Why are white men so attracted to asian women?

[Nicky]

I live in California, which in my opinion, has a very diverse population. But, what I see most often is, white men with asian women. Recently, i've been seeing a lot of commericals on t.v. with white men and asian women in a relationship dynamic. Can some please explain really and truly what white men see in asian women.

[Nicky]

And please, lets keep this civil.

[david]

I think its because of just general attraction and the fact that the majority of Asian women are actively seeking out white men. Its pretty common knowledge at this point and white guys are taking advantage (not in a bad way). From people I've asked the most common answer is "the exoticness" of asian girls are the most attractive feature. And most of these said women are Asian American and they just simply don't find their male counterparts attractive. Also status is important to them and asian men don't fit in at all within mainstream youth culture. One can superficially see what type of person a white guy is based on the context of pop culture. I know this is more than you asked for but basically my point is that its an assumed mutual attraction between white guys and asian girls that is now part of our cultural fabric. Well I wouldn't worry about
"losing" white guys to all the asian girls. Its like the white girl black guy phenomenon

[Think about It]

I don't know about all this. Although I'm married to an asian woman, lately I've seen quite a few white women coming here as tourists and many of them are really hot. Anyway, asian women definately aren't any better than white women.

[Think about It]

Blackwiseman wrote:

It's quite simple, It's called Citizenship! Asian Women are traned by their Parents to seek out White American males. Just like Jamaican Women seek out African American Males. "Citizenship". No rocket scientist needed on this posting column.

Not always, but citizenship rights are definately a fringe benefit that is included in the package. Obviously asian women will much more likely marry a guy if his package includes this fringe benefit.

[GDP]

david wrote:

I think its because of just general attraction and the fact that the majority of Asian women are actively seeking out white men. Its pretty common knowledge at this point and white guys are taking advantage (not in a bad way). From people I've asked the most common answer is "the exoticness" of asian girls are the most attractive feature. And most of these said women are Asian American and they just simply don't find their male counterparts attractive. Also status is important to them and asian men don't fit in at all within mainstream youth culture. One can superficially see what type of person a white guy is based on the context of pop culture. I know this is more than you asked for but basically my point is that its an assumed mutual attraction between white guys and asian girls that is now part of our cultural fabric. Well I wouldn't worry about
"losing" white guys to all the asian girls. Its like the white girl black guy phenomenon

What phenomenon is that?

[Preppy]

Nicky wrote:

I live in California, which in my opinion, has a very diverse population. But, what I see most often is, white men with asian women. Recently, i've been seeing a lot of commericals on t.v. with white men and asian women in a relationship dynamic. Can some please explain really and truly what white men see in asian women.

I live in Los Angeles, Ca and the volume of straight white males with Asian women is truly amazing. It is almost an epidemic. Almost all day everyday, all I see is white male / Asian female couples.

If it is a straight white male over the age of 16, an Asian female is usually attached. I think that Asian women have an obsession about and with whiteness and to a lesser extent view themselves and Asian men as inferior.

I think white men go for Asian women because of the sexy girlish appeal that Asian women have. Asian women tend to have a stronger family and social values than some non-Asian women. Asian women don’t have an attitude problem like some non-Asian women.

It just seems very odd to see one group not date and marry their own in such larger numbers.

However, I think that Asian women are smarter and more logical than non-Asian women.

[Think about It]

Preppy wrote:

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I live in Los Angeles, Ca and the volume of straight white males with Asian women is truly amazing. It is almost an epidemic. Almost all day everyday, all I see is white male / Asian female couples.
If it is a straight white male over the age of 16, an Asian female is usually attached. I think that Asian women have an obsession about and with whiteness and to a lesser extent view themselves and Asian men as inferior.
I think white men go for Asian women because of the sexy girlish appeal that Asian women have. Asian women tend to have a stronger family and social values than some non-Asian women. Asian women don’t have an attitude problem like some non-Asian women.
However, I think that Asian women are smarter and more logical than non-Asian women.

"It just seems very odd to see one group not date and marry their own in such larger numbers."

But you aren't seeing the whole picture here. Asians, as a whole, almost always marry someone of their own race. I doubt that more than 2% of asian women worldwide marry someone outside of their race, and I doubt that more than 5% of white women marry someone outside of their own race. Despite all the hoopla regarding interracial relationships in the US, it really isn't that common in general.

[Think about It]

GDP wrote:

<quoted text>What phenomenon is that?

You could call that the "Media Hype" phenomenon. It is obvious that interracial mixing is being encourage and promoted- especially in the US and a handful of other Western countries. I've also noticed that during tv programmes where their is a large audience, the cameramen will often search throughout the audience to try to find an interracial couple to target because that, evidently, is the "in" (or PC) thing to do- despite the fact that throughout the audience of perhaps 500 people there might be 4 or 5 interracial couples. The reality is that interracial relationships aren't really that common, and the interracial relationships that you claim to be so popular in the US aren't all that. In fact, what few their are there seem to be faddish, and like all fads, will eventually fizzle out.

[freespirit]

i am sex asian guy..I do find is great that white guys couple with asian girls.. they all loom happy with each other, especially the girls...i found some quite avg looking asians girls so lucky to be with some handsome white guys

its great that there is these coupling of gene white/asian, is the best..it give beautiful babies ;)) best of both world

[freespirit]

in china, its is highly regarded that european guysdated many chinese girls..and girls are prouded being ask out and flirted with white guys..its all good for the genes ...

[williby]

White women won't take White guys sh!t anymore. She gets the house, car, bank accounts,(younger guys), the vacation home, alimony and child support. The new age white woman.

