Why Women Hate Men Who Love Porn

Why Women Hate Men Who Love Porn

There are 39 comments on the Ask Dan and Jennifer story from Mar 19, 2012, titled Why Women Hate Men Who Love Porn. In it, Ask Dan and Jennifer reports that:

Porn has a way of ruining the sex lives of men. If you have recently met a woman that you're attracted to, you should try to cut adult movies out of your life immediately.

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anonymous

Salt Lake City, UT

#30 May 29, 2013
ted bundy broke the edge off a bed frame after killing his victim and shoved the wooden piece up her vagina
anonymous

Salt Lake City, UT

#31 May 29, 2013
Heather wrote:
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Love or not, I would rather be the one pleasing my boyfriend, no matter how many times he wants it. No matter how easy it is for a guy to please himself, in my experience men would rather have a woman do it without always having to return the favor. Many guys have told me they wished they could just relax after a days work and get oral but their wives don't want to. And that's when they look for someone else.
Porn exploits addicted women whove had dysfunctional lives broken homes etc already and the industry feeds off that. it gives men the wrong outlook of sex and how to treat women. also its all acting so it goes overboard and those people are on drugs. sex is not the same when youre on drugs. also, theyre madeup makeup, fake tan lotion to dye skin, head to toe, airbrushed etc thats not real and again fake tan doesnt equal soft skin or hair
anonymous

Salt Lake City, UT

#32 May 29, 2013
another thing, porn encourages mental and emotional abuse from men toward women like while being intimate or touching hearing the other person yell at you: you suck, not like that, youre wrong, whats wrong with you, youre weird, youre strange, this is a sign of a rapist or serial killer someone who demeans you bc of porn esp if they grew up in a mormon or relgious backround like catholics too where they may have been sexually abused themselves so they hate on women and take it out on them by getting them vulnerable first gaining trust then insulting them to the core

Since: Mar 13

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#33 May 29, 2013
Heather wrote:
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Love or not, I would rather be the one pleasing my boyfriend, no matter how many times he wants it. No matter how easy it is for a guy to please himself, in my experience men would rather have a woman do it without always having to return the favor. Many guys have told me they wished they could just relax after a days work and get oral but their wives don't want to. And that's when they look for someone else.
Your beautiful Heather xoxo
fxnsht

Sanger, CA

#34 May 29, 2013
Heather wrote:
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Love or not, I would rather be the one pleasing my boyfriend, no matter how many times he wants it. No matter how easy it is for a guy to please himself, in my experience men would rather have a woman do it without always having to return the favor. Many guys have told me they wished they could just relax after a days work and get oral but their wives don't want to. And that's when they look for someone else.
you said it girl any man would rather have sex with their old lady if the damn bitch just wouldn't be rude and have a bad attitude about it!!! and any man would just love a bj without having to ask for it from time to time. you my dear are gonna make some lucky guy very happy
nothings

Edmonton, Canada

#35 Aug 16, 2013
Honestly, the reason is; Some women have terrible self esteem. I know mine is very low. Porn seems like the guys wants that girl. My boyfriend watches it, it bothers me a lot because another woman can get him off. The woman doesn't feel like she's good enough for her man. But if she's like me. She won't tell you to stop but it will bother her. It's just the self esteem. My boyfriend knows it bothers me but he also knows that I'm not gonna stop him from watching porn. It depends on the women. I used to watch it when I was single but I stopped because I have pleasures. That's why I won't stop him. I know it helps him. It's just my self and the way I see myself that cause it to bother me.
kev c

Ipswich, UK

#37 Dec 17, 2013
women hate porn because it takes away the single thing women have to control their man with.
goodtimes69

Portland, OR

#39 Dec 17, 2013
and one more thing some of the post mention that women pace of sex drive is weeker than men,.,,,, just wait, she'll pass you up when ya grow up some more,,,,thank god for viagra...lol....pleasing one woman can be tough, specaly after a long day at work, but if your married or what ever and you both have a play mate to join in once and awhile, that can kill a man,,,, lol...thank god for viagra.... by the way my wife brought in her freind to play not me.... Im just a sex toy for my wife...lol

“Boston girl and her bush”

Since: Dec 13

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#40 Dec 17, 2013
kev c wrote:
women hate porn because it takes away the single thing women have to control their man with.
False , we like porn to , we just don't like to be interrupted while we watch it

Since: Nov 13

Dedham, MA

#41 Dec 17, 2013
Katymurf wrote:
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False , we like porn to , we just don't like to be interrupted while we watch it
I don't understand. Interrupted by what? I don't know too many males who like to be interrupted while watching porn either, hence my confusion in trying to understand your point.
dave

United States

#43 Dec 29, 2013
Heather wrote:
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Love or not, I would rather be the one pleasing my boyfriend, no matter how many times he wants it. No matter how easy it is for a guy to please himself, in my experience men would rather have a woman do it without always having to return the favor. Many guys have told me they wished they could just relax after a days work and get oral but their wives don't want to. And that's when they look for someone else.
Cheers to that
True

Delhi, India

#45 Feb 22, 2014
This is so true. My wife hates porn. But at age 46, she has had three orgasms in a year and the last time she gave me an orgasm was.....hmmmm....maybe 2 years ago. If it wasn't for porn, I would be looking around for other women. At least it helps me in being faithful.
It's a pity, no women thinks her man pays for sex, yet so many prostitutes make a living. Hysterectomy seems to have played spoil sport in our sex lives than porn.
anonymous91

Marion, OH

#47 Feb 23, 2014
Footballer22 wrote:
You are right I'm trying to quit watching it. I don't even have a girlfriend and when I do get one I definitely won't watch it
You will always watch it. Having a girlfriend is never going to change anything. Thats just how it is....
sdf

AsunciĆ³n, Paraguay

#50 Mar 19, 2014
What does she mean to you? Meat? Toy? Think about how she is a human being and a life companion.
Kitkat33

South Orange, NJ

#53 Jan 21, 2015
I have a high sex drive. If he wanted to attack me after work I would love it. But he's always tired. Having a restaurant job he's alwaus on his feel and running around so he's physically exhausted come 6pm. But I even offer to please him with nothing in return. And I'm either turned down or he doesn't finish cause he's tired. But I know he's horny cause he makes time to watch a little every day. Thos leaves me confused.
Emad

Sulaymaniyah, Iraq

#54 Jul 4, 2015
You are good women. Sex berfor marrige is taboo. Women are abused in america
Emad

Sulaymaniyah, Iraq

#55 Jul 4, 2015
Women are disrespected
Jelly Belly Popcorn

East Amherst, NY

#56 Jul 5, 2015
I have a theory as to why they dislike it so much. They feel that it makes a woman look cheap and not worth anything, like they are pieces of meat or something.
Bex

Fairfax, VA

#58 Jun 17, 2016
Be Honest wrote:
Let's be honest here, the sex drives of men almost always outpace their women's desire. Even when a man and woman are deeply in love, the man wants to get off daily (or more) while the woman is more than satisfied with sexual encounters two or three times a week.

Women should be ecstatic when their men get off to porn. It's free or inexpensive, no risk of disease or pregnancy, and no emotional or romantic entanglements. All the man wants to so is ejac***** and fall asleep cuddling his "real" wife or girlfriend. It's a win-win situation.
More recent science shows women are more sexual. And although I know anecdotal evidence holds no water, I gotta say I hear my female friends bitching about lack of sex far more than my male friends. And in my own life I've never had a male partner who could keep up. And I've been aroound!! I hate porn because it takes away from all the fucking I'd like to do. To each their own.

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