A question for any IRBW OR IRBM

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

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#41 Nov 12, 2013
BringingIt wrote:
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Well, Africans are known for selling off the rebellious ones.
The rapists, murderers, liars and lazy baboons. Those are the ones that were sold to the Americans. That is why of course the USA now has a coon problem.
Too bad slavery was abolished, some of them stayed on and reproduced and now we have a rapist, murderers problem and we have no idea what to do about it..... enter human trafficking.
I am staying out of this one...
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#42 Nov 12, 2013
mrman0351-Silverness-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text> my question was more a look into a mindset than anything else. Now please don't misunderstand, your choice to date or marry whomever you choose is your choice, I'm just trying to understand a mindset that holds a group of people accountable for certain actions(your decision not to date black because of what you read on a message board or see on youtube) while simultaneously treating the white race as individuals. So my question stands, why don't the things that white men say on this board sour you on whitemen?
MaCEO

You waste decades screaming, whining and posting hate messages and not getting any results which is WEAK

Even when I tell White men other races what Black men do like yourself they laugh!

Whining doesn't create changes only weak men cry and whine on forums rather than come up with solutions!

Black men marched on DC almost 18 years old in the Million Man March and nothing has happened other than stats rose even higher in the negative for Black males and child abandonment went from 58% to 78% and well as every area of social life is 80% in the negative!

LMAO

Sorry, Weak and Black men won't do schitt, we can't afford to wait on "Weak Men" who are unproductive and then envious if women do well and want to take them down!

MACEO you hate Black women and your jealous and envious. Willing to take them down every chance you get!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#43 Nov 12, 2013
Silverness-Losingit-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
I am staying out of this one...
MaCEO

You waste decades screaming, whining and posting hate messages and not getting any results which is WEAK

Even when I tell White men other races what Black men do like yourself they laugh!

Whining doesn't create changes only weak men cry and whine on forums rather than come up with solutions!

Black men marched on DC almost 18 years old in the Million Man March and nothing has happened other than stats rose even higher in the negative for Black males and child abandonment went from 58% to 78% and well as every area of social life is 80% in the negative!

LMAO

Sorry, Weak and Black men won't do schitt, we can't afford to wait on "Weak Men" who are unproductive and then envious if women do well and want to take them down!

MACEO you hate Black women and your jealous and envious. Willing to take them down every chance you get!

SORRY BUT BLACK WOMEN ARE GONE! THEIR MOVING ON FROM BLACK MALES TO DATE/MARRY OUT BUT STICKING WITH MEN WHO DESTROY THE RACE IS FOOLISH!
SadButTrue

Chantilly, VA

#44 Nov 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
<quoted text>
The POINT is Asia had a culture of isolationism that worked for them. It created national pride. It stuck for while.
MACEO

There is not use for 1,000 profiles you look foolish! As I said everybody knows their your profiles!

Black Men in America: To love them is to hate them Comment
See alsoEthnic Cultures Black Men American Charles Ramsey

http://www.examiner.com/article/black-men-ame...
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#45 Nov 12, 2013
BringingIt wrote:
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foreign_aid_to_V...
http://www.usaid.gov/where-we-work/asia
http://westasia.hivos.org/
http://www.unicef.org/eapro/
http://www.oxfamblogs.org/asia/
http://www.unocha.org/roap/
http://sea.hivos.org/
Seems like they are enjoying foreign aid to me... ignorance really IS bliss. It is not just Africa man, we all need help here and there.
"Tend to frown" What does that sound like to you?
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#46 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
I give AA in the past DAMN credit for their efforts in progressing civility. I would NEVER deny that. I can't, however, lie that today's AA are not up to par. Ironically, many that I have run into do not seem to believe in civility for others. Take for instance your comment <quoted text>
I should be grateful...for this???
It was an honest question. You got all touchy about it. Don't blame me... That's what your image is too American's. All we remember is starving Ethopian kids with big swollen bellies than need a penny aday.:)

Hey!!! Stop whining. You made your bed. Don't act like you just arrived to the party and shyt was a mess.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#47 Nov 12, 2013
Silverness wrote:
<quoted text>
I am staying out of this one...
That's nice to hear... Now go run a long. You were doing so well being silent, I almost started liking you.
Big Knob

United States

#48 Nov 12, 2013
The real question is this, why is it that when an ir thread is about bm its anti, but when its about bw its pro...............i smell something fishy......LOL
Big Knob

United States

#49 Nov 12, 2013
SadButTrue wrote:
<quoted text>MaCEO
You waste decades screaming, whining and posting hate messages and not getting any results which is WEAK
Even when I tell White men other races what Black men do like yourself they laugh!
Whining doesn't create changes only weak men cry and whine on forums rather than come up with solutions!
Black men marched on DC almost 18 years old in the Million Man March and nothing has happened other than stats rose even higher in the negative for Black males and child abandonment went from 58% to 78% and well as every area of social life is 80% in the negative!
LMAO
Sorry, Weak and Black men won't do schitt, we can't afford to wait on "Weak Men" who are unproductive and then envious if women do well and want to take them down!
MACEO you hate Black women and your jealous and envious. Willing to take them down every chance you get!
we bm dont need to be validated by wm, like you,.........you have a klan agenda..mind your business & i'll mind mine.......

