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#618 Jul 6, 2013
AnObs wrote:
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Capree, yours was an exercise in tortured logic, and contradictions, but I'll try to explain a few things.
The IRB label is an important identifier. It is a way of paying homage to loyal and conscious Black people by differentiating the deserters from them.
I am not one who jump for joy when a black person crosses back to the natural order. Of the trio mentioned, only Janet Jackson could be really classified as Black. White men have as much right to Hallie Barrie and Diahann. Carroll. Only in America is mixed-race considered Black. People who crisis-cross are lacking a central core of consciousness, and are like straws in the wind.
Eventually, IRB's and mixed-race will merge to become a separate entity.
The dilemma of the Black man is his lack of power and control over means of production. Those Black men with money are all about self, and, therefore, lack a degree of consciousness to uplift their community, to provide work for their people.
Women have always been susceptible to the instruments of power, and money is one of them. Men in control of jobs and money are using their power to get what they want, and women are used as trophies, rights of conquest.
This is why my heart goes out to those BM and BW with a semblance of pride and consciousness. Just some thoughts.
Since when did Diane Carroll whose parents are both black become any more mixed than the rest of us AAs??? I hate it when black men pretend that especially black women with white men are come from a mixed background, you only make yourselves look like big liars and very insecure.

http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/10/104...

http://www.aolcdn.com/ch_bv/diahann-carroll-y...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diahann_Carroll
jus

Eskilstuna, Sweden

#619 Jul 6, 2013
Style wrote:
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Does this woman look like the kind whose husband makes 300K a year?
http://s106.photobucket.com/user/gypsybond/me...
Move the decimal point one place to the left of that figure and I'll believe it...LMBAO!
She prolly is with to an ayrab? Whats with the headscarf?
BigKnob

United States

#620 Jul 6, 2013
Sister logic101 = Bw marries a Bm thats bad for her, and shes a sellout, she should have got a wm like on scandal. A Bm marries a ww hes a sellout, why he cant handle a strong black queeen. See why did Kerry marry a bm gurl, look at this nicca with a ww he's dog, funny how a bw can have a preference, but the bm cant, according to them, all the non bm they date are sucessful, all the non bw that bm date are fat and ugly, according them, at no time in history, did women get upset about a woman marryin a man, within her race until now , and thats unbelieveable.

“I am”

Level 8

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The Original Intention

#621 Jul 6, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
^ I was equally "happy" when an Arab billionaire married Janet..as a billionaire WM married mellody hobson and the Multi-millionaire Jay-Z married Beyonce... as well as Lebron James finally being engaged to his longterm Black girlfriend (Especially when they actually marry)..or the sikh marrying a black woman in a link posted on Blacks who convert to sikhism thread... I will "praise" men who do right by BW...not any group of men in general..
I know this is probably considered the best you're going to get from most bw nowadays, but you ladies need to realize that it's this selfish type of only caring for yourselves attitudes that have gotten bw where they are now.

BW always seem to be only interested in what anybody does for them and don't realize that some times you have to care about others and more will start to care about you all.

You should always support your race of men/women. And you should support the rest of the world as well. You're a woman. Women should be loving and caring without prejudice. When you ladies make these racist and sexist comments, you remove yourself from what it is that men in general like about women in general.

Black women in the west need to talk less until you get your emotions and understanding under control.
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#622 Jul 6, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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I know this is probably considered the best you're going to get from most bw nowadays, but you ladies need to realize that it's this selfish type of only caring for yourselves attitudes that have gotten bw where they are now.
BW always seem to be only interested in what anybody does for them and don't realize that some times you have to care about others and more will start to care about you all.
You should always support your race of men/women. And you should support the rest of the world as well. You're a woman. Women should be loving and caring without prejudice. When you ladies make these racist and sexist comments, you remove yourself from what it is that men in general like about women in general.
Black women in the west need to talk less until you get your emotions and understanding under control.
One statement doesn't automatically contrast/ against another thought..

