Live with boyfriend and he wont marry me

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janice

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#22
Nov 2, 2011
 
Nia_ wrote:
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Curious as to why this matters to you? We were addressing pool shark not you
u had a point. A good person would never sleep around with a numerous of women but never wanted to make any commitments with anyone of them. Guys go to Thailand, Philippine or Mexico mainly just look for sex and pay less. Wise women would never be fooled by those guys.
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#23
Nov 2, 2011
 
Glorie wrote:
13 years living with boyfriend. He finally says I dont want to ever marry again. I felt i have wasted so much time. I am ready to move but NO money. Does anyone have a suggestion. Dont really want to beg a church. LOST.
Just would like to tell my story.I have been with a fellow for 18 years now.We went through the ready to get married and then not.Now we are getting along perfect.Still a little ups and downs.We have one child toghter. I truly believe he is the one for me.Where we have been through hard times and always made it.If u could just stay with family for a few days to let him see how it is without you.Something happened life-threating to me and he woke right up.you r the only one who can make that decesion.I wish you all the beauty the world has to offer.I'll pray for u if u don't mind.My family prayed for me and its starting to work out. I'm 32 years old please write back.
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#24
Nov 2, 2011
 
I would say I would never move in with a guy if I knew he would never want to settle down. Why wasted of 13 years? Out there will always have guys who are serious in relationships. You will meet him eventually. You need a faithful and an honest man. You don't need a smart 'butt' guy. I always am careful with guys like that. Good luck!

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#26
Dec 6, 2011
 
Pool Shark wrote:
<quoted text>Why should he marry you? That's for a woman's benefit. Name me one advantage he gets if he marries you.
Easy dude.. don't be so insensitive person.

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#27
Dec 6, 2011
 
Honestly i think its more to do with a lot of guys afraid of committment. I was in the same situation with my man and ultimately it was fine because in a way by being a part it makes the bond stronger for mych longer.

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#28
Dec 6, 2011
 
But not all man are afraid of commitment..

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#29
Dec 6, 2011
 
CyrusTheVirus wrote:
But not all man are afraid of commitment..
I didnt say all...i said "a lot".

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#30
Dec 6, 2011
 
I know.. from your point of view what make men afraid to commit?
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#31
May 9, 2012
 
Really what is the big issue. why cant people be together and be happy. you women want all this shit from us men. stop reading the dam fairy books stop watching life time and all that other bs shows on tv. maybe he just wants to be with the women he loves why does that have to have a ring and a peice of paper attached to it. you women dont know what you want you change your dam mind all the time. look at it this way i have a man that loves me and wants to be with me LET MARRIAGE GO!!
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#32
May 18, 2012
 
Ive been exclusive with my boyfriend for two years and best friends for 10. We've been living together now for almost a year and a half. I love him with all my heart. He talks to me all the time about spending forever with me and our future. He's mentioned to me several times that he wants to marry me, but he never does anything about it. I live talked to him on a few occasions to tell him the I wanted to get married and I didn't want to end up being "that girl" who stays years and years with her boyfriend without a marriage. I'm 29 and he's 32. We got into a argument and I brought up the fact that he's not proposing or showin any signs of wanting to Marry me. I feel like he keeps
Making up excuses. I left the house this morning and told him I wanted a real commitment..... He keeps telling me he does want to marry me but never does anything about it......did I make the right decision?
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#33
May 31, 2012
 
Chrissy wrote:
If you want to get married, and he is not willing to give you that, then you need to ask yourself how long you are prepared to wait for something that *may* or may not happen. I speak from personal experience on this one. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 years-since I was 19 and in college-and we own a house together. We do not have any children. Marriage was never an issue for me until the last 4 years, and the fact that he still hasn't married me even though he knows that it is important to me says it all. He kept telling me the *someday* thing too, but someday never happened. It pretty much ruined the great relationship we once had. As time goes on and he is not meeting your needs(ie:marriage, meanwhile his are being met, you will become very resentful. I am leaving after 15 years and starting over. It is hard, because I can't imagine my life without him, but if he loved me even half as much as I loved him, then he would be dying to marry me. These men have no reason to marry us bc they already get all the benefits of marriage without actually having to make the commitment. Believe me it is a dealbreaker when one wants marriage and the other doesn't. My advice is if you can be happy with your relationship without ever getting married, stay. If marriage is what you really want, get out bc you are probably not going to get that from him, no matter how great things are otherwise.
After all is said and done, what happened? I'm in the same boat. Together 13 years since I was 18. No kids either and that's the killer part.
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#34
May 31, 2012
 
foolish wrote:
Really what is the big issue. why cant people be together and be happy. you women want all this shit from us men. stop reading the dam fairy books stop watching life time and all that other bs shows on tv. maybe he just wants to be with the women he loves why does that have to have a ring and a peice of paper attached to it. you women dont know what you want you change your dam mind all the time. look at it this way i have a man that loves me and wants to be with me LET MARRIAGE GO!!
.....or look at it as, if it means so much to us and so little to you and we want so desperately to have it, why cant you just give it to us?
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#36
Jan 22, 2013
 
Well, you could be even a bigger idiot like me. We talked about marriage, picked out my engagement ring (which he bought and walked out of the store with), found a house, moved in together, etc. It's been 1 year now and I have never be proposed to. How shitty of a deal is that. My self esteem has dropped to nothing. I'm so depressed about the whole situation. I made the biggest mistake ever by moving in together and letting him have all the benefits of a wife. (by the way, he pays the rent and I pay everything else).
Lillith

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#37
Jan 25, 2013
 
Cut your losses:

Get a job,
Move out (or, tell him to),
and start a new life.

If he really cares for you, he'll come running back with a ring in his hand.

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