How many of you believe interracial dating is wrong and why?

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ppppppp

Boston, MA

#1 Apr 14, 2012
How many of you believe interracial dating is wrong and why?
Personally the race of a female matters not to me when thinking about whether or not I'd consider going out with her. Literally never crosses my mind. But if you feel it should or that race should matter in who you date please explain why. If you don't think it matters then explain that too. Best answer to best argument

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#2 Apr 14, 2012
It's not wrong, if people like each other then why can't they be with one another. Making it wrong is why people will be obsessing over it.

When people have issues with it, it's generally not because of the ir partnership, it's more about the disrespect received, such as bm insulting bw and bm not accomplishing good for their own countries and communities before they wreck it further by not taking care of their responsibilities first.

The only reason why ww are not going on about Asian women in the open, is because wm don't openly insult ww as their reason for moving on, plus they've looked after their countries and communities so their women don't feel like they've been deprived of anything.

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#3 Apr 14, 2012
most people when asked personally arent in favor of it and prefer there own race and want there children to find someone of there race.I have nothing against.It's irrelevant to me .

“Fair and Balanced”

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#4 Apr 14, 2012
I think its disgusting and repulsive, all race traitors should dye

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United States

#5 Apr 14, 2012
I agree w/ Wubet.
call

Voorhees, NJ

#6 May 2, 2012
i'm already part white don't be calling me black when I'm dating a white woman..
call

Voorhees, NJ

#7 May 2, 2012
you always say something is interracial dating when it's not..
U ND HLP

Meadville, PA

#8 May 2, 2012
I'd like to know if inter-racial dating is only a problem to people in small communities. If you go to a bigger city, a more diverse city, there is inter-racial dating everywhere, and it has never phased me. I have met many BW that I think are pretty and wouldnt mind getting to know. If a BM is dating a WW, no one should care. The only thing that should ever matter is how couples treat each other. You should never date or not date someone because of their color.

If your a BM, only wanting to date WW because you've had a bad string of luck with BW, then you're stereotyping BW. Every race has crazies in them, and every person, irregardless of their color should get the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.
Salma

Mississauga, Canada

#9 May 2, 2012
I think its not for me. I want to maintain my culture and kids that look like me. As an East African woman that means only East African men can give me that.
U ND HLP

Meadville, PA

#10 May 2, 2012
Salma wrote:
I think its not for me. I want to maintain my culture and kids that look like me. As an East African woman that means only East African men can give me that.
that's certainly a valid argument. Atleast your reasoning is because of your culture, not because someone outside your race wronged you in a certain way. That's very respectable.

I am just used to seeing interracial relationships, and to me it's like seeing a taxi-cab in NYC. It really doesnt phase/surprise me any.
Salma

Mississauga, Canada

#11 May 2, 2012
U ND HLP wrote:
<quoted text>that's certainly a valid argument. Atleast your reasoning is because of your culture, not because someone outside your race wronged you in a certain way. That's very respectable.
I am just used to seeing interracial relationships, and to me it's like seeing a taxi-cab in NYC. It really doesnt phase/surprise me any.
well to be honest White guys kinda scare me so I don't find t hem attradtive. They can be pushy too even after you tell them no. But over all I want to maintain my culture of course. I would feel weird being in the home of another race of men not being able to connect with his family.

“Fair and Balanced”

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#12 May 2, 2012
Salma wrote:
<quoted text>
well to be honest White guys kinda scare me so I don't find t hem attradtive. They can be pushy too even after you tell them no. But over all I want to maintain my culture of course. I would feel weird being in the home of another race of men not being able to connect with his family.
its all your own exp... girls have told me the opposite... they they go for white guys because they are laid back and not as pushy as black guys
Salma

Mississauga, Canada

#13 May 2, 2012
J-Town Ninjas OHH yEe AH wrote:
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its all your own exp... girls have told me the opposite... they they go for white guys because they are laid back and not as pushy as black guys
of course its my experience but I have had some white guys even be rude and call me a racist simply because I politely told them after they insisted that I don't date out. It gets to the point where \i just pretend not to speak english sometimes.
Ambiguous

United States

#14 May 2, 2012
Im laid-back and dont gaf abt IR its nt good or bad its the reason you IR date that determines that.
queer

Voorhees, NJ

#15 May 17, 2012
just make really good bleaching cream..

or skin bleaching surgery.. to give non whites white skin..

and or like eye surgery that works better and all lthat mess..

so then nobody would have to mix anyway.. and could enjoy all cosmetic looks.

only skull type would vary..

if you make a bleaching

come on isn't someone smart?!

if you make a good bleaching procedure..

all the crime would end I bet.. I bet it !!

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Since: May 07

San Jose, CA

#16 May 17, 2012
I love my culture and I love being black, I could not feel completely comfortable dating another race of man, especially if we had nothing in common. And then if that white man doesnt like black men then that would turn me completely off because my family consists of black men and I have the most upper respect for them.
dave

Red Deer, Canada

#17 May 24, 2012
See, when non white people say they wouldn't feel at ease dating out of race its cool, but when a white person says something like that, its racist, its just racist, thats what I am sick of, I don't feel good hanging out with non white people, thats not racist, thats the truth. If some black guy can say that, so can I,
azzcore

Voorhees, NJ

#18 May 28, 2012
screw culture some white guy is gonna zimmerman your kids..
azzcore

Voorhees, NJ

#19 May 28, 2012
if you are gonna be in a primarily white country you may as well have kids as white as possible.. instead of all hiding and stuff..

or am I wrong??

guess i'm dumb an wrong for saying it..
kaibavsyugi

Runnemede, NJ

#20 Jun 27, 2012
well blacks dating whites keeps whites from getting angry...

because if a wealthy black has whiter kids nobody is gonna be mad at black people for being wealthy..

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