Why are AA women being constantly put down?

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Since: Oct 13

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#1 Oct 25, 2013
I have seen so much hate from AA men, Black people from different ethnicities, Africans, etc on Topix toward AA women. If you look at other ethnicities, they don't direct so much hate toward their own women. Asian men love their Asian women, White men love their White women, Ethiopian men love their Ethiopian women, and the list goes on. Also, a lot of the reasons people give for not liking AA women can be seen across all races and ethnicities. Just to name a few stereotypes, there are White women who get attitudes and there are Asian women who are loud and obnoxious. Feel free to share your thoughts and opinions on this matter.
Weight Watcher

Whittier, CA

#2 Oct 25, 2013
eclecticmindsoul wrote:
I have seen so much hate from AA men, Black people from different ethnicities, Africans, etc on Topix toward AA women. If you look at other ethnicities, they don't direct so much hate toward their own women. Asian men love their Asian women, White men love their White women, Ethiopian men love their Ethiopian women, and the list goes on. Also, a lot of the reasons people give for not liking AA women can be seen across all races and ethnicities. Just to name a few stereotypes, there are White women who get attitudes and there are Asian women who are loud and obnoxious. Feel free to share your thoughts and opinions on this matter.
Being from the south, I'll bet you're pretty

big.
ThomasA

Birmingham, AL

#3 Oct 25, 2013
eclecticmindsoul wrote:
I have seen so much hate from AA men, Black people from different ethnicities, Africans, etc on Topix toward AA women. If you look at other ethnicities, they don't direct so much hate toward their own women. Asian men love their Asian women, White men love their White women, Ethiopian men love their Ethiopian women, and the list goes on. Also, a lot of the reasons people give for not liking AA women can be seen across all races and ethnicities. Just to name a few stereotypes, there are White women who get attitudes and there are Asian women who are loud and obnoxious. Feel free to share your thoughts and opinions on this matter.
AA men walk on and have no respect for AA women because:(1) They let them walk all over them.(2) They have morals of a cat in heat.(3) They don't look at the future and what they will be doing in that future. It's me, me, me, NOW!(4) They think having different babydaddies for every child is cool BUT that only attracts the same thugs as the first couple of sperm donors.(5) They have no self respect for themselves in public with their actions, dress, and foul language so why should AA men respect them back?

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#4 Oct 25, 2013
Weight Watcher wrote:
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Being from the south, I'll bet you're pretty
big.
I'm actually not from the south. I just moved here. I'm from New Jersey.

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#5 Oct 25, 2013
ThomasA wrote:
<quoted text> AA men walk on and have no respect for AA women because:(1) They let them walk all over them.(2) They have morals of a cat in heat.(3) They don't look at the future and what they will be doing in that future. It's me, me, me, NOW!(4) They think having different babydaddies for every child is cool BUT that only attracts the same thugs as the first couple of sperm donors.(5) They have no self respect for themselves in public with their actions, dress, and foul language so why should AA men respect them back?
Why are you generalizing an entire ethnicity? I'm an AA female and none of those characteristics apply to myself or any of the females I am associated with. I don't have any and never had issues attracting men from all ethnicities but my mind was blown away when I came to this website and saw that AA women are seen as undesirable females.
No ego here

Whittier, CA

#7 Oct 25, 2013
eclecticmindsoul wrote:
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I'm actually not from the south. I just moved here. I'm from New Jersey.
Southern attitude.

So, you are pretty big. Huh?

“Yet another average white man.”

Since: Jun 11

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#8 Oct 26, 2013
eclecticmindsoul wrote:
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I'm actually not from the south. I just moved here. I'm from New Jersey.

You're dealing with our resident forum troll. He hates all things IN the south. I'm from upstate NY and he calls me a hillbilly because I live in Atlanta. Soon he'll move beyond your imagined weight and start talking about your sexual relations with relatives and every other stereotype he can attach to you.

But it only happens when you answer him. Otherwise he looks for others to annoy. He's just a loser from California who is seeking attention. If you give it to him, he'll toss more of this weirdness your way.
GroBBBBBBBBBB
ThomasA

Birmingham, AL

#9 Oct 26, 2013
eclecticmindsoul wrote:
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Why are you generalizing an entire ethnicity? I'm an AA female and none of those characteristics apply to myself or any of the females I am associated with. I don't have any and never had issues attracting men from all ethnicities but my mind was blown away when I came to this website and saw that AA women are seen as undesirable females.
There is a percentage, a damn SMALL percentage of AA females that were raised right and respect themselves today. Unfortunately, the majority think they can DEMAND respect with their horrible public behavior and ghetto rat lifestyle. What have YOU done in your life to change this image of your sisters that the public has to put up with? Is there another generation of candidates for Jerry Springer, Maury Popovich, People Of Walmart, and Hard Core Pawn coming up?
Loco Lorenzo

Hazleton, PA

#10 Oct 26, 2013
Black gurls are trashy. Just saying.
Your friend

Whittier, CA

#11 Oct 26, 2013
Grob Hahn wrote:
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You're dealing with our resident forum troll. He hates all things IN the south. I'm from upstate NY and he calls me a hillbilly because I live in Atlanta. Soon he'll move beyond your imagined weight and start talking about your sexual relations with relatives and every other stereotype he can attach to you.
But it only happens when you answer him. Otherwise he looks for others to annoy. He's just a loser from California who is seeking attention. If you give it to him, he'll toss more of this weirdness your way.
GroBBBBBBBBBB
Beware of this guy. He hits on all the women here. He's really obnoxious and says the foulest things

Every one here avoids him.

