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Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3084 Jun 5, 2013
There was the 20-year-old UCI economics major who swears that Asian women's vaginas "feel different somehow—very smooth and naturally lubricated." Or the guy who sauntered up to me and asked, "You must be great with a chopstick, huh?"

Wink, wink.

It pisses us off—no, I don't want to see your killer Chinese-character tat; it probably doesn't mean what you think it means—but we're not sure what we can do but laugh.

"It's been happening so long I just let it roll off my back," Christina says. "I used to have a mouthful for every guy, but they'd just laugh at me and say,'Oh, she's a feisty one!'"

***

I was the 10-year-old girl swooning and singing along with Rivers Cuomo over the three-chord riffs of Weezer's "El Scorcho," that song about half-Japanese girls that do it to him every time. Oblivious to its implications, I was pleased that the man in the Buddy Holly glasses had a penchant for Asian girls because, you know, that way I actually had a chance. It was better than being invisible. After all, how many times did I come across references to Asians on television or radio? Let's see, there was professional tennis player Michael Chang, who provoked squeals of delighted pride from my parents, the unsportiest people you'll ever meet, whenever his matches were on television. And there was Margaret Cho and her hopelessly unfunny, short-lived ABC comedy series, American Girl. And that just about wraps it up.

I was a year into college, still listening to Cuomo as he referenced Madama Butterfly, when a friend pointed out that Cuomo was merely exoticizing and objectifying Asian women, the social phenomenon that is Asiaphilia
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3085 Jun 5, 2013
And just like that, my favorite Weezer album, Pinkerton, suggested a disturbing question: Was Cuomo, the god of cutesy, simple-but-not rock—the guy I'd been so thrilled at merely standing near at the Roxy a few years before—was he actually a quasi-racist, ignorant Asiaphile?

And even if he was, would he ever call?

***

Asian fetishism has a long history of being brushed off as a compliment, rather than offensive or bigoted. I've been told I ought to be flattered that so many non-Asian men "prefer" Asians and Asian American women. But the coalescing of an ethnicity into a whole, whether exotic, erotic, oversexed or virginal, is a real issue, collectively and individually.(I guess when it comes to stereotypes, Asian women have it better than Asian men do. There are two main themes when it comes to Asian male stereotypes: virginal and emasculated. Not to mention that super-fun myth that goes something like this: small stature equals small penis equals small chance of pleasure.)

Asiaphilia brings with it a set of more intimate considerations. I get to wonder if the man chatting me up is genuinely interested in me or interested in the idea of what he supposes me to be: demure and submissive, the forever-faithful geisha girl/bedroom toy.

The overwhelming ratio of males with Asiaphilic attraction to females suggests that this fetishization isn't based on looks alone. Asiaphiles are looking for authority in their romantic relationships, premeditated or not.

This issue moved out of the theoretical and into the personal when I dated a white boy I met in college.

"Do you like boba," he asked me.

"I don't."
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3086 Jun 5, 2013
Ever visited the Japanese Garden at Huntington Library?"

"I have, but I prefer the Shakespeare Garden."

"Ever read The Art of War?"

I was devastated. Couldn't he see I was into the same things he was—Dostoevsky, early '90s shoegazer music and Indian food?

It hurt. When someone homogenizes an entire race of people—even if that homogenization tends toward desirable—that someone is creating a wall between himself and the person in question. No one likes to be treated as an outsider, especially in the only country she's ever known as home.

Things got worse when I heard the story of my friend Lydia, whose boyfriend's Asiaphilic tendencies didn't reveal themselves for months. By the end of the relationship, the guy had become an East Asian Studies/Chinese language double major, and never missed a chance to converse with her family in their native Mandarin. When she wasn't around, he'd call her father to go out for Chinese food.

He's gone, but his impact on Lydia remains.

"It always crosses my mind," she says, "that I'm replaceable."

***
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3087 Jun 5, 2013
As all good Asian-American Studies minors know, the roots of Asiaphilia are planted in the soil of colonialism. Our European forefathers, viewing any foreign culture as backward, erased what they could of indigenous custom and inscribed upon the people their own authority. Thus did bloom the stereotype of Asian docility, submissiveness and lotus blossom beauty.

It's arguable that Asiaphilia, ironically, stems from legal attempts to exclude Asian Americans from the United States. The criteria by which many Asian women were permitted to enter the U.S. were not exactly morally sound: prostitutes, picture brides, war brides, mail-order brides. Sexuality was a prerequisite for refuge in the United States.

On the other hand, Asiaphilia flourishes in California, where Asians make up 12 percent of the population. If you doubt me, go to the clubs to see it—whether an average dance club or the booking clubs traditionally haunted by Asian men and women looking for significant others.

At booking clubs, women—normal, everyday girls, notpaid professionals—gather in the center of the room while men in surrounding booths literally take their pick. Waiters drag girls from the dance floor to their tables. They even drag them from the restroom. But the women are there of their own accord, just as desperate as the guys "booking" them. The thinking goes that if the men can afford the tables they've purchased for the night—from $200 to $500—they're likely a prosperous match.

With that kind of calculation, it's little wonder that booking clubs welcome an increasing number of Anglo male patrons. Nicolas Cage once frequented Los Angeles' largest such club, Le Prive; it was widely reported in Korean American newspapers—and with absolutely no disdain—that Nicolas met his Korean American wife at a booking club.

