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“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#1 Dec 21, 2012

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#2 Dec 21, 2012
http://www.parentsociety.com/news-2/the-most-...

But you never hear about dudes like this!

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Since: Jun 12

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#3 Dec 21, 2012
Yahoo parenting study?? Blasphemy....
Love The 1

Alpharetta, GA

#4 Dec 21, 2012
Good News

“Shed so many tears”

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#5 Dec 21, 2012
Let's see......

There are MORE single BW raising 2 or more kids than any other race!

There are more young BM killed in the US than anywhere else in the world, DAILY!

There are more BLACK MEN in prison than BM in college!

There are more young BM and young BW in juvenile detention centers and group homes than any other race!

BM are more likely to LEAVE their offspring rather than take care of them!

SO I'D SAY YES, DEADBEAT DADS ARE PROBABLY ON THE DECLINE SINCE ALL THE CHILDREN ARE BEING CARED FOR BY SINGLE MOTHERS, THE STATE AND FEDERAL PRISONS, GROUP HOMES AND DETENTION CENTERS OR THE GRAVE!

CAN'T BE A DEADBEAT IF YOU DON'T BOTHER TO BE A DAD IN THE FIRST PLACEOR YOU JUST LEAVE IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO!

THAT'S NOT A DEADBEAT...THAT'S A DISGUSTING BEAT!

“x tempo”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

Tomball, TX

#6 Dec 21, 2012
Moorspeaks wrote:
http://shine.yahoo.com/parenti ng/study-there-are-fewer-deadb eat-dads-2073459.html
Good post!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

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#7 Jan 9, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
Let's see......
There are MORE single BW raising 2 or more kids than any other race!
There are more young BM killed in the US than anywhere else in the world, DAILY!
There are more BLACK MEN in prison than BM in college!
There are more young BM and young BW in juvenile detention centers and group homes than any other race!
BM are more likely to LEAVE their offspring rather than take care of them!
SO I'D SAY YES, DEADBEAT DADS ARE PROBABLY ON THE DECLINE SINCE ALL THE CHILDREN ARE BEING CARED FOR BY SINGLE MOTHERS, THE STATE AND FEDERAL PRISONS, GROUP HOMES AND DETENTION CENTERS OR THE GRAVE!
CAN'T BE A DEADBEAT IF YOU DON'T BOTHER TO BE A DAD IN THE FIRST PLACEOR YOU JUST LEAVE IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO!
THAT'S NOT A DEADBEAT...THAT'S A DISGUSTING BEAT!
Okay..now post the negative stats about bw...we'll wait!
(thought it's not like we don't know them)

More bw with Hiv/Aids-

More bw having out of wedlock babies...with the very men that you are trying to bash...more than any other race of women...wow...how many times can you say...keep your fcking legs closed...no pun intended!

More bw in prison than any other race of women (yeah we know it's all bm fault...bw have no brain or will of their own..unless they are involved with nonbm...right?)

More bw having abortions than any other group of women in America!

More bw....should I continue?

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

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#8 Jan 9, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
Let's see......
There are MORE single BW raising 2 or more kids than any other race!
There are more young BM killed in the US than anywhere else in the world, DAILY!
There are more BLACK MEN in prison than BM in college!
There are more young BM and young BW in juvenile detention centers and group homes than any other race!
BM are more likely to LEAVE their offspring rather than take care of them!
SO I'D SAY YES, DEADBEAT DADS ARE PROBABLY ON THE DECLINE SINCE ALL THE CHILDREN ARE BEING CARED FOR BY SINGLE MOTHERS, THE STATE AND FEDERAL PRISONS, GROUP HOMES AND DETENTION CENTERS OR THE GRAVE!
CAN'T BE A DEADBEAT IF YOU DON'T BOTHER TO BE A DAD IN THE FIRST PLACEOR YOU JUST LEAVE IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO!
THAT'S NOT A DEADBEAT...THAT'S A DISGUSTING BEAT!
"SO I'D SAY YES, DEADBEAT DADS ARE PROBABLY ON THE DECLINE SINCE ALL THE CHILDREN ARE BEING CARED FOR BY SINGLE MOTHERS, THE STATE AND FEDERAL PRISONS, GROUP HOMES AND DETENTION CENTERS OR THE GRAVE"

Did you even read the damn article...this was not the point at all!

*And aren't you just making excuses/looking the other way for other men...who are deadbeat dads...wow how surprising!

