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why there are so many latinas marrying white men?

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white men are more educated

WHITE GUYS ARE BETTER

latinas want white men

LATINA LOVE WHITE MEN

white men treat latinas better

lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#43 Sep 14, 2009
NJGirl72 wrote:
And you don't see that with other racial/ethnic groups that're born and raised here in the US? I'm not sure if you are from the US or not, but as a native born American, I can assure you that I've seen ALL ethnic/racial groups engage in this behavior at some point or other, it is not just a "white girl" thing.
I agree that in many Latin cultures women are expected to remain chaste. That being said, in most of those cultures the societies are very patriarchial and women don't have as many opportunities for education or work like they do here; women are also expected to marry fairly young. But even with those expectations, things aren't always what they seem. For instance, one of my friend's SIL is from El Salvador; she dated her husband for 11 years before they got married and swears up and down that they never were intimate before then. We all know she's full of crap, her husband confirmed that that wasn't true, but to save face, she won't admit that she was less than chaste when she married.
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I said that it's keyword--MOST-- common in white girls...not that other ethnic background don't do it here in the US. So you might want to rephrase your novel there.
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#44 Sep 14, 2009
NJGirl72 wrote:
As far as being loyal or faithful goes, yes, all of us are capable of being faithful if we choose. I'm older than you and so my perspective is probably different as most of my friends are married or are in long term, monogamous relationships. I think maybe it's different for young people here in the US than it is in other countries b/c it's expected that young people focus on continuing their education in order to secure a good job and that they not get too serious or look for a marriage partner until they're done their education and have a good job.
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Yes anyone is capable but its all a requirement in other cultures so therefore it's most likely more common in one culture than the other.
Betty

Harrison, NY

#46 Sep 14, 2009
lillatina wrote:
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You can't speak for all. My cousin has been married with a white dude for 16yrs. and still act like love birds.
wtf is wrong with this beeotch? You writing from a public computer in a mental institute?? seriously go hit your head some more you nuttcase...
I'm talking about illegals. Is your cousin an illegal? You need to go back and read what I responded to Pinky about lower class poor illegals not being able to get the white guy. They are doing it, to become a citizen they're not only going to the legal latino guys.
Betty

Harrison, NY

#47 Sep 14, 2009
NJGirl72 wrote:
I wouldn't go that far, I know plenty of guys that've been with latin women who believed the same stereotype and were sorely disappointed when they realized that not all of them were like that. IMO, people are people; the sex is always hot in the beginning when everything is fresh and new...and it's easy to be on your best behavior in the first couple of months. But I disagree, I don't see a whole lot of white guys making decent money dating and marrying women only making $10.00/hr. They may be hooking up with them and all if they think they're hot looking, but they're not looking to get into a long term relationship with them. Most guys I know want to be with a woman that makes somewhere in the neighborhood of what they make.
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I know what you're saying, but for many white guys there's an allure when you speak of a latina girl. They automatically think she is hot in bed. I've known many beautiful latina women that are not that experienced in sex because of the way they were raised. It's just a stereotype that latinas have. These guys that I'm referring to also expected a long relationship, although that wasn't in these girls plan. Keep in mind, it takes a lot to come over a border as far as survival is concerned. Once they are here they are still in survival mode and if they're pretty and good in bed it gives them the opportunity to land these guys even quicker, because in the end they want to be U.S. citizens. I was curious and asked one of them what her plans were, being that she's here illegally and that is what she told me. They are getting paid around $10.00 an hour, the lowest they can get paid is $7.25 which is the minimum wage in NJ.

