ever notice how black women that date...

ever notice how black women that date white men date alot of them

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Charlie CHASE

New York, NY

#1 Jun 4, 2012
Of course things happen in relationships, people find out different likes/dislikes about the person they are dating. That's all well and good but, when it comes to black women dating white men, the first thing they will say is that they are "such good responsible guys loving caring educated employed etc..." Then IF that is the case then why date so many??
IF that's the case then I would estimate (remember this is only an estimation based on what I have heard from black women in IR's) that by the third white boy they should be married and happy. As for black men that date white women that is another issue entirely, I for one did that in the years 1999-2000 when I first started at CHASE bank, the difference is I wasn't looking to get married, I was just looking to date and have fun which is what we did until she moved back to France to care for her ailing mother. We are still friends to this day.

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#2 Jun 4, 2012
i've never noticed that but i have seen some bragging about having a white bf, sometimes the dude they're dating isn't even quality
Daddys Maybe

Puebla, Mexico

#3 Jun 4, 2012
They may have something to brag about. I sure love showing off a cool blk chic!

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#4 Jun 4, 2012
Charlie CHASE wrote:
Of course things happen in relationships, people find out different likes/dislikes about the person they are dating. That's all well and good but, when it comes to black women dating white men, the first thing they will say is that they are "such good responsible guys loving caring educated employed etc..." Then IF that is the case then why date so many??
IF that's the case then I would estimate (remember this is only an estimation based on what I have heard from black women in IR's) that by the third white boy they should be married and happy. As for black men that date white women that is another issue entirely, I for one did that in the years 1999-2000 when I first started at CHASE bank, the difference is I wasn't looking to get married, I was just looking to date and have fun which is what we did until she moved back to France to care for her ailing mother. We are still friends to this day.
Well, I don't see why it matters how many the bw is dating. If she is having fun and sampling all the favors, that is her prerogative. I think the criticism is misplaced.

“The Love Below”

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ATL

#5 Jun 4, 2012
Well yesterday, I was at the trainstation, going to work. As usual, when a white man is with a black women, hes looking to see if the black women is looking at the black man, or hes looking puzzled, like hes insecure, or scared, from my experience. Well, I stood not too far from the couple, and white men (passengers) walked past them and looked at them like they were dirt on the ground, the black women looked kinda scared, and the white women did too, they walked close to them. The the white men looked angry, but she did not walk closer to her boyfriend. Now, when I stood near her, waiting on the train, she moved more closer to her boyfriend, like I was about to do something to her. Some blacks who date white men hate their race. I am not against interracial, but this is not the first time, and some blacks all together, hate their race, so they date out as well. Some people are just as racist, dating outside of their race, dating white people.
Marcus Washington

Austin, TX

#6 Jun 4, 2012
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
Well yesterday, I was at the trainstation, going to work. As usual, when a white man is with a black women, hes looking to see if the black women is looking at the black man, or hes looking puzzled, like hes insecure, or scared, from my experience. Well, I stood not too far from the couple, and white men (passengers) walked past them and looked at them like they were dirt on the ground, the black women looked kinda scared, and the white women did too, they walked close to them. The the white men looked angry, but she did not walk closer to her boyfriend. Now, when I stood near her, waiting on the train, she moved more closer to her boyfriend, like I was about to do something to her. Some blacks who date white men hate their race. I am not against interracial, but this is not the first time, and some blacks all together, hate their race, so they date out as well. Some people are just as racist, dating outside of their race, dating white people.
Can't stand sellout BW that date non-Black men. What a bunch of race traitors. Sad thing is I'm seeing it more and more. Not so much with White boys but with Mexicans and P.R. A sign of serious dis-respect on the sistaz part towards us.

