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why there are so many latinas marrying white men?

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Since: Jul 11

Brooklyn, NY

#787 Jan 4, 2012
I agree; I have encountered (friends of friends of friends) some really hot looking Latina immigrants who are here illegally and seduced the heck out of some unknowing American guys and now they're hitched. It was all out of interest..these ladies wanted to be legal residents, and these guys were their path to possible U.S. citizenship.

I agree that we all are human, illegal status or not, and I always strive daily to treat each person I meet with respect. But female illegals who con American guys ("undocumented" gorgeous seductive Latinas are not the only ones who dupe their future husbands...I heard of an illegal Asian lady who did the same... about 2 days after she obtained her green card, she filed for divorce; the poor schlub ex-husband was left an emotional wreck) into marriage are considering, the very least, something quite unethical. I'm unmarried, but I think I would be highly ticked off if I found out my fiancee was using me to be rid of her illegal status, and not because I'm her real life partner. Believe me, I'd file divorce papers immediately, and hopefully for her, I don't give the local INS office a ring.
Starz wrote:
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I don't really think you can blame it on the people that fall for them. If somebody marries another for a reason other than out of pure love, than they're not very nice. The person who marries them, must love them if they accept them as their life partner by marrying them.

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#788 Jan 5, 2012
Thanks for your replies, gentlemen.

I know there are many women out there who do a lot of things for material gain...I am Italian, though I don't live in Italy anymore, it is full of eastern european women getting married with Italian citizens for EU passports..mostly Russian and Ukrainian. Beautiful ladies, great homemakers, however it's quite obvious to see a 25 year-old leggy blonde with a 60 year-old man my own mother says wouldn't even touch let alone sleep with. Lol.

So there are gold diggers everywhere...perhaps women who use their sexuality do it because there hasn't been too much bestowed upon them so they're doing what they can to sort things out for themselves...I'm not judging anyone here. I've always admired the beauty and 'heat' of Latin women...I think they are not only beautiful, but so sensual it drives men crazy just to look at them!

asian women..meh. Cold and calculated, at least that's my opinion at a superficial glance, as a woman. I am in no way being racist or anything, i am speaking sexually only. Perhaps because i am straight i don't get the vibe asian women are supposed to have, I heard they are so adventurous and open minded when it comes to sex that men cannot resist them. Good for them, smart ladies ;)

anyways, my question was...apart from the 'giving' attitude, and passion, and everything (which I have as well), is there something that differentiated the Latina women people have been with? like sexually open minded, knew how to show their partners they were being pleased (screaming, moaning, etc), great blowjobs, etc? I am just being curious, trying to better myself here :)

i am italian, and italian people belong to the latin people category, just like spanish, portuguese, french (but they're mixed with other groups), and from here, you have the southern american states colonized by the spanyards in the 15-16th centuries. so i am 'caliente' as well, haha. but the european way. think...monica bellucci and maria grazia cucinotta?:)

Since: Jul 11

Brooklyn, NY

#789 Jan 5, 2012
Ah, Monica Bellucci - what a beauty; I remember seeing her in the Matrix movie and thought "brilliant casting" :) very captivating lady and oozes sensuality. Grazia Cucinotta - nice!:)

I find Latin women are way more physically expressive so lots of guys are thus turned on by that. Some non-Latin women, like German or Irish, I have found, are not as interactive, although still are physically attractive.

Asian women are noted by many non-Asian guys who have dated them, to be pretty open-minded, after the bedroom lights go off. Culturally, many non-Asian Christians carry the 'guilt' factor that was inculcated in them years ago as kids; a decent percentage of non-Christian Asians, I find, pretty much lack that (I don't think teachings of 'fire and brimstone' is too evident in Buddhism, Communism (thinking mainland China) or Shintoism. I'm not racist either, lol, but I see your point about the 'cold' characteristic found among some Asian ladies. I've spoken to some in the past about things that would normally cause a person hearing the topic of conversation to empathize or think "wow, that's rough", etc.. but awkwardly enough, a few Asian ladies I've conversed with have been less than sympathetic in their responses, which caused me to scratch my head.

