Why Are Black Women Single More Than ...

Why Are Black Women Single More Than Women Of Other Races?

There are 592 comments on the WDBZ-AM Cincinnati story from May 6, 2011, titled Why Are Black Women Single More Than Women Of Other Races?. In it, WDBZ-AM Cincinnati reports that:

Recent census data once again shows that African-American women are single more then any other race.

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Frank

Southfield, MI

#388 May 9, 2011
dreams wrote:
How is she benefiting?
With one fourth of all african americans living below the poverty level and one in nine black males in prison (which none of her 6 sons have ever been), the answer should be obvious.
dreams wrote:
All her kids are screwed up.
Screwed up kids in a screwed up world!!!!

If they're on the same planet as YOU, you KNOW they're messed up!

; ^ D
fairgaianova

Tallahassee, FL

#389 May 9, 2011
bad news wrote:
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And I know a lot of men who claim to be educated but are extremely void of common sense. There is simply nothing worse than an educated idiot.
Your statement is non sequitur to the quoted one I posted...
blackromeo4julie t82

Montgomery Village, MD

#390 May 9, 2011
dreams wrote:
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Hopefully you encounter both. It`s called being HUMAN like all other races get to be.
no nO NO Black females get real mean way faster than any other race. i love them but they can be down right HURTFUL.
dreams

United States

#391 May 9, 2011
blackromeo4juliet82 wrote:
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no nO NO Black females get real mean way faster than any other race. i love them but they can be down right HURTFUL.
And you don`t call a group of men who were born through black women joining a HATE mob against bw hurtful?
dreams

United States

#392 May 9, 2011
Frank wrote:
<quoted text>With one fourth of all african americans living below the poverty level and one in nine black males in prison (which none of her 6 sons have ever been), the answer should be obvious.
<quoted text>Screwed up kids in a screwed up world!!!!
If they're on the same planet as YOU, you KNOW they're messed up!
; ^ D
Her kids are making babies with the same woman, dying their skin white, talk in baby voices, ruined their good looks and you think she is rewarded because she has money?? No she is being punished ROYALLY for following a fool. Her failure to put her kids needs before her husband will haunt her till the day she dies. The dad is a fool so he`s out screwing ww and making a general nuisance of himself because thats all fools are good for. But she knew better and shes paying for ignoring her brain and coddling her ignorance.
blackromeo4julie t82

Montgomery Village, MD

#393 May 9, 2011
dreams wrote:
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And you don`t call a group of men who were born through black women joining a HATE mob against bw hurtful?
Sorry i didnt know trying to show someone a part of them that can be corrected was been hurtful, i would hope if i were doing something wrong. Somebody would be nice enough to correct me.
blackromeo4julie t82

Montgomery Village, MD

#394 May 9, 2011
I do love black women , and i could really sing their praises for like 100 years,i was born and raised by one so its all love. we Black men need to do good to black women then in return they will be good to us, have our children, we black fathers stay and raise them, and the cycle continues amen.
dreams

United States

#395 May 9, 2011
blackromeo4juliet82 wrote:
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Sorry i didnt know trying to show someone a part of them that can be corrected was been hurtful, i would hope if i were doing something wrong. Somebody would be nice enough to correct me.
You call joining a hate mob being nice??...So if you had a wife and she was cheating on you after spending a year treating you like shit and denying you sex, would you want her back after she calls from her lovers house & tells you what you need to do to get her back?

Bw had plenty reason to join hate against bm. And believe me sweetie "they" have tried. Bw always had enough sense not to do such a thing and in fact would tell them to mind their business. smh. So there is no coming "back" from this. So if that was the ultimate goal of bm- its achieved.
blackromeo4julie t82

Montgomery Village, MD

#396 May 9, 2011
dreams wrote:
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You call joining a hate mob being nice??...So if you had a wife and she was cheating on you after spending a year treating you like shit and denying you sex, would you want her back after she calls from her lovers house & tells you what you need to do to get her back?
Bw had plenty reason to join hate against bm. And believe me sweetie "they" have tried. Bw always had enough sense not to do such a thing and in fact would tell them to mind their business. smh. So there is no coming "back" from this. So if that was the ultimate goal of bm- its achieved.
Heaven knows with black women, black men wouldnt be shit,so your right. i should talk bad about the sistah one love, no woman. no cry. i should know better
scout

Castro Valley, CA

#397 May 9, 2011
Answer: NO black fathers. All families need a father and a mother. Intact families have BOTH. Disabled families are fragmented.

duh.

