What Has Happened to BM and BW in The...

What Has Happened to BM and BW in The Last 50 Years???

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Bewildered

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#1 Nov 19, 2013
How could black men go from romancing black women like to calling them bit-ches and hoes?



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“Shed so many tears”

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#2 Nov 19, 2013
BM have utterly refused to walk in the statutes of God and have caused their position as the head to be supplimented by foodstamps and medicade. They have taken their eyes off of God and are suffering and causing their women and children to suffer as well.
Bewildered

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#3 Nov 19, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
BM have utterly refused to walk in the statutes of God and have caused their position as the head to be supplimented by foodstamps and medicade. They have taken their eyes off of God and are suffering and causing their women and children to suffer as well.
This true, men's community including the women and children reflect these men's decisions and behaviors.

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#4 Nov 19, 2013
Bewildered wrote:
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This true, men's community including the women and children reflect these men's decisions and behaviors.
I challenge any BM to get 10 other bm and just do what's right for a year and just look at the difference after those 12 months and tell the honest to God truth, it'll make a difference in the lives of 50 ppl!
Memories

United States

#6 Nov 19, 2013
Bewildered wrote:
How could black men go from romancing black women like to calling them bit-ches and hoes?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =KUOntQocGWkXX
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WW is what happened.As soon as they got 'access' to white women they changed.They see no need to romance BW or act accordingly as they get whatever they want from non bw without much effort.

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#8 Nov 19, 2013
Fake Phony Scandals wrote:
<quoted text> I agree Sista. The racist democratic party did a real number on you inner city democrats. Google racist democratic POTUS LBJ's remark- "I'll have these N***ers voting democrat for the next 200 years"! Smh
It doesn't have a damn thing to do with an elephant or a donkey, it has everything to do with DISOBEDIENCE!

You wp have your own short comings I suggest you focus on that!
complete a task

United States

#9 Nov 19, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
BM have utterly refused to walk in the statutes of God and have caused their position as the head to be supplimented by foodstamps and medicade. They have taken their eyes off of God and are suffering and causing their women and children to suffer as well.
You do know there is a very big number of black females in America who signs up for food stamps than black men, right? you do know most black people who are on food stamps usually has atleast 2 or more kids on their food stamp applications right? in fact black men in America usually rely more on selling drugs than on food stamps, you didn't know that did you?

I think you're just trying to gain the respect and support of white people by putting out negative false information about black men in America to destroy black supporters.
complete a task

United States

#10 Nov 19, 2013
Oh yeah and you know the other fact about the name calling? white people gave black people those names such as n*g*rs and b*tch*s. white people gave black people those names and called blacks that so much the kids started doing it. those children grew up doing it for fun and made it become apart of the African American culture because it got bigger and bigger. white people largely played black America big time and some blacks just don't get it.
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#12 Nov 19, 2013
Fake Phony Scandals wrote:
<quoted text> I agree Sista. The racist democratic party did a real number on you inner city democrats. Google racist democratic POTUS LBJ's remark- "I'll have these N***ers voting democrat for the next 200 years"! Smh
I'll check it out.
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#13 Nov 19, 2013
Bewildered wrote:
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This true, men's community including the women and children reflect these men's decisions and behaviors.
what?
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#14 Nov 19, 2013
Memories wrote:
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WW is what happened.As soon as they got 'access' to white women they changed.They see no need to romance BW or act accordingly as they get whatever they want from non bw without much effort.
everything I need is love within African women.

“Shed so many tears”

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#15 Nov 19, 2013
complete a task wrote:
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You do know there is a very big number of black females in America who signs up for food stamps than black men, right? you do know most black people who are on food stamps usually has atleast 2 or more kids on their food stamp applications right? in fact black men in America usually rely more on selling drugs than on food stamps, you didn't know that did you?
I think you're just trying to gain the respect and support of white people by putting out negative false information about black men in America to destroy black supporters.
Did you know that those black women who apply for foodstamps with their two and three kids have those kids from BLACK MEN!

Just face it, black women wouldn't be in the predicament their in if it wasn't for BLACK MEN. Black men leave black women holding the BIG BAG of responsibility. Black men can leave, but why not take your children with you if it's the black woman you don't want?

