Why do people hate black women so much?

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#775 May 28, 2014
Livin Da Stereotypes wrote:
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In Philly we white women lovers try our best to avoid the rampant gorilla women that try to eat us. But I can definitely say a lot of white men I know do hate black women.
I can definitely say a lot of black men I know do hate white women.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#776 Jun 4, 2014
I'm sorry..but when and where have I ever indicated that I hated bw?

How utterly strange that would be....considering that I have a whole life with a bw!
Estella

Edmonton, Canada

#778 Jun 17, 2014
There is a lot of misunderstanding about black woman. We are really different in body structure, style eticasy and the way we handle life, who ever these people are who label every black woman as uneducated should come forth and bring every black woman forth and test them on their knowledge well see how far their own smarts go. Not all black woman want attention their bodies are the first thing men look at even white men and we were desired for our bodies and we were discriminated against from white woman for that and because we got respect because of our bodies sometimes for the brains that come with the body beauty. The ones that judge us the most are white woman yet they tell us that oh African American woman are too fat and eat too much of and mc Donalds ..... News flash no where here in Canada is there a black person in the damn mc Donalds or KFC lol I see whites Only so quit blaming us for your damn issues.
Really Black America

Dallas, TX

#779 Aug 12, 2014
@ DigitalSymphony, 1st of all Mr. Symphony You claim to be in financial services in the ghetto. It would seem you may be in the wrong location if you are so discussed by what you see and hear. 2nd no one is making you be there. 3rd you have a life worry about it and you may want to invest in a English class or spell check which ever fits your budget. Black women have no support anymore. Black men have abandon them because they are so busy doing everything ungodly with any and everyone that some how they see it as normal to disrespect their women and children. The reason black society is in such a disarray is because we have lost the head. The of the household is the black man. Ladies no matter how hard we work, kids we raise, or degrees we get. God place the man has the head. Men stand up and take your place a women will listen and bend. We were made to do so. But don't try to make her bend my disrespecting her, cheating on her, defiling your marital beds, and homes. Be the man God created you to be. I don't think we should be silent black women speak your mind until someone listens. It is not whining it is teaching respect and the best way to do so is make the parties that are guilty accountable. Black men you have to stop hating yourselves you are uncovering us all by your actions. White people, the media, all have conspired against us for centuries and you think because it 2014 that that suddenly disappeared. WAKE UP BLACK AMERICA. We are all we have. Look at what is happening right before you. LOVE yourselves. love each other, and most important put GOD 1st. I guarantee it will work. Hate is real but JESUS and love will conquer all problems.
Really Black America

Dallas, TX

#780 Aug 12, 2014
Nonya B wrote:
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No, just no lol. Your "theory" sounds completely asinine. First of all, not all white women like black guys, that's just the wanna-be black ones. Second, race is not a factor that plays into the rapid aging that you mentioned prior.It actually has to do with whether or not you have good skin/genetics. And lastly, I'm white & I can only speak for myself when I say I am not jealous of how big of an ass or lips black women have, nor would I ever go as far as to go under the knife to have fat or silicone injected inside my body. God made me the way I am, who am I to change it?
@ Nonya B sure. it is so funny how the media, and basically white people everywhere I go seem to try to dam near take on their enter black person per se or try to be or act black in some way, but that excludes you. Suuuuuuuurrrrreeee.!!!!!!!!! What is your handle again Nonya B I am sure you heard this around the house growing up, lol!!!!!!!!!! Since youclaim you don't want to change what GOD gave you then just look, dress, act, talk , and be like yourself.
am hates bw

Hyattsville, MD

#781 Aug 15, 2014
Estella wrote:
There is a lot of misunderstanding about black woman. We are really different in body structure, style eticasy and the way we handle life, who ever these people are who label every black woman as uneducated should come forth and bring every black woman forth and test them on their knowledge well see how far their own smarts go. Not all black woman want attention their bodies are the first thing men look at even white men and we were desired for our bodies and we were discriminated against from white woman for that and because we got respect because of our bodies sometimes for the brains that come with the body beauty. The ones that judge us the most are white woman yet they tell us that oh African American woman are too fat and eat too much of and mc Donalds ..... News flash no where here in Canada is there a black person in the damn mc Donalds or KFC lol I see whites Only so quit blaming us for your damn issues.
Maybe the white girls are right. Because I would rather have went to Europe or Asia to find better women unlike you overweight American bitches. So you black women should stop existing for the world to continue. I'm done defending your kind.
DC not dmv

United States

#782 Sep 20, 2014
busted wrote:
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Give a few examples of the kind of hate black women face that overshadows that of black men. In addition, explain how it hinders their daily existence.
1rst & foremost black men hate on us. We have zero support from black men. 2nd we cant even comb our hair with out being accused of trying to be white. I have NEVER EVER seen a white woman with her hair in its NATURAL state. We can dye our hair blonde just so long as we don't straighten it? What in the entire hell is that about? When a white woman dies her hair blonde -which is 90% of them- no one says a word. Asian and Hispanic women die their hair blonde no o e says anything. Black women do ANYTHING to "groom" themselves and every one goes crazy.
Blah blah blah

