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Black Boys Are Better Off Raised By White Women

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Well Bye

Houston, TX

#1 Mar 30, 2014
Not a knock against Black American Women even though I feel most Black American Women have a poor track record with raising Black boys, even with a Black father in the household. The love is okay but the "upbringing, teaching, knowledge" is not there.

I was raised with both parents; Blacks. However, during my school years, my best Teachers were the White Women and a Black Man. Actually, several White women Teachers and only one Black male Teacher who really set me up well, academically.

White Women just seem to have a natural chemistry that works with Black boys. They know how to give you "attention" in ways that benefits you. They know how to nurture the Black boy's mind. They know how to "talk" to Black boy in ways he "think" deep, intellectually. They do a good job bringing the best out of Black boys.

I think that sort of caring and nurturing resonate strong with the Black Man's psyche and heart. Just that, growing up, we don't know why we attracted to White Women. As Men, we understand it a lot better and it leads to Black Men dating out with White Women.

With Black Women, I firmly believe they put more into their "girls" than boys. And Black boys see this about their Black Mothers and resents it. They grow up to accept those norms about Black Womem, and it lead Black boys to feel emasculated at an early age. THIS IS NOT GOOD, FELLAS.

I don't want to know why Black American Women focus on their girls way too much and not give the boys, at least, a decent amount of "sincere" attention. Im sure their answer will be another one of those mindless, superficial ideology not grounded in reality.

At least by me, as a Black Man writing this thread, they can see why we attract White Women like we do. It's not just sex, Black Woman. It's really not. It's a real bond with White Women and we struggled trying to understand why it's not with Black women. We really fought tooth and nails with ourselves trying to correct what we thought was a defect with us, for White Women.

However, we been loving White Women throughout our history and as far back as antiquity. It always been there with Black Women. It's just natural. Don't know why.
Well Bye

Houston, TX

#2 Mar 30, 2014
In my last sentence, I meant to say,

"It always been there with White Women. Don know why."

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#3 Mar 30, 2014
Well Bye wrote:
Not a knock against Black American Women even though I feel most Black American Women have a poor track record with raising Black boys, even with a Black father in the household. The love is okay but the "upbringing, teaching, knowledge" is not there.

I was raised with both parents; Blacks. However, during my school years, my best Teachers were the White Women and a Black Man. Actually, several White women Teachers and only one Black male Teacher who really set me up well, academically.

White Women just seem to have a natural chemistry that works with Black boys. They know how to give you "attention" in ways that benefits you. They know how to nurture the Black boy's mind. They know how to "talk" to Black boy in ways he "think" deep, intellectually. They do a good job bringing the best out of Black boys.

I think that sort of caring and nurturing resonate strong with the Black Man's psyche and heart. Just that, growing up, we don't know why we attracted to White Women. As Men, we understand it a lot better and it leads to Black Men dating out with White Women.

With Black Women, I firmly believe they put more into their "girls" than boys. And Black boys see this about their Black Mothers and resents it. They grow up to accept those norms about Black Womem, and it lead Black boys to feel emasculated at an early age. THIS IS NOT GOOD, FELLAS.

I don't want to know why Black American Women focus on their girls way too much and not give the boys, at least, a decent amount of "sincere" attention. Im sure their answer will be another one of those mindless, superficial ideology not grounded in reality.

At least by me, as a Black Man writing this thread, they can see why we attract White Women like we do. It's not just sex, Black Woman. It's really not. It's a real bond with White Women and we struggled trying to understand why it's not with Black women. We really fought tooth and nails with ourselves trying to correct what we thought was a defect with us, for White Women.

However, we been loving White Women throughout our history and as far back as antiquity. It always been there with Black Women. It's just natural. Don't know why.
You should acknowledge that white fathers played important role in their daughters' upbringing in order for them to be good mothers.

