Then WHAT is your problem with Ocean promoting abstinence for teenaged girls by outlining the hardships they may face?<quoted text>
This is another case for girls/women needing to 'man up'. You should be teaching teenage girls to tell guys that if they truly love them, then they will wait until they are both 18 before having sex.
If the boys/men don't like that, tough. They can always make out with a blow up doll until they are 18.
Also, you can't blame men/boys and the lies they tell as the only reason for teenage girls getting pregnant. They are also being pressured by their peers to have sex. What teenage girl wants to be the only one in her school who hasn't had sex before the age of 18?
Mature women need to really stress to all teenage girls that having sex does not make you 'cool' or 'chic', it justs makes you a fool who then has to ask her parents to spend a lot of money on either getting an abortion or raising another child.
You are contradicting yourself.