Why do black women hate on black men ...
Guest

White House, TN

#577 Nov 30, 2008
If a black guy wants to date outside his ethnicity then who cares. This topic has been beaten to death. Why do you care anyways? Oh and some of those excuses were so lame.
waw519

Charlotte, NC

#578 Nov 30, 2008
To all of you people on here go get help ASP, b/c this sh*t is old as I don't know what,who the hell came up with this thread. You all act like its something new,black men having been doing this stuff for thousands of years. Let this crap go, I'm so sick of hearing about black men dating white women and others races of women,it so old.
Black women and others let it go if thats what they want, oh well go get you an hispanics,white, native american,or and asian men,become more open to IR relationships.And black men if you want a woman thats not in your race thats okay,don't worry about what black women say,you need to stop thinking about what the hell they say.And don't get mad when black women date white men and other races of men b/c you would be an hyprcrite,and also don't put them down b/c your with a woman from a diffrent race, thats not cool. And Black women again,Don't limit yourself to men who don't want you,even though most black men are with black women,don't worry about the rest. But the ones who are with these women leave them alone and stop talking about them. b/c I love my hispanic boyfriend, and I plan to marry him and have his kids.
And again let it go its so OLD NEWS.

THICKLKSNICKERS

“ " SKIN TIGHT "”

Level 2

Since: Jun 08

SOMEWHERE

#579 Nov 30, 2008
waw519 wrote:
To all of you people on here go get help ASP, b/c this sh*t is old as I don't know what,who the hell came up with this thread. You all act like its something new,black men having been doing this stuff for thousands of years. Let this crap go, I'm so sick of hearing about black men dating white women and others races of women,it so old.
Black women and others let it go if thats what they want, oh well go get you an hispanics,white, native american,or and asian men,become more open to IR relationships.And black men if you want a woman thats not in your race thats okay,don't worry about what black women say,you need to stop thinking about what the hell they say.And don't get mad when black women date white men and other races of men b/c you would be an hyprcrite,and also don't put them down b/c your with a woman from a diffrent race, thats not cool. And Black women again,Don't limit yourself to men who don't want you,even though most black men are with black women,don't worry about the rest. But the ones who are with these women leave them alone and stop talking about them. b/c I love my hispanic boyfriend, and I plan to marry him and have his kids.
And again let it go its so OLD NEWS.
U AM REALLY LOVING YOUR POST!
Faizon

Midlothian, VA

#580 Dec 2, 2008
Let me tell you Swade plenty of black women have been loyal and kind to black men and have been slapped in the face. Dont go there.
Miss Universe

Gatesville, TX

#581 Dec 9, 2008
NON BLACK WOMAN NEED TO STOP ACTING LIKE THEIR THE VICTIMS WHEN THEY FEEL THAT THEY GET HATED ON FOR BENG WITH A BLACK MAN. FIRST OF ALL IF SLAVERY EVER CAME BACK TODAY I GUARANTEE NON BLACK WOMAN WOULD LEAVE THE BLACK MEN AND RUN BACK TO THEIR RACE. AND ALOT OF BLACK MEN DO SHOW HATE TORDS EVEN THE GOOD BLACK WOMAN AND THAT'S THE TRUTH.. I'M 19 YEARS OF AGE AND I SEE IT BIG TIME.. I'M A BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN AND I GETTOLD BY SOME BLACK MEN THAT I'M TOO DARK.. WHICH MAKES NO SENSE AT ALL. I AM A BEAUTIFUL MOCHA CHOCOLATE QUEEN AND BLACK MEN DON'T APPRECIATE IT.. I GUESS IF YOUR SKINS NOT PORCEILAN AND PASTY THEN BLACK MEN JUST DON'T WANT YOU THEN HUH?
Haitian Gal

Gatesville, TX

#582 Dec 9, 2008
i do agree with how bad our black community is getting. i just dont understand but i do know that i'm not going to stress my self out worring bout why black men dont want a black woman because not all black people think that way.
Haitian Gal

Gatesville, TX

#583 Dec 9, 2008
but what is the deal with black people today?? why are we hating each other?? don't we know how beautiful of a people we are???
mermaid