I don't think Latinas are way more overly sexual than non-Latinas (I doubt they're all masters of the Kama Sutra, haha), but a sizeable percentage of them do bring an almost natural extra layer of sensuality in their presentation in the bedroom which causes the guys they're dating to think "whoah".
Maria

Houston, TX

#790 Jan 5, 2012
I'm Latina,and I think both white American and European men are very handsome,however,I definitely prefer native European men(born and raised in Europe with pure European ethnic background.I've always loved getting to know people from different foreign countries,especially those who are more different than me(ethnically,culturally,physi cally,etc.).I've had (unfortunately)very few native European boyfriends and the rest were Mexican like me.I did not enjoyed the Hispanic people(including those boyfriends)because I noticed that my ex-boyfriends were too controlling,uneducated,cheater s,man-whores,narrow-minded,dis respectful,arrogant,etc.With the Hispanic friends I had,they were not open-minded,they were judgmental,and were too different than me in many ways,however,I loved hanging out with American white people because they were nicer,respectful,understanding ,had more manners,they were open-minded,they accepted and liked me just the way I am,and they just seemed to be "my type",I really had a lot of fun with them,and some white American men are so HOT!!I'm also attracted to other things:foreign cultures,native languages(besides English and Spanish),etc.Other men have these qualities,but I'm only seriously attracted to white skin,so I can only choose between native Europeans and Russians.I also loved how my lovely European boyfriends treated me,and they're so HOT!!
Maria

Houston, TX

#791 Jan 5, 2012
By the way,I forgot to mention that I could care less about the money that men in general make.I love European and white American men because they know how to be a real man and how to treat a woman with respect,love,and dignity.I know not all white men are great,but from my personal experience,most are "perfect".I've also noticed that most white men(both American and European)are more emotional and affectionate.Is this fact about most white men(both American and European),or is it just my personal experience with them.This is another thing I love about them,unfortunately...in my culture,many Hispanic men are too insecure about expressing their emotions,both physically and especially verbally.If I can't find my European man,I will definitely marry a white American man.I also heard that white men are great at love-making and have bigger penis than Hispanics.Also,Hispanic men seem to be more selfish and self-centered,at least from my experience...with both ex-boyfriends,friends,family,a nd strangers.

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#792 Jan 6, 2012
haha, Maria, i totally get your point.

I am Mediterranean, and accustomed to macho men so to speak, and I've always had this curiosity about american men, northern european men (like scandinavian, for ex), other than latino. I think you're right, men who aren't educated in a macho culture tend to me more elegant and 'educated' in terms of manners, not necessarily know-how, they're just more patient, more delicate, charming, etc.

I lived in Sweden for a while and Swedish women are CRAZY for latin men :) especially southern american. like brazilian, mexican, etc. they love the looks, first of all, caramel skin and dark eyes, then the attitude..protective and possessive. scandinavian men are a little bit cold, or detached, let's say...

so every culture has its own ups and downs (total pun intended, ha!).

It's cool you don't use your beauty and charms for purposes other than the 'old fashioned' ones, Maria, hehe! however, i think Latina women are beautiful and can't help seducing men....so who says they're whores is either jealous or frustrated..
Starz

Camberwell, Australia

#793 Jan 6, 2012
NYKnowledgeSeeker wrote:
I agree; I have encountered (friends of friends of friends) some really hot looking Latina immigrants who are here illegally and seduced the heck out of some unknowing American guys and now they're hitched. It was all out of interest..these ladies wanted to be legal residents, and these guys were their path to possible U.S. citizenship.
I agree that we all are human, illegal status or not, and I always strive daily to treat each person I meet with respect. But female illegals who con American guys ("undocumented" gorgeous seductive Latinas are not the only ones who dupe their future husbands...I heard of an illegal Asian lady who did the same... about 2 days after she obtained her green card, she filed for divorce; the poor schlub ex-husband was left an emotional wreck) into marriage are considering, the very least, something quite unethical. I'm unmarried, but I think I would be highly ticked off if I found out my fiancee was using me to be rid of her illegal status, and not because I'm her real life partner. Believe me, I'd file divorce papers immediately, and hopefully for her, I don't give the local INS office a ring.
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That would be horrible. Some guy I once knew who married a Asian lady within 2 weeks of knowing her, as she wanted an instant marrage. It was so obvious she was just doing it to get into the country.
water

