black men....wake up

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#46 Dec 29, 2013
http://www.topix.com/forum/city/sulphur-sprin...

There's your real enemy you IRBW. Post there and tell them what you think. Don't post to us.
Wrong One

United States

#47 Dec 29, 2013
You're on the right track and your insight is 20/20.

Let me share with you the two signs of an abusive individual

1. Deny acceptance and deny approval

Regardless of ones accomplishments, they still have not done enough. This is known in lay terms as the carrot and stick trick. Professionallty known as social inhibition or giilr tripping.

A black man can be #1 in his profession and #1 in the community but, he's still not good enough.

2. Fear of loss

If a black man don't do such and such, he'll lose his woman, lose his kids, lose his job, lose his home.

These two are the primary ways abusive people control others and I'm not fond of hoops.

Look close and we'll see both in the OP.
The nMe Within wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you.
Some of the ones in this thread can not play their part in a relationship "UNLESS" a BM acts like THEY know it all.
They believe THEY have done what BM can NOT do.
Even when a BM makes it on his own they want to swoop in and act like they've been waiting all their lives for him. Except now its, "Ok honey, move over and give me the check book. I can take it from here."
When I was coming up through school I remember the brothers would put it out there that if a BW won't mess with them before now... when he is seen as a no body, she can forget about it when he gets going. They weren't really talking about IR then either. They were specifically talking about BW because they didn't even consider IR. But these BW let non-BW flirt with there men while in school all the while these BW are running around with White boys. Then the day one of these BM hit a Tyler Perry, Sean Combs move they got to get them some BM cus they down for the cause... Well.
I'm not going to say I blame brothers that make it and don't look back. I personally don't mix it up because a few sistas out there are still checking for BM and still engaging in dialog with us. But these in here. Sleeping around with anything not too Black while talking out the side of their heads about OOW this and WW worship that... They can go sell that ish to someone that values their 2 cents.
"Hit and Run" Hypocrites.
"BW we have to teach BM how to act" you already lost with that mindset there...
Mother of Earth

United States

#49 Dec 29, 2013
LOOK. Did you not get the memo about black men? They don't want to hear anything that a bw has to say just let them be. They have a brotherhood that knows the best solutions for them. All you need to do is worry about what"s good for You at this time. Don't worry about bm, just leave them alone. The brotherhood will figure it out.

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#50 Dec 29, 2013
Here's a proud BW's dialog with a WM while he brags to her about killing blacks...
Aussie Bob wrote:
That is a much better profile pic Rose. On a more sour note; my people would completely wipe blacks out if this fabled race war ever did come about. You lot wouldn't even stand a chance. Your males are too busy playing with their dicks and they lack the discipline & intelligence that we have. It would be the most one-sided war in history.
GothicRose wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah. I decided I get attacked less when I smile. Which is a rare event but whatevs (I'm a fairly stern individual). It worked.
I don't think there ever will be a race war. I don't know why anyone would instigate such a thing.
But they want to LEAD us... And how dare we leave this kind of sht when we make it...

Who would turn around after fighting to reach their goal and look for THAT as a mate?

BW get YOUR sht together!

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#51 Dec 29, 2013
Meanwhile... on the opposite side of the fence BM you are being told THIS by other women:
kisspirin wrote:
YES!! i am attracted to some black guys - i like the ones who are educated, well mannered, respectful, successful, prosperous, etc. it doesn't hurt if they are sexy too.. like ne-yo, will smith, barak obama, etc.
http://www.topix.com/forum/blogs/TIVDO2DPRD3A...

But they want to know why BM don't settle for them after they reach the top...lol wtf is wrong with yall?????
THE RELIC

United States

#52 Dec 29, 2013
Gothicrose.

The rose of satan or satan's wh-re.

Maybe that will explain it.
The nMe Within wrote:
Here's a proud BW's dialog with a WM while he brags to her about killing blacks...
<quoted text>
<quoted text>
But they want to LEAD us... And how dare we leave this kind of sht when we make it...
Who would turn around after fighting to reach their goal and look for THAT as a mate?
BW get YOUR sht together!
I hate BM