So there's nothing wrong with embracing IR at all. Love is color blind too.
thoth

Bassett, VA

#4 Mar 30, 2014
maybe its because unlike what some people here think white people are not "hybrid subhumans" whites are capeable of feelings and care. not all of them are vicious predatory animals.
Blacks Are Worthless

Columbus, OH

#5 Mar 30, 2014
It's not so much that colored boys should be raised by White women, women of any race is able to raise colored boys, just not negroe women as they are not fit to perform anything meaningful for humanity, all negroe women focus on is acquiring welfare benefits, having tribes of emotionally unbalanced negroe children, illegal drug use & drama, not the best role models for negroe children already born behind mainstream societies learning curve.
Well Bye

Houston, TX

#6 Mar 30, 2014
Phoenix Ascended wrote:
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You should acknowledge that white fathers played important role in their daughters' upbringing in order for them to be good mothers.
So there's nothing wrong with embracing IR at all. Love is color blind too.
Well, I don't acknowledge it. You bring it up because you seem jealous the White Woman scores well with Black boys than Black women. At least I explained Black women scores well with their Black girls. Just not with their Black boys.

Also, Black Fathers with a bi-racial daughters scores extremely well with them. What's also pleasant to know is that, they score equally as we with their Black daughters. There is not favoritism when it comes to children from our seed.

Black women do create division, animosity, foster jealousies among their children. They fail in those areas. I think you should focus and talk about that then attempting to attack black men.

Now, don't get butthurt and angry because I'm being truthful and frank with you. The last two times you called yourself getting mad at me for what I say, you had me banned. That's the same problem with Black Women and Black boys/men. They don't understand us.
The truth hurts

Cleveland, OH

#7 Mar 30, 2014
White people cannot and should not raise black children. It should be the other way around. If that was the case. Many of us would be corny no cultured Oreos.
ugly monkeys

Omaha, NE

#8 Mar 30, 2014
A stray cat could raise a child better than a bw. Btw, there have been cases of white female teachers taking heat for claiming that black males are to stupid to share classrooms with whites.
BM Moving On

Richmond Hill, Canada

#9 Mar 30, 2014
Well Bye wrote:
Not a knock against Black American Women even though I feel most Black American Women have a poor track record with raising Black boys, even with a Black father in the household. The love is okay but the "upbringing, teaching, knowledge" is not there.
I was raised with both parents; Blacks. However, during my school years, my best Teachers were the White Women and a Black Man. Actually, several White women Teachers and only one Black male Teacher who really set me up well, academically.
White Women just seem to have a natural chemistry that works with Black boys. They know how to give you "attention" in ways that benefits you. They know how to nurture the Black boy's mind. They know how to "talk" to Black boy in ways he "think" deep, intellectually. They do a good job bringing the best out of Black boys.
I think that sort of caring and nurturing resonate strong with the Black Man's psyche and heart. Just that, growing up, we don't know why we attracted to White Women. As Men, we understand it a lot better and it leads to Black Men dating out with White Women.
With Black Women, I firmly believe they put more into their "girls" than boys. And Black boys see this about their Black Mothers and resents it. They grow up to accept those norms about Black Womem, and it lead Black boys to feel emasculated at an early age. THIS IS NOT GOOD, FELLAS.
I don't want to know why Black American Women focus on their girls way too much and not give the boys, at least, a decent amount of "sincere" attention. Im sure their answer will be another one of those mindless, superficial ideology not grounded in reality.
At least by me, as a Black Man writing this thread, they can see why we attract White Women like we do. It's not just sex, Black Woman. It's really not. It's a real bond with White Women and we struggled trying to understand why it's not with Black women. We really fought tooth and nails with ourselves trying to correct what we thought was a defect with us, for White Women.
However, we been loving White Women throughout our history and as far back as antiquity. It always been there with Black Women. It's just natural. Don't know why.
Good post!

Look at Obama, he trived thanks to a WW raising him. And now he is the president. Guarantee you if he was raised by a BW, he would have ended up not so successful.

