Why are Black men feminized?

Why are Black men feminized?

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Sadbuttrue

United States

#1 Feb 25, 2008
Why are Black men such baby boys relying on women?

“You're gonna say it anyway....”

Since: Jan 08

I'm over it!

#2 Feb 25, 2008
You gonna get into trouble for this one! Read the willie lynch letters and the making of a slave. Then you will see why. They took the biggest strongest brother and tied him to 4 horses, set him on fire and let the horses tear him apart, all in front of the other slaves. Fear tactics. Then the woman was allowed more freedom and food ( and bed wit da massa) she in turn raised her daughters to be strong, while the male child was raised to be weak. Blah blah blah. Read the books on this. After all these years of fear on the part of the one that was to protect us, we did what we had to do to make it and keep our sons alive, rather than letting them revolt (as we should have). Now it fuels itself, as you see from these pages. Psyhco/biological imprints were left on us. Break the chain.

“I'm just one vote.”

Since: Sep 07

Washington, D.C.

#3 Feb 25, 2008
They are "baby boys" because they were raised by their Momma's and there was no father figure around to smack them upside the head, when they go out of line. They learned to be men by watching other men on BET.

Since: Jan 08

Little River, SC

#4 Feb 25, 2008
And the typical response would be why are black women masculinized?
Come on Sadbuttrue. Some black people have bought into these stereotypes, but the majority of black people I know, love and have the privalege of calling my friends both male and females don't have these issues. I don't see these problems the same way you do.
Please explain because this just seems like another black bashing saga in thread form waiting to happen.

weary hawt

Since: Jan 08

Little River, SC

#5 Feb 25, 2008
Lol! I know I need to go to sleep now...

Hawt Spellchecker:

privalege=privilege

still weary hawt

“Well”

Since: Feb 08

Pinecrest, CA

#6 Feb 25, 2008
Screw you!! There aint nuthin feminine about me.

“Viva La Revolucion”

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Maryland

#7 Feb 25, 2008
If there is one thing I hate is feminine black men. I've always been a firm believer that before black people can be liberated all these "metro-sexuals" that run around our inner cities need to be "weeded out" of the gene pool or atleast deported to Europe we're they'll feel comfortable in the first place of the "anti-masculine" culture. A man's first and foremost responsibility is to his household and his second is to is community. It takes a strong man to fufill their duties and responsibilities. Allah knows I'll have folk comming at me left and right talking about how I'm a "hater" and a "bigot", but the African community cannot be run on the likes of weak testosterone deprived "males" with feminine attitudes. There was a separation between the sexes during creation. It took place spiritually, emotionally, and physically, and that is for a specific reason. If black men don't do what we have to do and stop exhibiting some of the unnatural sexual and emotional behaviors we learned from our mothers then we won't ever be able to build our community in the face of the oppression and adversity which has been pitted against our people. We have to eliminate the "feminine" influences

I and my late wife during the first years of our marriage had argument after argument over her tendency to bring her not-so-openly "bisexual" cousin (who coincidently was also a minister at a local church and owned two hair salons in Newark) into the house while my oldest son was around. He was one of those individuals who came from the church tradition and even though they preached against homosexuality it was clear by their actions and who they surrounded themselves by they weren't to "straight and narrow" themselves (and we all know how that goes). I wouldn't let the man in my house, atleast not while the children were around. If she wanted to see him she had to go to his house, and she couldn't bring my son or daughter with her. No, I was not trying to be hardline, nor was I being oppressive. As a man and a father I decided it was in the best interest of my children that they NOT recieve this influence in their lives.

Simply put homosexuality and male feminism is a plague, and it has various unhealthy consequences not only in the black community but worldwide. The Europeans who produced and manufactured the "metrosexual" are dying out by the minute. I know we in the black community like to joke about it, and you females love to take the little feminine negros shopping and to the mall with you, but you've got to face the fact this IS a serious discussion. Start learning how to recognize signs of feminine behavior in your young boys and do not feel shy about correcting such behavior. We have a duty to raise proud African Kings and Warriors, Queens and Godesses. there's no time for foolishness.

