Could MARRIAGE Save the black comm...

Could MARRIAGE Save the black community

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assert anne

La Place, LA

#1 Apr 4, 2013
IN a lot of communities they teach the importance of MARRIAGE(young ladies this means virginity) living godly and getting all the education you can get. and then opening up business and buying and selling from each other with highest respect. I believe going back to old values will save our kids . what are some ideas do you have to empower our community and be a place where others want to live and a place where we want to live.
the statitics prove it married people are richer
the bible says where there is TWO ...... CORD HARD TO BREAK
MEN WHERE ARE YOU ? NEED TO TAKE OWNERSHIP AND LEAD
THE Black race is never going to go where it can be until you men lead . with god hand guiding you .!!!

ideas are welcome let use this forum to get ideas on how we can grow

“The Love Below”

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#2 Apr 4, 2013
No, and yes.

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#3 Apr 4, 2013
assert anne wrote:
IN a lot of communities they teach the importance of MARRIAGE(young ladies this means virginity) living godly and getting all the education you can get. and then opening up business and buying and selling from each other with highest respect. I believe going back to old values will save our kids . what are some ideas do you have to empower our community and be a place where others want to live and a place where we want to live.
the statitics prove it married people are richer
the bible says where there is TWO ...... CORD HARD TO BREAK
MEN WHERE ARE YOU ? NEED TO TAKE OWNERSHIP AND LEAD
THE Black race is never going to go where it can be until you men lead . with god hand guiding you .!!!
ideas are welcome let use this forum to get ideas on how we can grow
My answer is a resounding YES!I agree, we need to get back to old values. That ideal is the only thing I have in common with conservatives.
That and my disdain for gays...me and the repubs are >>>here<<<

“I love being a Black Man”

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#4 Apr 4, 2013
Two horrible people married aren't going to save the Black community. Now two responsible adults raising children well. But if there were more responsible adults running around. There wouldn't be a problem to begin with.

What is need is to curb this rampant teenage pregnancy rate. If we could slow that down. I believe a lot of problems would take care of themselves.
TheColoredOracle

Houston, TX

#5 Apr 4, 2013
Ownership and employment will; We need only look to African-Americans pre-intergration.
assert anne

La Place, LA

#6 Apr 4, 2013
Until we start loving each other no other race will ever take us as a serious people.
Buying from each other(owning small stores)
and proving excellent service

we cannot expect any other race to love us when we continue with self hate.

let stop begging others to love us.
they will love us when we respect and love our children , women and our men.

but as i said before MEN must lead this stuggle . would it not be nice to own a small business that you know your people will come to .
but we must provide excellent services.
WE CAN DO THIS . WE CAN START SMALL
Lily

La Place, LA

#7 Apr 4, 2013
We can start by not engaging in premarital sex . no husband no baby

also stepping in to help a mom without a dad
or a dad without a mom

a whole village to raise a kid approach
Amelia DUBSTEP XStasy

Castle Rock, CO

#8 Apr 4, 2013
No because what's causing the destruction are the uber blacks who do not speak out against exactly what they know that's causing the destruction. They are mostly all in lockstep with the people who don't care about them: black leaders. Black leaders have done very little to nothing, today that is, for the community. Speak about against black on black crime, children out of wedlock, HIV/AIDS epidemic, high school dropout rate and test scores, etc etc. Once you see many blacks really addressing the issues that's destroying them, then you will see actual change. Marriage has little to do with this. First comes morale change, then marriage will follow in place. Marriage - morale.

“The Love Below”

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#9 Apr 4, 2013
Black folks are so divieded. Many black women are pro feminist, they will not listen to a man, but maybe if the man had more money, she proably would? Their is a lack of respect from bw in general, and they show this by rolling their eyes for no reason, and bm need to respect bw more as well. The problem partially is that to many generations have been born out of wedlock, so this group is just wild, with no respect for each other. This new group comes from broken home, bad parenting, ect.

“The Love Below”

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#11 Apr 4, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
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The men need to rise up and control the black woman's mouth first. Out of the black woman's mouth proceeds ignorance and confusion, like all women in general.
The problem within the black community is the black woman, she has become a whore and a disgusting irrational creature. Sin came into the world by women, and men will correct this.
Its sad, but I see so much everyday where I live.