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#7 Jun 4, 2012
Marcus Washington wrote:
<quoted text>Can't stand sellout BW that date non-Black men. What a bunch of race traitors. Sad thing is I'm seeing it more and more. Not so much with White boys but with Mexicans and P.R. A sign of serious dis-respect on the sistaz part towards us.
Disagree. The simple fact of dating non-black men does not make them a sellout. Everyone is entitled to their own happiness wherever they may find it. If she is bashing, then you would have an argument but simply dating out does not apply, IMO.
Marcus Washington

Austin, TX

#8 Jun 4, 2012
DerekJ wrote:
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Disagree. The simple fact of dating non-black men does not make them a sellout. Everyone is entitled to their own happiness wherever they may find it. If she is bashing, then you would have an argument but simply dating out does not apply, IMO.
Fair enough. Don't agree but I'll respect your opinion.
phil463

Jersey City, NJ

#9 Jun 4, 2012
dirtydiamond wrote:
i've never noticed that but i have seen some bragging about having a white bf, sometimes the dude they're dating isn't even quality
i know' some black women have become filthy skanks.
phil463

Jersey City, NJ

#10 Jun 4, 2012
DerekJ wrote:
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Disagree. The simple fact of dating non-black men does not make them a sellout. Everyone is entitled to their own happiness wherever they may find it. If she is bashing, then you would have an argument but simply dating out does not apply, IMO.
it does in my book.
Marcus Washington

Austin, TX

#11 Jun 4, 2012
phil463 wrote:
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i know' some black women have become filthy skanks.
Co-Sign to the MFing degree. What a bunch of Latino and White Dyck kissers. We need to slap them around a bit.
Daddys Maybe

Puebla, Mexico

#12 Jun 4, 2012
Typical blk man slution, "beat that hos ass!" Hahaha. Send em our way for more lovin n respect!
Darealist

United States

#14 Jun 4, 2012
Agree with OP why date SOOO many white guys? If theyre so great why nt get married??
brown_beauty101

United States

#15 Jun 4, 2012
I disagree with that yes there are some women that see white men as a guaranteed successful relationship, but some people date based on preference. I wouldn't mind if a black man did it either. I mean I rather people date what attracts them then to date someone for show and leave them for what they really prefered.

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#16 Jun 4, 2012
I'll answer this, there is boyfriend nice and then there is friend nice. I've dated men that I'm still friends with and they are good men, but the passion or common interest wasn't there. It's a matter of thanks, but no thanks on the romance. That happens a lot with BW and BM so, why worry about how BW feel about WM? If it has nothing to do with you, it wouldnt be to your benefit.

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#17 Jun 4, 2012
If that's the case why are the black women with black men being the ones ranover, unmarried and left with oow kids ? So irbw date dozens of white and non black men but black women who prefer black men date a handfull ? Oh please. We all know this is a lie.

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#18 Jun 4, 2012
I'd like to add that I've dated men twice if I felt they were good, I was attracted to them and we simply just fell out of touch, but I'd say my first instinct was correct. Some people have lifestyle, belief or schedule conflicts. This doesn't make them bad, just not good for you.

Revelry
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West Palm Beach, FL

#19 Jun 4, 2012
ever notice how this is the same old thread as half the threads on this forum?
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#20 Jun 4, 2012
DerekJ wrote:
Well, I don't see why it matters how many the bw is dating. If she is having fun and sampling all the favors, that is her prerogative. I think the criticism is misplaced.
I think whorishness, illegitimacy, mass bastardization, and a lack of morals is a BIG PROBLEM in the black community!

Before blacks can ever move forward as a people, black women are gonna need to learn some MORALS and SELF CONTROL!
Frank

Clarkston, MI

#21 Jun 4, 2012
DerekJ wrote:
Disagree. The simple fact of dating non-black men does not make them a sellout. Everyone is entitled to their own happiness wherever they may find it. If she is bashing, then you would have an argument but simply dating out does not apply, IMO.
Black women need to learn to KEEP THEIR LEGS CLOSED UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!!

Some say that slavery is over!!!!

Stop being hoes!!!!

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