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#9 Jan 9, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
Let's see......
There are MORE single BW raising 2 or more kids than any other race!
Maybe these women shouldn't be having sex before marriage.
JustdroppedIN wrote:
There are more young BM killed in the US than anywhere else in the world, DAILY!
Maybe BW should wait until they get married before having so much sex creating these government assistance ran homes.
JustdroppedIN wrote:
There are more BLACK MEN in prison than BM in college!
That's a dam lie.
JustdroppedIN wrote:
There are more young BM and young BW in juvenile detention centers and group homes than any other race!
BM are more likely to LEAVE their offspring rather than take care of them!
SO I'D SAY YES, DEADBEAT DADS ARE PROBABLY ON THE DECLINE SINCE ALL THE CHILDREN ARE BEING CARED FOR BY SINGLE MOTHERS, THE STATE AND FEDERAL PRISONS, GROUP HOMES AND DETENTION CENTERS OR THE GRAVE!
CAN'T BE A DEADBEAT IF YOU DON'T BOTHER TO BE A DAD IN THE FIRST PLACEOR YOU JUST LEAVE IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO!
THAT'S NOT A DEADBEAT...THAT'S A DISGUSTING BEAT!
How many of these women were married?

“Hating Gives You Wrinkles”

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Since: Mar 12

The Sequel

#10 Jan 9, 2013
Hey, moorspeaks! Long time no hear from..:)

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#11 Jan 9, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Maybe these women shouldn't be having sex before marriage.
<quoted text>
Maybe BW should wait until they get married before having so much sex creating these government assistance ran homes.
<quoted text>
That's a dam lie.
<quoted text>
How many of these women were married?
Thank you!

*Juuuuust maybe....when a man clearly states that..."No I don't want to have any children" or when they realize that they aren't in any real type of relationship beyond just kicking it...then who knows...just maybe some of these slow women should actually listen...I know it's a crazy azz thought...but I'm just saying...duh?

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#12 Jan 9, 2013
__jaz__ wrote:
Hey, moorspeaks! Long time no hear from..:)
Yeah...it's been a minute...what's up sweetness!

*Hey did you ever get the Dvd that I sent you?
(that was a you wasn't it?)

“Hating Gives You Wrinkles”

Level 6

Since: Mar 12

The Sequel

#13 Jan 9, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Yeah...it's been a minute...what's up sweetness!
*Hey did you ever get the Dvd that I sent you?
(that was a you wasn't it?)
Hey..no I don't think I am who you're talking about..was it in a link you posted??

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

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#14 Jan 9, 2013
*AGAIN...FOR THE MILLIONTH TIME HERE ON TOPIX:

I honestly can't even begin to describe the white women,the drama or the situations that I know of in the real world...not on the tube,not online...nor in movies...nor of the ww that my wife now jokes about...stating that....

"Dayum...in a minute I'll know more single and divorced ww raising children alone than ww that are happily married...I swear!

The stories that she tells me are just crazy!

*Like the one dude who cheated on his wife from the very first year of marriage...then had a stroke from being so busy trying to chase twenty year old azz...then when this mofo got back on his feet...he was at it again...now she's tired of his shyt and wants to move on...this dude broke in the house and destroyed all of the X-mas gifts,the three and the lights...I mean this crazy bastard is actually pissed that she's had enough and kicked his ass out!

it's like seven of them...they asked my wife out to lunch and to hang out after work...and she was like..."Noooo I'm good...maybe some other life time"....one of these chicks caught her husband banging her little sister on the coach...while she is in treatment for Cancer!

And none of these dudes do shyt for their children!

“Hating Gives You Wrinkles”

Level 6

Since: Mar 12

The Sequel

#15 Jan 9, 2013
"African American fathers, more than any other group, are more likely to maintain lasting relationships with their children when they don't live with them."
Well that's good to hear..I like to hear good news..I get tired of hearing all this bad news going around lately..that's why I no longer watch the news...it's depressing..

