Isn't it amazing how many BW see the same behaviors in Black males?STDs Afn each year become infertile due to untreated STDs.
JUST THE FACTS
These Trifling Black males have the most atrociously low marriage rates in the U.S.--even among the ones of them who have the financial wherewithal to get married. Notice that I said "even when they have the wherewithal." they still want to use women or play games.
As a matter of fact, I would NOT even expect men who don't have the financial wherewithal to get married because a man is STILL supposed to position himself to reasonably provide for his family, Yet many men complain about the lack of of respect they get from Black women..
Throughout history, have socialized males to "reasonably" prepare themselves for marriage BEFORE they marry or enter a serious relationship with a woman. The only race of men that don't are Black men who prepared themselves to live off women!
I am the recipient of a living well life. I'm SO THANKFUL!! The reasons why is I married out, I didn't accept no low rate do nothing Black man. We also made sure our sons were responsible men and able to meet the financial responsibility of marriage.
I'm just speaking common sense here. Much in life is STILL a trade-off. Too many people these days are UNREALISTIC about their romantic mate value.
These Black males have barely anything to trade and get angry when they can't exchange cheap rocks and for diamonds in women. He wants an A-level woman when he's a D-level marginal man. Even if he can get the A-level woman, the relationship will not work. A D rate marginal Black man never appreciates an A-woman most are too too insecure and envious, they will ruin it out of their own pettiness. People really need to be approximately "equally yoked." Go ahead and try to prove me wrong you'll get some D-Rate Black male who will ruin your life.
It's clear that some of these low-marriage-rate Black guys have spurred or spawned an "explanation" industry. They know their LOW marriage rates are shameful when viewed on the world stage, so they constantly find ways to "explain" why they don't marry black women, the main women who they're sexing, making babies , the group of women who are their children's moms, the main group of women who are most supportive of them.
Some of these same guys WILL marry "lacking uneducated" women from other groups who have nothing. Some of them then "blame" bw for not being marriage material or their poor choices when their clearly losers.
So, we now will see more of these okey doke articles using "research" to explain why bm "just can't" ... marry bw but he can sex her, use her and leave her with babies.. Or we will continue to see research that assures bw that they'll be married by the time they're in their 30s-40s. SMH
Anyway, they want more unsophisticated BW to keep --contained--waiting, hoping, and praying--and all the while "investing" their time, energy, and providing their financial resources to carry the Non black "community". Dumb black men can take their funds and give it Non Black women. Black men have never nor will offer any RECIPROCITY to Black women and you see it.
Even when the bc (black community/black construct) does reciprocate, it is NEVER even nearly on par with what's given so why waste your time on these Black males?
This is the process that keeps the bulk of bw who operate in this community/construct POOR in various ways: financially, healthwise,
Many bw do NOT want other bw to "escape" and leave them there. And too, many AA women seem to have the alter ego of the "Amazon" woman. They feel they can fix the "community" all by themselves. LOL!
Black males go into other communities and repeat the same behaviors with them.