The last line is exactly what my mom told my sister and I last year. She said she would support us as long as he was Christian and a good guy.<quoted text>
Good for you. Most non-BM do not have the twisted and distorted view of BW that most BM have of us.
BM's fear is that non-BM will find us attractive and they won't have a security net when the WW are through using them up.
I believe many BW are beginning to get used to the idea that their future may not include a BM.
My mom is as pro Black as they come, but she said as long as we maintain a sense of pride in our race....go for it! I love my mom:)