Lawrence, MA

#53 Dec 30, 2013
LOOK wrote:
EDUCATE YOURSELF's AND WAKE UP FROM YOUR SLEEP!!!!
LISTEN TO THIS..........
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =-COvXVDl2_QXX
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
OTHERWISE YOU WILL PUT YOURSELF's AT HIGH RISK OF BEING ENSLAVED AGAIN.
YES....SLAVERY CAN HAPPEN AGAIN..........BECAUSE YOU ARE BUSY SLEEPING WITH THE WHITE WOMAN.
WHITE WOMEN ARE BEING USED TO DISARM YOU!!
no I don't like black men anymore I don't want to be with one. You guts are the worst to black women. U tell us to bleach ourselves and perm our hair and then mix and cheat with other women to make us mad. F U! I'll be glad when u die out. I hate black men. My son will be half a rotten egg but whatever better than a full rotten egg. Yuck. Ugly monkey black man. You guys think you rule the world. F u.
Mother of Earth

United States

#54 Dec 30, 2013
LOOK. You should think twice about starting these types of threads. To each their own. No one has the right to tell anyone who they shall date or marry. I will advised you again to just let bm be. They know what is best for them. I offer the same advise to bm about bw.
THE RELIC

United States

#55 Dec 30, 2013
Good luck and I hope you have a wondrous, wonderful and wonder fulled life.
I hate BM wrote:
<quoted text>no I don't like black men anymore I don't want to be with one. You guts are the worst to black women. U tell us to bleach ourselves and perm our hair and then mix and cheat with other women to make us mad. F U! I'll be glad when u die out. I hate black men. My son will be half a rotten egg but whatever better than a full rotten egg. Yuck. Ugly monkey black man. You guys think you rule the world. F u.
Mother of Earth

United States

#56 Dec 30, 2013
The nMe Within:

There just as many posts with bm siding with racist ww posts about bw.
There are posts with non bw saying how bm gross them out.
There are posts with non bw saying they love bm.
There are posts with bw saying they love and support bm.
There are posts with bw saying they hate bm.
There are post with bm saying they hate bw.
There are posts with bm saying they love and support bw.
There are posts with bm/bw defending their race against the racists.

So what are you trying to prove by sharing a post a bw siding with a racist wm. There are good and bad in all women but you just seem to focus on the bad bw. You should turn your attention to what works best for whatever that may be.

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#57 Dec 30, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
You are the future mothers of the end of the black race. Stop coming back to this forum until you have something in common with Jesuspeaceandlove, PANMA19, Jaz, Ms. NewNew or APV.
^ those I named have shown a fair amount of love for BM.

Those I didn't I suggested the emulate these BW.

Now if it bugs you that I don't care for the BW posting in this thread acting as if BM are clueless without BW leadership... well so be it. These IRBW in here are so quick to cast the first stone. Let them practice what they preach...
Mother of Earth

United States

#58 Dec 30, 2013
No it doesn't bother me. I agree with you about everyone practicing what they preach. Peace and blessings to you brottha.
THE RELIC

United States

#59 Dec 30, 2013
Your post is subjective and lack objective evidence to prove it is black people that are disparaging black people. Whites impersonating blacks is a well known reality.

One thing is objectively clear, feminism destroys families and relationships. The bw may claim she is not a feminist and a snake will claim he's not a snake but, the conduct of a feminist or a snake tells the true story. Needless to say, "I am strong, intelligent and independent" is the feminist motto and I doubt very seriously if you can find one bw in america that will deny making that declaration.

With that being said, the entire world acknowledges feminism destroyed families and relationships but, the bw still blames the bm as indicated in this thread and this OP.

THE BW WILL AS A WHOLE WILL NEVER ADMIT FEMINISM DESTROYED AA BECAUSE, THAT WOULD BE SELF INCRIMINATION OF THE BW.

Thus, the bw remains to be the odd ball blaming bm. Why? The bw is terrified, scared and fearful to let her crutch or shield go. She only have self worth by putting the bm down. If she can't put the bm down, she's lost. Her high self esteem becomes meaningless in that, the only way one can have high self esteem is by comparison and that is why she must degrade the bm to elevate herself.

So all of your smoke do not dim the root cause of AA's dysfunction i.e. feminism.
Mother of Earth wrote:
The nMe Within:
There just as many posts with bm siding with racist ww posts about bw.