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#48 Sep 14, 2009
No, I just don't agree with your opinion at all; I've seen just as many latina, asian, and black girls sleep around as I have white girls here in the USA.

lillatina wrote:
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I said that it's keyword--MOST-- common in white girls...not that other ethnic background don't do it here in the US. So you might want to rephrase your novel there.
PoolShark

Carson, CA

#49 Sep 14, 2009
Betty wrote:
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I know what you're saying, but for many white guys there's an allure when you speak of a latina girl. They automatically think she is hot in bed. I've known many beautiful latina women that are not that experienced in sex because of the way they were raised. It's just a stereotype that latinas have. These guys that I'm referring to also expected a long relationship, although that wasn't in these girls plan. Keep in mind, it takes a lot to come over a border as far as survival is concerned. Once they are here they are still in survival mode and if they're pretty and good in bed it gives them the opportunity to land these guys even quicker, because in the end they want to be U.S. citizens. I was curious and asked one of them what her plans were, being that she's here illegally and that is what she told me. They are getting paid around $10.00 an hour, the lowest they can get paid is $7.25 which is the minimum wage in NJ.
They ARE hot in bed.
Eric in Cleveland

Lorain, OH

#50 Sep 14, 2009
Betty wrote:
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I know what you're saying, but for many white guys there's an allure when you speak of a latina girl. They automatically think she is hot in bed. I've known many beautiful latina women that are not that experienced in sex because of the way they were raised. It's just a stereotype that latinas have. These guys that I'm referring to also expected a long relationship, although that wasn't in these girls plan. Keep in mind, it takes a lot to come over a border as far as survival is concerned. Once they are here they are still in survival mode and if they're pretty and good in bed it gives them the opportunity to land these guys even quicker, because in the end they want to be U.S. citizens. I was curious and asked one of them what her plans were, being that she's here illegally and that is what she told me. They are getting paid around $10.00 an hour, the lowest they can get paid is $7.25 which is the minimum wage in NJ.
You know pleanty of people this and pleanty of people that.... sounds like your doing a lot of making things up Betty..
Betty

Harrison, NY

#51 Sep 14, 2009
Eric in Cleveland wrote:
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You know pleanty of people this and pleanty of people that.... sounds like your doing a lot of making things up Betty..
I'm not making any of this up, it's the reality where I live. My cousin was raised in the midwest and what we're experiencing in NJ is what she saw 10-15 years ago. Now there are just as many illegals living in the east coast and that's because of the abundance of factory work. They're everywhere, I make friends and ask lots of questions.
WTF

Saint Louis, MO

#52 Sep 14, 2009
Anne wrote:
Yes I agree, every ''latina'' woman should and MUST married white men.. the reason is to make the ''latino'' people more whiter better educated and they will be more integrated and accepted into the american society if they get and look ''white'' also the combination of the american white looks with the nice looks of the latina girls they will make more atractive women and men..like Rita Hayworth she was irish in her mother side and spaniard on her father side, she was BEAUTIFUL !!
You're a Dumb A$$ 8itch with a capital B!
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#53 Sep 14, 2009
NJGirl72 wrote:
No, I just don't agree with your opinion at all; I've seen just as many latina, asian, and black girls sleep around as I have white girls here in the USA.
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I never said you had to agree on my opinion. Everybody has a differen't way of thinking wheather you agree with it or not...your older so I thought you would know this by now.
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#54 Sep 14, 2009
Betty wrote:
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I'm talking about illegals. Is your cousin an illegal? You need to go back and read what I responded to Pinky about lower class poor illegals not being able to get the white guy. They are doing it, to become a citizen they're not only going to the legal latino guys.
I don't care of if your talkin about illegals or not...It's disrespectful to be talkin shit like this to them when they do shit to you in your face just because of their "illegal" status...IT DOESN'T MAKE THEM ANY LESS HUMAN THaN YOU AND ME...and who cares if their doing it for a citizenship...it's their life and not yours. Blame the people that fall for it not them...der.
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#55 Sep 14, 2009
PoolShark wrote:
<quoted text>They ARE hot in bed.
yea this chick is a jelouse bitch. If she's writing a novel about hating on people she doesn't know... thats just SAD. Get a life!
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#56 Sep 14, 2009
Betty wrote:
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I'm not making any of this up, it's the reality where I live. My cousin was raised in the midwest and what we're experiencing in NJ is what she saw 10-15 years ago. Now there are just as many illegals living in the east coast and that's because of the abundance of factory work. They're everywhere, I make friends and ask lots of questions.
The same can be said for indians at my place but I am not going to bash on them for doing so. Who cares...you should know by now that American IS a melting pot and if you don't like it then get the fuck out instead of making rude comments and living a miserable arrogant life.
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#57 Sep 14, 2009
Betty wrote:
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I'm not making any of this up, it's the reality where I live. My cousin was raised in the midwest and what we're experiencing in NJ is what she saw 10-15 years ago. Now there are just as many illegals living in the east coast and that's because of the abundance of factory work. They're everywhere, I make friends and ask lots of questions.
Get some jesus in you...maybe you will learn to love everyone equally <3
lillatina