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#623 Jul 6, 2013
BM Moving On wrote:
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Bull. You are a BW (or play one on topix). You are suppose to be by nature, be with your own men. The fact that you decided to be with White boy means that you prefer their color over BM. Clearly you are the type of BW who talks about all that "good hurrr" and light skin bs.
Now, tell us about your 300K making "White" "Husband".
B.S., I am suppose to be with the man I want. There is more than a skin difference when it comes to black and white men so stop trying to pretend there isn't. There is 90 degrees of separation between white men and black men when it comes to views, mentalities and treatment of women. That's why white men as a whole are still in charge of everything and black men as a whole after 150 years of freedom are still struggling at the bottom. My husband is loving, considerate and understanding.
Phoenix

Humble, TX

#624 Jul 6, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
Sister logic101 = Bw marries a Bm thats bad for her, and shes a sellout, she should have got a wm like on scandal. A Bm marries a ww hes a sellout, why he cant handle a strong black queeen. See why did Kerry marry a bm gurl, look at this nicca with a ww he's dog, funny how a bw can have a preference, but the bm cant, according to them, all the non bm they date are sucessful, all the non bw that bm date are fat and ugly, according them, at no time in history, did women get upset about a woman marryin a man, within her race until now , and thats unbelieveable.
Sir, live your life and don't worry what others may say. Be happy.

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#625 Jul 6, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>One statement doesn't automatically contrast/ against another thought..
But the only problem is that it's been only "one statement" for bw for the longest time.

You all aren't diverse anymore. It's just ir this, ir that. You can admit that BW have lost their "soul" and there isn't really anything refreshing or nurturing about the modern day black woman in the west.

This is how you all portray yourself. That's why the majority of non blacks couldn't name 5 modern era black women. You all appeal only to yourselves and maybe a few racist here and there. Other than that most people consider you culture less and without soul and spirit.

The young gymnastic girl was the first and last image anybody got outside of the typical ir only black women. Even after that you all quickly made her into an irbw and everybody lost interest in bw again.

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#626 Jul 6, 2013
BigKnob wrote:
Sister logic101 = Bw marries a Bm thats bad for her, and shes a sellout, she should have got a wm like on scandal. A Bm marries a ww hes a sellout, why he cant handle a strong black queeen. See why did Kerry marry a bm gurl, look at this nicca with a ww he's dog, funny how a bw can have a preference, but the bm cant, according to them, all the non bm they date are sucessful, all the non bw that bm date are fat and ugly, according them, at no time in history, did women get upset about a woman marryin a man, within her race until now , and thats unbelieveable.
Man, I hate to say this but the majority of things that black women say are irrelevant to everybody except other bw and maybe a few racists.

They don't really even exist in the culture here anymore. They should take on a more silent role until they find things that interest them outside or ir.

“I am an awesome person”

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#627 Jul 6, 2013
Capree is still mad Kerry Washington married a BM, LOL!!!!!!!!!! Capree since you say your stud WM is so wonderful you need to stop hating and spend more time with your so called great man, lol. I bet you don't have a man at all with the amount of time you spend on topix hating yourself. This goes back to typical IRBW who couldn't get a BM if she tried so goes begging to a WM. You really need to stop making a fool of yourself.

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#628 Jul 6, 2013
Women in general are mostly clueless.. which is perfectly fine because they're not supposed to really be all that logical.

The difference is you have your :

Sweet and clueless women and your dumb and arrogant clueless women.

Modern day black women in the west are falling more into your dumb and arrogant category each day.

Nothing people dislike more than a dumb and arrogant person that's clueless.

For women it's about getting people to like you, to consider you sacred and nurturing and so feminine that even the slightest negative vibe against you upsets everyone because you are motherly, you are feminine, you are loving, caring and pure in heart and mind.

Black women in the west are rapidly removing themselves from this category.

