Asian men, do you relize that you ARE...

Since: Jan 08

Corona, NY

#162 May 19, 2012
cepheus wrote:
I've not personally been confronted with this, but a few years ago a white, female friend of mine revealed something to me that really shook my self image. She told me that she was appalled by white (European) women who bluntly, albeit amongst their close girlfriends, said how they'd NEVER date an Asian male. This to me hit harder than centuries of media discrimination.
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Why are Whites so special?

I know Indian and Asian girls who would never date a White guy, and I'm not appalled by it.

Since: Jan 08

Corona, NY

#163 May 19, 2012
-TheExam- wrote:
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Why don't you want Jeremy Lin to have a white girl friend? He is more westernized and has a better chance to integrate into the mainstream than many other FOB Asian Americans
First of all, most Asian guys don't want a White girl friend.

Unless he's childhood sweetheart is a White girl, the White girls who are after him now many would be sleazy golddiggers which would ruin his squeaky clean image and offend many people.

Personally I would like to see him with a nice, wholesome Hispanic girl.

“European Asian Male, 25”

Since: May 12

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#164 May 19, 2012
mak from NYC wrote:
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Why are Whites so special?
I know Indian and Asian girls who would never date a White guy, and I'm not appalled by it.
They aren't special. I live in a predominantly white society, so by quantity alone their opinion, accumatively, "weighs more" if you catch my drift. I am equally appalled by the sentiment you mention.
Ulfric Stormcloak

Woodbridge, VA

#165 May 19, 2012
All I hear non-asian girls say about asian guys is that they are ugly and nerdy. However I have seen a few with latinas and of course asians.

Since: Jan 08

Springfield Gardens, NY

#166 May 19, 2012
Ulfric Stormcloak wrote:
All I hear non-asian girls say about asian guys is that they are ugly and nerdy. However I have seen a few with latinas and of course asians.
The Asian guys in NYC are not like that, nobody says that about Asian guys here.

“To be or not to be”

Since: Feb 12

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#167 May 19, 2012
cepheus wrote:
Man, really surprised at how much racism/general hatred exist on a board like this. Just read this entire thread, and I don't know quite how to respond. Maybe it's because I grew up in an ultra liberal society, but some of you guys have straight hatred in your hearts.
I never got the "I don't date this race" mentality. I've been with nearly all types of women. But quite honestly, I do understand Asian males insecurities in Western societies, and it's not because of the media. It's because of biggoted people.
I've not personally been confronted with this, but a few years ago a white, female friend of mine revealed something to me that really shook my self image. She told me that she was appalled by white (European) women who bluntly, albeit amongst their close girlfriends, said how they'd NEVER date an Asian male. This to me hit harder than centuries of media discrimination.
I have much more to say, but this will do for now.
Shame on you closed minded hating people.
Asians in Europe do have a problem finding a Asian girl friend or sweetheart because Asians in Europe live dispersedly. It's like finding a needle in a haysack. In North America, people live in their own communities aka ghettos. So those European Asians must think of plan B eg. looking for a white partner.

The problem with Asian men is they have the habit of doing nothing much except working. No outdoor activities, no golfing, no treking, no mountain climbing, no picnicking, no bicycling.
After work they go home and watch Asian dramas or kungfu movies. During the weekend they go shopping and then back home to play majoing. If they run a restaurant or a laundry joint, it's even worse. They work all day and save and save to buy a second restaurant, a second laundry. No leisure time, no hobbie. Such a sedentary life doesn't suit a white girl at all. Western girls want boys to be manly, do outdoor activities with them. Physically they don't look good. Underfed, they look small and skinny as if they had no spinal column. Well fed they still look short but their calves now look like chicken drumsticks. The ideal man for western girls is some one who looks like David of Michael Angelo.
Ulfric Stormcloak

Woodbridge, VA

#168 May 19, 2012
I have been to NY. All I saw in terms of Asian/White was Asian girls/White guys. The opposite seemed to not exist.