Anyway, the female children view all potential mates within the framework of her loving father.

No father, no understanding of anything.
Level 2

Since: Jan 10

Las Vegas, NV

#398 May 9, 2011
50% of blacks don't graduate from High School,%70 are born out of wedlock, in New York City %60 of black pregnancies end in abortion. Anecdotally, black men want white and seem to get them.

None of that adds up to good.
Frank

Southfield, MI

#399 May 9, 2011
dreams wrote:
Her kids are making babies with the same woman, dying their skin white, talk in baby voices, ruined their good looks and you think she is rewarded because she has money?? No she is being punished ROYALLY for following a fool.
She's not responsible for what her kids did!

They were ADULTS!

She did HER PART!

If they wanted to act STUPID, that was on THEM!!!!!

You call BLESSING the world with The Jackson 5, The Jacksons, and "The King of Pop" being "punished ROYALLY"???

If you think HER life is "bad", look at the place that FOLLOWING HER HUSBAND, she and her family left!

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/6062...

2. Most Dangerous Cities in America: Gary, Indiana

Murder Rate - 0.51

Demographics:

Population - 95,219
Population Density - 1896 per sq mi
Median Age - 37.4
Median Household Income (adjusted for cost-of-living)-$25,328
Percent high school graduate or higher - 82.2%
Racial Composition - Black (83.4%); White (10.1%); Hispanic (4.9%); Two or more (1.2%); American Indian (0.2%); Asian (0.1%); Other (0.1%); Pacific Islander (0.1%)
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She was a WISE woman to obey and submit to her husband!!!!

It's a WHOLE LOT WORSE in Gary, Indian than in Beverly Hills!!!!(I know she doesn't live there, but WISE peeps get my point)
Peralta de Peralta

Fort Huachuca, AZ

#400 May 9, 2011
"Why Are Black Women Single More Than Women Of Other Races?"

Because black men are more prone to screw & then run out on their responsibilities? Or, maybe because black men & women aren't taught how to continue relationships when they get tough?
AMP

Brooklyn, NY

#401 May 9, 2011
Wise Old White Woman wrote:
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How could a person in America not afford to have a kid. How much does a kid eat? How much does it cost for a size 3 shoe. You cant afford them cause you would rather have a new Chinese car and a suede bag. I have 4 chidren and I am 37. It works because I do not have a career first minded BW. She still has plenty of time left for her career and our kids support her. What it equates to is sacrifice. To many women do not want to sacrifice anything. They are no different than the very men they complain about. I know single dads who are in the same boat as single moms. My father was one of them. If the she was on the other foot we would still have the same problems. However the law because of nature gives moms the custody of the child. I see single moms all over the place. I went to all those classes with my woman etc. And they were full of white, latino and occassionally asain women who were single parents, or might as well be cause the man is not around much. By far, the attitudes of our women show that they are not willing to sacrifice for family life, which is thier naturall role bacause they want to be seen as doing "good" by thier peers and would rather have a BMW than a child. Most educated BM at that age they are when they finish all that are already married, and usually to a woman who was willing to make that sacrifice, if not they are already divorced or seperated and he doesnt want to deal with another woman like that so he seeks women outside his culture. I have a white friend who is a lube tech at Penzoil who is married to a BW. She is a Radiologist. She sits up with that boy and talks about BM and they don't work and blah blah blah. Like there are no brothers making 8 to 10 $ and hour. Please, in Washington State! They will date 'down' as they say and all that for a white boy but will not for their own men. I might ad that she has 2 kids from her first marriage and he sits around and schedules his job around those kids while she works the most. And she has a new model car, he drives an old pontiac grand am. Oviosly he had a good mother who taught him to sacrifice for family, obviously her mother taught her to get hers. Her previous husband is married again. However she doesnt let him hardly ever see those kids, and from what I am told he practicly has given up and doesnt even call hardly anymore, just pay his child support. I have a pontoon boat and he fishes and drinks with us sometimes. He said when dude calls she tell him to answer the phone and say they are not there. And he does it. He said she even tells him what to and not to eat in the refrigerator. He talk to us about it and thinks all bw are like this. They are not, but generally the good ones are already taken and married, regardless of how they look. I have fat cousins married to mechanical engineers etc who have been be married for over 20 years. Life is about sacrifice, and women have to make a different one because they are the life givers of the human race. That role has become unimportant to them.....and it shows. Moreso in the American BW.
I know brothers who have sought BW outside of the US, ethiopia, and they tell me all they want is to get married and raise a family and go to school. All they asked of them was to be hard working and believe in God. Our women, the mothers of our race, are far from this and want everything to change to suit what they want, no sacrifice. I married young and I thank God I did. I dont have to worry about STD's, dating, OOW kids and all that other crap. Our kids will be older, our new house will be paid for and she will be able to do whatever in life she wanted and wont need a loan or grant to do it. And will be at a mature age where she can choose a career that will make her happy and fulfill her natural desire to help some one. She is taking part time classes in childrens dentistry. She is a teeth freak.LOL
This is a really good post.
AMP

