As I said before, and your BACKWARD idiocy posted above proves, you're STUCK IN THE PAST, by at least a few decades and possibly two whole centuries. You may call yourself "conservative," I would describe you as ARCHAIC.What kind of man would put his career off for 2 or 3 years, and stay home with his baby, changing diapers, making bottles, cleaning up after his baby,and all that goes with having a baby, not to mention all the toys and playing with the baby, on top of cooking all meals, washing all chlothes, and having home in order, so when his WOMAN comes home, she can just relax, and eat, and play with her baby??? I geuss you would want the man to run the womans bath, and wash her sheets every couple of days to keep them nice and fresh for her????
All this, so the woman can go to her job, and not have to start all over after the child is old enough to go to school?!?!?
Do you know how much pride a man would have to swallow, in order to let his wife bring home the bacon, just becouse she really likes her job???
How the man would have to be seen by all others around him, that would be thinking, what??? What kind of man would that be? I mean for real?!?!?
This is why I believe women really need to find out ALL they can about the men they're thinking of marrying long BEFORE the wedding, not afterward. After the wedding it is too late for a woman to find out that she married a guy who is stuck in the 1950's or worse, the 1850's, and expects her to "know her place." Ugh. The very idea of that gives me the shudders. By knowing these important facts about a guy before she's even thinking of marriage, she can decide whether to marry this backward-thinking dude or dump him. I know I would choose Option 2.