Black men, do you want to be husbands...

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#21 Nov 12, 2010
As I see em wrote:
<quoted text>I disagree. Socio-economic status had a good bit to do with it. It starts with parenting- when people are down and out, they certainly aren't as focused on their kids as people in better economic situations. Moreover, ask any teacher- especially good teachers- what their preference would be for a teaching job. Would you expect them to say they would love the challenge of teaching in a ghetto school? Think about it.
The learning curve starts in pre-K. I sent my kids to two years of private pre-K before they even started school; they all were advanced way beyond the other children in their classes. My first grader was reading on a 4th grade level when tested in kindergarten. Your explanation for that has to do with parenting and my ability to pay for the extra schooling and nothing else. Some kids in areas of Atlanta never get that opportunity.
You are on track with your understanding of the importance of parenting influence/home life in the educating of children. I wish people on this forum would heed your words to help their own children rather than disagree with you because of their own lack of knowledge on the subject. Parents should buy their children books and educational games rather than candy and other sweets as rewards. This would be a start.
Leroy

Marietta, GA

#22 Nov 12, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
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And all the whites are inferior with Asians when compared to tests in schools, and not living in poverty has nothing to do with it.
And, let's see, Black people are only approximately 12% of the population in America, and make of 5% of the college graduates
That is because blacks are inferior monkeys that belong in the zoo.

Since: Oct 10

Union, NJ

#23 Nov 12, 2010
Leroy wrote:
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That is because blacks are inferior monkeys that belong in the zoo.
You belong there as well!
Fleabass

Texarkana, TX

#24 Nov 15, 2010
Leroy wrote:
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That is because blacks are inferior monkeys that belong in the zoo.
Aww, you're just mad because your peter is an inch and a quarter at full erect! Go rub it.

“Let the truth be told.”

Since: Nov 10

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#25 Nov 15, 2010
It's funny how the spotlight is always on the black man. I swear we are all celebrities in America.

Since: Jun 10

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#26 Nov 15, 2010
Leroy wrote:
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That is because blacks are inferior monkeys that belong in the zoo.
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The historical evidence of the violence, sadism, vile hatred and total destruction of the entire planet that whites are responsible for would say that it is you who are the monkeys that belong in a zoo, no that is an insult to primates, no, you are more like sneaky, dirty, coward ass hyeennas.

The white man has been nothing but ravaging locusts on the entire earth and every race that they have encountered. But it seems that karma is a bitch, because it is all about to come full circle on your ass; and what redeeming qualities do you have to plead your case before the world? Nothing, but historical fact after historical, document after document, case after case, evidence after evidence, witness after witness of your blind hatred, vile evil sadism, and world destruction.

P.S.: all of you people's "monkey" references toward Black people is only to throw attention off yourselves who actually have more qualities of monkeys, like being harry as hell like monkeys, have straight hair like monkeys, have thin lips like monkeys, and narrow asses like monkeys and big giant ears like chimpanzies.
ralph

Winston, GA

#27 Nov 15, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
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The historical evidence of the violence, sadism, vile hatred and total destruction of the entire planet that whites are responsible for would say that it is you who are the monkeys that belong in a zoo, no that is an insult to primates, no, you are more like sneaky, dirty, coward ass hyeennas.
The white man has been nothing but ravaging locusts on the entire earth and every race that they have encountered. But it seems that karma is a bitch, because it is all about to come full circle on your ass; and what redeeming qualities do you have to plead your case before the world? Nothing, but historical fact after historical, document after document, case after case, evidence after evidence, witness after witness of your blind hatred, vile evil sadism, and world destruction.
P.S.: all of you people's "monkey" references toward Black people is only to throw attention off yourselves who actually have more qualities of monkeys, like being harry as hell like monkeys, have straight hair like monkeys, have thin lips like monkeys, and narrow asses like monkeys and big giant ears like chimpanzies.
WOW.Strange its over 70% that are sucking up the welfare dollars and food stamps are black,and you call white people locust?