ANSWER THAT!

Child support isn't even enough to supplement the presense of the black man in the home but that is what a black man feels is sufficient enough to take care of his seed. And the saddest part about it, a white man is the one sitting in the judgement seat with a black robe dictating the whole transaction between the black man and black woman!

I support black 100% I just have a problem with sorry azz black men who are not taking care of their kids, too quick to run to a stankin azz white woman and leave black women to struggle with the mess they leave behind!

Black men are filling the jails quicker than ever or the graves, what chance does a black child have if his/her father isn't there? A black mother is either depending on welfare or killing herself working 2 jobs and trying to go to school just to get her G.E.D because a sorry azz black man promised her the world and turned around and gave her his sorry azz to kiss and 2 kids he don't even want.
Sadbuttrue

Falls Church, VA

#17 Nov 19, 2013
JustdroppedIN---MACEO wrote:
Child support isn't even enough to supplement the presense of the black man in the home but that is what a black man feels is sufficient enough to take care of his seed. And the saddest part about it, a white man is the one sitting in the judgement seat with a black robe dictating the whole transaction between the black man and black woman!
I support black 100% I just have a problem with sorry azz black men who are not taking care of their kids, too quick to run to a stankin azz white woman and leave black women to struggle with the mess they leave behind!
Black men are filling the jails quicker than ever or the graves, what chance does a black child have if his/her father isn't there? A black mother is either depending on welfare or killing herself working 2 jobs and trying to go to school just to get her G.E.D because a sorry azz black man promised her the world and turned around and gave her his sorry azz to kiss and 2 kids he don't even want.
MACEO

Your a Baby boy or effeminate and nothing can change a Grown man who lacks home training from a Father into a man!

Most Women don't want a Boy or to raise a man! Not only do they get mad but Black men like you expect women to be the "Man/Woman" because you don't know to Man up!

You should have gotten that from your Father because he decided to abandon you! Most Women don't want Boy/Man to raise while they make stupid decisions void of common sense like you did!

NOBODY WANTS A MACEO!
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#18 Nov 20, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Did you know that those black women who apply for foodstamps with their two and th want?
ANSWER THAT! an
I support black 100% I just have a problem with sorry azz black men who are not taking care of their kids, too quick to run to a stankin azz white woman and leave black women to struggle with the mess they leave behind!
Black men are filling the jails quicker than ever or the graves, what chance does a black child have if his/her father isn't there? A black mother is either depending on welfare or killing herself working 2 jobs and trying to go to school just to get her G.E.D because a sorry azz black man promised her the world and turned around and gave her his sorry azz to kiss and 2 kids he don't even want.
You know what? I can't say you're right because you're actually dead wrong. the reason I say you're dead wrong is because you simply just don't understand how to use "African American/Black American" as the issue. many of you African Americans acts like every group of black man world wide should be categorized with African American men. do you know you people gets on my last nerves with that stupid categorizing bull crap? I do not have any business being categorized with your group. I have legal right that approves my say so by law. I do not have to listen to this, because I am my own property. You can give up your African American citizenship even your parent is African but you was born in America, you can still give it up.

people like you train your kids to hate Africans and include them in your big pile of problems. perhaps you should think about not having children if you don't know how to raise them such as setting rules for them to obey, keeping check on them at school, keeping a close eye on who they're raised around. I don't ever see many African American parents doing that, why? because not many of you know how to raise kids period. my main point is don't have kids if you have no idea how to raise them, case dis missed.
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#19 Nov 20, 2013
Lol this thread went from a bashing thread to a funny thread, wow, I needed that. good night!

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#20 Nov 20, 2013
complete a task wrote:
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You know what? I can't say you're right because you're actually dead wrong. the reason I say you're dead wrong is because you simply just don't understand how to use "African American/Black American" as the issue. many of you African Americans acts like every group of black man world wide should be categorized with African American men. do you know you people gets on my last nerves with that stupid categorizing bull crap? I do not have any business being categorized with your group. I have legal right that approves my say so by law. I do not have to listen to this, because I am my own property. You can give up your African American citizenship even your parent is African but you was born in America, you can still give it up.
people like you train your kids to hate Africans and include them in your big pile of problems. perhaps you should think about not having children if you don't know how to raise them such as setting rules for them to obey, keeping check on them at school, keeping a close eye on who they're raised around. I don't ever see many African American parents doing that, why? because not many of you know how to raise kids period. my main point is don't have kids if you have no idea how to raise them, case dis missed.
SMH!
Where did I at least ONCE mention, state or refer to the term African American?