Kitchener, Canada

#794 Jan 6, 2012
Maria wrote:
I'm Latina,and I think both white American and European men are very handsome,however,I definitely prefer native European men(born and raised in Europe with pure European ethnic background.I've always loved getting to know people from different foreign countries,especially those who are more different than me(ethnically,culturally,physi cally,etc.).I've had (unfortunately)very few native European boyfriends and the rest were Mexican like me.I did not enjoyed the Hispanic people(including those boyfriends)because I noticed that my ex-boyfriends were too controlling,uneducated,cheater s,man-whores,narrow-minded,dis respectful,arrogant,etc.With the Hispanic friends I had,they were not open-minded,they were judgmental,and were too different than me in many ways,however,I loved hanging out with American white people because they were nicer,respectful,understanding ,had more manners,they were open-minded,they accepted and liked me just the way I am,and they just seemed to be "my type",I really had a lot of fun with them,and some white American men are so HOT!!I'm also attracted to other things:foreign cultures,native languages(besides English and Spanish),etc.Other men have these qualities,but I'm only seriously attracted to white skin,so I can only choose between native Europeans and Russians.I also loved how my lovely European boyfriends treated me,and they're so HOT!!
You say you like white american men native Europeans and russians how about white canadian men I like Latina women the best but I like Mexican women the best the reason I like latina best Is beacuse fond alote of them very sweet and like some of there tan skin. I find Mexican women to have very sexy accents.
water

Kitchener, Canada

#795 Jan 6, 2012
MissClaire wrote:
guys, guys, let's take a chill pill shall we??
stop talking about race and demographics, this is about SEX! or am I getting it wrong?
i have some questions for the dude who's crazy about the latina chick.
i'm not latina but i'm latin (italian) and many men have told me i was the best sex they've ever had. i am very passionate and loving towards my partner, especially when it comes to sex.
however, are there any special 'things' latina women do/their attitude, that they're so coveted, sexually speaking? i am very curious!
I am a white man latino I like to Latina's beacuse of somen there tan's alot of them I think are nice people not all but alout of them and certaintee other fetchers I like alot.

Since: Jul 11

Brooklyn, NY

#796 Jan 9, 2012
Wow, really? I'm a Latino male who for a large part of my adult life have strived to find Ms. Right among the fine Latina population here in the U.S., but haven't been successful. I'm also attracted to European women but really haven't asked them out (since I was pretty fixated on one day marrying a Latina - I liked the idea of settling down with a fit, attractive lady who possessed shared cultural traits, and who happened to be college-educated and on a professional white-collar track, as well, such as myself - it's been my experience, though, that most of the Latina females who I encountered and felt drawn to and who possessed all the attributes I listed above, ended up being exclusively into white guys). I had no idea Swedish women were into South American guys (my lineage hails from that part of Latin America); I'll definitely have to visit that part of Europe, then :) Thanks.
MissClaire wrote:
haha, Maria, i totally get your point.
I am Mediterranean, and accustomed to macho men so to speak, and I've always had this curiosity about american men, northern european men (like scandinavian, for ex), other than latino. I think you're right, men who aren't educated in a macho culture tend to me more elegant and 'educated' in terms of manners, not necessarily know-how, they're just more patient, more delicate, charming, etc.
I lived in Sweden for a while and Swedish women are CRAZY for latin men :) especially southern american. like brazilian, mexican, etc. they love the looks, first of all, caramel skin and dark eyes, then the attitude..protective and possessive. scandinavian men are a little bit cold, or detached, let's say...
so every culture has its own ups and downs (total pun intended, ha!).
It's cool you don't use your beauty and charms for purposes other than the 'old fashioned' ones, Maria, hehe! however, i think Latina women are beautiful and can't help seducing men....so who says they're whores is either jealous or frustrated..
Gabbz

