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So as I age I feel so desperate for a kid that I get tempted to go shop for baby clothes. Adopting is beneath me because I do not want to adopt some kid that may grow up to be a serial killer or just plain ugly. I only trust my own genes since I know I look good and my kids will be lucky to look like me and have my personality. So what advice would you give yo a woman like me?

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Oct 24, 2012
 
sassyntrashy wrote:
So as I age I feel so desperate for a kid that I get tempted to go shop for baby clothes. Adopting is beneath me because I do not want to adopt some kid that may grow up to be a serial killer or just plain ugly. I only trust my own genes since I know I look good and my kids will be lucky to look like me and have my personality. So what advice would you give yo a woman like me?
Arenīt there like spermbanks where you can get brochures of different sperm doners?
You can choose the alfa-male.

Your condition is called "baby-fever" and most women have it at some point of their lives.

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Oct 24, 2012
 
I guess I cannot give you the answers, only you. Maybe you should ask yourself what you want out of life and what you want your daughter to have. :P

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sassyntrashy wrote:
So as I age I feel so desperate for a kid that I get tempted to go shop for baby clothes. Adopting is beneath me because I do not want to adopt some kid that may grow up to be a serial killer or just plain ugly. I only trust my own genes since I know I look good and my kids will be lucky to look like me and have my personality. So what advice would you give yo a woman like me?
How old are you???? The advice depends on your age..

20-30... wait.. for the right man to find you..

30-40... wait..and be extra proactive.. look for yourself a man you would like..

40-45 Possibly adopt or discuss it with a male you're cool with.. and who knows...

45+ Adopt and love the kid and they will still reflect you..

Adoption shouldn't be beneath anybody.. if that's the case find you some one.. sleep with them, have your kid to carry your genes, and adopt the rest.

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Arenīt there like spermbanks where you can get brochures of different sperm doners?
You can choose the alfa-male.
Your condition is called "baby-fever" and most women have it at some point of their lives.
A sperm bank is a good option but I wanted my kid to have a dad she can know.

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I guess I cannot give you the answers, only you. Maybe you should ask yourself what you want out of life and what you want your daughter to have.:P
One reason I have no kids is because I desire to give them more then what I have right now.

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LOL!

Well you're not getting any younger and those eggs aint going to be there for ever. Time you found a fertile man you could see yourself having a child with and open those legs!

It's not rocket science.

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MrAnderson9 wrote:
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How old are you???? The advice depends on your age..
20-30... wait.. for the right man to find you..
30-40... wait..and be extra proactive.. look for yourself a man you would like..
40-45 Possibly adopt or discuss it with a male you're cool with.. and who knows...
45+ Adopt and love the kid and they will still reflect you..
Adoption shouldn't be beneath anybody.. if that's the case find you some one.. sleep with them, have your kid to carry your genes, and adopt the rest.
I have entered my 30s so I still have some time but I want a kid now and I prefer my own flesh and blood. Adoption works for others but not me.

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Oct 24, 2012
 
get a job bartending at the local country club/ golf course

throw yourself at every decent looking rich white guy that visits there

Bang him bareback or keep the condom and manually insert with a turkey baster after the act

have kid, file for child support, boom

... the american dream

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<quoted text>One reason I have no kids is because I desire to give them more then what I have right now.
Give em life and love baby :) They'll understand.
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So as I age I feel so desperate for a kid that I get tempted to go shop for baby clothes. Adopting is beneath me because I do not want to adopt some kid that may grow up to be a serial killer or just plain ugly. I only trust my own genes since I know I look good and my kids will be lucky to look like me and have my personality. So what advice would you give yo a woman like me?
your kid will turn out trashy

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<quoted text>A sperm bank is a good option but I wanted my kid to have a dad she can know.
Well, both options have the possibility that the baby is a boy.

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sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>One reason I have no kids is because I desire to give them more then what I have right now.
Great mentality :)

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<quoted text>I have entered my 30s so I still have some time but I want a kid now and I prefer my own flesh and blood. Adoption works for others but not me.
You won't mind once you get that baby adopted or not. Your body might even start responding to it.. Can't women psychologically cause themselves to start having maternal signs?? If you adopt ... then you can slow down your search for a worthwhile man.

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Y<quoted text>your kid will turn out trashy
But sassy.

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Well you're not getting any younger and those eggs aint going to be there for ever. Time you found a fertile man you could see yourself having a child with and open those legs!
It's not rocket science.
I was just trying to hold out for one with a little money.

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J-Town Ninja OhH YeE AhH wrote:
get a job bartending at the local country club/ golf course
throw yourself at every decent looking rich white guy that visits there
Bang him bareback or keep the condom and manually insert with a turkey baster after the act
have kid, file for child support, boom
... the american dream
Lol there are no upscale country clubs but I have went scouting for well off white men at home depot a few years back.

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Give em life and love baby :) They'll understand.
I am shallow when it comes to my kid so I want them to have more.

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You won't mind once you get that baby adopted or not. Your body might even start responding to it.. Can't women psychologically cause themselves to start having maternal signs?? If you adopt ... then you can slow down your search for a worthwhile man.
I don't like other people's kids.

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Oct 24, 2012
 
Ok I may consider doing some foster parenting to see how I get along with other people's kids.

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