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#50 Nov 12, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
<quoted text>
It was an honest question. You got all touchy about it. Don't blame me... That's what your image is too American's. All we remember is starving Ethopian kids with big swollen bellies than need a penny aday.:)
Hey!!! Stop whining. You made your bed. Don't act like you just arrived to the party and shyt was a mess.
It was not just the question I was referring to...it was the cold hearted statements you made.
Big Knob

United States

#51 Nov 12, 2013
Silverness wrote:
<quoted text>
You can't miss what you never had... but good luck trying Sir!
I never try for what I dont want, therefore I can never miss it, and if I dont miss it, its because it never existed..........nice try on your part.....not mine.

“ News”

Level 6

Since: Aug 11

Location hidden

#52 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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It was not just the question I was referring to...it was the cold hearted statements you made.
Why do so many Ethiopian woman carry more hatred towards African-Americans than West Africans do. They act as if one African-American does something wrong, they have the right to hate us all. I heard West Africans do their share of criticism, however some of these Ethiopian women have the hate almost on the level of a white racist towards African-Americans, and to the point they'll laugh at a photo of a black man after he was lynched...then you wonder why some black men say these insensitive things about starving in Ethiopia. Then a lot of these Ethiopian women don't mind starting a fight with a black man in public, because they know all they have to do is cry like little becky being attacked by a black man, and the police and all other American men, including African-American men who don't know better yet, will take her side. African-American women are hip to them, however most of the young African-American women are not.

I think a lot of African-Americans are visiting these Ethiopian forums and finding out the truth about a lot of them. Some brothers may be finding out through dating them, like I did. They're not always that sweet smiling soft voice image they portray to be when you see them working behind these cashiers. I've seen some of them with the hate on a level that would make Sha nay-nay look like Clair Huxtable.

There's a brother on this forum, although I won't mention his name, has said some bad things about Ethiopian women and how they think, to the point he even indirectly accused me of being Ethiopian. But the things he was saying were true about a lot of them. The ill feelings he has for them sound almost identical to the ill feelings I had for some of them a little while. For the first time in my life, I was feeling little compassion for their poor. When you learn that more of them than you think show little compassion for the black mans atrocities at the hands of the white man here, you can't blame us. It took a year or two for those ill feelings I had to completely dissolve. I never got to the point I hated all of them, but it woke me up and made me realize they have more rotten apples in their group than I once thought.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Houston, TX

#53 Nov 12, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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My boyfriend is not American. And where I come from, there is a totally different mindset.. for lack of a better word. And like I said, I love him for his inner qualities not the colour of his skin. I did not say I don't date black. I said Black American, I would have no problem dating a black guy in France or Sweden (if of course I was not in love with my man).
And again, hopefully for the last time; I said I would not date an American white guy either, for more or less the same reason. From his "potential possibly" racist family and friends, to his perception of race no matter how liberal he is it would be too much work to date an American.
And just an observation, I think you subconsciously reinforce my decision. You read into the stuff about black American men on this forum I commented on and then immediately said "Yeah, but what about white men? They say stupid stuff too around here... They are disrespectful too don't you see that? Or are you so into white men that you don't care"... It's like some sort of American culture that race is soooo important and that there is some kind of competition or rivalry to be settled at every corner. Even when one simply points out hey, so and so killed a child... instead of acting towards the reasons and causation of the incident and preventing another such situation it's all about race... black on black, white on white, black on white, white on black... my head would spin being in a relationship with someone like that. Then again, I can never really understand the culture. I can try but, some things may never make sense if you haven't lived them.
Well if I look back through your post and see where you said that you wouldn't date white American men then I'll say I stand corrected, because I don't recall where you made that statement.

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#54 Nov 12, 2013
Silverness wrote:
<quoted text>
The culture is so different and I'm really not interested in learning it. I have never actually met a black American guy, like a true African American, there were none in my class or workplace. I have however met white American men, mostly nice blokes but even though I really don't see myself ever being with one, it's just not an appealing thought.
As for the disrespect, yeah that is one more thing. There seems to be too much drama about race here. It was fascinating when I first arrived but now it's just maddening. Like ask for a simple baby name and immediately it's white men this black men that....
mrman0351

No need to search.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Houston, TX

#55 Nov 12, 2013
Silverness wrote:
<quoted text>
mrman0351
No need to search.
As I stated I can admit when I'm wrong, your response is noted.
BeAuTiFul SoUl

Clarksville, TN

#56 Nov 12, 2013
Imgreat wrote:
I understand everyone has a preference but I personally think people should get with someone based on their spirit inside. When you go by preference you're going after them for their appearance and what they posses on the outside. Which in turn can also be what you're talking about when you say they have an agenda. It's one thing when people happen to fall in love with someone who is a different race but it's another to go out looking for a specific race. You're actually going after them for their appearance then finding out about their personality.
This is one of the most intelligent comments that I have read on this forum concerning IR dating. Well put! This is exactly the problem that I have with black men who choose to date out because of skin color when they are black themselves. I don't believe they realize just how ignorant and stupid they sound.