Merced, CA

#797 Jan 16, 2012
Many of you are talking about ignorance and who's stupid blah blah blah every individual is different and therefore you are ALL ignorant so stfu! I am latina and I do prefer white guys, but that doesn't mean there are not nice intellectual latino men. All you people who wrote about the history or whatever you might want to recheck that then correct your statement you don't want to writing stupid statements without research! As for 123ajtj... you are a perfect example of a person with a stupid statement. Many different races cheat! So stfu saying latino men cheat more and idk what the eff you said! You can't generalize one individual as a whole. Furthermore, check the question that was asked before posting a comment with "opinions."
dmc

United States

#798 Jan 16, 2012
NYKnowledgeSeeker wrote:
Wow, really? I'm a Latino male who for a large part of my adult life have strived to find Ms. Right among the fine Latina population here in the U.S., but haven't been successful. I'm also attracted to European women but really haven't asked them out (since I was pretty fixated on one day marrying a Latina - I liked the idea of settling down with a fit, attractive lady who possessed shared cultural traits, and who happened to be college-educated and on a professional white-collar track, as well, such as myself - it's been my experience, though, that most of the Latina females who I encountered and felt drawn to and who possessed all the attributes I listed above, ended up being exclusively into white guys). I had no idea Swedish women were into South American guys (my lineage hails from that part of Latin America); I'll definitely have to visit that part of Europe, then :) Thanks.
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Hope you find your perfect match.
gorgeouslatina

Stockton, CA

#799 Jan 18, 2012
lillatina wrote:
whats stopping you?
why youre so bitchy?
have you ever had sex with a white guy?(obviously noot)
relationships are 50% emocional nd 50% passion ,
I like more white guys for a loooot of reasons.
taller
more goal oriented!
latinas are warm and caring but most latin guys dont apreciate
that cause they thing that is what we have to doo!white guys treat us more like princess (:
again they dont have there macho behaivor
i even think there more honest.
before someone says something about it , ITS MY OPINION!
i do dated latins and asians, im openmind i just love gentlemen it doesnt matter color , but it does matter culture and when i say that i mean the respect you have for women
gorgeouslatina

Stockton, CA

#800 Jan 18, 2012
Maria wrote:
I'm Latina,and I think both white American and European men are very handsome,however,I definitely prefer native European men(born and raised in Europe with pure European ethnic background.I've always loved getting to know people from different foreign countries,especially those who are more different than me(ethnically,culturally,physi cally,etc.).I've had (unfortunately)very few native European boyfriends and the rest were Mexican like me.I did not enjoyed the Hispanic people(including those boyfriends)because I noticed that my ex-boyfriends were too controlling,uneducated,cheater s,man-whores,narrow-minded,dis respectful,arrogant,etc.With the Hispanic friends I had,they were not open-minded,they were judgmental,and were too different than me in many ways,however,I loved hanging out with American white people because they were nicer,respectful,understanding ,had more manners,they were open-minded,they accepted and liked me just the way I am,and they just seemed to be "my type",I really had a lot of fun with them,and some white American men are so HOT!!I'm also attracted to other things:foreign cultures,native languages(besides English and Spanish),etc.Other men have these qualities,but I'm only seriously attracted to white skin,so I can only choose between native Europeans and Russians.I also loved how my lovely European boyfriends treated me,and they're so HOT!!
hey girl , you couldnt said it better!