Level 8

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#629 Jul 6, 2013
KPITRL wrote:
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But most black women could'nt see this for OJ. Talking about a double standard.
OJ never went back and forth between black and white women. OJ cheated like a jack rabbit with white women then left her for Nicole and never looked back at any black women. He was white woman crazy.

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#630 Jul 6, 2013
Tim from Evanston wrote:
Capree is still mad Kerry Washington married a BM, LOL!!!!!!!!!! Capree since you say your stud WM is so wonderful you need to stop hating and spend more time with your so called great man, lol. I bet you don't have a man at all with the amount of time you spend on topix hating yourself. This goes back to typical IRBW who couldn't get a BM if she tried so goes begging to a WM. You really need to stop making a fool of yourself.
Oh boy, just another black jerk trying to pretend I am upset over Kerry. Sorry to disappoint you idiots.

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#631 Jul 6, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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well i have to say i'm a little disappointed with that old tired 'white women do it too', argument as a defense for the stupidity irresponsibility and narcissism of the aaw, coming from you, vampi.
sorry but there's a special level of dysfunction in the aa community. bw abort at 3X the rate of ww. and ww breastfeed at about 3X the rate of bw.
where did you get the idea that breastfeeding 'damages' a woman's body? it actually has the exact opposite affect. trying to defend an aaw's choice not to breastfeed. dude, c'mon. i know you smarter than that. formula has been poison since it came out in the mid 1950s. it's full of toxic levels of manganese and other hormonal and brain retardant chemicals. you've had public and private initiatives for the past 20 years, trying to increase the rate of breastfeeding among aaw. they just won't do it.
let me just say this. only a fool would procreate with a woman who refuses to breastfeed.
what i can tell you for sure. the rise of the bm requires some fundamental changes in the behavior of aa. and there's gonna be zero tolerance for those who take too long to figure it out. unfortunately a purge is necessary if we're to move forward. and a purge will be coming.
You make some valid points Disaster, one thing that I would like to add though is that although it is a purge... it's ultimately a "self purge" as these women are literally destroying themselves and placing themselves in a spot where a man would have to be insane to be with them.

These women not having a bond with their offspring, nor their culture and who they are will ultimately lead them into a self destructive path.

You have more bw and mixed women working together to see the production of mixed and biracial and the gendercide of black women than you do black women that actually care about the "black woman" the family of the black woman and the production of the black woman etc.

So yes there will be a purge and there is a purge going on, and I feel that it's a self purge where black women are literally begging to not exist anymore due to their own feelings about themselves in comparison to the rest of society.

“I am”

Level 8

Since: Jul 11

The Original Intention

#632 Jul 6, 2013
Here's a link to some very important literature. You ladies need to read this and preserve your womanhood.

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TVP0R7GL1NV7K...
BigKnob

United States

#634 Jul 6, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
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Sir, live your life and don't worry what others may say. Be happy.
I thank you, but your advice didnt adderss the point-n-humor, the hypocrisy of you bw. Believe me I dont care about what others think, or say.

Level 8

Since: Oct 10

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#635 Jul 6, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text> Oh boy, just another black jerk trying to pretend I am upset over Kerry. Sorry to disappoint you idiots.
As that ding-dong-dummy b!tch, "Tamale'" would say...

..."YOU MAAAAAAAAAAAD"...LOL!!!!
BigKnob

United States

#636 Jul 6, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Man, I hate to say this but the majority of things that black women say are irrelevant to everybody except other bw and maybe a few racists.
They don't really even exist in the culture here anymore. They should take on a more silent role until they find things that interest them outside or ir.
I just play the game right back with them, and then drop a logic bomb, im hip to what they're doing, which is they promote for themselves in a sneaky way what they criticize bm for doing which is I/R.

Level 8

Since: Oct 10

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#637 Jul 6, 2013
Don't worry Capree...I think this sh!t is a little funny style too. I hope I'm wrong though...

“ News”

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#638 Jul 6, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>See what for OJ?
I was deplying to you statement, "Date who you feel is right for you at the moment".

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