And BW don't even do a good job raising their daughters. Their daughters are twerking on playgrounds and being used as sex objects in Movies and the Internet.
Cyrus

Manassas, VA

#10 Mar 30, 2014
White female/ black male combination has a legacy of burnt black neighborhoods, bombed churches, false rape allegations and lynching.
White/Black race-mixing smacks so much of slavery and it is an absolute wicked act!
Cyrus

Manassas, VA

#11 Mar 30, 2014
"Black Fathers with a bi-racial daughters scores extremely well with them."
Shout out to Halle Berry and Paula Patton.

Since: May 12

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#12 Mar 30, 2014
Well Bye wrote:
Not a knock against Black American Women even though I feel most Black American Women have a poor track record with raising Black boys, even with a Black father in the household. The love is okay but the "upbringing, teaching, knowledge" is not there.
I was raised with both parents; Blacks. However, during my school years, my best Teachers were the White Women and a Black Man. Actually, several White women Teachers and only one Black male Teacher who really set me up well, academically.
White Women just seem to have a natural chemistry that works with Black boys. They know how to give you "attention" in ways that benefits you. They know how to nurture the Black boy's mind. They know how to "talk" to Black boy in ways he "think" deep, intellectually. They do a good job bringing the best out of Black boys.
I think that sort of caring and nurturing resonate strong with the Black Man's psyche and heart. Just that, growing up, we don't know why we attracted to White Women. As Men, we understand it a lot better and it leads to Black Men dating out with White Women.
With Black Women, I firmly believe they put more into their "girls" than boys. And Black boys see this about their Black Mothers and resents it. They grow up to accept those norms about Black Womem, and it lead Black boys to feel emasculated at an early age. THIS IS NOT GOOD, FELLAS.
I don't want to know why Black American Women focus on their girls way too much and not give the boys, at least, a decent amount of "sincere" attention. Im sure their answer will be another one of those mindless, superficial ideology not grounded in reality.
At least by me, as a Black Man writing this thread, they can see why we attract White Women like we do. It's not just sex, Black Woman. It's really not. It's a real bond with White Women and we struggled trying to understand why it's not with Black women. We really fought tooth and nails with ourselves trying to correct what we thought was a defect with us, for White Women.
However, we been loving White Women throughout our history and as far back as antiquity. It always been there with Black Women. It's just natural. Don't know why.
The white teachers are paid to do their job, most Black boys have been let down by their white teachers. That's why more black mothers are home schooling their sons or even starting their own independent schools.
As for your bond with white women, you have no bond with them, you simply are a victim of white supremacy. You feel the female version of you is inferior to the female version of the white man,
But as you feel a yearning for acceptance from whites, you should seek out forums which have many white posters. This is an African American forum, so maybe you should find a forum more suitable for your social requirements.

“>3 =O”

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Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#13 Mar 30, 2014
Kind of hard to argue against this, but then again I wouldn't want to anyway. Obama had a white mother, even though he is not a true black person.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#14 Mar 30, 2014
Well Bye wrote:
<quoted text>
Well, I don't acknowledge it. You bring it up because you seem jealous the White Woman scores well with Black boys than Black women. At least I explained Black women scores well with their Black girls. Just not with their Black boys.
Also, Black Fathers with a bi-racial daughters scores extremely well with them. What's also pleasant to know is that, they score equally as we with their Black daughters. There is not favoritism when it comes to children from our seed.
Black women do create division, animosity, foster jealousies among their children. They fail in those areas. I think you should focus and talk about that then attempting to attack black men.
Now, don't get butthurt and angry because I'm being truthful and frank with you. The last two times you called yourself getting mad at me for what I say, you had me banned. That's the same problem with Black Women and Black boys/men. They don't understand us.
You won't be having children with a Black woman, so why do you care about naming negative things about women who are not a part of your life? Move on, and focus on making your white women happy and be a good father to your biracial children.

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#15 Mar 30, 2014
Well Bye wrote:
<quoted text>Well, I don't acknowledge it. You bring it up because you seem jealous the White Woman scores well with Black boys than Black women. At least I explained Black women scores well with their Black girls. Just not with their Black boys.

Also, Black Fathers with a bi-racial daughters scores extremely well with them. What's also pleasant to know is that, they score equally as we with their Black daughters. There is not favoritism when it comes to children from our seed.