“The Love Below”

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#12 Apr 4, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
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The men need to rise up and control the black woman's mouth first. Out of the black woman's mouth proceeds ignorance and confusion, like all women in general.
The problem within the black community is the black woman, she has become a whore and a disgusting irrational creature. Sin came into the world by women, and men will correct this.
Feminism is strong in our culture too.
assert anne

La Place, LA

#13 Apr 4, 2013
guys---

again i will say. If black women are out
of control its black men who will be charged by GOD for it

the bible says man has DOMINION
Control or the exercise of control; sovereignty:

GUYS a WOMAN (NOT A GIRL) will follow a man who follows GOD--but she will have a hard time following a player who looks out for himself first.

GUYS DO you know the bible says to teach your woman and your child gods ways
and if you dont you will be held accountable.

I easily follow a god fearing man, because i know if he loves god he wont hurt and cheat and abuse me.
the man lovinglife

United States

#14 Apr 4, 2013
Bronze5 wrote:
<quoted text>
The men need to rise up and control the black woman's mouth first. Out of the black woman's mouth proceeds ignorance and confusion, like all women in general.
The problem within the black community is the black woman, she has become a whore and a disgusting irrational creature. Sin came into the world by women, and men will correct this.
there is nothing really wrong with black women, but they do choose alot of poor choices. there is alot wrong with black men and we have problem oh yes we do have big problems. there alot wrong with black from direction. we need to be a leader, and lead the way for younger black males. we need to motivate them to finish school, and get them all into college.
BlackmanLovesAsi ans

Germantown, MD

#16 Apr 4, 2013
Yes it can I married an Asian lady
and she's the beat thing to ever happen to me. Oh your saying black people should marry each other! Hell no. Black women are control evil cun$$Ts.
jasmine sweet

La Place, LA

#17 Apr 4, 2013
BlackmanLovesAsians wrote:
Yes it can I married an Asian lady
and she's the beat thing to ever happen to me. Oh your saying black people should marry each other! Hell no. Black women are control evil cun$$Ts.
if you have DAUGHTERS they will most like be considered black . i would take that back if i were you. i am glad you are happy .
BE CAREFUL OF WHAT YOU PUT OUT INTO THE UNIVERSE

“Hating Gives You Wrinkles”

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The Sequel

#18 Apr 4, 2013
I don't think marriage is where we need to start as it's almost like working backwards to fix a problem, oyu don't start with marriage because marriage comes later in life..

studies show that marriage rates within the black community are devastating because of financial problems..there is a reason the black community is the way it is today and it goes all the way back to slavery..
BlackmanLovesAsi ans

Germantown, MD

#20 Apr 4, 2013
If I was so unlucky to have a daughter she would be blasian. And I will raise her Asian. And I wouldn't let her date still she was 29.
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#21 Apr 4, 2013
assert anne wrote:
IN a lot of communities they teach the importance of MARRIAGE(young ladies this means virginity) living godly and getting all the education you can get. and then opening up business and buying and selling from each other with highest respect. I believe going back to old values will save our kids . what are some ideas do you have to empower our community and be a place where others want to live and a place where we want to live.
the statitics prove it married people are richer
the bible says where there is TWO ...... CORD HARD TO BREAK
MEN WHERE ARE YOU ? NEED TO TAKE OWNERSHIP AND LEAD
THE Black race is never going to go where it can be until you men lead . with god hand guiding you .!!!
ideas are welcome let use this forum to get ideas on how we can grow
MACEO

How are you going to teach boys to be men when 80% of the men are missing want to be players?

Black women are running to school, opening businesses but most Black men are less than 1% in many critical areas and not improving actually the stats got worse!

Women can't wait on men to get their lives together their women!
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#22 Apr 4, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
No, and yes.
I think its time for many Black women to date/marry out which is what their doing!

Men are suppose to propel the race not women. Its simply not a woman's job nor do I want the job of a man.

I rather to go another race of men like my GFs are doing as well as and find Good man that knows his position and realizes that women are just "helpmates".

Black men want Black women to be the Man and the woman! They complain and say Black women have educations, make more, their treated like little boys!

Oh well.....they don't want to work for much they prefer being marginal!

I don't blame Black women for moving on!
jasmine sweet

La Place, LA

#23 Apr 4, 2013
__jaz__ wrote:
I don't think marriage is where we need to start as it's almost like working backwards to fix a problem, oyu don't start with marriage because marriage comes later in life..
studies show that marriage rates within the black community are devastating because of financial problems..there is a reason the black community is the way it is today and it goes all the way back to slavery..
jaz

where do we start ????

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