Hampton, VA

#1 May 18, 2013
It's been 6 months since this guy moved; I haven't seen him or talked to him since. We started becoming really close friends, and he even asked me out (a week before he told me he was going to move). I turned him down, saying that we should get to know each other more. We were "friends with benefits"... Everyone suported out relationship and said that we were going to be the cutest couple ever... until he had to move (Nov 2012). I miss him a lot... But is it time to move on ?

Since: May 13

Des Moines, IA

#2 May 18, 2013
So let me get this straight...you guys were having animal sex constantly and your friends and famiyl supported this but you guys never knew much about each other and never went on a first date? And now you miss him?

Sounds like yuo are a slut who hasn't discovered what a vibrator is.

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#3 May 23, 2013
I'm old school, so the term "friends with benefits" blows my mind. I'm not surprised that you haven't seen nor heard from him because your (connection) didn't involve a commitment or an understanding. I'm a little confused about something, so you turned him down when he asked you out, but not for the (benefits). I'm sorry, this doesn't make sense to me. I hope you know that your body is a temple, and you shouldn't just give it to anyone. You mentioned that everyone supported your relationship. I don't think he realized that you had a relationship because if he had he would have called you by now. This is the very reason it's not a good idea to involve (sex) until you know the intentions of the guy. Your emotions are going haywire, and he hasn't given it another thought because he has a new life in a new place. The answer to your question is yes, but you never had a relationship so technically moving on is irrelevant. It might be a good idea to drop the term "friends with benefits" because benefits are offered as a reward. Please think about the importance of your self worth because you are worthy of respect, but you have to demand it. We allow the treatment that we receive. I hope you will LOVE yourself better in the future. I wish you the best. http://talkingheart2heart.com

West Mifflin, PA

#4 Jun 1, 2013
youtube.com/watch... Lucky It Is

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