Since: Jun 10

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#28 Nov 15, 2010
ralph wrote:
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WOW.Strange its over 70% that are sucking up the welfare dollars and food stamps are black,and you call white people locust?
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Oh, please, that is a damn lie and you know it. The majority of people on welfare in this country and always have been, are white people. You people keep spreading the lie that "all" or the "majority" of Blacks are on welfare, when that is not and has never been true. Welfare was created for white people in the first place. When Black people were still being discriminated out of even getting welfare, the system supported whites, and while the Blacks worked and paid taxes, were they "supporting white people in this country? Were white people "living off Black people's tax money"? You need to stop lying to yourselves about Black people. Black people make up only about 12% of the US population and the majority of Black people are not on welfare; there is no way in hell the percent that are on welfare make up 70% of welfare recipients.

Besides, between slavery and robbing and pillaging damn near non-white nation on earth, it is the whites who have been and still are living on welfare.
Sadbuttrue

United States

#29 Nov 16, 2010
Baby Girl wrote:
Or would you rather be thugs and playas?? Now we black women are tied of yall wanting to fool around and play around. Get yall sh*t together. Ain't nothing wrong with being a good husband or good father!
Bravo ! I don't think they will listen you will have to take action and stop dating worthless men who don't see your value.

I stopped dating BM a long time ago!
As I see em

Texarkana, TX

#30 Nov 16, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
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The historical evidence of the violence, sadism, vile hatred and total destruction of the entire planet that whites are responsible for would say that it is you who are the monkeys that belong in a zoo, no that is an insult to primates, no, you are more like sneaky, dirty, coward ass hyeennas.
The white man has been nothing but ravaging locusts on the entire earth and every race that they have encountered. But it seems that karma is a bitch, because it is all about to come full circle on your ass; and what redeeming qualities do you have to plead your case before the world? Nothing, but historical fact after historical, document after document, case after case, evidence after evidence, witness after witness of your blind hatred, vile evil sadism, and world destruction.
P.S.: all of you people's "monkey" references toward Black people is only to throw attention off yourselves who actually have more qualities of monkeys, like being harry as hell like monkeys, have straight hair like monkeys, have thin lips like monkeys, and narrow asses like monkeys and big giant ears like chimpanzies.
You are just as racist as the troll that called you a monkey. There's a spot for both of you in hell I'm sure. Worthless...

Since: Jun 10

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#31 Nov 16, 2010
As I see em wrote:
<quoted text>You are just as racist as the troll that called you a monkey. There's a spot for both of you in hell I'm sure. Worthless...
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What is racist about telling the truth. Did you have similar comments for all of the white troll that come on this forum calling Black people monkeys, gorillas and animals? Don't wait until a spade is called a spade on where certain white people are concerned side to start posting your disgust.
As I see em

Texarkana, TX

#32 Nov 16, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
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What is racist about telling the truth. Did you have similar comments for all of the white troll that come on this forum calling Black people monkeys, gorillas and animals? Don't wait until a spade is called a spade on where certain white people are concerned side to start posting your disgust.
As a matter of fact, I believe I did. Why don't you go and check...

Because you allow what is probably a child posting garbage dictate your attitude, your outlook on other people, and the truth about who you actually are, I consider it a waste of time to even discuss this with you further. It's just sad to see how easy it is for you to be manipulated by ignorance. I compare it to children calling each other names in the schoolyard... Think about it.

You can't act as the better person and ignore the ignorant post because you simply AREN'T the better person. That's sad.

I am more intelligent than that. Have a wonderful rest of your day.
barry sorotoro

Winston, GA

#33 Nov 16, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
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Oh, please, that is a damn lie and you know it. The majority of people on welfare in this country and always have been, are white people. You people keep spreading the lie that "all" or the "majority" of Blacks are on welfare, when that is not and has never been true. Welfare was created for white people in the first place. When Black people were still being discriminated out of even getting welfare, the system supported whites, and while the Blacks worked and paid taxes, were they "supporting white people in this country? Were white people "living off Black people's tax money"? You need to stop lying to yourselves about Black people. Black people make up only about 12% of the US population and the majority of Black people are not on welfare; there is no way in hell the percent that are on welfare make up 70% of welfare recipients.
Besides, between slavery and robbing and pillaging damn near non-white nation on earth, it is the whites who have been and still are living on welfare.
Its a DAMN shame your STILL not able to receive welfare or section 8 or food stamps, and YES more blacks suck off the government tit than whites.YOU ARE STILL SLAVES.YOU get what the GOVERNMENT gives you, and steal the rest