Welcome to the south!!
ThomasA

Birmingham, AL

#12 Oct 27, 2013
Loco Lorenzo wrote:
Black gurls are trashy. Just saying.
Hey Bubba, have you looked in a mirror lately, now THAT'S trashy !!!!!! Your all inclusive statement is a reflection of your narrow minded, below par mentality. You shouldn't so proud to advertise that fact on TOPIX.

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#13 Oct 28, 2013
I think AA ladies receive the kind of respect they command. The respect you receive is up to you and with whom you associate. A lot of the disrespect AA women are now receiving is due to the rappers who started calling them an offensive name akin to a gardening tool.
ThomasA

Birmingham, AL

#14 Oct 28, 2013
lighteredknot wrote:
I think AA ladies receive the kind of respect they command. The respect you receive is up to you and with whom you associate. A lot of the disrespect AA women are now receiving is due to the rappers who started calling them an offensive name akin to a gardening tool.
See post #9

Since: Aug 12

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#15 Oct 28, 2013
No ego here wrote:
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Southern attitude.
So, you are pretty big. Huh?
Attention topix posters... There's a delivery truck driver here looking for Mr. Sofat King Tool. He has a truck full of packages from the Acme Circus Monkey Costume Company. There's a very small red and gold drum majors jacket with gold piping in junior boy's size 72 extra short, a red fez with gold tassel, a black leather belt size 72, a leather collar and leash with the engraved letters S.K.T., a tin cup with the same monogram and a ring master's top hat marked "Sofat's Master". There's also a large crate of bananas and a bib with a slobber pocket. If Mr. Sofat is in the house, the driver is in a hurry and requests that you sign for this shipment immediately.
Nationalist

Norman, OK

#16 Oct 28, 2013
Grob Hahn wrote:
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You're dealing with our resident forum troll. He hates all things IN the south. I'm from upstate NY and he calls me a hillbilly because I live in Atlanta. Soon he'll move beyond your imagined weight and start talking about your sexual relations with relatives and every other stereotype he can attach to you.
But it only happens when you answer him. Otherwise he looks for others to annoy. He's just a loser from California who is seeking attention. If you give it to him, he'll toss more of this weirdness your way.
GroBBBBBBBBBB
There was someone from the UK that this troll labeled as
a hillbilly from the south. I think this guy is just an
ass-clown.

Major new sites are starting to disable their comment sections
in order to stifle public debate. At some point in the future
I expect to see the robo-trolls posting junk just to stifle
discussion here on Topix.

Corporate America doesn't approve of public discussion of
controversial issues.

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#17 Nov 13, 2013
Im so tired of being catorgorized smh. Saying once again out of a million times i dont hate AAw. I dont hate any. A lot AAw are very mean and tends to yell at you standing 1 feet away. Those are the only ones i wish i could make better but i cant so i just deal with it. Other than that i love black women but its just a lot of them in america who makes it hard for people to like them, thats all it is it aint even all that serious to argue about all over topix and other social sites.

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#18 Nov 13, 2013
Also for a lot of AA guys it could also be the economy. The huge gap between the rich and the poor in america fixes our society where the poor would be depressed and less comfortable in their community therefore resulting in anger and frustration. Then you also got some out there who just want someone to love them but many AAw wants men with money and educated experience and a lot of guys feels thats too much and it turns into anger and frustration because they think AAw wont accept them as they are.

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#19 Nov 13, 2013
ThomasA wrote:
<quoted text> AA men walk on and have no respect for AA women because:(1) They let them walk all over them.(2) They have morals of a cat in heat.(3) They don't look at the future and what they will be doing in that future. It's me, me, me, NOW!(4) They think having different babydaddies for every child is cool BUT that only attracts the same thugs as the first couple of sperm donors.(5) They have no self respect for themselves in public with their actions, dress, and foul language so why should AA men respect them back?
Im sorry but i do agree thats the reason they dont attract the good bm. If you want someone to love you then you have love yourself first and im not talking about wearing blonde hair cause you think it looks better cause what looks good to 1 person might not look good to the next person. If you want respect then you have to respect yourself and others. Many women especially many black women in america has never been taught how to respect themselves or others.

“Yet another average white man.”

Since: Jun 11

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#20 Nov 13, 2013
Nationalist wrote:
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There was someone from the UK that this troll labeled as
a hillbilly from the south. I think this guy is just an
ass-clown.
Major new sites are starting to disable their comment sections
in order to stifle public debate. At some point in the future
I expect to see the robo-trolls posting junk just to stifle
discussion here on Topix.
Corporate America doesn't approve of public discussion of
controversial issues.

It's already well underway. This clown is very similar to others on the national boards. I'd wager he's paid just enough to cover his pot habit.
GroBBBBBBB
Lamont Hightower

Vallejo, CA

#21 Nov 13, 2013
I dont think AA women are being put down but you have to admit AA men would step on a black womans neck to get to the white woman across the room. Everything happening in the so called AA community is directly tied to white women.

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