Cleveland, OH

#783 Sep 21, 2014
DMO wrote:
The thing that I see is that they do see many Black women in a stereootypical fashion. Or else why is Michelle Obama constantly being villified. There is a thread on this page about a Black women who takes issue with a back hand comment about being pretty for a Black girl and that if she is acceptably pretty then she must be mixed or exotic and not unambigiously Black. Why are Black women automatically labeled unintelligent or don't have decent command of the English language, yet I see Whites who can barely string a whole sentence togther, but the assumption are that Black women only know ebonics or are borderline retarded are lard asses and are lazy prostitutes.
Its simple racism and the fact that they cannot see or relate to us as Human beings. Also women are historically easy targets so its stand to reason that they can easily attack us and not be challeneged by Black men, etc.
Somehow we offend their high flown sensibilities and the only way to discount our humanity is to label us as ugly and sub-human. Thus to me there is no real, logical reason. It simply is what it is--they can not see our humanity therefore it is easier to attack, denigrate, and excoriate with blistering malice and disdain as they would some inatimate object or thing-- an uncomprehensible monster.
Again no other race of women is accorded such **special** treatment.
OMG the reason why mixed people are so pretty is because there half black.

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#784 Sep 23, 2014
DC not dmv wrote:
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1rst & foremost black men hate on us. We have zero support from black men. 2nd we cant even comb our hair with out being accused of trying to be white. I have NEVER EVER seen a white woman with her hair in its NATURAL state. We can dye our hair blonde just so long as we don't straighten it? What in the entire hell is that about? When a white woman dies her hair blonde -which is 90% of them- no one says a word. Asian and Hispanic women die their hair blonde no o e says anything. Black women do ANYTHING to "groom" themselves and every one goes crazy.
DC not dmv wrote:
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1rst & foremost black men hate on us. We have zero support from black men.
That is an absolute falsehood! If us black men hate on black women why do the majority of us that are married are married to the sistas? Just because a few sellout self hating black men hate on black women does not mean all, or most of us do. I can guarantee that most of the time when you see a black man with a woman she is a black woman ( you are lying if you say otherwise). Why would he be with a woman he hates?
Angry Yang

Hyattsville, MD

#785 Oct 8, 2014
They are simply a drain on society. I hate them because of their obnoxious, annoying behaviors, and that here in America they are obese whales, well almost all of them. And many wonder why black men prefer white girls. Black women are much like blubber monsters screaming, complaining and laughing and putting down their own men. Especially here in America. How fucking disgusting. On the other hand white girls are good. Except for the fatties.... The end.

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#786 Oct 15, 2014
Angry Yang wrote:
They are simply a drain on society. I hate them because of their obnoxious, annoying behaviors, and that here in America they are obese whales, well almost all of them. And many wonder why black men prefer white girls. Black women are much like blubber monsters screaming, complaining and laughing and putting down their own men. Especially here in America. How fucking disgusting. On the other hand white girls are good. Except for the fatties.... The end.
Black women are no more a drain on society than white women are. Who can be more obnoxious than pasty white women? They are extremely over rated any way, and many of them are either fat or thin as a twig.
BlueCornMoone

Media, PA

#787 Nov 9, 2014
BW MURDER mixed babies wrote:
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100% right
Flaming ignorant people like you make the world STINK ! There are THOUSANDS of trailer trash white women...and men..who are just like the people in the movie DELIVERANCE

“Beautiful Princess.....”

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Since: Jan 08

Los Angeles, CA.

#788 Nov 9, 2014
BlueCornMoone wrote:
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Flaming ignorant people like you make the world STINK ! There are THOUSANDS of trailer trash white women...and men..who are just like the people in the movie DELIVERANCE
Yeah no joke!
bbb

Jefferson City, MO

#789 Dec 24, 2014
Angry Yang wrote:
They are simply a drain on society. I hate them because of their obnoxious, annoying behaviors, and that here in America they are obese whales, well almost all of them. And many wonder why black men prefer white girls. Black women are much like blubber monsters screaming, complaining and laughing and putting down their own men. Especially here in America. How fucking disgusting. On the other hand white girls are good. Except for the fatties.... The end.
Kill yourself.
bbb

Jefferson City, MO

#791 Dec 24, 2014
perfectly black wrote:
<quoted text>Stop being victims and whining. We got to just stop it. It does nothing, but make us look pathetic. Let's for once talk about positive aspect of being a black woman.
STOP
Stop treating us like shit on our jobs, comparing us to white women, letting your white wife dehumanize and degrade us as well as yourself and stop putting these tacky, self serving whores on pedestals above us. White women don't love, they play to win. When black men pick up the ball they dropped when it became less of a social stigma to be wit white whores. Chicago was still on fire when black men ran away from our community. When i get an explanation for why so many black men would prefer to explain the black struggle to the person who is the main reason we struggle than truly try to change our current way of life with someone who lives it everyday, We'll stop bitching. Until then, bm open ur eyes. Wb didnt want you when you were nothing. Drug money, nba or college comes out of a black man's mouth, these whores come running.
bbb

