LEE ANN

Old Saybrook, CT

#3320 Oct 23, 2012
Beatthesystem wrote:
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Ah Leeann. it's so hard to go through the trials and tribulations of bringing up children, only to witness them having all the stress one had oneself, and maybe more.. It does make you wonder , what's it all for..
I know what you mean about the control thing.. so are your son and your grandson's mother still together... I thought they were apart?
I'm sure your grandson knows you love him.. bless him.. and you , and his dad..
I work in social services, mental health team for older people..
How was your day..? x
my day was good, i am a Eucharist minster (JUST FINISH MY CLASS) and will be going to the different nursing homes to give out communion as well the home bound.Keeps me focus on God and i really need to do that with all the drama going on in my life..... My son is not living with devil women but i really think he wants her back; I HAVE NO IDEA WHY ALL she has done is hurt him. But all i can do is love him and be there for him and pray... Well hon need to get dinner going. Chat soon. god bless you.
Holly

Los Angeles, CA

#3321 Oct 23, 2012
Beatthesystem wrote:
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Hi there, Holly!
Sounds like you are ok, that's good..
No news yet, my son has his date for court early november..
Things have got worse because now he barely sees his children, their mother now claims they don't want to go to see him..
which is crazy because they always have such a nice time together..
I hope in some round about way it will work in my sons favour, as he said in his report to the court that the longer it goes on, the worse it will get.. now it has..so they will see the proof of that..
We all missed to see my older grandaughter around her birthday..
I sent a card and present and a nice letter each for both girls, with an SAE and writing paper for them to reply.. goodness knows if they ever received them, and I will not expect a reply...:-(
Thanks Holly, that is lovely of you to offer to show me around.. what an adventure that would be, for me...!
and likewise when you come to UK, you are welcome over to our place to see a modest corner of the world...or i would meet you where you are if time is limited for you..
Big hugs to you too...:-)
Hello Beatthesystem! You are such a sweet and lovely grannie! I hope you have received a reply letter from your grand daughters. You deserve it. It is such a pain for any family to go through this, but it is how the world is, and there is not much we can fix it. I hope your son should have the final decision from the Court by now. However, I hope you should be joyful of welcoming a new grandchild to come into this world and it adds a new member to your family :-), congratulations!! I hope you take good care of yourself! Big Hugs!
P.S. My school and work have taken my time, so I am sorry!

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3323 Oct 26, 2012
LEE ANN wrote:
<quoted text>my day was good, i am a Eucharist minster (JUST FINISH MY CLASS) and will be going to the different nursing homes to give out communion as well the home bound.Keeps me focus on God and i really need to do that with all the drama going on in my life..... My son is not living with devil women but i really think he wants her back; I HAVE NO IDEA WHY ALL she has done is hurt him. But all i can do is love him and be there for him and pray... Well hon need to get dinner going. Chat soon. god bless you.
good for you, Leeann, i'm sure you give other people comfort and hope..
If we lived nearby we would probably bump into each other..!

i hope that your son will finally be free of her clutches.. although with their child in common, she will never fully go away.. still, if he frees himself emotionally , that would be a big step forward.

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3324 Oct 26, 2012
Holly wrote:
<quoted text>Hello Beatthesystem! You are such a sweet and lovely grannie! I hope you have received a reply letter from your grand daughters. You deserve it. It is such a pain for any family to go through this, but it is how the world is, and there is not much we can fix it. I hope your son should have the final decision from the Court by now. However, I hope you should be joyful of welcoming a new grandchild to come into this world and it adds a new member to your family :-), congratulations!! I hope you take good care of yourself! Big Hugs!
P.S. My school and work have taken my time, so I am sorry!
hi Holly, that's lovely of you to say.. I hope that I can be, again, sometime soon.
No reply letter , despite the SAE's enclosed... I saw my younger grandaughter briefly and she had no recollection of the letter.. I guess her older sister would give a more accurate answer, but i havent seen her for weeks, and neither has my son.
The court case is less than two weeks away now for my son, i am helping to prepare my son's presentation, as he is representing himself; whereas 'she who must be in control' has a solicitor... she must have more money than she lets on, or someone is funding her.
Yes, my new grandchild is coming very soon.. yes, i am pleased and excited to meet him / her.
wow, you are going to school as well as working..? you are a busy lady.. what are you studying..?
Yes, take care of yourself too..xx

Since: Feb 09

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#3325 Nov 1, 2012
Hi!!!!!!!

i'd forgotten about this place, sorry.(im really getting old. lol)
:(

so many things have been happening, some good and not so good, but im still here and wishing u guys all the best!