“European Asian Male, 25”

Since: May 12

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#169 May 19, 2012
-TheExam- wrote:
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Asians in Europe do have a problem finding a Asian girl friend or sweetheart because Asians in Europe live dispersedly. It's like finding a needle in a haysack. In North America, people live in their own communities aka ghettos. So those European Asians must think of plan B eg. looking for a white partner.
The problem with Asian men is they have the habit of doing nothing much except working. No outdoor activities, no golfing, no treking, no mountain climbing, no picnicking, no bicycling.
After work they go home and watch Asian dramas or kungfu movies. During the weekend they go shopping and then back home to play majoing. If they run a restaurant or a laundry joint, it's even worse. They work all day and save and save to buy a second restaurant, a second laundry. No leisure time, no hobbie. Such a sedentary life doesn't suit a white girl at all. Western girls want boys to be manly, do outdoor activities with them. Physically they don't look good. Underfed, they look small and skinny as if they had no spinal column. Well fed they still look short but their calves now look like chicken drumsticks. The ideal man for western girls is some one who looks like David of Michael Angelo.
Haha, not sure if trolling, but I'll bite. Your description of the European Asian male does not apply to second generation immigrants that are young adults (like myself) today. It, to me at least (and I can only give my SRC view, naturally), seems like an apt description for Asian males living in Western Europe in the 70s, 80s and to a lesser degree the 90s who themselves migrated and not their parents.

I am 5'10" (just short of 180 cm) and 170 lbs (circa 75 kg). I'll be honest, that physical description you give sounds like a caricature. The Asian males I know do not live the life you describe either ... as hermits.

And your other point, not quite applicable to where I live either. If I wanted to, I could easily seek out Asian women, even though my race is a small minority. I'm not interested in seeking out a specific race, and quite honestly years of social interaction with Asian women has started to leave an impression on me, and it's not too positive. I always try to be open minded but at the same time rational, and after a sizeable sample size, it's become close to imperically proven, to me at least, that a lot of Asian women in European backdrops refuse to date outside their race. If I meet a woman of any race that genuinely feels like that, then I can't fucks with her in any shape or form. Friendship, love, nothing. But to me there's a fine line between preemptively deciding for good what races to date and what races not to date compared to having aesthetic and cultural preferences. The latter to me is, of course,'acfeptable.' I know it comes off as judgmental, but people that are of this philosophy have a very value set from my own.

That's why the "never" part amongst these white women surprised me, especially in such a liberal society.

Sorry if I'm incoherent. English is my second language. My native tongue is of the country in which I'm born (Western Europe).

“European Asian Male, 25”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#170 May 19, 2012
*acceptable
**different value set

Sorry, folks. Typing on a tablet here.

Since: Jan 08

New York, NY

#171 May 19, 2012
Ulfric Stormcloak wrote:
I have been to NY. All I saw in terms of Asian/White was Asian girls/White guys. The opposite seemed to not exist.
In my neighborhood, it's about equal.

Asian guys are doing well in NYC, work , relationships, everything.

Since: Jan 08

New York, NY

#172 May 19, 2012
cepheus wrote:
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Haha, not sure if trolling, but I'll bite. Your description of the European Asian male does not apply to second generation immigrants that are young adults (like myself) today. It, to me at least (and I can only give my SRC view, naturally), seems like an apt description for Asian males living in Western Europe in the 70s, 80s and to a lesser degree the 90s who themselves migrated and not their parents.
I am 5'10" (just short of 180 cm) and 170 lbs (circa 75 kg). I'll be honest, that physical description you give sounds like a caricature. The Asian males I know do not live the life you describe either ... as hermits.
And your other point, not quite applicable to where I live either. If I wanted to, I could easily seek out Asian women, even though my race is a small minority. I'm not interested in seeking out a specific race, and quite honestly years of social interaction with Asian women has started to leave an impression on me, and it's not too positive. I always try to be open minded but at the same time rational, and after a sizeable sample size, it's become close to imperically proven, to me at least, that a lot of Asian women in European backdrops refuse to date outside their race. If I meet a woman of any race that genuinely feels like that, then I can't fucks with her in any shape or form. Friendship, love, nothing. But to me there's a fine line between preemptively deciding for good what races to date and what races not to date compared to having aesthetic and cultural preferences. The latter to me is, of course,'acfeptable.' I know it comes off as judgmental, but people that are of this philosophy have a very value set from my own.
That's why the "never" part amongst these white women surprised me, especially in such a liberal society.
Sorry if I'm incoherent. English is my second language. My native tongue is of the country in which I'm born (Western Europe).
You're doing good, defending Asian guys well.

Since: Jan 08

New York, NY

#173 May 19, 2012
cepheus wrote:
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That's why the "never" part amongst these white women surprised me, especially in such a liberal society.
You shouldn't worry about those kind, they're very bad fit for Asian guys.

Over here in America, probably a lot of Hispanic girls don't like Asian guys either, but I only make friends with those who do, and they're really nice.

