I dislike white/asian couples

I dislike white/asian couples

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TheJazuma

Rockdale, Australia

#2 Mar 21, 2012
Get a life Grouch

AussiPino

Since: Jan 12

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#3 Mar 22, 2012
Meerkat wrote:
First off, let me just say I am Chinese, female, in my 20's, and I know some will argue that I'm racist but it's how I feel, and have always felt.
I can't quite explain what it is that bothers me so much when I see a white guy and an asian female together. It actually fills me with considerable rage.
I think it's because I'm still bitter about some of the racist attitudes I faced growing up in a western society, and also how I hate that many asian people in general tend to fawn over white people. It really disgusts me. Why can't there be a strong female asian role model? When a white guy shows interest in me a big reason is my race, there's no escaping it.
I also hate how there is this expectation of me, as a young asian woman, to be bubbly and sweet and accommodating... or else face alienation. When I get dressed up, men assume that it's OK to approach me and start a conversation with me because of my race. I hate how my race ALWAYS comes into question in all of my interactions with others. It's like western society doesn't condone an asian woman walking strong and tall.
I'm a strong independent female, but that always gets overlooked through how white people see me as a cute little asian girl. Operative word: asian.
There's no way of putting this without sounding horribly conceited, but in order to make my point: people often ask me why despite being so attractive I don't have a boyfriend. This is the reason. I hate being seen as a caricature and refuse to submit to these sort of restrictive social preconceptions.
That's why my dream is to live far away from the rest of society and live the life of a hermit... haha, Im only half kidding.
I doubt that you are an Asian woman.

If this is you West Virginian, Grouch or whatever, take a break from this and discuss something other than Asian Women/White Men relationships.
Meerkat

Montréal, Canada

#4 Mar 22, 2012
Hahahahaa! I don't care if you don't believe me, I know what I am. I stand firm in my belief.

Asian women who date out of their race have no self-respect. That's what I think. I do not believe in the intermixing of races; however this does not make me racist, as I am very tolerant of all people.
sam

Dallas, TX

#5 Mar 22, 2012
Meerkat wrote:
Hahahahaa! I don't care if you don't believe me, I know what I am. I stand firm in my belief.
Asian women who date out of their race have no self-respect. That's what I think. I do not believe in the intermixing of races; however this does not make me racist, as I am very tolerant of all people.
:) hmp......
Just out of curiosity....
So different types of asians shouldn't like each other because their different races of asians?
Or is that okay?
Try This

Baldwin Park, CA

#6 Mar 22, 2012
Meerkat wrote:
First off, let me just say I am Chinese, female, in my 20's, and I know some will argue that I'm racist but it's how I feel, and have always felt.
I can't quite explain what it is that bothers me so much when I see a white guy and an asian female together. It actually fills me with considerable rage.
I think it's because I'm still bitter about some of the racist attitudes I faced growing up in a western society, and also how I hate that many asian people in general tend to fawn over white people. It really disgusts me. Why can't there be a strong female asian role model? When a white guy shows interest in me a big reason is my race, there's no escaping it.
I also hate how there is this expectation of me, as a young asian woman, to be bubbly and sweet and accommodating... or else face alienation. When I get dressed up, men assume that it's OK to approach me and start a conversation with me because of my race. I hate how my race ALWAYS comes into question in all of my interactions with others. It's like western society doesn't condone an asian woman walking strong and tall.
I'm a strong independent female, but that always gets overlooked through how white people see me as a cute little asian girl. Operative word: asian.
There's no way of putting this without sounding horribly conceited, but in order to make my point: people often ask me why despite being so attractive I don't have a boyfriend. This is the reason. I hate being seen as a caricature and refuse to submit to these sort of restrictive social preconceptions.
That's why my dream is to live far away from the rest of society and live the life of a hermit... haha, Im only half kidding.
You're mad about being thought of as cute. Wow, if you could be black or hispanic for a day you'd forget about all your problems. Maybe next life...
sam

Plano, TX

#7 Mar 22, 2012
Try This wrote:
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You're mad about being thought of as cute. Wow, if you could be black or hispanic for a day you'd forget about all your problems. Maybe next life...
You don't understand why this person is upset.
She is not upset because people think she is kute.
She is upset, because people automatically assume she will be a sterotype asian women are looked to be. Sweet, kind, white men chasing, self hating, hate their own men, and white wanna be.(It's more like being american not white. There's different races of white people, but that's a different topic).You know the usual. So no, dude you've got it wrong.

Although, I have to admit it is rather f#ckin annoying when people think that.
Try This

Baldwin Park, CA

#8 Mar 22, 2012
sam wrote:
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You don't understand why this person is upset.
She is not upset because people think she is kute.
She is upset, because people automatically assume she will be a sterotype asian women are looked to be. Sweet, kind, white men chasing, self hating, hate their own men, and white wanna be.(It's more like being american not white. There's different races of white people, but that's a different topic).You know the usual. So no, dude you've got it wrong.
Although, I have to admit it is rather f#ckin annoying when people think that.
No I get it. She's used to mildly annoying positive stereotypes -model minority and all that. Sounds more like gender stuff actually.

Too bad she doesn't know what negative stereotypes feel like. Maybe next life she will be black or hispanic and understand how lucky she has it. Maybe she can talk to the parents of that black kid that was hunted down in Florida because someone didn't like his dirty skin color near a gated community.

