Why do white men hate hot Asian guys

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Rain

Hurstville, Australia

#1 May 3, 2012
Its not surprise for many hot Asian men out there, being unfriendly stared in the public by some white blokes particularly older white men.(maybe only hot guys know what I'm talking abt)

White men are obsessed by Asian women and thus HATE good looking Asian males very much at the level that most Asians don't realize and understand. thus, nearly all Asian men appear in western media/movies must be either retard or ugly freak losers so they can't challenge white males.

For example, Fitness First's membership card has this combination of an old white fart + a young Asian lady, it would hardly be a combination of a good looking Asian guy + a hot young white girl(so Asian guy like this type would never be seen in western media http://t3.gstatic.com/images... ).

Another example, in the movie "ninja assassin", the white director chose to use a black woman to fall in love with Korean guy Rain.

In fact it shows the mentality of many white men nowadays, that is, jealousy and insecurity of losing women's attention and loves.

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Melissa R

San Diego, CA

#2 May 3, 2012
This is becoming a widely known phenomenon in the Asian American community. More and more women such as myself are waking up to it and we see through the manipulation and deception that goes on.

Unfortunately, many of us Asian girls fall victim to this type of media programming and reject our Asian male counterparts.

Almost 37% of Asian women in this country are married to or dating non Asian men. How many of those are influenced by media programming after seeing repetitive images of asexual, goofy Asian men on TV and only seeing themselves paired with good looking, rich and successful white men on screen?

I'd go as far to say the programming is working in their favor when nearly half are going elsewhere to find mates.

This is one of the reasons why I do not. I repeat, DO NOT, touch or talk to white men.

In fact, I only date Asian men because I know how sexy, hot and cute they can look. I'm proud of my race, history and the people I belong to.

Since: Jan 08

Jamaica, NY

#3 May 3, 2012
Rain wrote:
Its not surprise for many hot Asian men out there, being unfriendly stared in the public by some white blokes particularly older white men.(maybe only hot guys know what I'm talking abt)
White men are obsessed by Asian women and thus HATE good looking Asian males very much at the level that most Asians don't realize and understand. thus, nearly all Asian men appear in western media/movies must be either retard or ugly freak losers so they can't challenge white males.
For example, Fitness First's membership card has this combination of an old white fart + a young Asian lady, it would hardly be a combination of a good looking Asian guy + a hot young white girl(so Asian guy like this type would never be seen in western media http://t3.gstatic.com/images... ).
Another example, in the movie "ninja assassin", the white director chose to use a black woman to fall in love with Korean guy Rain.
In fact it shows the mentality of many white men nowadays, that is, jealousy and insecurity of losing women's attention and loves.
American White guys are very secure, no such problems here in America.

Asian guys are doing very well in America, things are good.

Since: Jan 12

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#4 May 3, 2012
Rain wrote:
Its not surprise for many hot Asian men out there, being unfriendly stared in the public by some white blokes particularly older white men.(maybe only hot guys know what I'm talking abt)
White men are obsessed by Asian women and thus HATE good looking Asian males very much at the level that most Asians don't realize and understand. thus, nearly all Asian men appear in western media/movies must be either retard or ugly freak losers so they can't challenge white males.
For example, Fitness First's membership card has this combination of an old white fart + a young Asian lady, it would hardly be a combination of a good looking Asian guy + a hot young white girl(so Asian guy like this type would never be seen in western media http://t3.gstatic.com/images... ).
Another example, in the movie "ninja assassin", the white director chose to use a black woman to fall in love with Korean guy Rain.
In fact it shows the mentality of many white men nowadays, that is, jealousy and insecurity of losing women's attention and loves.
G'day mate. Very good post you have here.

Yes it is true what you are saying. For too long White men has had the upper hand in the IR relationship scene with Asian women and now things are very slowly changing, White men are now trying to hold back Asian men who are changing the perception White women have on them.

In Australia, White women tend to be very narrow-minded when it comes to IR relationships and this may be the reason why you and I notice it more than our American counterparts. Australia has traditionally been very isolated from the rest of the world, including its Asian neighbors. Only recently Australia has been in more contact with the rest of the world due to globalization. Before that, Australians were very closed off from other cultures and influences apart from the traditional British, Irish and German influences that arrived to Australia during colonial days and the first decades after Federation.

If you look at the geography of Australia, Australians were pretty isolated from the rest of the world as they were too far away from the European counterparts, and they didn't want to have anything to do with their Asian neighbors. Even today, Australians tend to look more towards Europe and North America rather than Asia.

Predictions that as the Asian economies continue to rise and with the continued migration from Asia to Australia, Asian men will elevate their financial status as more and more Asian influence on the Australian business and economic scene may influence Australian White women to become more open towards Asian men. They may see them as good providers and good husbands who will take care of them instead of the laid-back, alcohol-sculling White Aussie men.

Slowly there is a growing trend of Asian-Australian men who are buffing up in the gyms and becoming more masculine compared to 10 years ago. Together with their growing financial status, this will improve their image in Australia.
sam

Dallas, TX

#5 May 3, 2012
He's in hanakimi

Lol- funny drama

“I'm an East Asian male.”

