Asian women are FEMININE not "submis...

Asian women are FEMININE not "submissive"

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Aquinas2159

Netherlands

#1 Mar 7, 2013
I often hear Asian women described a "submissive", both in a positive and critical manner.

While that word means differnet things to different people, I think it is really innacurate.

What asian women have in abundance is FEMININITY. It is the soft, fluid feminine manner, combined with the grace and thoughtful tacfulness that has a primal sensual appeal to males. This is how they out compete other groups of women who may have more curves, or bigger breasts, or be more "bootylicious".
The ideal heterosexual sexual dynamic has a "ying & yang" quality in which femininity and masculinity contrast, compliment and fit together.

They understand that their strength comes from their femininity and embrace this, instsead of attepting to emulate masculinity, as some misguided women, enfluenced by feminist ideas do in America.

The hetero male feels an instinctive, primal biological attraction to females who have a deep feminine texture and essence because it contrasts with our own masculine essence.
Aussie Bob

Adelaide, Australia

#2 Mar 7, 2013
Aquinas2159 wrote:
I often hear Asian women described a "submissive", both in a positive and critical manner.

While that word means differnet things to different people, I think it is really innacurate.

What asian women have in abundance is FEMININITY. It is the soft, fluid feminine manner, combined with the grace and thoughtful tacfulness that has a primal sensual appeal to males. This is how they out compete other groups of women who may have more curves, or bigger breasts, or be more "bootylicious".
The ideal heterosexual sexual dynamic has a "ying & yang" quality in which femininity and masculinity contrast, compliment and fit together.

They understand that their strength comes from their femininity and embrace this, instsead of attepting to emulate masculinity, as some misguided women, enfluenced by feminist ideas do in America.

The hetero male feels an instinctive, primal biological attraction to females who have a deep feminine texture and essence because it contrasts with our own masculine essence.
Well said. You write very skillfully and I agree with your assessment. Many women in the West have been brainwashed by the modern ideals of Feminism which has ironically made them more masculine and "man-like".

Asian women still maintain and preserve their ancestral cultural practices which promote a more feminine and gentle way of being. Heterosexual males naturally find these feminine qualities attractive and very appealing in contrast to the macho nature of modern feminism.

Feminism is a social construct that was created by Zionist Jews to divide and conquer their enemies through subtle means. Feminism is very bad for modern society, that is my opinion. I wish my people were never introduced to the concept of Feminism as it may end up being the death of us.
TheEye

New York, NY

#3 Mar 8, 2013
Aussie Bob wrote:
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Well said. You write very skillfully and I agree with your assessment. Many women in the West have been brainwashed by the modern ideals of Feminism which has ironically made them more masculine and "man-like".
Asian women still maintain and preserve their ancestral cultural practices which promote a more feminine and gentle way of being. Heterosexual males naturally find these feminine qualities attractive and very appealing in contrast to the macho nature of modern feminism.
Feminism is a social construct that was created by Zionist Jews to divide and conquer their enemies through subtle means. Feminism is very bad for modern society, that is my opinion. I wish my people were never introduced to the concept of Feminism as it may end up being the death of us.
You know,

I bet if someone made a post about cupcake recipes, you would still find a way to twist it into a anti-semitic rant
gorathus6

Indianapolis, IN

#4 Mar 9, 2013
Are we talking about Asian or Asian-American women? The latter don't seem to be too much different than other races of females in America when it comes to personality, unless maybe she's recently immigrated? If she's born and raised in the U.S., she's more likely to act white or black than "Asian."

Source: White guy who has dated a couple Asian-American females.
Human Revolution

Loveland, OH

#5 Mar 9, 2013
I think when the subject of Asian femininity arises, people are talking about how they have the most beautiful, womanly faces that mean scientific/human beauty standards, not attitude.
TheEye

New York, NY

#6 Mar 20, 2013
Human Revolution wrote:
I think when the subject of Asian femininity arises, people are talking about how they have the most beautiful, womanly faces that mean scientific/human beauty standards, not attitude.
I suspect its actually more about manner, attitude and personality
Human Revolution

Newark, OH

#7 Mar 22, 2013
TheEye wrote:
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I suspect its actually more about manner, attitude and personality
I'mm telling you, it's physical beauty.
well

France

#9 Apr 2, 2013
I am not sure whether they are feminine. But asian people are aggressive. This is what I and my friends think after getting along with them. They are considered submissive just because they do not speak the same language well and do not share the same culture, while they try to behave politely. And they are such hypocritical people...
Asiana

Chicago, IL

#11 Jun 4, 2013
I am an asian female but i was never been submissive. I have been told i was demanding but only i am not interested in that guy much, i act like demanding n that way i can keep admirers out distance from me.
WM Supremacy

Newark, OH

#12 Jun 4, 2013
well wrote:
I am not sure whether they are feminine. But asian people are aggressive.
Hahahahahahahahaha...no
Anonymous

Tianjin, China

#13 Jun 15, 2013
asian women more to do with being a gold digger,get money ,use sex and feminity to get power to betray her husband ,marriage become a tool to get money and power,so feminism in fact benefit man.at least women in western are not such gold diggers
Chickaboom

United States

#14 Jul 4, 2013
Aquinas2159 wrote:
I often hear Asian women described a "submissive", both in a positive and critical manner.
While that word means differnet things to different people, I think it is really innacurate.
What asian women have in abundance is FEMININITY. It is the soft, fluid feminine manner, combined with the grace and thoughtful tacfulness that has a primal sensual appeal to males. This is how they out compete other groups of women who may have more curves, or bigger breasts, or be more "bootylicious".
The ideal heterosexual sexual dynamic has a "ying & yang" quality in which femininity and masculinity contrast, compliment and fit together.
They understand that their strength comes from their femininity and embrace this, instsead of attepting to emulate masculinity, as some misguided women, enfluenced by feminist ideas do in America.
The hetero male feels an instinctive, primal biological attraction to females who have a deep feminine texture and essence because it contrasts with our own masculine essence.
I've heard it said that Asian women focus on being as feminine as they can be, while western women try to be mannish.