She needs to leave her bubble for once, then she will get a new perspective on life.
sam

United States

#9 Mar 22, 2012
Try This wrote:
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No I get it. She's used to mildly annoying positive stereotypes -model minority and all that. Sounds more like gender stuff actually.
Too bad she doesn't know what negative stereotypes feel like. Maybe next life she will be black or hispanic and understand how lucky she has it. Maybe she can talk to the parents of that black kid that was hunted down in Florida because someone didn't like his dirty skin color near a gated community.
She needs to leave her bubble for once, then she will get a new perspective on life.
Yeah, your right. But this is more of a asian female perspective. But that's just a problem every female deals with. You know the double standard.
Also, who am I, or even you to judge. We're not in any ones shoes, but our own. I'm just here to understand the reasoning behind it all. Everyone has problem, we deal with them in our own way. This just happens to be hers.

P.S. What you consider to be postive can be seen as a negative to others.

AussiPino

Since: Jan 12

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#10 Mar 22, 2012
Meerkat wrote:
Hahahahaa! I don't care if you don't believe me, I know what I am. I stand firm in my belief.
Asian women who date out of their race have no self-respect. That's what I think. I do not believe in the intermixing of races; however this does not make me racist, as I am very tolerant of all people.
An Asian women talking about this issue like this is very rare. So do you get upset when Asian men date White women?
sam

United States

#11 Mar 22, 2012
AussiPino wrote:
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An Asian women talking about this issue like this is very rare. So do you get upset when Asian men date White women?
I like that combo AM/WF
Mostly because it proves sterotypes wrong and the asian guy always has a huge ass grin on his face :p
8 staus: if you know what I mean

Does it make me a weirdo that it buggs me too?
I must be the outcast.
TheJazuma

Rockdale, Australia

#12 Mar 22, 2012
sam wrote:
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I like that combo AM/WF
Mostly because it proves sterotypes wrong and the asian guy always has a huge ass grin on his face :p
8 staus: if you know what I mean
Does it make me a weirdo that it buggs me too?
I must be the outcast.
So there are now "combos"? What's next? pedigrees like dogs?

"Oh, I like the combo where the dog is like half chihuahua and half German Shepherd you know? but I still like want the dog to be able to fit in my like D&G handbag...like omg and I want him to howl like a wolf too..."

seriously, lol.
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Stereotypes don't need to be proven "wrong", people should instead mind their own business...
sam

United States

#13 Mar 22, 2012
TheJazuma wrote:
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So there are now "combos"? What's next? pedigrees like dogs?
"Oh, I like the combo where the dog is like half chihuahua and half German Shepherd you know? but I still like want the dog to be able to fit in my like D&G handbag...like omg and I want him to howl like a wolf too..."
seriously, lol.
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Stereotypes don't need to be proven "wrong", people should instead mind their own business...
Lol, okay I sound silly.
I don't even own a purse, so that just must be you.
Burmese moutain dogs are kool. Chihuahua are annoying their like girls who gossip. Their all talk and yap too much. Lol- omg, like yeah, and yeah, and omg.
Jk- guys gossip too.
Navi

Kamloops, Canada

#14 Mar 22, 2012
sam wrote:
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Lol, okay I sound silly.
I don't even own a purse, so that just must be you.
Burmese moutain dogs are kool. Chihuahua are annoying their like girls who gossip. Their all talk and yap too much. Lol- omg, like yeah, and yeah, and omg.
Jk- guys gossip too.
They gossip even more than girls. At least the amount of time they talk about girls...it's kind of ridiculous really. I'm sure they give us the reputation about gathering all the gossip just to keep themselves out of the question lol
sam

United States

#15 Mar 22, 2012
Navi wrote:
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They gossip even more than girls. At least the amount of time they talk about girls...it's kind of ridiculous really. I'm sure they give us the reputation about gathering all the gossip just to keep themselves out of the question lol
Lol- probably. It's just when girls gossip (some) it's usually something not very nice about another person.
But I just usually think : man, I'm getting to old for this
:P
Lol- I own a cane....jk
Navi

Kamloops, Canada

#16 Mar 22, 2012
Owning a cane doesn't make you old, only fancy.
X)
TheJazuma

Rockdale, Australia

#17 Mar 22, 2012
Navi wrote:
Owning a cane doesn't make you old, only fancy.
X)
Naughty girl lol, jk. how have you been?
Navi

Kamloops, Canada

#18 Mar 22, 2012
TheJazuma wrote:
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Naughty girl lol, jk. how have you been?
Hah, not really X) I've been ok, switched day and night, been awake for 8 hours and asleep for 16, now feel dizzy and weird. Have no idea how that was important to let you know, but yeah. How are things with you?^^
TheJazuma

Rockdale, Australia

#19 Mar 23, 2012
How do you sleep for 16 hours lol, wouldn't that just make you more tired? Maybe you're just more evolved and can hibernate lol.

The temperature is tolerable now, not as hot, but then again the Summer was one of the coolest in years...maybe rising sea levels have an effect?

It's almost Easter, yeah and I didn't give up anything for Lent lol. Creating a profile allows people to interact via personal messages, you know like the little letter thing to the top right of profiles.

Since: Mar 12

Location hidden

#20 Mar 23, 2012
Yep, you got that right, I'm actually a bear X)
I don't know it just happens sometimes - day and night switch. And yeah, I feel dizzy and tired, but I'm getting back on track now.

I'm dreading summer and hot weather. I actually wanted to do a year abroad in Australia, but chickened out because of the climat.

See who made a profile! And yeah, my name was taken lol
eggroll

San Francisco, CA

#21 Mar 23, 2012
she does have a point. there is no asian women role model assuming tila tequila isnt whom i believe you want your daughter growing up to be. asians (especially men) are still oppressed by western societies and unfortunately a lot of asian women are trying to take the easy way out and just marry out.

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