Urbana, IL

#584 Jan 6, 2009
I am a nonblack girl dating a black guy for more than a year. And, I had no negative thoughts about black women before but after a year I dont know what to think anymore. I understand the historical significance of the IR issues with them but that doesnt give them anyright to judge couples. I had enough of the looks,'you dont deserve him looks', and teh agressive behavior to 'get their brother back'. Had enough! I had seen nothing but hostility, attitude, and sneaky behavior from majority of black women. I found it very deconstructive to the 'empowerment of black women' discourse they hang on to.
BM That Loves WW

Santa Maria, CA

#585 Jan 7, 2009
mermaid wrote:
I am a nonblack girl dating a black guy for more than a year. And, I had no negative thoughts about black women before but after a year I dont know what to think anymore. I understand the historical significance of the IR issues with them but that doesnt give them anyright to judge couples. I had enough of the looks,'you dont deserve him looks', and teh agressive behavior to 'get their brother back'. Had enough! I had seen nothing but hostility, attitude, and sneaky behavior from majority of black women. I found it very deconstructive to the 'empowerment of black women' discourse they hang on to.
Jealousy!

“In the Space Love Demands”

Since: Oct 07

Black Love USA

#586 Jan 7, 2009
mermaid wrote:
I am a nonblack girl dating a black guy for more than a year. And, I had no negative thoughts about black women before but after a year I dont know what to think anymore. I understand the historical significance of the IR issues with them but that doesnt give them anyright to judge couples. I had enough of the looks,'you dont deserve him looks', and teh agressive behavior to 'get their brother back'. Had enough! I had seen nothing but hostility, attitude, and sneaky behavior from majority of black women. I found it very deconstructive to the 'empowerment of black women' discourse they hang on to.
Dear Mermaid

Either have the courage to confront all these women you have issues with or leave it. Nobody on this forum knows you or really cares (the Black women I mean).

Signed

Don't Wanna Hear It - Really

“Uncle Tom”

Since: Feb 07

United States

#587 Jan 7, 2009
I'm not sure that this is so true in NY. since ir is relatively common. Most people will have a reaction when they see an attractive member from their race with another race. I know i have felt slightly jealous when i see a gorgeous BW with a WM.
talkingtrash

Imlay City, MI

#588 Jan 7, 2009
Mermaid, just one question for you,.. Knowing how difficcult had been your interactions with black women, how do you think you will do raising a black girl, in the case you have children with this guy,.. I guess you dont have a problem with black men, in fact I bet you look up to them and their qualities, and I can tell they treat you nice too, but black women are a different story, unless you are naturally blonde and with blue eyes, or your men is not totally black or if he is birracial, the black traits will predominate in your children, and if it is a black baby girl, will you have patience doing her hair?, will you feel guilty knowing the world is telling her how unattractive her hair is, unlike yours?, How will you explain to her that her chances of getting married are lower than for nonblack girls, that even her dad would have chosen a different race over his own, dont you think that she, like so many other black women will have that black women attitudes??????

“Maryland Chic”

Since: Sep 08

Fort Washington Maryland

#589 Jan 7, 2009
Lmao this whole poster is freakin' funny to me. Black "women" are always the ones being blamed for the most stupid things. I could care less if a black guy chooses to date a female from another race. That doesn't affect me in the LEAST bit! I mean, black females would get the same "looks" that you're talking about from non-black females if they were talking to a non-black guy. I mean, not ALL females would give them a look, but some would. If you have a problem with black females but yet you're dating a black man, then when you have a child (lets say a daughter) how would you feel about her when she grows up? If I saw you walking down the street with your "guy" I honestly couldn't care less. I'd NEVER be jealous of something as small as a black guy that I see dating a non-black woman. I'm totally happy with myself. Don't flatter yourself! Most of us don't care!!!
miss w

UK

#590 Feb 9, 2009
God created to love one another.Love your neighbour as yourself as written in The Holy Bible and that goes for interacial marriages aswell,from a black women to the racist comments above.

“Male Dog!!”

Since: Mar 08

Gwynn Oak, MD

#591 Feb 9, 2009
Last Saturday in the DMV was about 60 degrees. So My Girlfriend and I decided to go to Chinatown to watch Taken. Good movie.