Since: Dec 10

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#6 May 3, 2012
Rain wrote:
For example, Fitness First's membership card has this combination of an old white fart + a young Asian lady, it would hardly be a combination of a good looking Asian guy + a hot young white girl(so Asian guy like this type would never be seen in western media http://t3.gstatic.com/images... ).
I do not think the man in the link is "good looking", because his facial features resemble those of the White race.
sam

United States

#7 May 3, 2012
for her wrote:
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I do not think the man in the link is "good looking", because his facial features resemble those of the White race.
Well, that's what main stream asian pop culture consider handsome.
Also, I think he's cute.
I've seen some asian guys with similar facial features to his.
Actually it's pretty common among taiwan/southern chinese folk.
Actually, I've seen similar features with different asian races too.

“I'm an East Asian male.”

Since: Dec 10

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#8 May 4, 2012
sam wrote:
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Well, that's what main stream asian pop culture consider handsome.

Also, I think he's cute.
When I think of "good looking" AM, I think of alpha males like Pacquiao and Asashoryu who have proven their physical dominance over other men. I do not think of wimpy nobodies who are being put on a pedestal due to their facial features resembling those of White people.
Ulfric Stormcloak

Woodbridge, VA

#9 May 4, 2012
Well I personally dont hate Asian men or any men for that matter. I am not a hater.
sam

United States

#10 May 4, 2012
for her wrote:
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When I think of "good looking" AM, I think of alpha males like Pacquiao and Asashoryu who have proven their physical dominance over other men. I do not think of wimpy nobodies who are being put on a pedestal due to their facial features resembling those of White people.
Nobody's putting him on a pedestal.
He's just an example of what some people consider goodlooking.
For you it just happens to be Pacquiao and Asashoryu is your type.
Also, I was just saying it's normal to have those features.
Not all asians look the same. If you think that then
obviously your sterotyping your fellow asians
who are trying to break out of the sterotypical scene.
When in general a people don't want to be put into a box and label this is how we're suppose to act and pretend to be.
Well, I mean I don't at least.
Although, it seems you like it.

LOL- Mr.I am East asian male -my DNA makes me have the same brain and I think this way, because I am east asian male.
Ulfric Stormcloak

Woodbridge, VA

#11 May 4, 2012
Maybe its because there are quite a few very hateful Asian women?
http://cassandrapowers.tumblr.com/post/223974...
zzzzzzzz

Saint Petersburg, Russia

#12 May 4, 2012
white guys like to manipulate everyone
sam

United States

#13 May 5, 2012
Ulfric Stormcloak wrote:
Maybe its because there are quite a few very hateful Asian women?
http://cassandrapowers.tumblr.com/post/223974...
B#tches are awesome.
They're bitter for a reason. Finding out why and understanding why is the best part.
Then you realize their not mean or hateful there just careful to their surroundings.
Because people will take advantge if they can.

Since: Nov 11

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#14 May 5, 2012
stop whinging and go play in the snow if that's what you and the prospective yellow fever girl want.

REAL MEN don't whinge.
Billy

Fullerton, CA

#15 May 6, 2012
I believe that people would not marry white people just because of western influence. I've dated Asians, Europeans, and Latinas. And I'm Asian. If you are clean and have decent social skills you can date anyone you want.

Since: Jan 08

Brooklyn, NY

#16 May 6, 2012
Billy wrote:
I believe that people would not marry white people just because of western influence. I've dated Asians, Europeans, and Latinas. And I'm Asian. If you are clean and have decent social skills you can date anyone you want.
Yes, being clean with decent social skills is a good start for Asian guys.

“I'm an East Asian male.”

Since: Dec 10

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#17 May 7, 2012
Rain wrote:
For example, Fitness First's membership card has this combination of an old white fart + a young Asian lady, it would hardly be a combination of a good looking Asian guy + a hot young white girl
The equivalent pairing would be an old AM and a young WW. If they used advertisement with an old AM and a young WW, it would appeal to nobody, because old AM want young women of their own race.

Since: Jan 12

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#18 May 7, 2012
for her wrote:
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The equivalent pairing would be an old AM and a young WW. If they used advertisement with an old AM and a young WW, it would appeal to nobody, because old AM want young women of their own race.
Not necessarily. I've known some old Asian males who would want young women who are White. It's just that the advertisements that have Old White men with young Asian women reaches the market because in Australian society, it is common to see these pairings around.

Like I have mentioned before, Australia is more narrow-minded towards interracial relationships compared to North America because Australians have been isolated from other cultures due to being geographically south of South-East Asia being a European society isolated from Asians etc. Only until recently Australia has been in contact with other cultures due to globalization and all that tamasha.

Australia will become more Asianized as the years go by and will become officially part of Asia in a couple of centuries.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#19 May 7, 2012
It is changing, look at Yul Kwon and Tim Kang. These are both good looking Asian American men playing good roles. Tim Kang even has a white blond girlfriend on The Mentalist.

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Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#20 May 7, 2012
Pamela in red wrote:
It is changing, look at Yul Kwon and Tim Kang. These are both good looking Asian American men playing good roles. Tim Kang even has a white blond girlfriend on The Mentalist.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =Eks80dYnAZcXX&feature=rel mfu
sh!t, the stoic guy actually SMILED...lol, morning breath...eww jk.
y is it always a blonde and an asian guy? what's wrong with brunettes?

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