“Viva La Revolucion”

Since: Jul 07

Baltimore, Maryland

#8 Feb 25, 2008
Jordaniel wrote:
Psyhco/biological imprints were left on us. Break the chain.
The only way of breaking this chain is deporting the metrosexuals and the homosexuals. It's too late for rehabilitation and re-education. People have been so fooled that there's no hope for the African community until it developes the testicular fortitude to eliminate all counter-productive elements to our struggle.

Anyway, that won't happen as long as African people still operate within their adopted colonial mindset. As long as black women keep bringing their feminine male friends into their homes and expose their children to this insanity it will continue.
Sadbuttrue

United States

#9 Feb 26, 2008
Uncle Ruckus wrote:
They are "baby boys" because they were raised by their Momma's and there was no father figure around to smack them upside the head, when they go out of line. They learned to be men by watching other men on BET.
True, they also learn from other Black men around them.
Sadbuttrue

United States

#10 Feb 26, 2008
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I dont know why you keep saying there are "Good Black men/women", I realize they do exist. For some reason they are not able to "Come together" and most times because of "educational difference and also economic differences".

Black men have treated Black women so badly (even though they won't admit it), that many Black women are "Denfensive" and you cant blame them. Almost 3/4 of Black women relationships with Black men are "negative or abusive" in some shape, form or fashion.

Im sitting here watching Fox 5, I see Black men committing crimes in Black neighborhoods. Yes, I do see Whites committing crimes but "Gang Raping" 8yr old 10 yr old women? A 39 year old Black man rapes 10 -12 year old girls 6 of them over 4 year period.

Black boys and men in the Black community (low income) cheering boys to rape and sodemize several young Black girls on a soccer field and making "financial bets" is outright crazy!

That doesnt count Black women getting robbed and beaten by Black boys at the "Gas Pump" @ 8:00 AM on there way to work because they wanted her pocketbook.

These are crimes in the Black community that I hear daily that need to stop. Why beat, rob, rape a 75 yr old woman who's barely has any money coming in? The same woman that helped your Mother, volunteered in your community and taken in young adults when they had no place to go?

Black women everywhere are "Furious" and I dont blame them. Black men have gotten away with alot of abuse for a long time. I fault Black women for allowing the abuses and doing nothing about it just to keep a man.

What did it get Black women? Only more disrespect, to be called Whores, Bytches and Hoes for trying to work with Black men. They are also calling Black women "Stupid" for trying to workout relationships with Black men by telling Black women they select the wrong men.

Black men call Black women "bytches" for giving low income, uneducated black men a chance. When things go wrong, they blame Black women for her poor selection.

Then also call Black women Bytch, Hoes and Gold Diggers, for pursing education, wrong for wantng more, Gold Diggers becausue in most cases, they can't afford to date and made alot of bad choices which "limit their selection of mates".

This leaves alot of Black men angry because they are "ill prepared at life", they dont have access to the women they thought they should have. Those women who have themselves together, made good choices, got educated and are looking for men in their level. They are angry because these "Fine, Classy Sisters dont want to accept them they way they are and are now considering/moving on "Crossing the color line".

Now they can no longer live off Sisters, depend on using them, Sisters are no longer wanting to deal with the habitual lies, games, deceit and over look the behaviors.

Its an outright war now!
Deion

Greenwood, IN

#11 Apr 10, 2008
Black Feminist Matriarchal Househoulds and Absent Fathers are the reason for this shit. F*ck the black father. he's a bitch!! the black women are the white man's prostitute!!!!!