“Hating Gives You Wrinkles”

Level 6

Since: Mar 12

The Sequel

#16 Jan 9, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
*AGAIN...FOR THE MILLIONTH TIME HERE ON TOPIX:
I honestly can't even begin to describe the white women,the drama or the situations that I know of in the real world...not on the tube,not online...nor in movies...nor of the ww that my wife now jokes about...stating that....
"Dayum...in a minute I'll know more single and divorced ww raising children alone than ww that are happily married...I swear!
The stories that she tells me are just crazy!
*Like the one dude who cheated on his wife from the very first year of marriage...then had a stroke from being so busy trying to chase twenty year old azz...then when this mofo got back on his feet...he was at it again...now she's tired of his shyt and wants to move on...this dude broke in the house and destroyed all of the X-mas gifts,the three and the lights...I mean this crazy bastard is actually pissed that she's had enough and kicked his ass out!
it's like seven of them...they asked my wife out to lunch and to hang out after work...and she was like..."Noooo I'm good...maybe some other life time"....one of these chicks caught her husband banging her little sister on the coach...while she is in treatment for Cancer!
And none of these dudes do shyt for their children!
That's messed up..smh....

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#17 Jan 9, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you!
*Juuuuust maybe....when a man clearly states that..."No I don't want to have any children" or when they realize that they aren't in any real type of relationship beyond just kicking it...then who knows...just maybe some of these slow women should actually listen...I know it's a crazy azz thought...but I'm just saying...duh?
Exactly.. If sex wasn't something that women enjoy, then I'd have more of a feeling of guilt regarding their situations.

But since sex is an act that's equally enjoyed by men and women.. I'm not going to take the blame for any one else's fun.

And these aren't families.. these women don't live with these men, Most of it is just women meeting dudes at the club and sleeping with them before knowing anything about them.

This lack of respect for their own bodies creates a sub culture that the dominant black culture has to suffer with.

I know tons of Black familes.. middle class, happy.. But all of our stats are polluted by these "fake" families.. these women create by sleeping with dudes they barely know.

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#18 Jan 9, 2013
__jaz__ wrote:
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That's messed up..smh....
Oh it's is...but it's all true...every single word of it!

And more...I left a lot out...like I said...it's getting to the point where my wife knows more single,divorced,never married ww raising children than married ww...half of our neighbors have filed for bankruptcy,lost their homes and filed for divorce(one girlfriend of my wife's left and left the father with their two children...she just couldn't take his lies,wasting money on other women and cheating!)...that's why It just kills me the way that bw buy into this whole idea that all other women are living some "Happily Ever After Reality"....especially ww....in reality there are more white women than wm,wm date out more than anyone else,and a bunch of white guys are gay as hell....and whites can't even stay to together...thus the reason for the lie that wm and bw stay together longer than anyone else...bullshyt!

I know bw who have been with these guys and they've ended these relationships...because these guys had the same damn problems with them as they did with ww....it's silly as hell....a man is a man...they're watching too much Television!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#19 Jan 9, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Exactly.. If sex wasn't something that women enjoy, then I'd have more of a feeling of guilt regarding their situations.
But since sex is an act that's equally enjoyed by men and women.. I'm not going to take the blame for any one else's fun.
And these aren't families.. these women don't live with these men, Most of it is just women meeting dudes at the club and sleeping with them before knowing anything about them.
This lack of respect for their own bodies creates a sub culture that the dominant black culture has to suffer with.
I know tons of Black familes.. middle class, happy.. But all of our stats are polluted by these "fake" families.. these women create by sleeping with dudes they barely know.
No I hear you....but what's with doing it in the raw with no protection...I mean I love sistas...and for me...only a bw will do...but the whole blaming bm for everything is nonsense...and I'm a dude who has always taken responsibility for my own actions...or my part in a thing at least...but bw want to put the whole thing on us!

How the hell do you lay down and have a baby with a dude that you know damn well is too free spirited,unprepared for life,without a life plan,no direction yet...still trying to figure things out!

Come on....really?

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#20 Jan 9, 2013
__jaz__ wrote:
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That's messed up..smh....
Listen...I know a fifty three year old white male...President of a Detroit area Foundation...with holdings of up to about 700 Million dollars...this dude has a wife(his second) and three kids...he chases more azz than an NBA Player...this dude bangs twenty something year old Admins more than a woman changes her hairstyle...and he walks around acting like he's the most upright,respectable and pious mofo on the planet!

I peeped his game with this one Admin that we had in our office...this dude was straight caught out there...like a damn teenage boy...he was chasing that shyt like a dog trying to get at the neighbors cat...he was sweatin her like he was fighting a prize fight...hanging out in our office...once nearly missed a flight to New York...trying to wait for her to walk by...lol!

I was laughing my azz off at this dude...like dude...really...is it that damn urgent!

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