How important is sex in a relationship?

How important is sex in a relationship?

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“Talk is Cheap”

Since: Feb 09

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#1 Nov 10, 2009
Sex is also very important. Looks, not so much. If you have a friendship too then you probably make each other laugh, and that's very important. Admiration and respect are important; once you lose those, it's over.

“Our nearest star”

Since: May 09

Alamogordo, NM

#2 Nov 10, 2009
skinwalker wrote:
Sex is also very important. Looks, not so much. If you have a friendship too then you probably make each other laugh, and that's very important. Admiration and respect are important; once you lose those, it's over.
Yup, I'd say you nailed it!(pun unintended)

“The Travelling Grandpa!”

Since: Aug 08

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#3 Nov 10, 2009
Yes, it is VERY important for most in a relationships. There is only one thing better than sex, that's MORE sex!

“You Get My Truth Here!”

Since: May 09

Nonya!

#4 Nov 10, 2009
skinwalker wrote:
Sex is also very important. Looks, not so much. If you have a friendship too then you probably make each other laugh, and that's very important. Admiration and respect are important; once you lose those, it's over.
Sex is an 'action'. Relationships are based on things like love, respect, committment and selflessness. When you have all these, sex is the icing on the cake!

“I Am No One To Be Trifled With”

Since: Jun 09

Dread Pirate Roberts

#5 Nov 10, 2009
100 percent submission to God.

75 percent love, respect, committment, covenant, selfless, listening.

10 percent humor/fun.

10 percent shared goals.

5 percent sex.

Variations of percentages are allowed but sex can never be more important than the first two.
OneWay

Rio Rancho, NM

#6 Nov 10, 2009
Men enjoy sex, women get screwed!

“I ain't afraid of no ghosts.”

Since: Aug 08

Dear old mucky Drasnia

#7 Nov 10, 2009
Keep your damned thumping out of it, damned Jesus freak.

“I Am No One To Be Trifled With”

Since: Jun 09

Dread Pirate Roberts

#8 Nov 10, 2009
Silk_the_Absent1 wrote:
Keep your damned thumping out of it, damned Jesus freak.
Nah. And just because you said that I JUST might bring in actual...egads scripture and bible studies. Don't tremble in fear too much Silk...LOL.

“Mz Understood”

Since: Nov 08

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#9 Nov 10, 2009
XXXtremely IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!
Some Guy

United States

#10 Nov 10, 2009
I spank my wife with a paddle that has the image of the Virgin Mary on it, so we are obviously very committed to God. It does miracles for her libido.
GI Joe

Albuquerque, NM

#11 Nov 10, 2009
JosephOne wrote:
100 percent submission to God.
75 percent love, respect, committment, covenant, selfless, listening.
10 percent humor/fun.
10 percent shared goals.
5 percent sex.
Variations of percentages are allowed but sex can never be more important than the first two.
Shitstain Jr.!!!1112

You truly are a pathetic creature. You have my pity. Might want to use a few pages of your "good book" when you are busy waxing the carrot since your "wife" knows that sex isn't important to you.

But I'm sure you'll call it a "Miracle" when she ends up knocked up...
WorkingStiff

Carlsbad, CA

#12 Nov 10, 2009
Get That Fool wrote:
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Sex is an 'action'. Relationships are based on things like love, respect, committment and selflessness. When you have all these, sex is the icing on the cake!
If sex is an action then action speaks louder than words.lols And sex is not the icing on the cake but rather the cake itself.

I agree though that love, respect, and commitment are vital to any relationship.

“You Get My Truth Here!”

Since: May 09

Nonya!

#13 Nov 10, 2009
WorkingStiff wrote:
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If sex is an action then action speaks louder than words.lols And sex is not the icing on the cake but rather the cake itself.
I agree though that love, respect, and commitment are vital to any relationship.
If sex is your cake, I'm afraid to know what your icing is.

nmweatherman

“l'enfer, c'est les autres”

Since: Jul 09

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#14 Nov 10, 2009
The relationship is ever so much more important than the sex component.

Sex will last...what? 5 minutes? 15 minutes? An hour? So, what do you do the other 23 hours of every day?

The emphasis on sex in this country is disgusting, it's the be-all and end-all of relationships. Sex is an animal act...the relationship is in our hearts, minds, emotions and hopes.

Sex without love, without a meaningful relationship, is just quick, empty physical moves. Sex with someone you love and respect in every way is a pinnacle of that loving relationship.

Kids today think that intercourse is love. That's just wrong.

I can only speak for myself: I would much rather have a deep, non-sexual loving relationship with someone than a wham, bam, thank-you ma'am. But that's just me.

“I Am No One To Be Trifled With”

Since: Jun 09

Dread Pirate Roberts

#15 Nov 10, 2009
http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2001/spri...

Christian Sex Rules
A guide to what's allowed in the bedroom
Louis and Melissa McBurney

“Watch out now!!!”

Since: Jun 08

Burque NM

#16 Nov 10, 2009
I just got wood!!
ROXY 16 wrote:
XXXtremely IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!

nmweatherman

“l'enfer, c'est les autres”

Since: Jul 09

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#17 Nov 10, 2009
Silk_the_Absent1 wrote:
Keep your damned thumping out of it, damned Jesus freak.
You just can't stand that others see sex differently than your godless, promiscuous approach to it. Nothing can be allowed to exist for you beyond your crotch and the other guy's crotch.

Sad.

“Talk is Cheap”

Since: Feb 09

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#18 Nov 10, 2009
When two people agree on having sex, that should be the parties involved. If they choose bondage and the rack, hey, power to you, if you believe in anal sex, be it, if you have a desire for oral sex, kiss and cherish this method, you both desire petting and performing masturbation onf one another, grab that stick...you only desire basic missionary position, be that but do it in love and bring your Partner to his or her limits of satisfaction. understand that the pleasure given is the deepest love that can be received...there are no limits when love-making goes beyond the conventional , traditional ways of expressing one's love for their partner.
WorkingStiff

Carlsbad, CA

#19 Nov 10, 2009
Get That Fool wrote:
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If sex is your cake, I'm afraid to know what your icing is.
Yes, I was going to comment on this earlier but my better judgment prevailed. lols
WorkingStiff

Carlsbad, CA

#20 Nov 10, 2009
nmweatherman wrote:
The relationship is ever so much more important than the sex component.
Sex will last...what? 5 minutes? 15 minutes? An hour? So, what do you do the other 23 hours of every day?
The emphasis on sex in this country is disgusting, it's the be-all and end-all of relationships. Sex is an animal act...the relationship is in our hearts, minds, emotions and hopes.
Sex without love, without a meaningful relationship, is just quick, empty physical moves. Sex with someone you love and respect in every way is a pinnacle of that loving relationship.
Kids today think that intercourse is love. That's just wrong.
I can only speak for myself: I would much rather have a deep, non-sexual loving relationship with someone than a wham, bam, thank-you ma'am. But that's just me.
Only one hour? Geez, thats just starting the forplay

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