Why do Black men have kids and not ...

Why do Black men have kids and not take care of them,?

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blacksexyman82

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#1 Aug 8, 2011
Why do Black men some have al lthis kids and they want to punk out in rising the kids.

listen Men to be a man you have to do what you have too, not what you want too or wish too.

Your having all this kids, you need to step up get 2, 3 jobs like this single mothers are doing , and help carry the weight.

Rising a kid IS NOT JUST A WOMANS JOB. the man has to help too,in feeding the baby, buying clothes, baby sitting the baby. BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY RACE OF MALES THAT YOU HAVE TO TEL LTHEM TO BABY sit their OWN KIDS. yeah think about that 5 times and let it enter your brain.

i am sick and tired of seeing this sorry azz black fathers acting like they have no kids, when they got 4, 5 running around town. MAN UP or RAP IT UP. rant over.

blacksexyman82

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#2 Aug 8, 2011
can i get a thumbs up for Black men rising our kids better to be strong men and women?
SUNDAE

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#3 Aug 8, 2011
That's the million dollar question of the year I'll just sit back and wait for answers! But whateva the answers are I'm sure they will find some way to blame black women! Its funny how a lot of the Spanish guys I work with talk about the same subject. The majority of spanish guys i know as soon as they get their girlfriend pregnant get married or they live together! They show me pictures of their kids and have so much joy in their eyes when they talk about their kids! Of course I'm sure they all don't do that but its what I see on a daily basis! I just think to my self "must be nice"and I feel bad for my friends and family members that have to raise their kids alone
SayWhat

Lexington Park, MD

#4 Aug 8, 2011
hummmm no one wishes to answer? I guess thats because to answer you would have to admit that your not taking care of your business. Good Question blacksexyman, I would address it to all men not handling they business though...
SUNDAE

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#5 Aug 8, 2011
SayWhat wrote:
hummmm no one wishes to answer? I guess thats because to answer you would have to admit that your not taking care of your business. Good Question blacksexyman, I would address it to all men not handling they business though...
that's exactly what I was thinking this thread will die soon because the black men on this forum rather talk about IR BLACK MEN &IR BLACK WOMEN Are selling out all day!

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#6 Aug 8, 2011
blacksexyman82 wrote:
Why do Black men some have al lthis kids and they want to punk out in rising the kids.
Maybe they don't know that the stuff that comes out of their penis' when they ejaculate can produce offspring. Or maybe they think some big ass bird brings the kid to the women and it has nothing to do with them.

blacksexyman82

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#8 Aug 8, 2011
SUNDAE wrote:
That's the million dollar question of the year I'll just sit back and wait for answers! But whateva the answers are I'm sure they will find some way to blame black women! Its funny how a lot of the Spanish guys I work with talk about the same subject. The majority of spanish guys i know as soon as they get their girlfriend pregnant get married or they live together! They show me pictures of their kids and have so much joy in their eyes when they talk about their kids! Of course I'm sure they all don't do that but its what I see on a daily basis! I just think to my self "must be nice"and I feel bad for my friends and family members that have to raise their kids alone
Yeah i understand that, when i have my kids i cant see myself not been in their lifes or dating their mother and all that. Life getshard , but thats when you get harder and MANUP. You knwo kids rasied in single mother home have a rough life, why would you want your kids to suffer?

blacksexyman82

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#9 Aug 8, 2011
SayWhat wrote:
hummmm no one wishes to answer? I guess thats because to answer you would have to admit that your not taking care of your business. Good Question blacksexyman, I would address it to all men not handling they business though...
So men say ohh they arent ready to be a father. yeah like the woman was ready to be a mother. NO SHE WASNT BUT GUESS WHA TBROTHAS she had to STEP UP AND LEARN ON THE RUN. Black men need to do that too, Children who life with out a father, are 20 times more likely to endup in prison, 10 times more likly to be poor. 10 times more likely to DROP OUT OF HIGHSCHOOL and become criminals.

To many black Mothers are OVER WORKED..OVER STressed/. over everything.

Black men we need to stop blaming "THE white MAN" for everything its 2011. WE ARE " THE MAN" might want to look at the people in the white house.

blacksexyman82

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#10 Aug 8, 2011
Mulatre wrote:
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Maybe they don't know that the stuff that comes out of their penis' when they ejaculate can produce offspring. Or maybe they think some big ass bird brings the kid to the women and it has nothing to do with them.
LOL thats funny, but serious any FOOL can have a child, that doesnt make you a father. its the curage to raise a child that makes you A FATHER. and We Black men need to help al lthis single Black mothers.
SUNDAE

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#11 Aug 8, 2011
Mulatre wrote:
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Maybe they don't know that the stuff that comes out of their penis' when they ejaculate can produce offspring. Or maybe they think some big ass bird brings the kid to the women and it has nothing to do with them.
lmbao something is wrong cause even little 2 foot 5 PEPE can't even speak English will work 10 jobs hustling to take care of his kids! He works at the car wash he wash dishes he sell weed he cuts lawns he collects cans he collect metal junk he paints he fix cars he sell CDs and movies and come home everynite to MARIA he even got a chick on the side but he ain't leaving the mother of his kids"
Satan