Brooklyn, NY

#402 May 9, 2011
ole blue eyes wrote:
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Actually, white women were taught that they were the prize and princesses and that they will be provided for and protected. black women however; and according to how black women have been and continued to be treated, is why she was taught the opposite...right from an early age. and if you look at today, its a good thing she was...making her the survivor that she is. how can a black woman be taught any different when she has been demeaned throughout history so the white woman's security can remain in tack?
Black women have been abused and broken down so that the white woman can be and feel good about herself and be viewed as the only woman that is beautiful; making her the standard of the beauty that BLACK MEN have FOOLISHLY BOUGHT INTO.
Excatly, white women are taught from a young age to find a man to marry and that the man is SUPPOSE to take care of her.

BW on the other hand are taught that they cant depend on a BM or any man. Instead BW have to be strong and independent...which is why many BW have such 'strong' personalities and dont submit to her man as much a white women....Then on top of that, BM foolishy worship WW, which in turns makes BW feel that they TRULY cannot depend on a BM.
blackromeo4julie t82

Montgomery Village, MD

#403 May 9, 2011
AMP wrote:
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Excatly, white women are taught from a young age to find a man to marry and that the man is SUPPOSE to take care of her.
BW on the other hand are taught that they cant depend on a BM or any man. Instead BW have to be strong and independent...which is why many BW have such 'strong' personalities and dont submit to her man as much a white women....Then on top of that, BM foolishy worship WW, which in turns makes BW feel that they TRULY cannot depend on a BM.
am a Black man i dont worship white women. Are the black women who date white men worshiping white men?
dreams

United States

#404 May 9, 2011
AMP wrote:
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Excatly, white women are taught from a young age to find a man to marry and that the man is SUPPOSE to take care of her.
BW on the other hand are taught that they cant depend on a BM or any man. Instead BW have to be strong and independent...which is why many BW have such 'strong' personalities and dont submit to her man as much a white women....Then on top of that, BM foolishy worship WW, which in turns makes BW feel that they TRULY cannot depend on a BM.
Well I think its good to know because now bw have no more excuses to keep dealing with them.

Since: May 11

Baltimore, MD

#405 May 9, 2011
scout wrote:
Answer: NO black fathers. All families need a father and a mother. Intact families have BOTH. Disabled families are fragmented.
duh.
Anyway, the female children view all potential mates within the framework of her loving father.
No father, no understanding of anything.
That's Wrong. iGrew Up Without A Father. And iREFUSE To Let My Children Do The Same. I'm Going To Give My Children More Than iCould Ever Dream For. iBase My Decision In Life Based On My Future Kids And How It Will Benefit Them.
Frank

Southfield, MI

#406 May 9, 2011
TiareTahitian wrote:
That's Wrong. iGrew Up Without A Father. And iREFUSE To Let My Children Do The Same.
Just do the best you can and don't worry about it. Tomorrow isn't promised and there are no guarantees in life.
Wrong PlaceMaybe

San Francisco, CA

#407 May 9, 2011
My theory, not gonna bother to look up numbers on this right now but..Black men are incarcerated at higher rates, have lower graduation rates from Highschool, gay black men, combined with how picky black women can be. They have a smaller pool to choose from. In my experience, black women have some outrageous criteria, and they don't compromise on it till they get ALOT older. Don't get me wrong you like what you like, but some of it is just over the top. And nobody is perfect. Now, lets talk about what they expect from black men compared to what they themselves are bringing/willing to bring to the table..

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