So we get to Chinatown, got our tickets early, and decide to go to a bar. While sitting in a Bar. She starts to mention that she is noticing a lot of Black men with white women. We have never really talked about anything like that before, so I'm joking that you never know the circumstances of two people being together. But I did notice that she did seem to glance over the one or two black women who were on dates with white men. Black woman vision.

In fact, I can't say for sure, but one of the black women did seem to stomp out of the restaurant. I can't say if she was upset at the black guys with their white dates, or if her white guy she was dating said something wrong.

So I was like, people are dating everybody know a days. Her point which I completely understand was that she wasn't so much concerned about herself. She was more concerned about her single friends.

So after awhile we did end up in the movie theater, and again. There were a lot of black men dating white women, and some black women dating white men. We were actually, sandwiched between two couples. On my side there was a Black African guy dating a white woman. On her side there was a Black woman dating a white man. So anyway, she turns to me and whispers. I don't care anymore, I just want a black baby. lol

I do feel that it does get overblown, but 90% of all the black couples I saw. Where Black men with black women.

June Bug1

Since: Nov 08

Location hidden

#592 Feb 27, 2009
4shaaawwww wrote:
personally i don't get mad at IR couples .It just hurts that all the guys in my school who are black have white girlfriends.there are plenty of great Bw at my school,but none of the black guys will go out with them.It's hard to find one that isn't acting ghetto in the first place. not everywhere,but certainly at my school.it hurts more ,because some will tell you why when you ask.they say it's bcause we have attitudes.What really annoys me is that sometimes we do.Not really my friends,but it pisses me off when some of us prove that stereotype right.It's embarrassing.It's wrong to judge all of us black girls for it,but the attitude does happen.I'll be honest,but you shouldn't let a stereotype be the reason you don't date your own race.Atleast give it a try, and if you fall in love with a white girl than it's wonderful,because love is w wonderful thing.But let's be honest sometimes everyone gets judged when a person of their race fucks up.I sometimes feel bad for the white girls who get judged,because the are dating a black guy,but it still sucks that all the races in my area avoid dating black girls.It's not the they are dating you ,it's that they are not dating us.......Black girls please stop actin in a manner that makes all of us look foolish,and you others who are doing right,you keep on doing what you are doing.I appreciate it.
black women do have some attitudes but not all of them. why do you think those other guys are not dating black women?

“Maryland Chic”

Since: Sep 08

Fort Washington Maryland

#593 Mar 2, 2009
I think ALL colors have attitudes when their buttons are pushed. The problem is the media likes to portray the black woman as a "big bad wolf" with a bad attitude, weave, and basically unattractive to men of other races. Its all a portrayal. Other races of women are seen as angels, and what ALL men dream of. The black woman is always seen in a negative light. Totally not fair! I'm by NO means racist. I'm just stating facts. I carry myself very well, not conceited, friends of all races, and date guys of all races. I just get so sick and tired of people always pointing to us as having attitudes.

"Wrningsgn", I actually work near Chinatown and IR dating is very prevalent there..good observation lol, and you're right, the majority of couples there date people from their race, but alot of the couples are interracial. It doesn't bother me though :)
GAOTU

Redmond, WA

#594 Mar 3, 2009
Black women are haters.Plus,sisters know they don't have good hair,nice attitudes,proper weight or pretty faces.A black woman would be lucky if she was mixed with something.Then maybe she'd look attractive to real brothers.

Holler at your boy,

Hiram Abif aka GAOTU

Level 6

Since: May 07

Watsonville, CA

#595 Mar 5, 2009
GAOTU wrote:
Black women are haters.Plus,sisters know they don't have good hair,nice attitudes,proper weight or pretty faces.A black woman would be lucky if she was mixed with something.Then maybe she'd look attractive to real brothers.
Holler at your boy,
Hiram Abif aka GAOTU
You are truly brain washed!

“Beautiful Princess.....”

Level 6

Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#596 Mar 5, 2009
beautiful black woman wrote:
<quoted text>
You are truly brain washed!
Or brainless

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