My husband's affair is killing me
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Jason

Hazel Green, AL

#129 Oct 29, 2010
Pam, have you ever considered the possibility that your husband may eventually marry this woman and she may manipulate him into giving her the business and leaving your sons with nothing?
Jason

Hazel Green, AL

#130 Oct 29, 2010
Interesting that this woman's husband is trying to put the blame on you. This tells me he doesn't have the guts to confront your husband. Definitely DO NOT retain a local attorney - drive down to Grand Island and hire someone who will work for you. If possible try to record any threats made against you and give the tapes to your attorney.
Pam

Burwell, NE

#131 Oct 29, 2010
Thanks to All of you for helping me. I am seeing a counselor, and my family doctor put me on zoloft for my depression. However, these things only give hime fuel for his fire. He tells his bimbo that he had to get away from me because I am mentally unstable. People, I never had these issues until this happened! Maybe if this had happened in my twenties before I had spent decades working so hard, and being the best person I thought I could be it wouldn't be so devastating to me! I have no identity left! I go to work and I still do the best job I can, I am admired by my peers, and keep advancing in my workplace, but none of it brings me any satisfaction. I guess it's a bit like the plain, but nice and intelligent, teenage girls who are crushed and forever scarred when they are passed over for the cheerleader time and time again! It takes the life out of you.

“Carol”

Since: May 10

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#132 Oct 29, 2010
Pam wrote:
Thanks to All of you for helping me. I am seeing a counselor, and my family doctor put me on zoloft for my depression. However, these things only give hime fuel for his fire. He tells his bimbo that he had to get away from me because I am mentally unstable. People, I never had these issues until this happened! Maybe if this had happened in my twenties before I had spent decades working so hard, and being the best person I thought I could be it wouldn't be so devastating to me! I have no identity left! I go to work and I still do the best job I can, I am admired by my peers, and keep advancing in my workplace, but none of it brings me any satisfaction. I guess it's a bit like the plain, but nice and intelligent, teenage girls who are crushed and forever scarred when they are passed over for the cheerleader time and time again! It takes the life out of you.
Dear sweet Pam so glad you came to read,Honey I am praying for your strength,Pam He is the one that taking another woman,By law you can throw his A** out,you get everything since you have a child,( so it's the law in ala.) From your post you have friends,sounds like you are steady so hold that head up,shoulders back and fall in love with self! You don't need no body,you are dependant of self so recogonize this,Proud you took Patty's advice and getting help,listen to the doc and pull yourself together,We only know you through forum but you sound like a person I'd love to have as a close neighbor and friend, we're rooting for you Pam so get er together, Please, Caring for you here in Albama.
(((((((((( Pam))))))))))

“Carol”

Since: May 10

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#133 Oct 30, 2010
Jason wrote:
Interesting that this woman's husband is trying to put the blame on you. This tells me he doesn't have the guts to confront your husband. Definitely DO NOT retain a local attorney - drive down to Grand Island and hire someone who will work for you. If possible try to record any threats made against you and give the tapes to your attorney.
Good advice Jason.
shaba

Male, Maldives

#135 Mar 10, 2013
I had the same problem, can anyone help me
shaba

Male, Maldives

#136 Mar 10, 2013
there is no one can help me plz help me plz me
Sally

Melbourne, Australia

#141 Jul 15, 2014
Dont hate yourself. Everything will be ok. Looks dont mean anything and they fade with age (as will hers). Being educated, mature with a good heart will get you anywhere you need to be.

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