Since: Jun 10

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#34 Nov 16, 2010
As I see em wrote:
<quoted text>As a matter of fact, I believe I did. Why don't you go and check...
Because you allow what is probably a child posting garbage dictate your attitude, your outlook on other people, and the truth about who you actually are, I consider it a waste of time to even discuss this with you further. It's just sad to see how easy it is for you to be manipulated by ignorance. I compare it to children calling each other names in the schoolyard... Think about it.
You can't act as the better person and ignore the ignorant post because you simply AREN'T the better person. That's sad.
I am more intelligent than that. Have a wonderful rest of your day.
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Wow! Don't get so upset. If you believe that the only people posting racist insults are children, then you need to get out more.

But even if they are children, they need to be reminded of the fact that "it probably takes one to know one" when it comes all the vile statements and comments they post about Black people, it doesn't have anything to do with the "better" person. Let them know how people see their racist ass as well. I don't have to cow down to a white racist just not to offend you or anyone else. Besides, from what I know for fact and what I actually posted, it was very mild in comparison to what I could have posted.

Since: Jun 10

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#35 Nov 16, 2010
barry sorotoro wrote:
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Its a DAMN shame your STILL not able to receive welfare or section 8 or food stamps, and YES more blacks suck off the government tit than whites.YOU ARE STILL SLAVES.YOU get what the GOVERNMENT gives you, and steal the rest
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White people were living in government housing before Black people even knew it existed in this country and were getting welfare long before any Black people ever did, but racists like you wait until even our own governments and tax payers funded programs could no longer discriminate against Blacks (and other minorities) in these programs, wait until Black people actually did start to receive this type of assistance, and then all of a sudden it is some program that "only" Black people receive. Not only that, but, ignorant racists like you continually spread the lie that a majority of Black people are on welfare/section 8 in this country when that is not and has never been true.

Racist idiots like you don't know and Black people, so how in the hell could you possibly know what their income is? Oh, I know, you saw it on t.v., or in a movie. Newsflash, what you see on t.v. and in movies are "characters" being played by 'actors,' not real everyday people. But at any rate, there are more white people on welfare in this country than Black people and there always has been, so you go out there and hate all the white people on welfare, troll on message boards calling them names and telling them what should be done with them. You worry about all the White people on welfare and Black people will worry about all the Black people on welfare. Further still, all the taxes that Black people pay in this country more than covers all the welfare that any Black person is getting, so no Black person is living off anything of yours, the taxes you pay personally could support one human being. So stop kidding yourselves and listening to racist politicians lie to you to use you for your racist vote, who are primarily responsible for fabricating this racist stereotype about African Americans in the first place.

Of all the tax money collected by the federal government only about 2% is allotted for all the social programs combined, now that would mean that the actual amount of your tax money even going to these programs in the first place is about -.1%.
But it's really not about that, it is about racist sadist sociopaths like yourself trying to rationalize the mental illness that you suffer from that makes you hate people you don't even know.
Baby Girl

Baltimore, MD

#36 Nov 17, 2010
Okay people come on, lets put aside the racial issues, the racial insults and name calling or whatever and get back on topic. I want to know what is the deal with black men. No........don't go blaming whites for your position in life. This ain't the 20's and if black women can do it there should be no excuse for you. White man ain't making you be playas, walk out on your families or not go to college and so forth. Lets get down to the bone. As a black woman, I want to know what are you looking for. Do you want a black woman to take care of you like your mamas? Why put all your pride in your penis and not in your roles as fathers and husband. Answers please!
pert

Coatesville, PA

#37 Nov 17, 2010
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Since: Jun 10

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#38 Nov 17, 2010
Women of all races have the same problems with men. Black men are not doing anything that men of any other races are not doing.

While all African American relationships may not be perfect with each and every one, the true state is exaggerated in the minds of other groups and evidently even within the Black community, primarily because of the over-exposed polarization of any negative aspect that can be found with anyone Black in this country.