Black women do create division, animosity, foster jealousies among their children. They fail in those areas. I think you should focus and talk about that then attempting to attack black men.

Now, don't get butthurt and angry because I'm being truthful and frank with you. The last two times you called yourself getting mad at me for what I say, you had me banned. That's the same problem with Black Women and Black boys/men. They don't understand us.
My post directed to you did not put down black men at all because it was not about them.

My post was about white fathers and their daughters.

So this emotional tirade of yours does not change the fact that white fathers play a pivotal role in their daughters' lives.

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#16 Mar 30, 2014
BM Moving On wrote:
<quoted text>Good post!

Look at Obama, he trived thanks to a WW raising him. And now he is the president. Guarantee you if he was raised by a BW, he would have ended up not so successful.

And BW don't even do a good job raising their daughters. Their daughters are twerking on playgrounds and being used as sex objects in Movies and the Internet.
Well our president chose to marry a black woman who bore him children, so your position is faulty. His daughters seem to exude grace and refinement.
Well Bye

Houston, TX

#17 Mar 30, 2014
The truth hurts wrote:
White people cannot and should not raise black children. It should be the other way around. If that was the case. Many of us would be corny no cultured Oreos.
You know what, I think any bi-racial "boy" should be raised by a Black father and White Mother. It just natural that way because a Black Man will instill his "Black Pride and Blackness" in the bi-racial boy and he'd grow up as a Masculine Black Man and think as a Black Man.

If they're raised by White Fathers, it doesn't score quite as well as if they were raised with a Black father and White mother. They tend to be lacking in their manhood....liberal and too tolerance. They come across as "soft" and uncultured. If a pure Black child was to test the black bi-racial child, raised by a White father, he can't measure up (in mentally toughness and manhood....bravado) for example. You clearly see the the "whiteness" in him as a Black bi-racial child.

In the Black bi-racial child raised by a Black father, you see his "Blackness" a lot in his manners, gesture, masculinity and worth than his counter-part raised by a White father.

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

Location hidden

#18 Mar 30, 2014
Jstylez wrote:
Kind of hard to argue against this, but then again I wouldn't want to anyway. Obama had a white mother, even though he is not a true black person.
Our president was heavily influenced by his mother's father.

“Jesus loves you all!”

Since: Jul 13

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#19 Mar 30, 2014
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>The white teachers are paid to do their job, most Black boys have been let down by their white teachers. That's why more black mothers are home schooling their sons or even starting their own independent schools.
As for your bond with white women, you have no bond with them, you simply are a victim of white supremacy. You feel the female version of you is inferior to the female version of the white man,
But as you feel a yearning for acceptance from whites, you should seek out forums which have many white posters. This is an African American forum, so maybe you should find a forum more suitable for your social requirements.
There are some good white women who exude grace and truly try to help others.
Cha

United States

#20 Mar 30, 2014
Black boys NEED to be RAISED by their BLACKFATHERS; (Not) a WHITE woman, NOR a BLACK woman- BUT A BLACK MAN.

This funcking buck NEEDS to STOP being PASSED around to EVERYBODY and ANYBODY.

WOMEN were NEVER- little BOYS therefore, do NOT have the MECHANISM of PROVIDING the RIGHT emotional NEEDS of a MALE child- that a GROWN ADULT MAN would have.

NO WOMAN wheither BLACK, wheither WHITE, or OTHER is equiped to do so. In addition...because of CULTURAL differcencies it bad enough the AA boys, girls, and adults, are STRUGERLING with bits and pieces of their heritage knowledge to then, be bombarded with teaching by others; CAUSING even MORE of a mental problem; as well as confusion.

Besides, WHITE MEN need their WOMEN around to help THEM raise their BOYS; (NOT) to have BLACK MALES seeking out THEIR women, TO RAISE their black boys. Come on knee-gars! What are YOU thinking here!??...DO YOU (EVER) funcKING THINK!????/smgdmfh / geeezzz!!

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