Black people have been through so much as a people. Slaves have died and black people have marched protested and died in this country so that black people today can be proud of who they are as a people.....and to hear black degrade black women is very disheartening. I just cannot believe they are that ignorant.

Self hating black people are an embarrassment to the black race!
BeAuTiFul SoUl

Clarksville, TN

#57 Nov 12, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
Do you prefer white because you prefer white or is there an agenda attached? And if the answer is that there's an agenda I.e. black men are no good or black women all have attitudes, if those things were not the case(which they aren't) would you then still prefer white or would that change? Not looking for a fight just intelligent responses.
It is sad and I know that self-hating black people don't want to admit it but black people with racial pride do not date out.

Relationships are not easy. They always start off with pleasurable feelings but after you stay with anybody for awhile regardless of their race the relationship gets old and those in love feelings come and go. This is why it is totally insane to base any relationship off of superficial things and it is better to be with someone who you have the most in common with. It is wise to choose someone from your own race.

Most BM who date IR cannot possible be doing it because of looks. There are many beautiful black women for them to choose from first of all. Secondly, most of the white girls or non-black women that I see BM with are horrible looking and trashy women. The only agenda they can have is having some type of fetish for being with someone who is white or/and looking to be with someone who will put up with anything. These two things are the hidden agendas that I see with BM WW IR daters. On the part of the WW involved....most of them are trashy whor3ish women who are nobodies in their own community and think that slumming in the black community just might work for them but it never does because they soon learn that black people look down on them for being trashy and messy. They always think that they will escape having to have any morals or standards in the AA community as if we don't have any. But like I said...they always learn that being with a black man is never easy as they think it is going to for them. WHAT A MESS!
Wolf Warlord

Torrance, CA

#58 Nov 12, 2013
BeAuTiFul SoUl wrote:
<quoted text>It is sad and I know that self-hating black people don't want to admit it but black people with racial pride do not date out.
Relationships are not easy. They always start off with pleasurable feelings but after you stay with anybody for awhile regardless of their race the relationship gets old and those in love feelings come and go. This is why it is totally insane to base any relationship off of superficial things and it is better to be with someone who you have the most in common with. It is wise to choose someone from your own race.
Most BM who date IR cannot possible be doing it because of looks. There are many beautiful black women for them to choose from first of all. Secondly, most of the white girls or non-black women that I see BM with are horrible looking and trashy women. The only agenda they can have is having some type of fetish for being with someone who is white or/and looking to be with someone who will put up with anything. These two things are the hidden agendas that I see with BM WW IR daters. On the part of the WW involved....most of them are trashy whor3ish women who are nobodies in their own community and think that slumming in the black community just might work for them but it never does because they soon learn that black people look down on them for being trashy and messy. They always think that they will escape having to have any morals or standards in the AA community as if we don't have any. But like I said...they always learn that being with a black man is never easy as they think it is going to for them. WHAT A MESS!
No such thing as a beautiful black women, you stupid ass she-Ape.

:)
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#59 Nov 12, 2013
KPITRL wrote:
<quoted text>
Why do so many Ethiopian woman carry more hatred towards African-Americans than West Africans do. They act as if one African-American does something wrong, they have the right to hate us all. I heard West Africans do their share of criticism, however some of these Ethiopian women have the hate almost on the level of a white racist towards African-Americans, and to the point they'll laugh at a photo of a black man after he was lynched...then you wonder why some black men say these insensitive things about starving in Ethiopia. Then a lot of these Ethiopian women don't mind starting a fight with a black man in public, because they know all they have to do is cry like little becky being attacked by a black man, and the police and all other American men, including African-American men who don't know better yet, will take her side. African-American women are hip to them, however most of the young African-American women are not.
I think a lot of African-Americans are visiting these Ethiopian forums and finding out the truth about a lot of them. Some brothers may be finding out through dating them, like I did. They're not always that sweet smiling soft voice image they portray to be when you see them working behind these cashiers. I've seen some of them with the hate on a level that would make Sha nay-nay look like Clair Huxtable.
There's a brother on this forum, although I won't mention his name, has said some bad things about Ethiopian women and how they think, to the point he even indirectly accused me of being Ethiopian. But the things he was saying were true about a lot of them. The ill feelings he has for them sound almost identical to the ill feelings I had for some of them a little while. For the first time in my life, I was feeling little compassion for their poor. When you learn that more of them than you think show little compassion for the black mans atrocities at the hands of the white man here, you can't blame us. It took a year or two for those ill feelings I had to completely dissolve. I never got to the point I hated all of them, but it woke me up and made me realize they have more rotten apples in their group than I once thought.
This is true!

That guy accused me of being Ethiopian too.

And at first I was wondering what his damn problem was with them. He was like SBT & Maceo.

Now... I look at Ethiopian women like I look at WW and Asian women that have that white valley girl sound.

I see straight through them like they are ghost.
The Enemy Within

Washington, DC

#60 Nov 12, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
<quoted text>
It was not just the question I was referring to...it was the cold hearted statements you made.
About wasting good clothes? That's just important to me.

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