:)))

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3326 Nov 2, 2012
To share my happy news;..My first grandson was born last week, my younger sons first child.. he is beautiful..!
and came home yesterday as has been jaundiced for a little while..can't wait to see them all back home today..

hope all is well for you Holly and Leeann..
.. and Hi PFfff .. can you share..?(some..)

Since: Feb 09

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#3327 Nov 6, 2012
Beatthesystem wrote:
To share my happy news;..My first grandson was born last week, my younger sons first child.. he is beautiful..!
and came home yesterday as has been jaundiced for a little while..can't wait to see them all back home today..
hope all is well for you Holly and Leeann..
.. and Hi PFfff .. can you share..?(some..)
CONGRATS TO U AND UR FAMILY ON THE NEW LITTLE ONE!!!
thats great, babies are so much fun, esp when u can give them back when there not so much fun. lol
i dont know if i'll ever have a grandson, esp if my son doesnt find someone and get married, daughter is done or so she says. lol, thats ok shes got enough and 3 beautiful lil girls.

u name it - lil bit of health problems, death of my mom, etc etc - and now to top it off we got robbed over the weekend, my emotions are All over the place right now. i feel like crying for the next month or so...

oh well - its just life, could be worse..

enjoy the new baby, they grow so fast huh?- our oldest GD just lost her first tooth. my baby's growing up. >sniff sniff<
:))

hope ALL of u guys are doing well, and have a great Holiday!
nice to come here and talk to real friends!

<3

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3328 Nov 7, 2012
PFfff wrote:
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CONGRATS TO U AND UR FAMILY ON THE NEW LITTLE ONE!!!
thats great, babies are so much fun, esp when u can give them back when there not so much fun. lol
i dont know if i'll ever have a grandson, esp if my son doesnt find someone and get married, daughter is done or so she says. lol, thats ok shes got enough and 3 beautiful lil girls.
u name it - lil bit of health problems, death of my mom, etc etc - and now to top it off we got robbed over the weekend, my emotions are All over the place right now. i feel like crying for the next month or so...
oh well - its just life, could be worse..
enjoy the new baby, they grow so fast huh?- our oldest GD just lost her first tooth. my baby's growing up. >sniff sniff<
:))
hope ALL of u guys are doing well, and have a great Holiday!
nice to come here and talk to real friends!
<3
good Morning, PF.. as it is here in Uk.
Thankyou.. yes I feel so priveledged to have another grandchild.. and the first boy..
I had two boys myself, then my older son had two daughters.. now my younger son, who was always adamant he didn't want children, has a son..! and he really dotes on him, i can see he will make a great father.. he is very attatched already..

so sorry you have been going through a tough time, PF..it's traumatic and so sad to lose a parent.. as well as the loss, so much of your history goes with it..
i hope you have siblings to support you.. as an only child I felt almost orphaned when my parents had both gone, by 2002..
crazy i know at (then) 43 yrs old..!
Still, in some instances i know from others that siblings can be more trouble than they are worth.. However it would be nice to have someone left alive who knew me as a child, who is still in my life today.. my good school friend is about the nearest, we knew each other from 12 yrs upwards..