Jefferson City, MO

#792 Dec 24, 2014
Topix is racist as f in and of itself. If a comment has no profanity in it then whats the problem? White people can break down black women very fucking publicly but mention anything not so savory about a nasty white bitch and the comments never seem to make it to the board. Just racist.
Imgreat

Delmar, NY

#793 Dec 24, 2014
I agree you touched base on most of it. Stereotypes are usually associated with a black woman from first glance. As a result some black women endure a "special" treatment with other races and even people within their own community. Some black women have a more dominate and intimidating aura which can put people off, mostly out of uncomfortability and lack of understanding. Most times people have an easier time being around what they consider "white" black girls". This term is disturbing in more then one way. Personally some of my closes friends in life are/were black girls but they had/have a more likable and generous personality. I have always experienced tension with black girls and women and I believe my complexion and use of language is the cause. They probably think i'm sadity and deem myself superior not realizing that I probably have more appreciation for their beauty, and value then they do. I support empowerment of the black community and try my best to understand the behaviors and views. After all we're dealing with offspring's of lost hope. I think people should consider that.
Chip87

Los Angeles, CA

#794 Feb 24, 2015
I hate black women because their loud obnoxious rude way too overly opinionated and lAzy. This is coming from a person who works in a higher upscale retail store.. I can't believe how black women who have think they are so much better then everyone else because they can Appearantly afford some 250.00 purse. Like please... Black women need to have more patience too they are always quick to get all upset or should I say crazy if they are kept waiting for 5 mins and longer as opposed to a Hispanic or white person. Their are so selfish and full of themselves ...
sally bender

Edison, NJ

#795 Feb 24, 2015
DigitalSymphony wrote:
OK I feel like it's time for people to start manning the f*ck up and taking responsibility for their actions.
I feel like the negative stigma around black women is true for the most part.
Obviously not the really ridiculous claims like inhuman and inferior, but a lot of it is true.
I grew up in a suburb. I have moved out of home, but I have my own place also in a suburb. I HARDLY EVER see black girls where I live. Its a shame to because I really like to see classy sophisticated black girls. It like something that you don't see everyday.
I work in the GHETTO. I work in financial services. I see TUNS of black women there.
Its safe to say that the majority of black women are in poor ghetto areas.
Everyday at work all I see are the so called false truths. A tun of women who are loud, ghetto, GROSSLY OVERWEIGHT, but still dressed like a whore for some reason, usually cashing about 5 government checks because shes a welfare queen, but for some reason she and all her kids have on air jordans, her beater car has 22 inch rims on it and those cheesy stick on scales, She is wearing enough gold to start her own bank.
They usually commit fraud to get money from the government, because they are to fat and lazy to work, Why work when that's more time they can be on the cock making illegitimate babies.
I KID YOU NOT. I heard a black lady tell another black lady how to get 300 dollars a month per kid from the government. She said you have to claim that your kid has ADD, Get ADD perscriptions filled for six months and then send the reciots to the government and BOOM you are on an assistance program.
im like .........ARE YOU F*UCKING SERIOUS.
Rather than work and take car of your kids, you are going to lie and be a mooch, but they don't care, its like they have no morals, or shame.
anyway.....
Unfortunately that's the majority, and that is the image that people see.
MOST black girls aren't like you all, on the internet responding to blogs and message boards, they are out and up to no good.
Perhaps outreach into these neighborhoods is needed to help these offenders.
-DigitalSymphony

Wake up. It's not "most Black women" who behave as you have seen, apparently its most Black women you have seen who behave that way. There is a difference, and if you can't comprehend that, you will truly have bought into the hatred perpetrated against us. I note with amusement your clear fat bigotry; the worst offense is being GROSSLY OVERWEIGHT (but tell me, what does that have to do with YOU?). I won't comment on your numerous misspellings, since it's likely they were caused by too-fast typing.

Black women are the mothers of the world, but we are scorned and despised. We need to step back, take stock, then step up and support ourselves. We need to champion each other, because no one else will. It's time for "Say it loud, I'm a Black Woman and PROUD!! All exclamation points! We are beautiful, because we are truly strong and truly independent, not the fake Hollywood replica (you know, the one that relies on a pretty face and Daddy to bail them out) that passes for strength and self-reliance today. Sisters, I celebrate US, with all our midnight flaws, angers, and secret weeping at what we face, because I know that in the morning we will get up and go on. It's simply this: No one else has to accept our beauty and worth. It is enough that WE acknowledge it, hold it fast and pass it to our daughters along with the struggle.
TRUTH

Las Vegas, NV

#796 Feb 25, 2015
Bros im black they got too much attitude and they really aint the top of the food chain as far as females r concerned they need to learn to be humble for i spit on one of em...white girls act nicer when u ask them how they doing smh like bitch do u have a mom who taught u manners they always got an attitude rather it be talking shit or having a funky ass demeanor till u go upside that bitch head i swear i almost threw something at a dumb ass black girl today and fuck black power black people hate each other more than they hate anyone else.fuck punctuation stop with the afrocentrism the shits retarted

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