Gig Harbor, WA

#58 Sep 14, 2009
WTF wrote:
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You're a Dumb A$$ 8itch with a capital B!
psh, Talking about capital B..Betty is the BITCH.

“Hi Haters!”

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#59 Sep 15, 2009
And although you're younger, I would've thought by now that you'd understand the concept that just because you perceive something to be true due to your personal experiences doesn't mean that it actually is a fact.
lillatina wrote:
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I never said you had to agree on my opinion. Everybody has a differen't way of thinking wheather you agree with it or not...your older so I thought you would know this by now.
Betty

Harrison, NY

#60 Sep 15, 2009
lillatina wrote:
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I don't care of if your talkin about illegals or not...It's disrespectful to be talkin shit like this to them when they do shit to you in your face just because of their "illegal" status...IT DOESN'T MAKE THEM ANY LESS HUMAN THaN YOU AND ME...and who cares if their doing it for a citizenship...it's their life and not yours. Blame the people that fall for it not them...der.
My argument is that illegals can get the white guy to. This is what I was trying to tell Pinky. You need to take some valium and chill out. Your last sentence sucks, it's o.k. to get over on a guy because he fell for it. Nice mentality you have there, sort of like a welfare bunny. Go get a job!
Betty

Harrison, NY

#61 Sep 15, 2009
lillatina wrote:
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yea this chick is a jelouse bitch. If she's writing a novel about hating on people she doesn't know... thats just SAD. Get a life!
I see I've must have touched a nerve with you. Lillatina, spokesperson for all hoes of America.
Betty

Harrison, NY

#62 Sep 15, 2009
lillatina wrote:
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The same can be said for indians at my place but I am not going to bash on them for doing so. Who cares...you should know by now that American IS a melting pot and if you don't like it then get the fuck out instead of making rude comments and living a miserable arrogant life.
We also have freedom of speech here to, and the purpose of this board is to post comments. I have every right to do so just like you. If you don't like it then move on.

“Hi Haters!”

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#63 Sep 15, 2009
True, there's illegals around but IMO, there's always been a population of them around and they tended to stay in urban areas (Trenton, Newark, Camden, Elizabeth...)and they really didn't interact a whole lot with other people unless they had to. Now, I think you're noticing them more because they're spreading out from the urban areas out to the suburbs in the pursuit of better paying jobs.

As far as the claim that the illegal women are trying to find a citizen to get impregnated by or marry in order to get citizenship...I know it goes on but you're still not going to see a whole lot of professional American men seeking these women out for relationships; the laws are different now for Americans marrying non-citizens and you'll spend quite a bit of money and time to get the non-citizen spouse legal. IMO, most of the men that do go for these women are guillable and lonely and really don't understand all the legal and financial hardships that they are potentially bringing down upon themselves.
Betty wrote:
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I'm not making any of this up, it's the reality where I live. My cousin was raised in the midwest and what we're experiencing in NJ is what she saw 10-15 years ago. Now there are just as many illegals living in the east coast and that's because of the abundance of factory work. They're everywhere, I make friends and ask lots of questions.

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