***
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3088 Jun 5, 2013
Read the rest of the story above by clicking on the link I've provided above.
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3089 Jun 5, 2013
What's wrong with this video?

http://www.youtube.com/watch...
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3090 Jun 5, 2013
Published On February 5, 2013 | By Dave | dating, humor, race



They’re only two posts in, and this might already be one of the greatest Tumblr ideas yet. Creepy White Guys is putting a spotlight on the type of messages Asian girls receive and it’s hilarious. Here’s one entry:

A man who is distinguished, wealthy, competes in triathlons… AND is white?!? Ai yaah, I must call mother already and tell her I am ready to get married! How wonderful that as an Asian woman, I am on the same level as the cars you drive and the many homes you own! It must be my docile nature and long silky hair.. PUKE!!!!!

Two things though. I don’t know why it’s only white dudes because I know all non-Asians are prone to saying some funky shit towards my Asian sisters out there. Also, I bet this is going to piss off the angry Asian dudes who hate seeing white guys ‘steal our women’. I’m sure this new Tumblr isn’t here to fuel that rage but to shed some light on these awkward and ignorant attempts so it doesn’t happen anymore happens less. So, don’t bust a forehead vein over this, fellas. Personally, I’m not mad at interracial dating (a few of my cousins are married to some great white guys) but I do find it a little weird when a white dude will ONLY go out with Asian girls.

Anyway, check out the blog and be sure to follow it here.

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Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3091 Jun 5, 2013
A must see video...lmfao

http://www.youtube.com/watch...
Tony mcmurray

Atlanta, GA

#3092 Jun 8, 2013
Have all of you gone mad. It's no compliment that I women wants you for money or power on even a big dick. And it's not smart to Launch insults just to further your cause.
Tony mcmurray

Atlanta, GA

#3093 Jun 8, 2013
In the words of a famous and very rich man. "I don't care why she wants me, as long as she wants me".

Since: Jan 12

Chicago, IL

#3094 Jun 8, 2013
Tony mcmurray wrote:
Have all of you gone mad. It's no compliment that I women wants you for money or power on even a big dick. And it's not smart to Launch insults just to further your cause.
Glad to see u are finally growing up Jackson.
And welcome back to Atlanta.
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3095 Jun 9, 2013
What, that tramp is trying to sneak back in here as another troll?
Voice of Reasonings wrote:
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Glad to see u are finally growing up Jackson.
And welcome back to Atlanta.
miss tanya

United States

#3096 Jun 9, 2013
Tarzan wrote:
I am a White Man and I just kicked my Asian Wife out and I chose to date a Black Woman. I am surprised how much the Black Women went after a White Single Man like myself.
The Black Men do not know what they are missing when they leave their Black Women for the White/Asian Women to parade around.
i this this is fablous
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3097 Jun 9, 2013
Williams beats Sharapova for 2nd French Open title
By HOWARD FENDRICH (AP Tennis Writer)| The Associated Press – Sat, Jun 8, 2013 7:58 PM EDT

http://sports.yahoo.com/news/french-hopes-fad...
Holly

United States

#3098 Jun 10, 2013
Shivi wrote:
That's not entirely fair. You should go easy on him.

He is definitely aged somewhere between 13-17 years old based on how his writing skill level and so its understandable that he is still having identity issues and trying to figure out how to be comfortable in his own skin. We were all like that when younger. My youngest brother is the same way. He will grow out of it. Most kids eventually do.
OMG i was thinking the same thing! I remember having a short talk with him way back and could tell right away by how he writes he was obviously someone's small kid who was able to sneak his mom's computer away. I really wish topix had a way to filter out by age groups. it would help make reading grown up posts easier.

Nice meeting you. You're really beautiful.

“Virtue flourishes among equals”

Since: Dec 12

Gothenburg, Sweden

#3099 Jun 10, 2013
Who Dat wrote:
Williams beats Sharapova for 2nd French Open title
By HOWARD FENDRICH (AP Tennis Writer)| The Associated Press – Sat, Jun 8, 2013 7:58 PM EDT
http://sports.yahoo.com/news/french-hopes-fad...
Saw the match live on tv here. Not sure if you got it over there. I am a huge tennis fan.

Serena Williams is definitely the greatest female tennis player i have ever seen. She is on track to pass Navratilova in titles soon.
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3100 Jun 11, 2013
Of course we can view all major tennis matches around the world. In championship matches, usually, the women play Saturdays and the men play sundays.

I love that game.
Sapientia et Veritas wrote:
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Saw the match live on tv here. Not sure if you got it over there. I am a huge tennis fan.
Serena Williams is definitely the greatest female tennis player i have ever seen. She is on track to pass Navratilova in titles soon.
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3101 Jun 11, 2013
Now if we could just get this king of situation under control.

Pictured: Santa Monica college gunman John Zawahri, 23, who went on shooting rampage killing four because he was angry at parents divorce

By Staff 06/09/2013 10:41:00 // Headline | Pictured: Santa Monica college gunman John Zawahri, 23, who went on shooting rampage killing four because he was angry at parents divorce

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NRA, YOU'RE NOT READY TO SUPPORT GUN CONTROL YET???
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3102 Jun 11, 2013
Now if we could just get this king of situation under control.

Pictured: Santa Monica college gunman John Zawahri, 23, who went on shooting rampage killing four because he was angry at parents divorce

By Staff 06/09/2013 10:41:00 // Headline | Pictured: Santa Monica college gunman John Zawahri, 23, who went on shooting rampage killing four because he was angry at parents divorce

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NRA, YOU'RE NOT READY TO SUPPORT GUN CONTROL YET???

http://www.capitalbay.com/headline/349666-pic...
Who Dat

Sugar Land, TX

#3103 Jun 11, 2013
If they're angry, just find somebody black to beat huh?

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/lookout/video-cap...

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