Since: Jan 08

New York, NY

#174 May 19, 2012
cepheus wrote:
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They aren't special. I live in a predominantly white society, so by quantity alone their opinion, accumatively, "weighs more" if you catch my drift. I am equally appalled by the sentiment you mention.
Fair enough. As long as it apllies to everyone.
Ulfric Stormcloak

Woodbridge, VA

#175 May 19, 2012
Everyone who is seeing more Asian guys with white girls is seeing this because of the delusion that china is passing America economically.

Problem is, China's economy is going to crash due to re-shoring efforts of American companies. China's economy is already losing speed rapidly.

Since: Jan 08

New York, NY

#176 May 19, 2012
Ulfric Stormcloak wrote:
Everyone who is seeing more Asian guys with white girls is seeing this because of the delusion that china is passing America economically.
Problem is, China's economy is going to crash due to re-shoring efforts of American companies. China's economy is already losing speed rapidly.
Many American companies are own by Chinese Americans. Most Chinese Americans work for American companies. Any company started in America by Chinese Americans are American companies.

We'll certainly do our part in re-shoring.

AussiPino

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#177 May 19, 2012
Ulfric Stormcloak wrote:
Everyone who is seeing more Asian guys with white girls is seeing this because of the delusion that china is passing America economically.
Problem is, China's economy is going to crash due to re-shoring efforts of American companies. China's economy is already losing speed rapidly.
The signs are already there with China's economic slowdown. But in general, Asia is rising collectively-speaking and in the long-term, more financial power will be shifted to Asia.

The Chinese have a huge economic influence here in Australia. China is Australia's huge trading partner with raw materials and agriculture. Chinese-Australians are rapidly entering the professions such as doctors, pharmacists, businessmen etc. Many establish their own small businesses such as restaurants, convenience stores, nick-knack shops and so on.

Australia is slowly becoming Asian.

“European Asian Male, 25”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#178 May 19, 2012
Ulfric Stormcloak wrote:
Everyone who is seeing more Asian guys with white girls is seeing this because of the delusion that china is passing America economically.
Problem is, China's economy is going to crash due to re-shoring efforts of American companies. China's economy is already losing speed rapidly.
This notion is ridiculous to me. You're saying gold digging, white women have begun dating Asian men on a larger scale due to a, false I might add, perception that these individual Asian males have some sort of stake in the blossoming economy of China?

Even gold diggers can't be that stupid. Way to castrate these Asian males of their individuality.

(Or am I misunderstanding your comment, and it's simply these individual Asian males that have actually accumulated wealth off the Chinese economy?)

AussiPino

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#179 May 19, 2012
cepheus wrote:
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This notion is ridiculous to me. You're saying gold digging, white women have begun dating Asian men on a larger scale due to a, false I might add, perception that these individual Asian males have some sort of stake in the blossoming economy of China?
Even gold diggers can't be that stupid. Way to castrate these Asian males of their individuality.
(Or am I misunderstanding your comment, and it's simply these individual Asian males that have actually accumulated wealth off the Chinese economy?)
This is not ridiculous at all. Why is it that Asian women are so gung-ho in hooking up White men? Because at the moment White men are at the top of the social ladder. Asian women want to elevate their social status so they date White men.

One day, Asian men will overtake White men in the social ladder and White Women will start dating them to elevate their status. Asia is rising economically and women in general are attracted to men who have influence and money.

Since: Aug 10

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#180 May 20, 2012
AussiPino wrote:
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Asian boys are hopeless without their parents. They are babied as long as the parents are able to do things for them and White women are turned off by this.
In Australia, Asian male international students in general are so hopeless without mummy and daddy. Sending pocket money to their baby boys so they don't have to look for part-time work and calling them on the phone every week to make sure they are behaving themselves.
Even though many of these Asian male international students experience life in Australia, they are still effeminate little wimps. Guess they are ingrained by their upbringing.
Hahahaaaa... Where do you get this from? The ones in the u.k,aren't all lazy and wimpy.. Talk about stereotyping dude...Hahaaaa....

“To be or not to be”

Since: Feb 12

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#181 May 20, 2012
Dinie wrote:
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Hahahaaaa... Where do you get this from? The ones in the u.k,aren't all lazy and wimpy.. Talk about stereotyping dude...Hahaaaa....
Maybe you are an exception. There are exceptions like Jeremy Lin, Jacky Chan ... their fans will tell you that ..you know ..

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