That was tough, getting robbed.. it must feel so intrusive if they entered your house..(?)
and health problems to deal with..
Sometimes you can have so much on your plate to deal with you feel like you can't take any more, and then another problem comes along and you have to manage to take that on as well .. hidden rerserves of strength come into play..
although sometimes it gets too much for some..I hope you have people around you to support you..x

Since: Feb 09

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#3330 Nov 21, 2012
Hello Beat
yeah it was a home robbery, makes ur sense of security fly out the window.
sometimes it feels like the plate is wayyy to full..

but anyway, im still gonna eat the Thanksgiving turkey. lol

:)
LEE ANN

Old Saybrook, CT

#3331 Nov 21, 2012
HAPPY THANKSGIVING ALL...

soapmann

Pittsburgh, PA

#3332 Nov 22, 2012
youtube.com/watch... …Old Fart or young Stinker drink up
Holly

Pomona, CA

#3333 Nov 26, 2012
Is anybody here?:-). Miss you all but i have so much in my plate. Hope Beatthesystem and pffft are doing great. Pffft, sorry to hear your mother passed away!! Did anyone get hurt when your family got robbed? Love ya'll.

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3334 Nov 27, 2012
PFfff wrote:
Hello Beat
yeah it was a home robbery, makes ur sense of security fly out the window.
sometimes it feels like the plate is wayyy to full..
but anyway, im still gonna eat the Thanksgiving turkey. lol
:)
That's horrible, PFfff..
Still, good to see you're bouncing back..that's the way..!
(ps. what day is 'thanksgiving' in US..?)

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3335 Nov 27, 2012
Holly wrote:
Is anybody here?:-). Miss you all but i have so much in my plate. Hope Beatthesystem and pffft are doing great. Pffft, sorry to hear your mother passed away!! Did anyone get hurt when your family got robbed? Love ya'll.
Hey, between us all we'll be needing a whole new dinner-set,soon..!
Hi Holly, yes alls well.. and my grandson s doing fine..I just came back from a nightshift at my son's house...
Hope your plate is full of interesting things , if maybe some yukky foods.?
Holly

Yucaipa, CA

#3336 Dec 7, 2012
Beatthesystem wrote:
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Hey, between us all we'll be needing a whole new dinner-set,soon..!
Hi Holly, yes alls well.. and my grandson s doing fine..I just came back from a nightshift at my son's house...
Hope your plate is full of interesting things , if maybe some yukky foods.?
Hi Beatthesystem! How are you doing? I bet your son is a happiest father on earth right now although his being busy with a lot of diapers changing lol. My plate is full of the stuff that is hard to get it digested...lol. Work+school. What are you going to do for Christmas? The little girls will come to visit you, won't they? Hope you have heard something from them. Big hugs!

“free your mind.”

Since: Oct 10

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#3337 Dec 7, 2012
Holly wrote:
<quoted text>Hi Beatthesystem! How are you doing? I bet your son is a happiest father on earth right now although his being busy with a lot of diapers changing lol. My plate is full of the stuff that is hard to get it digested...lol. Work+school. What are you going to do for Christmas? The little girls will come to visit you, won't they? Hope you have heard something from them. Big hugs!
Hi Holly, sounds like you're tooo busy with dutiful things..! what are you studying..?..wash it all down with plenty of water and maybe other beverages ..
Christmas.. probably spend it at home..with my hubby.
Maybe go to my younger sons for lunch, and to my older sons on boxing day , will probably see my younger grandaughter but i doubt my older one.
Yes my younger son is so pleased with their new baby, he is lovely.
My older son got a contact order from the court for his younger daughter and is seeing her regularly again now, but the battle..as i'm afraid it is.. to see his older daughter continues.
It's a painful process.
Big hugs to you too.. hope you see a way to have some fun times soon..!
LEE ANN

Old Saybrook, CT

#3338 Dec 13, 2012
LEE ANN

Old Saybrook, CT

#3339 Dec 13, 2012
LEE ANN

Old Saybrook, CT

#3340 Dec 14, 2012

Since: Feb 09

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#3341 Dec 17, 2012
MERRY CHRISTMAS U GUYS!!!!!

hope u all get what u want, if not we'll all get together and beat ol Santa up!
i bet we can take him too, as long as those little elfs dont attack us..
lol

:))

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