrecht, Netherlands

#10753 Aug 18, 2013
mandingowillsay wrote:
<quoted text>
Cool brother just don't waste your time thinking so much, because a more daring guy may walk in and just do what he feels instinctively. Do not treat her too much like she is some kind of queen I'm not saying be disrespectful. I'm just saying she is human and may just want you to grab her and kiss her. don't ask Asian guys what you should do, that's silly. You are not Asian and she is not expecting you to act Asian. She may be just as worried that she is not what you expect.
I've been with loads of Asian girls you are putting to much though into it and making yourself predictable and boring. Take her hand look into her eyes and dance with her. Stop pussy footing around her brother or you'll lose her.
"I've been with loads of Asian girls." Dream on, no Asian girl will be interested in such arrogance. I for me aren't, to be clear.
Asian Jennifer

Dordrecht, Netherlands

#10754 Aug 18, 2013
srobin wrote:
i m a black guy ,i m post graduate and presently working in ivory coast as a professor.my phisic is 6 feet 3 inches height and a slender body,i m a single person,aged 28 years.srobin758gmail
You forgot the most important. Didn't you read my previous posts? We Asian girls want to know how big your ... is. Reveal it to us, please.:-b
Asian Jennifer

Dordrecht, Netherlands

#10756 Aug 18, 2013
mandingowillsay wrote:
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You are the biggest fools here. You say it is arrogance to tell the truth, and claim that Asian girls would not like that. You then go on to imply that telling Asian girls what size your dick is is what will interest Asian girls!!! You are a fool and I do not know if anyone takes you seriously here.
You are tacky, stupid and ridiculous, I'm starting to wonder if you are even an Asian woman. I doubt it very much, specially when you imply all Asian women are as tacky and stupid as you.
You keep hurting my feelings although I asked you not to do it. Why donīt you just hold your tongue and leave this forum? Everyone here is annoyed because of your insensitive, coarse and hurtful remarks. I say it once more: I donīt want you to react upon my heartfelt thoughts anymore unless you write fine and supportive reactions. If you keep hurting my feelings, I shall take action on it by reporting you.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#10757 Aug 18, 2013
Asian Jennifer wrote:
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You keep hurting my feelings although I asked you not to do it. Why donīt you just hold your tongue and leave this forum? Everyone here is annoyed because of your insensitive, coarse and hurtful remarks. I say it once more: I donīt want you to react upon my heartfelt thoughts anymore unless you write fine and supportive reactions. If you keep hurting my feelings, I shall take action on it by reporting you.
Go ahead and report me, just remember all the things you have been saying about others while you do that. I do think you are tacky and I do think you are stupid, I stand by all those claims. Everyone can see it. In fact to a degree your stupidity, has even united all the people who were arguing previously in agreement of how stupid you are.

For once I can agree with everyone here that your sweeping generalisations and dumb antidotes are becoming increasingly foolish. How can any sensible person believe that the way to impress an Asian woman is to tell her how big they are? What type of woman do you think people deal with and what type of woman are you? If you are trying to be funny you only come across as ridiculous.
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10758 Aug 19, 2013
Jennifer, if you're real an Asian woman who's sincere about what you've spoken about in this forum, on this topic, maybe it's time you take constructive criticism. It's ok to like or be attracted to whom ever you choose. But I would advise you, take more pre-meditated thoughts processing your contributions on said matter here. It's not about blurring out from the mouth without manifesting the difference between,'lackadaisical thinking and intelligently stimulating a conversation which demands respect. You're more than welcome to post. Just give a little more thought to your choice of words.

I do believe your generalization created a buzz which united a feud between posters. I also want to clarify, Mandingo isn't a bad person. He has simply responded back by the way and the choice you've chosen to word your posts. I think you meant well in a positive way, but got loss, and it ended in a general stereotypical touch of negativity tone.

Maybe, Mandingo could have given you the benefit of the doubt by first asking you to rephrase your post in a less offensive manner, but due to so many trolls coming here with a plethora of lies and games, I think he responded right off the cuff.