You can't answer the questions I asked and that's understandable, If I were a black man and a black woman had come at me like that too, I'd be speechless and come up with some left sided complaint just to avoid giving an answer!

Glad you got some amusement out of it, just really answer the questions!

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#22 Nov 20, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>SMH!
Where did I at least ONCE mention, state or refer to the term African American?
You can't answer the questions I asked and that's understandable, If I were a black man and a black woman had come at me like that too, I'd be speechless and come up with some left sided complaint just to avoid giving an answer!
Glad you got some amusement out of it, just really answer the questions!
IF YOU DID who the hell is he to demand you not? As many barriers African Americans have broken down for his UNGRATEFUL SNOTTY NOSED ASS?

All blacks around the world benefitted from the Civil Rights movement.

Did he claim then that he didn't want to be seen as more than an ANIMAL?

NO. YOU don't apologize to them. HE apologizes to YOU. You don't owe him a got damn thing. Tell him to shut his trap.

“B'in <3 by sum1 gives strength”

Since: Nov 13

but <3'in sum1 tks courage.

#23 Nov 20, 2013
complete a task wrote:
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in fact black men in America usually rely more on selling drugs than on food stamps, you didn't know that did you?
I don't rely on selling drugs for anything. You are irking my last nerve.

Actually the OP has said some wrong things but not as bad as what I'm reading from you.

BM have slipped up.

Money and EGO have been at the root of it during this era.

Before it was drugs and fame.

But this new access to money and a need to stroke ones own ego (much like our african BROTHERS) has rotted out the purity of our community.

And religion was a temporary bandaide.

Many of our people are not ready to take that temporary bandaid off and tend to our wounds intelligently.

The sad and unfortuante truth is their is no one up in the sky that is going to magically fix your problems.

And no he's not a white guy.

Those stories were meant to teach wisdom and engrain strong values into the minds of people.

That's all religion was needed for. Wisdom on how to interact with people and values on how to manage your life.

SO you are half right "Droppin". We abandoned wisdom and values for money, drugs and fame.

But I'm sure you aren't there yet on the religion scope. We aren't ready as a people to evolve beyond the religious crutch to make us do the right thing simple because it's right and not out of fear of our big daddy in the sky.
snappy dresser

United States

#25 Nov 20, 2013
Lol....you guys are killing me. im an educated black and im married to an educated black female. there are some blackmen that are transfixed by white girls...but not a lot of them. The reason why a lot of black men end up with white girls is a numbers game. there are 6x the amount of white females. The number gets even bigger when you get out of major citys. if you find a girl that treats you right you share the same beliefs and the sex is good..the search is over. Me personally I like someone brown, so i passed on various oppertunties to be with white girls. however the search was difficult. there are a lot of great black females out there who would make great wives that cant leave that knucklehead brotha alone. i went out with a girl that super hot, 24 great job, owned a home and we really hit it off, but high school drop out ex popped back up. she looked me in the eyes and said i know im f$$$king up, but i love him. here is whats going to happen he is going to knock her up, ruin her credit and shell be 30 when she finally wakes up...and a lot of peofessional black men will pass and marry one of those 6 white girls. i know this is not the case for every situation, but if the brotha you are dating is a loser leave him. if you brotha you like tell him because they are looking for you..and dont let them get snatched up.
Beer Belly Bobs Ghost

New York, NY

#26 Nov 20, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
BM have utterly refused to walk in the statutes of God and have caused their position as the head to be supplimented by foodstamps and medicade. They have taken their eyes off of God and are suffering and causing their women and children to suffer as well.
As opposed to all that suffering that occurred prior to 50 years ago for blk folk right? So when we were dancing and singing praises in the church down south all through the first half of the 20th century and before god had our backs right? We were so much better off werent we?

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