If that is true, Asian women are more liberated -- they are freely and openly "feminine" - and celebrate it -while western women struggle to be MORE LIKE MEN in the workplace, etc..

Here's the great irony. It turns out Asian-American women earn more than Caucasian women. So it's clear that what white women are doing isn't working.
romeo

Wheaton, IL

#15 Sep 13, 2013
I'm an Asian man, and I will say this.

When people say Asian women are "submissive," they have this idea(or even expectation) that Asian women are absolutely tolerant on every abusive role men may play against them. In this sense, no, Asian women aren't submissive.

But Asian women are generally way less confrontational than your average white women. And this is also true for Asian men compare to their white male counterpart.

This is so because of their cultural values. They have tendency to value "harmony" over "conflict" where avoiding conflict or confrontation is considered virtue. And when we also consider the sexist expectation of women's silence and "understanding"(whic h is code-word for "submission" for women in Asian society), Asian women are generally more non-confrontational than their Asian male counterpart as well.

This will definitely make Asian women more submissive than other women. As an Asian man, I often get Asian women, trying to convince me that Asian woman will make a better choice for me as a wife because of Asian women's general tendency of being subservient and tolerant to men's male-chauvinism. In other word, they may not like such reputation, but they themselves will admit this whenever they are in the position to convince other Asian men that Asian woman will make better candidate as a wife.
romeo

Wheaton, IL

#16 Sep 14, 2013
Chickaboom wrote:
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I've heard it said that Asian women focus on being as feminine as they can be, while western women try to be mannish.
If that is true, Asian women are more liberated -- they are freely and openly "feminine" - and celebrate it -while western women struggle to be MORE LIKE MEN in the workplace, etc..
Here's the great irony. It turns out Asian-American women earn more than Caucasian women. So it's clear that what white women are doing isn't working.
This is completely wrong! Most of Western women don't oppose "femininity" as long as it serves their interests. But unlike Asian women, Western women have developed their capability and consciousness to question about this notion of "femininity" which have been often emphasized by men while feeling like women are having their free potentials restricted by this social expectation of "femininity."

What you will consider Western women being more "masculine" is actually Western women's understanding and their CHOICE of "femininity" that serves their interests while Asian women haven't develop such capability. This is why lots of conservative men likes Asian women. Now, you tell me who's more "liberated"?

And it's your wishful thinking if you think women in Asia are "freely and openly 'feminine'- and celebrate it". This is one of reason why many of them want to date or marry Western men because they believe they are going to be as free as Western women are if they date or marry Western men. Irony is that Western men date or marry Asian women for the opposite reason(among other reasons as well).

Also Asian women don't get higher paid than Caucasian women. This has nothing to do with being "masculine" or "feminine," but has to do with racial discrimination.
romeo

Wheaton, IL

#19 Sep 14, 2013
kenny leung wrote:
Western women act (and often LOOK) too masculine.
Asian women are much more feminine.
That's another huge reason you rarely see an Asian guy like me with a white woman.
No the real "huge reason" why you rarely see an Asian guy with a white woman is because the chance of white women being attracted to Asian men are far less than the chance of Asian guy being attracted to white women. If you are an Asian guy, you will know how much Asian men are attracted to white women(for both right and wrong reasons).

And the notion that white women acts and often look too "masculine" is also not true. This is one of the reason why Asian men and women(in Asia) look upon white women as model of beauty and womanhood. Asian men generally lack any confidence with white women because they feel white women are totally out of their league while Asian women are envious of white women's looks.(I even had Asian women admitting that they wish they are born white)
DesiDragon

Ann Arbor, MI

#20 Sep 14, 2013
If azn dudes had more confidence and actually tried to get white girls instead of thinking that they had no chance you'd see a lot more AM/WF couples.
BROOKLYN HIPSTER

New York, NY

#21 Sep 14, 2013
With the rise of China, KPOP and Japanese branding, White girls are actively seeking out Azn doods these days. When it rains it pours.
BlackArab

Washington, DC

#22 Sep 14, 2013
You need those countries to help you bang a white girl? I went balls deep in a white girl 4 months after I got here. I am from the third world and didn't even speak much English.. My friend from Nairobi also got a White girl at the school he went.
BROOKLYN HIPSTER wrote:
With the rise of China, KPOP and Japanese branding, White girls are actively seeking out Azn doods these days. When it rains it pours.
BlackArab

Washington, DC

#23 Sep 14, 2013
You East Asian guys need those countries to help you bang a white girl? I went balls deep in a white girl about 5 months after getting here. I was from a third world country, in school and no job. My friend from Trinadad also got some white chicks. We don't need our countries to get a white girl or a Korean girl.
BROOKLYN HIPSTER wrote:
With the rise of China, KPOP and Japanese branding, White girls are actively seeking out Azn doods these days. When it rains it pours.
BROOKLYN HIPSTER

New York, NY

#24 Sep 15, 2013
BlackArab wrote:
You East Asian guys need those countries to help you bang a white girl? I went balls deep in a white girl about 5 months after getting here. I was from a third world country, in school and no job. My friend from Trinadad also got some white chicks. We don't need our countries to get a white girl or a Korean girl.
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Since you all hail from 3rd World countries, the Whites girls you claimed you "banged" went slumming. Big difference, my friend.

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