Level 2

Since: Sep 07

Ann Arbor

#12 Apr 10, 2008
Sadbuttrue wrote:
Why are Black men such baby boys relying on women?
Girl you trying to get told off aren't you? Anyway, think about it, many BM's are raised by a single mother, one thing I have seen is that BW usually pamper and coddle their sons while they teach their daughters to be self sufficient, I think a lot of black mothers and (white mothers are guilty of this too), but definitely black mother use their sons as surrogate "husbands" no woman can EVER be good enough for their sons, AND the lack of a real man to influence them to what a real man is. Many black girls don't know what a real man is either due to lacking a father in their lives, it's a never ending cycle.

“Its one big Cycle”

Level 1

Since: Oct 07

Jungle in Yard

#13 Apr 10, 2008
Mr_Azhaad wrote:
If there is one thing I hate is feminine black men. I've always been a firm believer that before black people can be liberated all these "metro-sexuals" that run around our inner cities need to be "weeded out" of the gene pool or atleast deported to Europe we're they'll feel comfortable in the first place of the "anti-masculine" culture. A man's first and foremost responsibility is to his household and his second is to is community. It takes a strong man to fufill their duties and responsibilities. Allah knows I'll have folk comming at me left and right talking about how I'm a "hater" and a "bigot", but the African community cannot be run on the likes of weak testosterone deprived "males" with feminine attitudes. There was a separation between the sexes during creation. It took place spiritually, emotionally, and physically, and that is for a specific reason. If black men don't do what we have to do and stop exhibiting some of the unnatural sexual and emotional behaviors we learned from our mothers then we won't ever be able to build our community in the face of the oppression and adversity which has been pitted against our people. We have to eliminate the "feminine" influences
I and my late wife during the first years of our marriage had argument after argument over her tendency to bring her not-so-openly "bisexual" cousin (who coincidently was also a minister at a local church and owned two hair salons in Newark) into the house while my oldest son was around. He was one of those individuals who came from the church tradition and even though they preached against homosexuality it was clear by their actions and who they surrounded themselves by they weren't to "straight and narrow" themselves (and we all know how that goes). I wouldn't let the man in my house, atleast not while the children were around. If she wanted to see him she had to go to his house, and she couldn't bring my son or daughter with her. No, I was not trying to be hardline, nor was I being oppressive. As a man and a father I decided it was in the best interest of my children that they NOT recieve this influence in their lives.
Simply put homosexuality and male feminism is a plague, and it has various unhealthy consequences not only in the black community but worldwide. The Europeans who produced and manufactured the "metrosexual" are dying out by the minute. I know we in the black community like to joke about it, and you females love to take the little feminine negros shopping and to the mall with you, but you've got to face the fact this IS a serious discussion. Start learning how to recognize signs of feminine behavior in your young boys and do not feel shy about correcting such behavior. We have a duty to raise proud African Kings and Warriors, Queens and Godesses. there's no time for foolishness.
Respect for that Bro

Since: Mar 08

New York, NY

#14 Apr 10, 2008
Sadbuttrue wrote:
Why are Black men such baby boys relying on women?
Lots of truth in this from what ive seen from american blk males. Some of my guys lives this life, i dont know how they do it. My folks are from the west indies, and always had the BEST father a son could have...he taught me by example what a man does and how he was always there for us. Many blk american boys never had that IMO. Raised by ALL women, thats how some turn gay also IMO.

Since: Mar 08

New York, NY

#17 Apr 10, 2008
Mr_Azhaad wrote:
<quoted text>
The only way of breaking this chain is deporting the metrosexuals and the homosexuals. It's too late for rehabilitation and re-education. People have been so fooled that there's no hope for the African community until it developes the testicular fortitude to eliminate all counter-productive elements to our struggle.
Anyway, that won't happen as long as African people still operate within their adopted colonial mindset. As long as black women keep bringing their feminine male friends into their homes and expose their children to this insanity it will continue.
Nah...if every blk male handles his biz and raises his kids...things will change. Also, i think bw dating IR may help.(lol) It will get some off their butts and try to get something...because if blk women dated ir in droves...many of these dudes would be homeless. Most of these cats live w/ their momma or babys momma, or they move in w/ some other blk women.(lol) Ive seen it way too many times...