Of course there are Black men that don't take care of their children, but that truth is also true for men of all other groups in this country. At the same time, all my life I have know African American couples that are doing just fine, or have been married for quite a long time, Black men that take good care of the children they bring into this world, while married or while single.

Where the ones are concerned that don't take care of their own children, that could be taken care of with the true enforcement of the child support laws already on the books, with court orders, and villigent wage garnishments. As of now, most child support orders are not vigorously pursued by the enforcing agencies, the system makes it hard to have orders enforced in the first place, a lot of child support laws, rules and regulations need to be updated. For one, it should be considered a form of abuse for men to bring children into this world and not take care of their financial, emotional, and social obligation to that child(ren).

However, as with any other men, until women stop dating and marrying men that do not support their children, that bring children into this world that they refuse to have a relationship with, abuse children, abuse women, etc., what motivation do men like this have to change their deadbeat, anti-family, unconcerned about their own offspring ways?
Baby Girl

Baltimore, MD

#39 Nov 17, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
Women of all races have the same problems with men. Black men are not doing anything that men of any other races are not doing.
While all African American relationships may not be perfect with each and every one, the true state is exaggerated in the minds of other groups and evidently even within the Black community, primarily because of the over-exposed polarization of any negative aspect that can be found with anyone Black in this country.
Of course there are Black men that don't take care of their children, but that truth is also true for men of all other groups in this country. At the same time, all my life I have know African American couples that are doing just fine, or have been married for quite a long time, Black men that take good care of the children they bring into this world, while married or while single.
Where the ones are concerned that don't take care of their own children, that could be taken care of with the true enforcement of the child support laws already on the books, with court orders, and villigent wage garnishments. As of now, most child support orders are not vigorously pursued by the enforcing agencies, the system makes it hard to have orders enforced in the first place, a lot of child support laws, rules and regulations need to be updated. For one, it should be considered a form of abuse for men to bring children into this world and not take care of their financial, emotional, and social obligation to that child(ren).
However, as with any other men, until women stop dating and marrying men that do not support their children, that bring children into this world that they refuse to have a relationship with, abuse children, abuse women, etc., what motivation do men like this have to change their deadbeat, anti-family, unconcerned about their own offspring ways?
Good points although I still think the issues in our communities are more extreme vs whites and Asians. Even nowadays I'm shocked when I meet a black woman who is married to the father of all her kids. That's how bad it is.

Since: Jan 10

Location hidden

#40 Nov 17, 2010
Isispapers wrote:
Women of all races have the same problems with men. Black men are not doing anything that men of any other races are not doing.
While all African American relationships may not be perfect with each and every one, the true state is exaggerated in the minds of other groups and evidently even within the Black community, primarily because of the over-exposed polarization of any negative aspect that can be found with anyone Black in this country.
Of course there are Black men that don't take care of their children, but that truth is also true for men of all other groups in this country. At the same time, all my life I have know African American couples that are doing just fine, or have been married for quite a long time, Black men that take good care of the children they bring into this world, while married or while single.
Where the ones are concerned that don't take care of their own children, that could be taken care of with the true enforcement of the child support laws already on the books, with court orders, and villigent wage garnishments. As of now, most child support orders are not vigorously pursued by the enforcing agencies, the system makes it hard to have orders enforced in the first place, a lot of child support laws, rules and regulations need to be updated. For one, it should be considered a form of abuse for men to bring children into this world and not take care of their financial, emotional, and social obligation to that child(ren).
However, as with any other men, until women stop dating and marrying men that do not support their children, that bring children into this world that they refuse to have a relationship with, abuse children, abuse women, etc., what motivation do men like this have to change their deadbeat, anti-family, unconcerned about their own offspring ways?
http://family.jrank.org/pages/1574/Single-Par...
The above link will show research that differs with your thoughts.
It states, "There is racial variation in the proportion of families headed by a single parent: 22 percent for white, 57 percent for black, and 33 percent for Hispanic families." I tend to believe research than a biased person's thoughts, but there are those that will argue with good research over what they believe.

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