There are posts with non bw saying how bm gross them out.
There are posts with non bw saying they love bm.
There are posts with bw saying they love and support bm.
There are posts with bw saying they hate bm.
There are post with bm saying they hate bw.
There are posts with bm saying they love and support bw.
There are posts with bm/bw defending their race against the racists.
So what are you trying to prove by sharing a post a bw siding with a racist wm. There are good and bad in all women but you just seem to focus on the bad bw. You should turn your attention to what works best for whatever that may be.
WM_Rule_BM

Arlington, VA

#66 Dec 30, 2013
THE RELIC wrote:
This bud is for you.
White women did not recruit bm nor offer empowerment to bm in 1968. White women recruited bw and "claimed" to empower bw in 1968 with feminism.
It was a ww that said, "women need a man like a fish need a bicycle" and bw echoed, "I don't need a man". Later, bw said "bm are not worthy" and in your very own post, you're saying "bm are not qualified".
Now, the same ww that said "women need a man like a fish need a bicycle" married a wm and left bw holding onto an empty bucket.
So don't tell AAM that ww used us, tell AAW they are the ones hoodwinked, flim flammed and bamboozeled.
NAW, YOU WON'T DO THAT BECAUSE, YOU'RE A PART OF THE BLAME BM MOVEMENT.
<quoted text>
Maceo

All of these posts are you talking to yourself! Why are you so obsessed with IR and keepting only BW stagnate?

This year I will donate and give charity to BWE sites by doing volunteer work for the organizations I'm sick of sorry Ass Black men like yourself who are "Weak, Whine and Won't work" but you feel some sense of "entitlement"!

I don't believe in rewarding men who don''t deserve it and Black men don't deserve a damn thing collectively! Actually, many Black women are also withdrawing from the Black church and other endeavors moving towards more diverse culture.

We know BM don't have our back so why stick around?

Everybody is saying it and Black women are telling their Educated Girls to date/marry out rather than to support or invest in High risk, marginal Black men because so many Black men refuse to do for the race, their women, children or even themselves

Its time to Move on!

Whitie Men Rule because you allow them just like you did! My suggestion to you is to go back to your "Praise WW sites" and leave Black women alone!

We are on the FAST TRACK TO ABANDON BLACK MALES WHO DON'T DO FOR US! Life is hard why accept some losers?

Move the Fuk On FOOL, I have 'NO RESPECT FOR YOU"!
THE RELIC

London, UK

#71 Dec 30, 2013
THE RELIC wrote:
I'm not an exocist but, I sure do know how to bring the devil to the surface.
Hello SBT aka Oh Really, Look and Rumplestilskin.
YOU CAN FOOL MOST BUT, I SMELLED SULFUR AS SOON AS I SAW THE TITLE OF THIS THREAD.
Meet me in a clean thread...I want to kick your asz out of 2013 and into 2014.
Hello RELIC,

Sad but true has stolen my identity before. I just wanted you to know that it can be done.

Education has taught me to look at the location, yes i know a person can change their location. But most of the time when sad but true changes her name is shows Chantilly VA.

Sad but true you make some very good points. Please do not use other peoples names as it can create a lot of confusion.

For example THE RELIC thinks that i am you when i clearly am not.

But THE RELIC should have differentiated the 'tone' of the writing which usually would give a person away.

But that takes an educated person to figure that one out.
THE RELIC

London, UK

#72 Dec 30, 2013
MACEO

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#73 Dec 30, 2013
THE RELIC wrote:
MACEO
Now you will have both "SBT" AND "Oh Really" following you around calling you NoMo and Maceo.
Rhi Rhi

Bulgaria

#74 Dec 30, 2013
The nMe Within wrote:
Meanwhile... on the opposite side of the fence BM you are being told THIS by other women:
<quoted text>
http://www.topix.com/forum/blogs/TIVDO2DPRD3A...
But they want to know why BM don't settle for them after they reach the top...lol wtf is wrong with yall?????
How is that black goth any different from bm who say they want to 'bang the racism' out of white female supremacists?You're all mentally ill.
At this point I could care less about bm waking up or what OTHER women tell you.Things have gone too far now,your lust for ww is making you all crazy and illogical.
Look

London, UK

#75 Dec 30, 2013
Wrong One wrote:
The educated black man is too much for you.
You're suffering from narcissistic injury and your defense is narcissistic rage. Can't address the presented truth and catching a shaming tactic is your escape hatch.
Your attempt to guilt trip black men have hit a wall and I am that wall.
<quoted text>
What solution are you willing to come up woth for the mess that you have created in the streets?
Look

London, UK

#76 Dec 30, 2013
CIGAR FACE45 wrote:
<quoted text>Your hott! Soo what. What can i do to get you to smile?
I already smiling. I am not mad at anybody.

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