Give it a try, see if you can have comradery with him. Then judge at that point. It shouldn't be about who have the most support, it is about who makes the most sense!
Asian Jennifer wrote:
<quoted text>
To Mandingwillowsay: I am very angry with you cos of your harsh words.
To Jon Sack: I am very angry with you cos you agreed with mandingowillow
To Who Dat: I am also angry with you cos you more or less agreed with Mandingo
TriniMan

Scarborough, Trinidad and Tobago

#10759 Aug 21, 2013
Jamaican wrote:
Im a black Jamaican, and i have to say out of all the other races Black Jamaicans find Asian women most attractive of all. And for that person who stereotypically tries to bash black men, find some good ones and talk to them. The statistics aren't always right, there are many of us who are trying to make things better. Mind u though that our accomplishments have been twarted by those who do crap, makes us all look bad.
To add to your point is that the way the world see us blacks is the reason we don't have it easy and it takes more effort to make it out there plenty of us have a path to take those who wana be successful and take the education path and those who tierd of how they are treated takes the path that sterio type black but not only black but this is examplary in all races some what I say is our race is human and who cares about ethnicity love comes from passion and anyone can love anyone it doesn't matter if. U don't like the person they still have someone to love at the end of the day
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10760 Aug 22, 2013
Good point!
TriniMan wrote:
<quoted text>
To add to your point is that the way the world see us blacks is the reason we don't have it easy and it takes more effort to make it out there plenty of us have a path to take those who wana be successful and take the education path and those who tierd of how they are treated takes the path that sterio type black but not only black but this is examplary in all races some what I say is our race is human and who cares about ethnicity love comes from passion and anyone can love anyone it doesn't matter if. U don't like the person they still have someone to love at the end of the day

Since: May 13

Des Moines, IA

#10762 Aug 22, 2013
Hey Who Dat! I miss your posts and links. You've been quiet lately :(
Who Dat wrote:
Jennifer, if you're real an Asian woman who's sincere about what you've spoken about in this forum, on this topic, maybe it's time you take constructive criticism. It's ok to like or be attracted to whom ever you choose. But I would advise you, take more pre-meditated thoughts processing your contributions on said matter here. It's not about blurring out from the mouth without manifesting the difference between,'lackadaisical thinking and intelligently stimulating a conversation which demands respect. You're more than welcome to post. Just give a little more thought to your choice of words.
I do believe your generalization created a buzz which united a feud between posters. I also want to clarify, Mandingo isn't a bad person. He has simply responded back by the way and the choice you've chosen to word your posts. I think you meant well in a positive way, but got loss, and it ended in a general stereotypical touch of negativity tone.
Maybe, Mandingo could have given you the benefit of the doubt by first asking you to rephrase your post in a less offensive manner, but due to so many trolls coming here with a plethora of lies and games, I think he responded right off the cuff.
Give it a try, see if you can have comradery with him. Then judge at that point. It shouldn't be about who have the most support, it is about who makes the most sense!<quoted text>
Cheryn

Leigh, UK

#10763 Aug 23, 2013
I am a young asian woman, and I just about check out most young black guys, but they have no idea I'm attracted to them. I'm a little shy and reserved and have noticed that a lot of the black guys i have met are loud and have a lot of confidence especially when they are with other peers. Basically, black guys are way out of my league but never the less I do have a fetish for black guys.
Cheryn

Leigh, UK

#10764 Aug 23, 2013
I'm a South East Asian by the way
Who Dat

Houston, TX

#10765 Aug 24, 2013
Mandingo, when you read this post by Cheryn, just let it go...lol
Cheryn wrote:
I am a young asian woman, and I just about check out most young black guys, but they have no idea I'm attracted to them. I'm a little shy and reserved and have noticed that a lot of the black guys i have met are loud and have a lot of confidence especially when they are with other peers. Basically, black guys are way out of my league but never the less I do have a fetish for black guys.
jon sack

Lynn, UK

#10766 Aug 27, 2013
Cheryn wrote:
I am a young asian woman, and I just about check out most young black guys, but they have no idea I'm attracted to them. I'm a little shy and reserved and have noticed that a lot of the black guys i have met are loud and have a lot of confidence especially when they are with other peers. Basically, black guys are way out of my league but never the less I do have a fetish for black guys.
If I was a black man, I would find it very disturbing that some women say they have a "fetish" for my race. That would mean they are not interested in me as a person, but as a stereotypical object. And to say that you check out pretty much every black guy just confirms your stupidity. How would any future black boyfriend of yours feel when he finds out you're attracted to pretty much every black guy out there?
And to say that they are out of your league is just plain ridiculous.
Asian Jennifer

Dordrecht, Netherlands

#10768 Aug 28, 2013
Cheryn wrote:
I am a young asian woman, and I just about check out most young black guys, but they have no idea I'm attracted to them. I'm a little shy and reserved and have noticed that a lot of the black guys i have met are loud and have a lot of confidence especially when they are with other peers. Basically, black guys are way out of my league but never the less I do have a fetish for black guys.
Dear Cheryn, Hi! Thank you for your post, I totally agree with you. Please donīt let any harsh remarks from frustrated men put you off. Instead annoy them as cobweb, ignoring it. I am a partner of any female with the same feelings and thoughts as me myself. Iīm a HK Chinese girl myself. I would like to come to know you and echange thoughts and ideas.

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