As I have said before, I strongly believe the issue of children needs to be discussed BEFORE a couple even begins a relationship, let alone gets married. If one partner wants children but the other does not, the two partners are so far apart on this fundamental issue that the relationship isn't going to work anyway. Contrary to what you want everyone to BELIEVE, having children is NOT the only reason a couple gets married, and there are quite a few childFREE married couples out there.If we were talking about how the woman dresses or how long she keeps her hair, and stuff like that, then I would agree, but I'm talking about two people who have been together for quite a while "not a johnny come lately " or "a one night stand ",and the couple find that they are to be expecting, and the man wishes to keep the child, becouse he loves the woman, and wants them to have a family, if the woman don't want to keep the child "for whatever reason ",then she truly don't love the man.
She would rather go to the coffee shop, with her friends then raise a family.
If a woman would "rather go to the coffee shop with her friends than raise a family," that's still HER decision. Whether you approve or not is irrelevant. If you can't accept the fact that NOT every woman wants to have children, that's your problem, not theirs.