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#12 Aug 8, 2011
Black Men much likes Apes are hardwired to abandon their Young. Only Human males take care of their children.
SUNDAE

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#13 Aug 8, 2011
Satan wrote:
Black Men much likes Apes are hardwired to abandon their Young. Only Human males take care of their children.
dam that was deep! OK Satan I feel weird calling you that LOL! All racism aside is that really true what you said about apes abandoning their young?

blacksexyman82

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#14 Aug 9, 2011
care for your kids or use condoms.

blacksexyman82

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#15 Aug 9, 2011
SUNDAE wrote:
<quoted text> dam that was deep! OK Satan I feel weird calling you that LOL! All racism aside is that really true what you said about apes abandoning their young?
No its not . Ape dont abandon their young, alot of the times in Africa apes parents are killed and the babies and kidnapped and put in zoo's , and circus. its too late to train the Adults Chimps, but the babies can stil lbe trained.
brown sugar

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#16 Sep 26, 2011
blacksexyman82 wrote:
can i get a thumbs up for Black men rising our kids better to be strong men and women?
thank you sexy black man for your comment I have pondered over and over in my head trying to figure out why black men make babies and not take care of them I have come up with the conclusion of slavery. It is called structral racism. Black male slaves made slave babies for master and didnt take care of them because he was a slave He was moved to another plantation leaving the women and the master to take care of slave children just like it is today. I really give you a thumbs up for your comment. I am at the end of my rope with this situation. Why is God allowing injustices to prevail. When will the righteous really inherit the land. Thank you so much for your comment black sexy man. Thanks
Lisa

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#17 Sep 26, 2011
brown sugar wrote:
<quoted text> thank you sexy black man for your comment I have pondered over and over in my head trying to figure out why black men make babies and not take care of them I have come up with the conclusion of slavery. It is called structral racism. Black male slaves made slave babies for master and didnt take care of them because he was a slave He was moved to another plantation leaving the women and the master to take care of slave children just like it is today. I really give you a thumbs up for your comment. I am at the end of my rope with this situation. Why is God allowing injustices to prevail. When will the righteous really inherit the land. Thank you so much for your comment black sexy man. Thanks
Sorry, but you shouldn't use slavery as an excuse. American BM and BW have never experienced slavery. The reason why bm don't take care of their children is because they don't see the need. BM view their lives as worthless. They won't admit this, but deep down, they are defeated because they have no economic, political or social power in this world. Their jobs and livelihood is contingent upon them being able to assimilate into Euro-American society.

Black males will often behave as thugs, as a way to distance themselves from mainstream society, but the problem is, their behaviors tend to be pathological, and always ends in destruction.

I'm just surprised that bw keep entertaining black male pathologies. I find many of them to be very angry and self hating. If a person doesn't love themselves, I surely do not expect them to love me.

Also, in my humble opinion, black relationships seem to have a plethora of problems (again, stemming from all of the self hate). This probably explains why divorce rates are so high amongst black couples. It probably also explains why black males have the highest divorce rates with all races of women.

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#18 Sep 26, 2011
Satan wrote:
Black Men much likes Apes are hardwired to abandon their Young. Only Human males take care of their children.
Yeah! White apes like Casey Anthony do what all whites do when they can't handle the responsibility of caring for their family..... They kill them off....

In 1989, Robert Lynch owned a business that went into decline. He went into debt, but then his wife got pregnant with their fourth child. Unable to cope with the extra burden, he shot them all and killed himself.

Bruce Sweazy had been laid off and had become suicidal. He got a prescription for an antidepressant, which he declined to take. Then one day in 1994, he used a long-handled ax to hack his wife and three sons to death before shooting himself in the chest.

A doctor in Philadelphia, Anthony Paul, had a severely arthritic wife, a retarded and asthmatic daughter and a healthy son. To end the sufferings of his family, but not leave his son   to be a ward of the state, he planned a suicide pact with three unwilling victims. He administered a lethal dose of medication to each of them before killing himself.

Despite the differences among these scenarios, there is a common profile of men who have killed their wives and children. Most are "white males" in their 30s or 40s who react badly to stress and who view their families as extensions of themselves. They typically use a firearm or knife that they have owned for some time.

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#19 Sep 26, 2011
LOL!!! Thanks for the ratings. White folks can't handle the truth.

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#20 Sep 26, 2011
It's also women responsiblity to protect herself and prevent pregranacy if they do not want a child. Another thing why are these women not choosing responsible decent men and ones that can provide for them or could see a future with them. And how about no sex before marriage? But these men also need to step up and learn to be mature...It seems like even when they reach 21 and upwards , they still act like boys not men!

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#21 Sep 26, 2011
JRoxi wrote:
It's also women responsiblity to protect herself and prevent pregranacy if they do not want a child. Another thing why are these women not choosing responsible decent men and ones that can provide for them or could see a future with them. And how about no sex before marriage? But these men also need to step up and learn to be mature...It seems like even when they reach 21 and upwards , they still act like boys not men!
Exactly! For example, the show '16 and Pregnant'. Some of the cast are having a baby just to be on TV.

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