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#18 Apr 10, 2008
people should really read the book "the curse of willie lynch" its no joke

“Its one big Cycle”

Level 1

Since: Oct 07

Jungle in Yard

#19 Apr 10, 2008
Rah360 congratulations you have a son, that was the news I wanted to hear, from the nurse as my wife gave birth to my Son, my first Boy, 2 older girls

whatever happened my son was going to be a warrior and a king, and was going to get some discipline, old skool discipline, whenever he done wrong boot camp 20 pressups at 3yrs of age, rather that, than a beating

We cant be raising punks, who dont know nothing about the fist, only know of the gun, my son is already ruling his peers, because a lot of them, are mommys boys, and come to nursery in the latest fashion wear, and get cussed by their mommys if the get their clothes dirty, forget that, black boys should be rolling around in dirt, and playing like little warriors, and then when they are at age then they will recieve knowledge of self, they aint working so why should I spend big money on clothes, you crazy, me growing up i use to get hand me downs

I remember when I was young, all my clothes always had holes in them, due to me rolling about and not having a care in the world, even my shoes had holes in them, now a days, these feminized black boys, got earings in there ears, and dont do treehouses as one young child told me, they do shopping at the mall, please, me and my son dont even have the concentration to do clothes shopping in and out as far as Im concerend, I gots business to take care off, proper business

putting your child in front of the tv to watch sex & the city, please, or your favorite soap opera, what kind of weak black boy are we raising

weak feminised black boys gots to go, we need to bump up the disciplined black warrior child instead

“Its one big Cycle”

Level 1

Since: Oct 07

Jungle in Yard

#20 Apr 10, 2008
feminised Black males, that go shopping with girlfriend on a tuesday, and got studs in their belly button, gots to go

“Its one big Cycle”

Level 1

Since: Oct 07

Jungle in Yard

#21 Apr 10, 2008
Feminised Black Males will be the death of the BLACK RACE,IF WE LET THIS DESTRUCTION CONTINUE TO HAPPEN
ahumbleservant

Flossmoor, IL

#23 May 17, 2008
Hotep Sisters & Brothers,

Brothers Azhaad & Rah360 thank you for providing your great wisdom on this epidemic. I work in corrections and can attest to the FACT that there is an epidemic of magnificent proportion that has seemingly become all too often the "accepted norm" insofar as MANLY DEEDS and MANHOOD TRAINING relative the BLACK MALE!

I am hurt, disturbed, and definitely furious over the lack of upfront TRUTH about the serious nature of the "pussy-fication" of BLACK MALES that allows for them to become ever so weak and feminine. I am not ranting but am stating empirical evidence throughout over 20 years of working in the "faggot" saturated field of Social Services where CONFUSION is the one element that is harming black boys.

Even worse is the FACT that a great many BLACK WOMEN (yes, I said it!) are passive and allowing of feminine behaviors that are exemplified and blatantly demonstrated by black boys. "Oh, look at him. He is so "CUTE!" The substitution of the WORD "handsome" with the word "cute" can cause damage. I have vast number of years of working with male juvenile offenders and am currently working with adult male offenders that are "LOCKED UP" and a great many of them are directly infected with feminine behaviors.

BLACK MANHOOD can NEVER be compromised! We are in a state of EMERGENCY because we are denying what we have allowed. Even BLACK MALE FRATERNAL ORGANIZATIONS are allowing for feminine acting, promoting, and advocating members to greatly influence the shaping of young black boys and risk confusing them even further about what a BLACK MAN WAS, IS, and NEEDS to ALWAYS be! A MAN not a BITCH!

The above stated is from experience. I am ever so fighting the wicked assault on BLACK MANHOOD. Black women, you are the "FIRST TEACHERS" but your lesson plan is in need of emergency implementation of revision. You must allow for the TRUE BLACK MALE to contribute to the lessons that BLACK BOYS must be shown, taught, and TESTED ON.

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