On the other hand, the Asian woman is submissive (or generally viewed as such). She seeks to maintain the ideal lifestyle, i.e., home, car, husband,(or the all-american image). Regardless of the hardships (of the relationship) she endures to maintain this image. The white woman will file for divorce in a heartbeat.

The Asian male is too dominant towards Asian females, in that she is regarded as a third class being, whose sole mission is to be a good wife, mother, homemaker, etc. She is to never see herself as equal to her Asian mate.

To overcome this, she submits to euro-american (male) written laws of society. The contradiction being she submits to her white mate, albeit under different principles. One basis of the attraction to the white male is the self hate she's been taught by white society, or hatred of her own race. Dating the white male is her way of attempting to atone for being Asian, while attempting to escape complete subjegation by Asian cultural norms.

Asian are viewed with utter contempt by European culture as a whole (particularly American culture). They're seen as slant eyed, sneaky and untrustworthy. NOTICE THE ASIAN WHO TRY TO FIT INTO WHITE CULTURE ALWAYS WEAR SUNGLASSES? This is an attempt to minimize the slant eyeness. Another characteristic of the Asian is they readily attempt to embrace white racism towards blacks, not realizing the whites hold them in greater contempt.

[Preppy]

freespirit wrote:

in china, its is highly regarded that european guysdated many chinese girls..and girls are prouded being ask out and flirted with white guys..its all good for the genes ...

Strange, I have heard that before but never on the internet.

[Preppy]

williby wrote:

White women won't take White guys sh!t anymore. She gets the house, car, bank accounts,(younger guys), the vacation home, alimony and child support. The new age white woman.
On the other hand, the Asian woman is submissive (or generally viewed as such). She seeks to maintain the ideal lifestyle, i.e., home, car, husband,(or the all-american image). Regardless of the hardships (of the relationship) she endures to maintain this image. The white woman will file for divorce in a heartbeat.
The Asian male is too dominant towards Asian females, in that she is regarded as a third class being, whose sole mission is to be a good wife, mother, homemaker, etc. She is to never see herself as equal to her Asian mate.
To overcome this, she submits to euro-american (male) written laws of society. The contradiction being she submits to her white mate, albeit under different principles. One basis of the attraction to the white male is the self hate she's been taught by white society, or hatred of her own race. Dating the white male is her way of attempting to atone for being Asian, while attempting to escape complete subjegation by Asian cultural norms.
Asian are viewed with utter contempt by European culture as a whole (particularly American culture). They're seen as slant eyed, sneaky and untrustworthy. NOTICE THE ASIAN WHO TRY TO FIT INTO WHITE CULTURE ALWAYS WEAR SUNGLASSES? This is an attempt to minimize the slant eyeness. Another characteristic of the Asian is they readily attempt to embrace white racism towards blacks, not realizing the whites hold them in greater contempt.

That was one of those most interesting things I have read on topix. You have a very powerful writing style! How did arrive at conclusions?

[Momma Shoua]

white men find other nationalities exquisite and want to taste as do women who seek the opposite

[Momma Shoua]

because most asian men are short haha which there's nothing wrong but more and more asian women tend to be taller than the guy and believe me when i say i'm pretty tall for an asian woman so mine has to be taller and i'm glad he is or else i'd have to chose my heels over him haha (kidding)

[A girl]

"because most asian men are short haha which there's nothing wrong but more and more asian women tend to be taller than the guy and believe me when i say i'm pretty tall for an asian woman so mine has to be taller and i'm glad he is or else i'd have to chose my heels over him haha (kidding) "
Momma Shoua, that's a very refreshing thought because it had happen to me before. And that the asian girl probably likes the affection that the white men are showing, holding hands etc, confidence during the chase.

[Carl]

I "used to" think Asian women were really cute.
(meaning I didn't change my mind but have pretty much gotten past "it". There are cute or attractive women from every background)

I've often read or heard things about stereotypes of Asian women being passive. And this being a reason.

Personally, I do not find passiveness attractive at all. If 'so-and-so' doesn't ask me out, she's not interested. Too many people misinterpret being nice as meaning being interested. Do you even have the same interests?

[lucie marie]

Preppy wrote:

<quoted text>
I live in Los Angeles, Ca and the volume of straight white males with Asian women is truly amazing. It is almost an epidemic. Almost all day everyday, all I see is white male / Asian female couples.
If it is a straight white male over the age of 16, an Asian female is usually attached. I think that Asian women have an obsession about and with whiteness and to a lesser extent view themselves and Asian men as inferior.
I think white men go for Asian women because of the sexy girlish appeal that Asian women have. Asian women tend to have a stronger family and social values than some non-Asian women. Asian women don’t have an attitude problem like some non-Asian women.
It just seems very odd to see one group not date and marry their own in such larger numbers.
However, I think that Asian women are smarter and more logical than non-Asian women.

I also live in L.A and am stunned by this as well. One day I noticed all day long I hadn't seen one white guy with a non asian girl. Every couple I saw was white guy/asian girl. But I do know some guys who aren't attracted to asian women, but they also don't like white girls anymore. All I ever read about is how men love a strong, independant,sexy, girl with nice boobs! Clearly this isn't true. And I know some pretty hot, smart, nice white women who are so kind with great educations!!!!

[lucie marie]

Momma Shoua wrote:

white men find other nationalities exquisite and want to taste as do women who seek the opposite

I don't. I unfortunately am attracted to my race the most. Then maybe some hispanics but not many. I just so happen to love white men the most and I can understand why asian women would too.