Why Do Some White Men & Women Desire to Be Sexually Humiliated & Degraded?

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#1 Mar 26, 2013
Although I've looked at pictorial pornography, I find it boring; I can only look at it for about a few seconds; however, I like literotica more, i.e., erotic literature that allows the reader to visualize the characters. I've noticed that about 99% of literotica is written by White people and about white people's extreme desires.
Many of the things are too extreme for me to even consider doing. I can't seem to understand how anyone can receive pleasure from being slapped in the face, made to lick the person's rect..m, having a person spit in my mouth, p.ss in my mouth, sh.t in my mouth, lick armpits and smelly b.lls, having breast whipped until they bleed and many other things that I will never find pleasure in. I don't understand how any woman can find pleasure in seeing her own husband on his knees su.king another man, while she li.cks the dominant man's behind.
Although I know that bisexuality is common with many groups, I sense from the literotica that a large number, yet a minority of White men love to be dominated and made to perform or.l sex on Black men. They like to be an'lly penetrated and humiliated by black men.
Black men would never consider being a bottom and submissive to a White man, so why do White men find such pleasure in being a married man, while he also finds pleasure in searching for Black and Latino d..ks to suck?
I can't image even 1% of the African American population finding joy or pleasure in these things. Since there are often Whites who like to come into the African American forum, I'm interested in hearing, first-hand, from some of them, why these desires are so prevailent within the White community.
I know that Downlow Black men exist within Black American, but it seems that throughout history, White men have married and still craved to su.k other men; it's as if some White men think that this is just normal. They don't even call it downlow, because it's such an ancient practice with some of them that has existed since ancient Greek and Roman times.
Even Black and Latino Gay men prefer their own men over White men. It's like almost non-existent for Black men to want to be a downlow with a White man, unless they are degrading the white man, but Black and Latino gay men seem to love their fellow Black and Latin men; they don't seek to demean or degrade their fellow Black or minority men; it's just not in the nature of Black and Latino men or women to desire to be humiliated by their fellow Black or Latino mates, so why do Whites desire to be demeaned and degraded by their partners sexually?
Also, I have 2 favorite authors that happens to be Black men; they write stories that includes mostly respecting Black women during sex and public social events, while they nearly always write about sexually and physically humiliating White women and White men sexually and physically.
Because the Black male authors love to write stories about humiliating White men and women, I was wondering if that is why Black men that do like White women sexually prefer them, i.e., is it because some White women like to be demeaned and degraded sexually? And, do this turn Black men on?
I'm not knocking Whites for enjoying these extreme sexual desires, I'm just curious to understand why they like these things.

“I've got a GREAT idea!”

Since: Mar 13

Let's BUZZ Lower Manhattan....

#2 Mar 26, 2013
Same reason black "men" rape and beat their own infants.

http://pysih.com/2008/09/08/reginald-davis/

Why are you asking about WHITE people,
....on the "black" forum?
Are you stupid, or something?
cookies

United States

#3 Mar 26, 2013
Sub human animals lol
ugly monkeys

Omaha, NE

#4 Mar 26, 2013
Ghettogaggers comes to mind
Truth

Newark, OH

#5 Mar 26, 2013
NoArguingAllowed wrote:
Although I've looked at pictorial pornography, I find it boring; I can only look at it for about a few seconds; however, I like literotica more, i.e., erotic literature that allows the reader to visualize the characters. I've noticed that about 99% of literotica is written by White people and about white people's extreme desires.
Many of the things are too extreme for me to even consider doing. I can't seem to understand how anyone can receive pleasure from being slapped in the face, made to lick the person's rect..m, having a person spit in my mouth, p.ss in my mouth, sh.t in my mouth, lick armpits and smelly b.lls, having breast whipped until they bleed and many other things that I will never find pleasure in. I don't understand how any woman can find pleasure in seeing her own husband on his knees su.king another man, while she li.cks the dominant man's behind.
Although I know that bisexuality is common with many groups, I sense from the literotica that a large number, yet a minority of White men love to be dominated and made to perform or.l sex on Black men. They like to be an'lly penetrated and humiliated by black men.
Black men would never consider being a bottom and submissive to a White man, so why do White men find such pleasure in being a married man, while he also finds pleasure in searching for Black and Latino d..ks to suck?
I can't image even 1% of the African American population finding joy or pleasure in these things. Since there are often Whites who like to come into the African American forum, I'm interested in hearing, first-hand, from some of them, why these desires are so prevailent within the White community.
I know that Downlow Black men exist within Black American, but it seems that throughout history, White men have married and still craved to su.k other men; it's as if some White men think that this is just normal. They don't even call it downlow, because it's such an ancient practice with some of them that has existed since ancient Greek and Roman times.
Even Black and Latino Gay men prefer their own men over White men. It's like almost non-existent for Black men to want to be a downlow with a White man, unless they are degrading the white man, but Black and Latino gay men seem to love their fellow Black and Latin men; they don't seek to demean or degrade their fellow Black or minority men; it's just not in the nature of Black and Latino men or women to desire to be humiliated by their fellow Black or Latino mates, so why do Whites desire to be demeaned and degraded by their partners sexually?
Also, I have 2 favorite authors that happens to be Black men; they write stories that includes mostly respecting Black women during sex and public social events, while they nearly always write about sexually and physically humiliating White women and White men sexually and physically.
Because the Black male authors love to write stories about humiliating White men and women, I was wondering if that is why Black men that do like White women sexually prefer them, i.e., is it because some White women like to be demeaned and degraded sexually? And, do this turn Black men on?
I'm not knocking Whites for enjoying these extreme sexual desires, I'm just curious to understand why they like these things.
Ahaha, we're just not afraid to talk about it, and it's not all of us. A few stories on Literotica doesn't speak for White people everywhere. I'm sure you have your own fantasies that you're not willing to talk about. And yes, the thought of dominating a White male sexually makes a lot of Black men very hard.
steveslutty

Carrollton, TX

#6 May 21, 2013
I can't tell you why others have this desire, but I can tell you why this is my fantasy (which I really would like to explore)...
Growing up in a small southern town with bisexual feelings and emotions, it was made very clear that "coming out" was horrifically taboo so there was no way I was going to admit my feelings/desires. In fact, like any repression, the more you repress, the more desirable the thing you're repressing. In this environment,(small town, Southern, Right-wing, conservative, religious, racist) I was warned to stay away from black men because "they would rape anything white". As I desired to have a cock in my mouth, etc. the idea/fantasy of being "forced" became appealing, since it wouldn't be my "fault", and I wouldn't be looked down on. Couple this with the racial stereotype of black men being aggressive and well-endowed, and you have the beginning of this desire. The innate guilt that many people feel concerning their repressive upbringing adds to the desire to be humiliated. In other words, if you masturbate while thinking about fellating a man, in the above environment, trust me, you will feel guilty and humiliated when you climax. Those emotions become entangled in your sexuality so that humiliation actually becomes a turn-on, a part of your climactic sensation.
At least it did for me.

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#7 May 21, 2013
Part of being an uneducated racist white man is being a closet homosexual. Thus, part of the obsession.

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