lets get some white boys lol jk
gorgeouslatina

Stockton, CA

#801 Jan 18, 2012
Maria wrote:
By the way,I forgot to mention that I could care less about the money that men in general make.I love European and white American men because they know how to be a real man and how to treat a woman with respect,love,and dignity.I know not all white men are great,but from my personal experience,most are "perfect".I've also noticed that most white men(both American and European)are more emotional and affectionate.Is this fact about most white men(both American and European),or is it just my personal experience with them.This is another thing I love about them,unfortunately...in my culture,many Hispanic men are too insecure about expressing their emotions,both physically and especially verbally.If I can't find my European man,I will definitely marry a white American man.I also heard that white men are great at love-making and have bigger penis than Hispanics.Also,Hispanic men seem to be more selfish and self-centered,at least from my experience...with both ex-boyfriends,friends,family,a nd strangers.
white guys have bigger penis that hispanic totally truth!!
uncutric

Toronto, Canada

#802 Jan 23, 2012
Most women of all races prefer guys not merely White, but blondes, period. Latin and other non-White, non-Black males are forced to date within their communities (given theirs and all women's choice), but have to make do with the less attractive. The best looking women of all groups end up with blond guys -rule and not exceptions;-). It's a racial society, sorry. Pop eugenics is here! even before genetic manipulation become legal. Ethnic guys should put their sh** together and strive to get the best bodies, higher IQ's, and more money, then they could destroy stereotypes and compete with blond men. But they are born in disadvantage and are undermined by their women, so the struggle is harder for them. This is the reason why Latinas and other ethnic women end up with "White" (blond) guys.

Since: Jul 11

Brooklyn, NY

#803 Jan 24, 2012
Thank you DMC; I hope so too - I'm not getting any younger, lol; I think I'll have to leave this discussion, though..all this talk praising white guys (they're so honest, have bigger "packages" below the belt line, more goal-oriented) and dogging Latino males is making me nauseous.. I find it amusing though when otherwise fine, smart, good Latinas who are hell-bent on bedding and marrying white guys and kicking decent intelligent, ambitious Latino bachelors to the curb in the dating world, end up, years later ..thinking oh wow.. this guy is not all that...maybe I should've gave that market analyst Jorge a chance years ago.. I bid you all adios.
dmc wrote:
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Hope you find your perfect match.
leonard

United States

#804 Jan 27, 2012
Anne wrote:
Yes I agree, every ''latina'' woman should and MUST married white men.. the reason is to make the ''latino'' people more whiter better educated and they will be more integrated and accepted into the american society if they get and look ''white'' also the combination of the american white looks with the nice looks of the latina girls they will make more atractive women and men..like Rita Hayworth she was irish in her mother side and spaniard on her father side, she was BEAUTIFUL !!
you r ignorant
Asda

Dixon, CA

#805 Jan 29, 2012
I'm sorry but your comments are very ignorant! You might go around and sleep around but this is not true for all women in this country and I know plenty "white" girls that have standards and they don't sleep around with just anyone! Also, how many countries in Latin America have you visited to make assumptions on Latin women? Being picky with who you sleep is not a bad thing!
NJGirl72 wrote:
As far as being loyal or faithful goes, yes, all of us are capable of being faithful if we choose. I'm older than you and so my perspective is probably different as most of my friends are married or are in long term, monogamous relationships. I think maybe it's different for young people here in the US than it is in other countries b/c it's expected that young people focus on continuing their education in order to secure a good job and that they not get too serious or look for a marriage partner until they're done their education and have a good job.
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Asda

Dixon, CA

#806 Jan 29, 2012
you are ignorant!!!!!!!!! If you are not interested why are you in this blog? You must be curious! Have you ever been to Latin America? If you look at the census you will be able to understand the demographics of Latinos. You must be a really ugly white guy, you want to get a taste of a Latina but they don't give you the time and day because we are very picky! If you are a white guy and are with a Latina it must be because you must be good looking or have bank! The ugly white guys look for Asian girls because they don't have standards as long as you are white you can get a hook up!
leonard wrote:
<quoted text> you r ignorant

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